FabSwingers.com forum: Are women worth it?

By *exymansexy OP Man
over a year ago

Warfield

What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts...

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

If you're feeding them bs maybe that's why you aren't getting laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t mind me. I’m just here for the replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh wow…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This one could be entertaining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouch ! Women don’t have it easy on here you know !

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By *ard-on22Man
over a year ago

shepperton

This is going to be a fun read if it kicks off

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By *imAndHer1989Couple
over a year ago

DONCASTER

"Don’t mind me. I’m just here for the replies

Ditto

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I'd say men should enjoy the company of women they're having sex with, not just see them as a means to an end.

But if you can't find any women who you enjoy as people, maybe the problem isn't the women?

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By *ity_BoyMan
over a year ago

London

The incel vibes are strong in here

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Probably not

but then if you have to feed bullshit to get laid then maybe you're not either

I prefer men who don't blow smoke up my ass or jump through hoops to get laid. Respect works both ways on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're feeding them bs maybe that's why you aren't getting laid

Fantastic response!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just here for the replies.

Mrs

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By *heshireBiCplCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Grabs the popcorn and sits back to enjoy lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know we’re actually real people op, like actual living breathing hoomans?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No OP we’re not worth it. Infact we should all just leave fab and then the men would be happy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just here to watch x

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

"If you're feeding them bs maybe that's why you aren't getting laid

Fantastic response!

I agree...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

You're 58 yrs old - plenty years on the clock and you've learned absolutely ZERO about wome - wow!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Is that all you want OP? To dump your load in any wet hole that's fallen for your bullshit?

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Another hand grenade thread. Don’t take the bait ladies!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the more apt question would be are men worth it when we’ve singularly done such a shitty job of running things, women still get paid less have less access to opportunity and then have to face threads like this…

And womanisers and wands are so effective…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

Why don't you give guys a go and see how you get on then?

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By *exymansexy OP Man
over a year ago

Warfield

I'm just asking what others think.

As for me I have had hundreds of hours of bs for every 1 hour of sex I've had.

Just not sure if its worth it to me any more.

I doubt any of the women on here will be able to understand what it is like for a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is going to be a long thread

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I'm definitely worth it.

*Tosses hair

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Does this thread come with popcorn?

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

At the mo, in the real world I've been after a certain woman for 4/5 months now, massively friend zoned, epic nice guy syndrome, and she'd started dating someone...but every so often stuff does happen between us, and knowing she's kinky too im absolutelt crazy about her! But she's seeing him, im just 'a friend'. The whole situation has been constantly tormenting me, but I keep trying and putting in the effort. Worth it? I dunno, but its better than nothing I guess, at least it gives me something to fantasise about

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

Definitely not. Leave them for me. I’ll teach them a lesson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just asking what others think.

As for me I have had hundreds of hours of bs for every 1 hour of sex I've had.

Just not sure if its worth it to me any more.

I doubt any of the women on here will be able to understand what it is like for a man."

Just save yourself the grief and have a wank then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definitely worth it.

*Tosses hair

I would do the same if I had more hair

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"I'm just asking what others think.

As for me I have had hundreds of hours of bs for every 1 hour of sex I've had.

Just not sure if its worth it to me any more.

I doubt any of the women on here will be able to understand what it is like for a man."

Tbh im starting to think that way too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just asking what others think.

As for me I have had hundreds of hours of bs for every 1 hour of sex I've had.

Just not sure if its worth it to me any more.

I doubt any of the women on here will be able to understand what it is like for a man."

Do you understand what it’s like for a woman on here? Do you think they have it easy?

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By *oomerang73Man
over a year ago

Newton

This should go well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is going to be a long thread"
well…..175 posts long anyway

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By *exymansexy OP Man
over a year ago

Warfield

"At the mo, in the real world I've been after a certain woman for 4/5 months now, massively friend zoned, epic nice guy syndrome, and she'd started dating someone...but every so often stuff does happen between us, and knowing she's kinky too im absolutelt crazy about her! But she's seeing him, im just 'a friend'. The whole situation has been constantly tormenting me, but I keep trying and putting in the effort. Worth it? I dunno, but its better than nothing I guess, at least it gives me something to fantasise about

It is tormenting. Exactly my thoughts.

Thanks.

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

"I'm just asking what others think.

As for me I have had hundreds of hours of bs for every 1 hour of sex I've had.

Just not sure if its worth it to me any more.

I doubt any of the women on here will be able to understand what it is like for a man.

Tbh im starting to think that way too

I'm so SO happy to lay out how exhausting, frustrating and dangerous it is to be a woman "on here".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear OP.....oh dear

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I'm definitely worth it.

*Tosses hair

I would do the same if I had more hair"

You don't need the hair

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Please set yourself some boundaries and block this woman. She will always keep you in the friend zone and this behaviour is stopping you finding someone who will want you and want the same things as you.

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By *ocktoplaywithMan
over a year ago

Derby

There’s more to it than just getting laid though. A pretty face to look at, a nice person to chat to, different perspective on stuff, not just a matter of getting your leg over is it?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Grabs the popcorn and sits back to enjoy lol ?? "

Move over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do a bit of freelance photography work for ‘Atrocity Magazine’ occasionally.

Can I come and photograph the torn arsehole your likely to have by the end of the thread please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Some of them are and some aren't but if it's just sex you're after it depends how allergic you both are to bs.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

If it's easier to have a wank, just do that instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just asking what others think.

As for me I have had hundreds of hours of bs for every 1 hour of sex I've had.

Just not sure if its worth it to me any more.

I doubt any of the women on here will be able to understand what it is like for a man.

Just save yourself the grief and have a wank then

I think this thread should be closed. This post wins the internet today

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By *jt11Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

When you find the right friends its just pure fun, there is no BS..

Not everybody is compatible with everybody.

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

Thanks for the advice, and yup, i agree, its sh*t but I've got to back away from it all.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"I'm just asking what others think.

As for me I have had hundreds of hours of bs for every 1 hour of sex I've had.

Just not sure if its worth it to me any more.

I doubt any of the women on here will be able to understand what it is like for a man."

What a shame you not knee deep in fanny. I really feel sorry for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If getting to know some one new before hand is the bs you mean then yeah I would say it's worth it and probably one of my favourite parts love the build up

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By *exymansexy OP Man
over a year ago

Warfield

Do you understand what it’s like for a woman on here? Do you think they have it easy?

Yep. I think women have it very easy on here and they can have sex when ever they want and they get to choose from lots of offers.

Men on the other hand, after sending hundreds of messages mostly ignored, can go six months or a year between getting a meaningful exchange that leads to a meet.

As I said I don't think a woman can understand what it is like for a man.

It's not an attack just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After I read the opening post I had so many things I wanted to write, but as I read the replies I can see people pretty much covered everything I wanted to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you understand what it’s like for a woman on here? Do you think they have it easy?

Yep. I think women have it very easy on here and they can have sex when ever they want and they get to choose from lots of offers.

Men on the other hand, after sending hundreds of messages mostly ignored, can go six months or a year between getting a meaningful exchange that leads to a meet.

As I said I don't think a woman can understand what it is like for a man.

It's not an attack just my opinion.

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haha think your doing something wrong, I have a shit profile no pics on show and I chat to lots of women on here and have more than enough meets both new and regular. Do you want to know the secret?.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Do you understand what it’s like for a woman on here? Do you think they have it easy?

Yep. I think women have it very easy on here and they can have sex when ever they want and they get to choose from lots of offers.

Men on the other hand, after sending hundreds of messages mostly ignored, can go six months or a year between getting a meaningful exchange that leads to a meet.

As I said I don't think a woman can understand what it is like for a man.

It's not an attack just my opinion.

Cmon man, get some self awareness.

Women can't understand what it's like for men, but you can magically understand women's experiences?

Pretty sure most women would tell you it's nowhere near as simple as the way you describe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you understand what it’s like for a woman on here? Do you think they have it easy?

Yep. I think women have it very easy on here and they can have sex when ever they want and they get to choose from lots of offers.

Men on the other hand, after sending hundreds of messages mostly ignored, can go six months or a year between getting a meaningful exchange that leads to a meet.

As I said I don't think a woman can understand what it is like for a man.

It's not an attack just my opinion.

Change of approach needed if that’s your experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just asking what others think.

As for me I have had hundreds of hours of bs for every 1 hour of sex I've had.

Just not sure if its worth it to me any more.

I doubt any of the women on here will be able to understand what it is like for a man."

Well a lot of people that I know of want to build a connection and develop a friendship, with like minded people (myself included). I don’t know what you mean by “hours of bs”. I think it’s an incredible journey getting to know someone and making friends. It’s all part of the scene and life in general, it’s amazing when you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You win fab posts today

Someone buy him a beer

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By *jt11Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

"I'm definitely worth it.

*Tosses hair

100%.

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

Your here. There endeth your argument.

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"It is tormenting. Exactly my thoughts.

Thanks."

And the self doubt it causes, which you try to ignore but then the total lack of success/interest from here, dating apps abd real life etc just goes to confirm those doubts, its vicious circle, which makes it so tempting to just accept being a loser, giving up on having a sex life or ever finding someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

It’s not just the sex tbf.

It’s the cleaning, cooking, washing up, ironing, sewing and bring us our beers when we ring our little bell too

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

My honest thoughts? Giving my honest thoughts is not worth the forum ban.

However, if you have to go through so much bs "just to get laid," maybe just have a wank! Might be doing everyone a favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men usually want to get laid without all the getting to know them, teasing them, the build up where as ladies like the getting to know them, the teasing the build up before hand.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Do you understand what it’s like for a woman on here? Do you think they have it easy?

Yep. I think women have it very easy on here and they can have sex when ever they want and they get to choose from lots of offers.

Men on the other hand, after sending hundreds of messages mostly ignored, can go six months or a year between getting a meaningful exchange that leads to a meet.

As I said I don't think a woman can understand what it is like for a man.

It's not an attack just my opinion.

Clearly you have no fucking clue!

If I wanted to shag a bloke who wants to use me as a disposable cum dump, I could get laid 50 times a day because that's what most men are happy with, a wet receptacle.

Most women don't want that so if your bullshit isn’t getting the results you want, it's your fault, not ours.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"You know we’re actually real people op, like actual living breathing hoomans? "

I'm a zombie actually

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

If your only interest is to get laid, have a wank its so much easier.

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By *exymansexy OP Man
over a year ago

Warfield

"It is tormenting. Exactly my thoughts.

Thanks.

Exactly!

The self doubt thinking there is something wrong with me. So when you do finally have sex you got zero confidence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is tormenting. Exactly my thoughts.

Thanks.

Honestly that’s why I always say get out to clubs and socials meet people in person. You will have a much better time. Use this as a tool to keep in touch with those you meet out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts...

It’s not just the sex tbf.

It’s the cleaning, cooking, washing up, ironing, sewing and bring us our beers when we ring our little bell too

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

You get out of this exactly as much as you put in, easy as that.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

No one is worth any amount of bs or drama, it’s an instant turn off…. but the women here are definitely worth it, the ones I’ve met anyway

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"It is tormenting. Exactly my thoughts.

Thanks.

Exactly!

The self doubt thinking there is something wrong with me. So when you do finally have sex you got zero confidence!"

Yup, exactly that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definitely worth it.

*Tosses hair

I would do the same if I had more hair

You don't need the hair

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"It is tormenting. Exactly my thoughts.

Thanks.

Exactly!

The self doubt thinking there is something wrong with me. So when you do finally have sex you got zero confidence!"

You and Mr BadRob82 don’t appear to be talking about the same things. He sounds like he’s after something with a little more substance and possibly a relationship. He was appreciative of the advice I suggested.

You just sound like you want to cum in a wet hole then go. I have no advice for this except an attitude change and perhaps a wank.

It’s all about perspective.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Do you understand what it’s like for a woman on here? Do you think they have it easy?

Yep. I think women have it very easy on here and they can have sex when ever they want and they get to choose from lots of offers.

Men on the other hand, after sending hundreds of messages mostly ignored, can go six months or a year between getting a meaningful exchange that leads to a meet.

As I said I don't think a woman can understand what it is like for a man.

It's not an attack just my opinion.

You’re wrong , women don’t have it easy here, far from it.

And if you’re sending hundreds of messages no wonder you’re being ignored, you’re desperate. Who wants to fuck someone who messages anyone and everyone trying to get laid , have some self respect.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

If you're literally just after a shag then probably not

Otherwise who knows, what's the background, define bulsh!t, I certainly wouldn't jump through hoops for someone, new partner, long term partner or casual hook up

Either way sounds like it's time to move on

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"It is tormenting. Exactly my thoughts.

Thanks.

Honestly that’s why I always say get out to clubs and socials meet people in person. You will have a much better time. Use this as a tool to keep in touch with those you meet out there

There's a lot of awkwardness and anxiety to get over before forcing yourself out, by yourself, only to be rejected by not just one person, but a whole club full lol

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Is it worth me opening the popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts...

Why don't you give guys a go and see how you get on then?"

Very good point made by this lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you understand what it’s like for a woman on here? Do you think they have it easy?

Yep. I think women have it very easy on here and they can have sex when ever they want and they get to choose from lots of offers.

Men on the other hand, after sending hundreds of messages mostly ignored, can go six months or a year between getting a meaningful exchange that leads to a meet.

As I said I don't think a woman can understand what it is like for a man.

It's not an attack just my opinion.

They might get to choose from loads of offers but how many of those offers are from men they actually want to meet? Being a couple on here can be exhausting at times. I’d guess it’s twice as bad for a single woman.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"It is tormenting. Exactly my thoughts.

Thanks.

Exactly!

The self doubt thinking there is something wrong with me. So when you do finally have sex you got zero confidence!"

There is nothing about you that would make most women want you and moaning about it is not going to help

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I'm definitely worth it.

*Tosses hair

100%.

Hey handsome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, it sounds like she has told you how it is, but you are still hoping… that’s not on her? Apologies if I’ve read this wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is tormenting. Exactly my thoughts.

Thanks.

Honestly that’s why I always say get out to clubs and socials meet people in person. You will have a much better time. Use this as a tool to keep in touch with those you meet out there

There's a lot of awkwardness and anxiety to get over before forcing yourself out, by yourself, only to be rejected by not just one person, but a whole club full lol"

If that’s your attitude the chances are you will be “rejected”. Have a bit of confidence in yourself and you’ll stand a much better chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is tormenting. Exactly my thoughts.

Thanks.

Honestly that’s why I always say get out to clubs and socials meet people in person. You will have a much better time. Use this as a tool to keep in touch with those you meet out there

Another top tip from mr montana.

So learn from others that give sound advice OP

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I like talking to women...and I think they like it as well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish you could like posts on here.

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

To be fair, it sounds like she has told you how it is, but you are still hoping… that’s not on her? Apologies if I’ve read this wrong."

Nope, you're absolutely spot on, its only because we do get all touchy feely with each other is why I've been holding on to false hope...though if she isn't interested in me, how come that keeps happening?

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

As the hurracane said to the palm tree. " Hold on to your nuts" This is gonna be one hell of a blow job! Women are not just a wet hole you know. We are human beings with feelings and not some thing you use and cast aside. You just alianated yourself from a lot of ladies on here. Respect seems in short supply these days for us ladies!

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Are ladies worth it ?….phwoar! Yes they are

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Are ladies worth it ?….phwoar! Yes they are

A man who talks sense lol

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Do you understand what it’s like for a woman on here? Do you think they have it easy?

Yep. I think women have it very easy on here and they can have sex when ever they want and they get to choose from lots of offers.

Men on the other hand, after sending hundreds of messages mostly ignored, can go six months or a year between getting a meaningful exchange that leads to a meet.

As I said I don't think a woman can understand what it is like for a man.

It's not an attack just my opinion.

Clearly you have no fucking clue!

If I wanted to shag a bloke who wants to use me as a disposable cum dump, I could get laid 50 times a day because that's what most men are happy with, a wet receptacle.

Most women don't want that so if your bullshit isn’t getting the results you want, it's your fault, not ours."

Well said girl

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

Hello sir would you like some fries with your salt?

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By *ugarandspicecoupleCouple
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

"I'm definitely worth it.

*Tosses hair

This!! Lol

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

To be fair, it sounds like she has told you how it is, but you are still hoping… that’s not on her? Apologies if I’ve read this wrong.

'Cos women can play games too?

Maybe she likes the attention?

You're worth more than that, though. Just explain to her,hold her at arms length & look elsewhere.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can hear all the block buttin clicks

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"I'm just asking what others think.

As for me I have had hundreds of hours of bs for every 1 hour of sex I've had.

Just not sure if its worth it to me any more.

I doubt any of the women on here will be able to understand what it is like for a man."

Then just leave us women alone and just keep to wanking your dick alone. We are more than a cumdump for your use.

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"If that’s your attitude the chances are you will be “rejected”. Have a bit of confidence in yourself and you’ll stand a much better chance."

Yup, I absolutely agree, and that's part of the vicious circle too, fake it untill you make it i guess lol.

However...not meaning to go off on a tangent...in recent years there's been a lot of drama's, and I've always had this nasty pessimistic inner monologue (he's so neggy!) that I try to ignore, but turns out he's like 95% accurate, its hard to quash your self doubt and worries when those doubts and worries have been proven to be correct time and time again.

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, it sounds like she has told you how it is, but you are still hoping… that’s not on her? Apologies if I’ve read this wrong.

Because sadly some woman like to play games. Move on your just hurting yourself in the long run

Mrs

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"'Cos women can play games too?

Maybe she likes the attention?

You're worth more than that, though. Just explain to her,hold her at arms length & look elsewhere.

Good luck x"

Indeed, and thanks for the advice/boost

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

"I think the more apt question would be are men worth it when we’ve singularly done such a shitty job of running things, women still get paid less have less access to opportunity and then have to face threads like this…

And womanisers and wands are so effective…"

Oh please like me women. I'm not like the eejit that started the thread.

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"Because sadly some woman like to play games. Move on your just hurting yourself in the long run

Mrs "

Thanks, agreed, im tired of it all now

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"If that’s your attitude the chances are you will be “rejected”. Have a bit of confidence in yourself and you’ll stand a much better chance.

Yup, I absolutely agree, and that's part of the vicious circle too, fake it untill you make it i guess lol.

I agree it's hard to bolster your confidence when your inner self is putting you down, but putting yourself in the same position time & again is not going to improve it.

Strike up chats with women on here - were not all mardy man-haters!

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

Sorry dude, I've totally hijacked your thread lol

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By *exymansexy OP Man
over a year ago

Warfield

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts...

Sorry dude, I've totally hijacked your thread lol"

Not at all. You were honest and answered my post. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If that’s your attitude the chances are you will be “rejected”. Have a bit of confidence in yourself and you’ll stand a much better chance.

Yup, I absolutely agree, and that's part of the vicious circle too, fake it untill you make it i guess lol.

Fab might not be the best place for you if you feel like that because it can be harsh at times. The funny thing about confidence is it’s hard to gain but so easy to lose. For me I gained confidence when I realised that all the things I didn’t like about myself weren’t really that bad and I focused more on the things I liked about myself. Hopefully you can work it out and get rid of the negative voices

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Can of worms comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're feeding them bs maybe that's why you aren't getting laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

Who had a wee in your coffee fella ?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nah, we're rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily I don’t need to bullshit .. to get laid .. I’ll stand over here lol ..

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By *ndyn50000Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"No OP we’re not worth it. Infact we should all just leave fab and then the men would be happy? "

Oh god, please no.

We'd be left with a forum full of "wife chat" and "wank group" threads.

You all know how wrong it goes when males are left unsupervised.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, it sounds like she has told you how it is, but you are still hoping… that’s not on her? Apologies if I’ve read this wrong.

'Cos women can play games too?

Maybe she likes the attention?

You're worth more than that, though. Just explain to her,hold her at arms length & look elsewhere.

Good luck x"

What she said ^

Don’t allow her to play the games.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

Definitely not. Why would you lower yourself to go through loads of bs just to get a shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The incel vibes are strong in here"

Exactly what I was thinking. Probably explains why he has no verifications after a year on her.

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"Fab might not be the best place for you if you feel like that because it can be harsh at times. The funny thing about confidence is it’s hard to gain but so easy to lose. For me I gained confidence when I realised that all the things I didn’t like about myself weren’t really that bad and I focused more on the things I liked about myself. Hopefully you can work it out and get rid of the negative voices

Thanks, and yeah, im a work in progress lol...but dare I give up?! I still want awesome kinky sex!! But vs the torment of not getting it despite trying?! Dunno, this threads yet to give a conclusive answer to that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No OP we’re not worth it. Infact we should all just leave fab and then the men would be happy?

Oh god, please no.

We'd be left with a forum full of "wife chat" and "wank group" threads.

You all know how wrong it goes when males are left unsupervised..... "

its already going that way wont be long before there are so many men on here that couples and women will be drowned out and with less and less using fab to meet its 99% wank fest already

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

Clearly not for you it isn't worth it After all your efforts you'd think someone would offer a pity fuck, or given the hundreds of messages been invited to a meet by accident.

My thoughts are

1. Congratulations on putting final nail in your self-cock blocking coffin

2 Sending hundreds of messages with little response looks desperate,but I'd have kept that bit to myself as it also

means your fucking useless at writing them.

3. My profile isnt that great, but they should use yours as a natural sleep remedy or hospitals could save money and rather than the ‘count down from 10’ get a patient to read your profilep, be in coma like state before making it to 6, and no need for the anesthetic either as it will send you into a coma like state

4. If this post was to help you leave the site as you had become addicted to daily rejection. Well played sir, a well crafted suicide mission of a post

Besides a few things that will get me banned from forum for few days, overall I’m happy giving you my honest thoughts

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

OP seing as you seem rather frustrated, do you not think cock blocking yourself further in a public forum is counter productive?

Maybe show some respect to the lovely ladies, drop the poor me attitude it's gross.. maybe make a less dead bio, upload some better pics and mayyyybe some ladies will decide to connect with you? Just a thought.

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

Not a great bshter but yep worth every moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

A man after my own heart.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts...

A man after my own heart.

Oh dear!

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"No OP we’re not worth it. Infact we should all just leave fab and then the men would be happy?

Oh god, please no.

We'd be left with a forum full of "wife chat" and "wank group" threads.

You all know how wrong it goes when males are left unsupervised.....

its already going that way wont be long before there are so many men on here that couples and women will be drowned out and with less and less using fab to meet its 99% wank fest already"

Seems like this at the moment. We are here to meet and make friendships as well as good sex if we click. I realise now that most guys on here think us girls are just a cumdump to use and move on to the next gullible lady. The total lack of respect i see on here for ladies dismays me. No wonder lots of men don't get even a reply to their messages never mind a meet with one! Wake up for god sake and look how you are treating us on here. Better still folk out and go meet a pro that way you will be guaranteed a shag and stop abusing us who dont want to meet you.

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

Clearly not for you it isn't worth it After all your efforts you'd think someone would offer a pity fuck, or given the hundreds of messages been invited to a meet by accident.

My thoughts are

1. Congratulations on putting final nail in your self-cock blocking coffin

2 Sending hundreds of messages with little response looks desperate,but I'd have kept that bit to myself as it also

means your fucking useless at writing them.

4. If this post was to help you leave the site as you had become addicted to daily rejection. Well played sir, a well crafted suicide mission of a post

Besides a few things that will get me banned from forum for few days, overall I’m happy giving you my honest thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass him a sock someone, cause he's certainly not going to get a lady !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you understand what it’s like for a woman on here? Do you think they have it easy?

Yep. I think women have it very easy on here and they can have sex when ever they want and they get to choose from lots of offers.

Men on the other hand, after sending hundreds of messages mostly ignored, can go six months or a year between getting a meaningful exchange that leads to a meet.

As I said I don't think a woman can understand what it is like for a man.

It's not an attack just my opinion.

Male half of the couple here just to be clear.

Clearly all you are looking for from the experience is a fuck, couldn’t care who with or what she wants, just a tick box process to find a woman who will fuck you, like a lot of men here I’m sure and that’s absolutely fine, you are perfectly entitled to that but women generally speaking seem to want a man who actually wants them and not just a hole and so will see you coming a mile off and avoid you like the plague!

It’s very simple, pay for it! That’s giving you exactly what you want, guaranteed satisfaction with every transaction, no bs required just pay for what you want and move on.

Then everyone is happy. It definitely isn’t worth your time here because with your approach you aren’t what women want and you can’t be arsed to work out what that is which again is entirely your prerogative.

Delete your account, get online to find the nearest escort service and everyone is a winner

You’re welcome

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"If you're feeding them bs maybe that's why you aren't getting laid

This and also, what makes you think you are worth it to them?

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

"I'm just asking what others think.

As for me I have had hundreds of hours of bs for every 1 hour of sex I've had.

Just not sure if its worth it to me any more.

I doubt any of the women on here will be able to understand what it is like for a man.

What a shame you not knee deep in fanny. I really feel sorry for you. "

I am seriously intimidated by the thought of knee deep ones and feeling sorry for myself

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts...

Clearly not for you it isn't worth it After all your efforts you'd think someone would offer a pity fuck, or given the hundreds of messages been invited to a meet by accident.

My thoughts are

1. Congratulations on putting final nail in your self-cock blocking coffin

2 Sending hundreds of messages with little response looks desperate,but I'd have kept that bit to myself as it also

means your fucking useless at writing them.

4. If this post was to help you leave the site as you had become addicted to daily rejection. Well played sir, a well crafted suicide mission of a post

Besides a few things that will get me banned from forum for few days, overall I’m happy giving you my honest thoughts

Well said. Thanks for sticking up for us ladies. Much appreciated kind sir

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"No OP we’re not worth it. Infact we should all just leave fab and then the men would be happy?

Oh god, please no.

We'd be left with a forum full of "wife chat" and "wank group" threads.

You all know how wrong it goes when males are left unsupervised.....

its already going that way wont be long before there are so many men on here that couples and women will be drowned out and with less and less using fab to meet its 99% wank fest already

But we're not all like that, im polite and respectful, to me sex is a special intimate thing, it is personal, I don't see women as a cumdump, but because a lot of men do have that arrogant shitty attitude we all get tarnished with the same brush.

And, be too nice, polite and respectful, instant friendzone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just asking what others think.

As for me I have had hundreds of hours of bs for every 1 hour of sex I've had.

Just not sure if its worth it to me any more.

I doubt any of the women on here will be able to understand what it is like for a man.

Do you understand what it’s like for a woman on here? Do you think they have it easy?

Exactly! It's not easy for woman on here either - hence why many don't hang around!!

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Do you understand what it’s like for a woman on here? Do you think they have it easy?

Yep. I think women have it very easy on here and they can have sex when ever they want and they get to choose from lots of offers.

Men on the other hand, after sending hundreds of messages mostly ignored, can go six months or a year between getting a meaningful exchange that leads to a meet.

As I said I don't think a woman can understand what it is like for a man.

It's not an attack just my opinion.

Male half of the couple here just to be clear.

It’s very simple, pay for it! That’s giving you exactly what you want, guaranteed satisfaction with every transaction, no bs required just pay for what you want and move on.

Delete your account, get online to find the nearest escort service and everyone is a winner

You’re welcome

Exactly whatvi said. Go to a pro and stop thinking us ladies on here are just here to fix your sexual frustration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No OP we’re not worth it. Infact we should all just leave fab and then the men would be happy?

Oh god, please no.

We'd be left with a forum full of "wife chat" and "wank group" threads.

You all know how wrong it goes when males are left unsupervised.....

its already going that way wont be long before there are so many men on here that couples and women will be drowned out and with less and less using fab to meet its 99% wank fest already

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

If women had it easy I wouldn’t be looking would I?

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By *inkyh1974Woman
over a year ago

burgess hill

Jesus get over yourself! Treat women with respect and not bs and oi may have more luck!! I've had plenty of guys waste my time, not turn up, or are catfish/fake, women don't have easy on here either to find the 'real' guys!

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By *reenlanerCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

"It is tormenting. Exactly my thoughts.

Thanks.

Exactly!

The self doubt thinking there is something wrong with me. So when you do finally have sex you got zero confidence!"

There is something wrong with you if you have that attitude towards women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are on here as swingers wanting to meet swingers that is guys who want to swing and have fun with others in the lifestyle ... most guys on here want a wet hole to empty balls into - sex on a plate - will fuck anything or anyone thats not what most couples and women on here want so i say carry on with the bs as it serves as a great filter..

on ther other side of things there are plenty of guys who do get it and will suceed and more than enoght to go around we couples and women only need 5% of men on the site for swinging to work

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By *exymansexy OP Man
over a year ago

Warfield

Pretty amazed by some of these replies that seem to be an out pooring of hate rather than anything else.

Not many replies are actually by men to whom this thread was addressed or on the actual subject of the thread.

One thing I have learned in life though is that 'people do not treat you badly because there is something wrong with you but rather they treat you badly because there is something wrong with them'.

Anyway thanks to the guys who had the courage to be honest.

Take care x

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

"
iv in my opinion if you have to chase and cajole someone in to wanting to be with you then they don’t really want you and never will

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Pretty amazed by some of these replies that seem to be an out pooring of hate rather than anything else.

Not many replies are actually by men to whom this thread was addressed or on the actual subject of the thread.

One thing I have learned in life though is that 'people do not treat you badly because there is something wrong with you but rather they treat you badly because there is something wrong with them'.

Anyway thanks to the guys who had the courage to be honest.

Take care x

...and that right there is why you can't get laid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me wonders why this basic non profile is asking such a question.

Effort getting you everywhere so far?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

I really think you should take a good look at yourself before posting crap like this…….

Do you expect every woman to be dripping for you after reading you enticing profile and looking at you pictures?

Did you expect to come onto a swingers site and click your fingers and have women gagging for you?

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By *azkinsWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Don't let the door knob hit ya where the good lord split ya. Oh and turn the lights off.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

………And block

. That saves any bother

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

"I'm just asking what others think.

As for me I have had hundreds of hours of bs for every 1 hour of sex I've had.

Just not sure if its worth it to me any more.

I doubt any of the women on here will be able to understand what it is like for a man.

"
beautifully put sex is much better with a deeper connection to a person and that takes time but is so worth the effort if that’s seen as bs then that’s a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lemme grab my popcorn and read the replies hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now, for you no.

Pay for sex, get a hobby and talk to more people in your real life, put fab on a back burner or just use it for wank fodder. Find things that make you more content, help you cope and feel good, so you can stop wallowing in loneliness and rejection on fab - it seems to be building resentment for women not providing you a hole in response to your bs.

Women are people with needs, fears and feelings too. They don't deserve to be reduced to a hole because you want one.

Work on your environment, choices and what you need. Your not entitled to sex, you can buy it, and/or build a life where you're OK without it, and if it happens, bonus. Seek help if you can't cope - therapy taboo is bs - if it helps you own your history and move forward positive, its worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

I think you should just get a tranny around to suck you off then the both of you can play Xbox after it. Simples.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"If you're feeding them bs maybe that's why you aren't getting laid

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also self-sabotage can manifest as cockblocking yourself, fancying people you can't have, putting rejection down to being nice/boring when its actually due to wanting different things, incompatibility, lack of partner material level of attraction, xyz is a sign of low self esteem. We all do it in different ways, I overshop & comfort eat when I'm self sabotaging, good in the moment, shit after... But recognising it and trying/finding better self care habits leads to better connections. Another way some put it, work on being the partner you want to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt any of the women on here will be able to understand what it is like for a man."

Quite right, though I doubt any of the men on here will be able to understand what it is like for a woman.

Quit the pity, either step to your game, with less bs, or accept this is no longer for you.

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By *uffolksubWoman
over a year ago

Brandon

Do you understand what it’s like for a woman on here? Do you think they have it easy?

Yep. I think women have it very easy on here and they can have sex when ever they want and they get to choose from lots of offers.

Men on the other hand, after sending hundreds of messages mostly ignored, can go six months or a year between getting a meaningful exchange that leads to a meet.

As I said I don't think a woman can understand what it is like for a man.

It's not an attack just my opinion.

As someone who normally reads and refrains from responding to these grenade dropping, ‘woe is me’ posts (mostly) created by men, I couldn’t not respond to this comment, as it’s p**sed me off tbh! I’m sure this was probably your intention, but here’s why….

Firstly, you have the audacity to suggest that you have a complete and in depth understanding of what all women experience on Fab, but you state that women couldn’t possibly understand what it’s like for men. How have you come to that conclusion? Do you consider yourself to be that much more intelligent and intuitive than all the women on here? And if so, how could you possibly know that, given that you’ve barely spoken to any of them?!

Based on this thread, you sound arrogant and ignorant, which I would suggest is the real reason that you don’t have success on here.

Secondly, if your opinion of the women on here is so low, then I suggest (as others have already) that you kindly leave us all alone and buy yourself a fleshlight….that way you won’t have to deal with any of ‘our’ bs and you can get your thrills without any hassle at all…so a win for all parties

Whatever you do now, I’m sure you’ve made your way onto a fair few women’s block lists, so well done on a productive post!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nah, women definitely aren't worth it

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

When you change your thinking of seeing women as just a hole - maybe you’ll have some luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think guys?

Are women worth all the bs just to get laid?

What's you honest thoughts..."

when you find that certain girl, she is in your mind day and night, all you want is her and to hold her tight. When you kiss it turns into an ever lasting snog that you never want to end,

guess you have never found that special lady in your life since you ask that question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty amazed by some of these replies that seem to be an out pooring of hate rather than anything else.

Not many replies are actually by men to whom this thread was addressed or on the actual subject of the thread.

One thing I have learned in life though is that 'people do not treat you badly because there is something wrong with you but rather they treat you badly because there is something wrong with them'.

Anyway thanks to the guys who had the courage to be honest.

Take care x

So your treating women to bs for sex is because there's something wrong with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty amazed by some of these replies that seem to be an out pooring of hate rather than anything else.

Not many replies are actually by men to whom this thread was addressed or on the actual subject of the thread.

One thing I have learned in life though is that 'people do not treat you badly because there is something wrong with you but rather they treat you badly because there is something wrong with them'.

Anyway thanks to the guys who had the courage to be honest.

Take care x

That you don’t understand how disgustingly insulting your opening post was to all women and how cringingly embarrassing it is for most other men to have to read is incredible!

Whether it’s actually how you feel or not it reads that women are a commodity that should be made freely available to meet your needs! You shouldn’t have to actually earn their company, and them yours at the same time……it’s bordering on Neanderthal!

It may not be who you are or how you feel but that’s how it reads and then to come out with it’s not me it’s you…….. as one man to another I promise you it really is you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told you this was going to be a long post

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I’ve been out and bought popcorn since this started.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nah I’m not worth it. I’m hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you find that certain girl, she is in your mind day and night, all you want is her and to hold her tight. When you kiss it turns into an ever lasting snog that you never want to end,

guess you have never found that special lady in your life since you ask that question."

not how i want a guy to be on the swinging scene ?? dating yes swinging no thanks thats drama swingers dont need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty amazed by some of these replies that seem to be an out pooring of hate rather than anything else.

Not many replies are actually by men to whom this thread was addressed or on the actual subject of the thread.

One thing I have learned in life though is that 'people do not treat you badly because there is something wrong with you but rather they treat you badly because there is something wrong with them'.

Anyway thanks to the guys who had the courage to be honest.

Take care x

That you don’t understand how disgustingly insulting your opening post was to all women and how cringingly embarrassing it is for most other men to have to read is incredible!

It may not be who you are or how you feel but that’s how it reads and then to come out with it’s not me it’s you…….. as one man to another I promise you it really is you!

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Also just because as you say women can sleep with who they want/have lots of offers - does that mean they want to?

I for one don’t want to sleep with just anyone ‘oh look I’ve got 25 messages let’s pick one out for a shag!’

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Right now, for you no.

Women are people with needs, fears and feelings too. They don't deserve to be reduced to a hole because you want one.

Really good, positive advice.

OP you're right that women have a lot of choice on here, and if I was happy to be a sentient wank sock I'd be having the time of my life.

I'm not, so I'm not.

The men of fab are not obligated to give me what I want, just as the women of fab are under no obligation to you. I don't find any amount of bs to be helpful in that situation. If I'm not happy with how things are on here I can change my expectations or step away. I've chosen to do a little of each and I'm much happier for it.

I hope you find contentment in whatever way works for you.

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

"Is that all you want OP? To dump your load in any wet hole that's fallen for your bullshit?

Aren't sinkholes are always opening up in florida, i would sugget OP, that you go fill them your load no harm to anyone there and let's the dust settle here. People will forget in 10 years and jump back on

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

L'Oréal......because im worth it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can tell you Mrs Cheeky isn't with the bs, because she won't fall for it.

She is though worth the effort and more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if its so easy for us women then how come on my single account i can get up to 200 messages when i looking for a meet and not one is what im looking for ?? as others have said we dont shag anything we dont see a cock and go oh ive got to have that if i dont sexually fancy then im not interested but heres the kicker i could fancy 2 or 3 of them but a few messages in i realise they are deffo not for me and thats that so for guys to say we have it easy nah sorry we have it so much harder as we have to wade through so much rubbish to find someone half decent ...

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By *ndysmithMan
over a year ago

north cyprus

We have no choice; we have to accept all their BS, it is the way nature intended it to be. We can't be without them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have no choice; we have to accept all their BS, it is the way nature intended it to be. We can't be without them..."

Have you actually read the thread, or just the op?

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By *hloetTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

People are always going to try and make themselves as attractive as possible for a potential partner. That's just human nature. Obviously that's gonna manifest as men telling women a lot of BS. To suggest otherwise is just egotistical nonsense. Unfortunately the reality of dating is that you have to spend a lot of time getting to know the wrong type of people before you can know the right type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s be real, some most definitely aren’t worth it, but the majority are, and not just to get laid either, a good woman’s perspective give a man’s life great balance.

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