FabSwingers.com forum: First Time At A Club

By *agger48 OP Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

Afternoon all,

Toyed with the idea of going to a club for the first time either alone or more than happy to go with a couple. I’m confident within myself, but also a bit hesitant. What was your guys/girls first time experience like?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

No.3 in Chorley was my first time club visit as a single guy, and pretty much set the tone for every club visit ever since; an anti-climax.

Go with a female friend; people are far friendlier towards men as part of a couple

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

My first visit was to Club Play in Blackpool back in October. I was nervous but everyone made me feel really welcome, I got chatting to a few lovely people and settled in quite quickly.

If you go solo then the key is to talk to people and socialise like you would in a pub but don’t go with any expectations to play. If you do then you risk being disappointed. Clubs are as much about the social side of things as they are about sex.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I went to the No3 club alone on a Saturday night for my 1st club visit. I really enjoyed myself, my advice is to check their website for the FAQs, etiquette etc and just smile, tell the staff that you're nervous and new, don't expect anything from it and you'll be fine. Enjoy yourself OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoyed it, it was my first time but not bfs I was nervous but eventually relaxed we got talking to a couple more our age nothing sexual happened which made the experience more chilled and relaxing for me I would go to a club again.

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By *eversayNeverCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

My advice would be to pick an event that’s suited to your situation. If you’re going as a single guy, maybe pick a greedy girl type event, where they actively seek extra single men.....? Other than that, smile, make friends and enjoy!

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By *xploring2getherCouple
over a year ago

Desborough

The first time I (R) went to a club was to a private Fab only party at Tease2 back in about 2014. Several Couples and ladies dropped out so it was about 2 dozen guys and about 4 ladies, only 2 of whom played. Apart from a bit of chat at the Bar and watching a bit of playing it wasn't much of a positive experience.

However on the second visit I took the wife of a Couple I was friendly with as her hubby couldn't get time off work.. a much better experience as I was approached more purely because I was with a lady. Plus there were more ladies present so more playing going on.

S is still to have her first Club experience.

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By *agger48 OP Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

Thanks to everyone for the replies!

I was planning attending without no expectations of just turning up and playing ha! I’m all for the social side of things as well. After seeing the replies so far, I’ve felt a little more assured. Was thinking of attending Infusion at Blackpool. Just going to have a look at the events and go from there.

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By *ldaCouple
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

Some clubs have memberships for single guys- you can’t just turn up and get in. I’d check before you go, save yourself a wasted trip.

For when your there, be friendly, smile and just chat and see how it goes. Don’t ever just follow people around!

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By *agger48 OP Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Some clubs have memberships for single guys- you can’t just turn up and get in. I’d check before you go, save yourself a wasted trip.

For when your there, be friendly, smile and just chat and see how it goes. Don’t ever just follow people around!"

Yeah I’ve already seen that they require memberships, or you can turn up on the night with valid ID (just means it’s a little more expensive). That was one of the first things I checked. Applying for a membership wouldn’t be an issue for me though if needed be.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"My first visit was to Club Play in Blackpool back in October. I was nervous but everyone made me feel really welcome, I got chatting to a few lovely people and settled in quite quickly.

I went to Club Play in December, and had quite the opposite experience. As you’re bi, did you go on a bi event night?

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

London & Europe

I had a first meet at Kestrels a few years back, during the day. Great for us - we clicked and had plenty of sex. There weren't many other women or couples there though, so a lot of the single blokes just folloed us around, from a distance, cocks in hand. I found it a bit weird, but my partner was used to it and laughed them off as "the wanking dead". My point is, don't expect sex.

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