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"So I’m sure all couples/women on here go on deleting sprees to clear out their inbox so that the people they actually want to talk to don’t get lost. A small minority of single guys on the other hand seem incapable of comprehending why their one line message with no pictures attached gets insta-deleted. I don’t think they realise sometimes how many boring one line dick pic messages we get! I guess my question is, why do some of you get so offended by this? I’ve had numerous men reply after deleting their low effort message saying things like “dodged a bullet here ignorant assholes”(not even what ignorant means dumbass) and some guys have ranted that we’re ugly and they’re not interested anyway. Do you actually think acting like an immature whiney man-baby is going to get you laid?.. well good luck! Not a rant, just want these people to know why their messages are being deleted and how not to respond to it as you never know, you might be in with a shot next time we’re looking for a guy, you definitely won’t be if you’ve trash talked us and been blocked though. " I agree! However the types who need to read this won't/ can't. | |||
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"So I’m sure all couples/women on here go on deleting sprees to clear out their inbox so that the people they actually want to talk to don’t get lost. A small minority of single guys on the other hand seem incapable of comprehending why their one line message with no pictures attached gets insta-deleted. I don’t think they realise sometimes how many boring one line dick pic messages we get! I guess my question is, why do some of you get so offended by this? I’ve had numerous men reply after deleting their low effort message saying things like “dodged a bullet here ignorant assholes”(not even what ignorant means dumbass) and some guys have ranted that we’re ugly and they’re not interested anyway. Do you actually think acting like an immature whiney man-baby is going to get you laid?.. well good luck! Not a rant, just want these people to know why their messages are being deleted and how not to respond to it as you never know, you might be in with a shot next time we’re looking for a guy, you definitely won’t be if you’ve trash talked us and been blocked though. " Yes I have read this many many times, single men a small number of single men ruin it for the rest. I no longer look for meets due to these incidents, just doing my time on the forums until my membership expires. | |||
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"When I was a single lady on here, I used to laugh at some of the reply’s I got when I said ’thanks for the message but you’re not for me’ i had similar replies such as ‘bet you’re fucking ugly you slag’ etc. so replying sometimes doesn’t stop the rude reply either. " I learnt many, many years ago that polite rejections like that do not usually work. It is why I just ignore, no answer is an answer still | |||
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"This is so true! We get it all the time. Messages that literally just say. “Hi how are you?”. It’s dull, if you want a response then say something response worthy! " I don't blame men for sending short crap messages. If the majority of my messages were deleted without reply I'd be fed up and would just send a short message. No point wasting my time reading profiles and writing a decent message if it's deleted every time. | |||
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"This is so true! We get it all the time. Messages that literally just say. “Hi how are you?”. It’s dull, if you want a response then say something response worthy! I don't blame men for sending short crap messages. If the majority of my messages were deleted without reply I'd be fed up and would just send a short message. No point wasting my time reading profiles and writing a decent message if it's deleted every time. " Exactly this ^ You can also block single men from messaging first, then you can write the interesting messages to those that appeal. | |||
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"This is so true! We get it all the time. Messages that literally just say. “Hi how are you?”. It’s dull, if you want a response then say something response worthy! " Or ‘I’m close by, wanna meet?’ | |||
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"I do read profiles. I pay attention to the details. For instance, if both of a couple are bi I don't write to them, I'm straight. For a single man you all know it is very difficult to get a date. Made more difficult when a woman's profile has no picture and almost no text, how are we supposed to word an appropriate message? I always write a long not too long message. Always polite. My messages are lost in the quagmire of others. If I get seen at all is a wonder. To get a reply is less than 1/100. To get a date, well that's another story. As for being deleted, I sometimes block them so i don't get them coming up in searches. If I have been read and not replied to, its very rare I contact again. Well ladies, what is this fit man in great condition to do to get attention?" I agree with this. It's a numbers game on here and SOME folk want war and peace in a message only to be deleted anyway.. must be soul destroying on here at times | |||
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"I do read profiles. I pay attention to the details. For instance, if both of a couple are bi I don't write to them, I'm straight. For a single man you all know it is very difficult to get a date. Made more difficult when a woman's profile has no picture and almost no text, how are we supposed to word an appropriate message? I always write a long not too long message. Always polite. My messages are lost in the quagmire of others. If I get seen at all is a wonder. To get a reply is less than 1/100. To get a date, well that's another story. As for being deleted, I sometimes block them so i don't get them coming up in searches. If I have been read and not replied to, its very rare I contact again. Well ladies, what is this fit man in great condition to do to get attention?" Although we understand it’s hard and sometimes almost impossible for single men on here but why would you want to message a woman with no pics and almost no text in their bio? | |||
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"I do read profiles. I pay attention to the details. For instance, if both of a couple are bi I don't write to them, I'm straight. For a single man you all know it is very difficult to get a date. Made more difficult when a woman's profile has no picture and almost no text, how are we supposed to word an appropriate message? I always write a long not too long message. Always polite. My messages are lost in the quagmire of others. If I get seen at all is a wonder. To get a reply is less than 1/100. To get a date, well that's another story. As for being deleted, I sometimes block them so i don't get them coming up in searches. If I have been read and not replied to, its very rare I contact again. Well ladies, what is this fit man in great condition to do to get attention? Although we understand it’s hard and sometimes almost impossible for single men on here but why would you want to message a woman with no pics and almost no text in their bio? " They are invariably very new, something just a few hours or less. I find I get a higher rate of replies from them compared to very old blank profile. When the odds are against you, you are, unfortunately, driven to exstreems | |||
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"“winey man baby” . Well that’s a new one " You seem attracted to these threads. Don't feel bad. They're probably not about you personally. | |||
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"I do read profiles. I pay attention to the details. For instance, if both of a couple are bi I don't write to them, I'm straight. For a single man you all know it is very difficult to get a date. Made more difficult when a woman's profile has no picture and almost no text, how are we supposed to word an appropriate message? I always write a long not too long message. Always polite. My messages are lost in the quagmire of others. If I get seen at all is a wonder. To get a reply is less than 1/100. To get a date, well that's another story. As for being deleted, I sometimes block them so i don't get them coming up in searches. If I have been read and not replied to, its very rare I contact again. Well ladies, what is this fit man in great condition to do to get attention? Although we understand it’s hard and sometimes almost impossible for single men on here but why would you want to message a woman with no pics and almost no text in their bio? They are invariably very new, something just a few hours or less. I find I get a higher rate of replies from them compared to very old blank profile. When the odds are against you, you are, unfortunately, driven to exstreems" I get that but what would attract you to their profile to want to converse with them in the first place? Is it an any hole’s a goal approach? | |||
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"Top of the shop being: Hey you ok? Hey sexy, fancy fun now? Hey, free now wanna come to mine? Hey, you had fun lately? Fancy a fuck? I'm free to come eat your pussy. I mean it just makes you want to find out more. " Yeah, our list of immediate deletion looks very similar | |||
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"Top of the shop being: Hey you ok? Hey sexy, fancy fun now? Hey, free now wanna come to mine? Hey, you had fun lately? Fancy a fuck? I'm free to come eat your pussy. I mean it just makes you want to find out more. " Looooool | |||
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"When I was a single lady on here, I used to laugh at some of the reply’s I got when I said ’thanks for the message but you’re not for me’ i had similar replies such as ‘bet you’re fucking ugly you slag’ etc. so replying sometimes doesn’t stop the rude reply either. " if we had a pound for everyone we would be on a cruise around the Mediterranean by now xx | |||
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"Top of the shop being: Hey you ok? Hey sexy, fancy fun now? Hey, free now wanna come to mine? Hey, you had fun lately? Fancy a fuck? I'm free to come eat your pussy. I mean it just makes you want to find out more. Yeah, our list of immediate deletion looks very similar " Made me chuckle. I don't read em. I love a good old deleted without being read when they're disgusting. | |||
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"Top of the shop being: Hey you ok? Hey sexy, fancy fun now? Hey, free now wanna come to mine? Hey, you had fun lately? Fancy a fuck? I'm free to come eat your pussy. I mean it just makes you want to find out more. Yeah, our list of immediate deletion looks very similar Made me chuckle. I don't read em. I love a good old deleted without being read when they're disgusting. " If they're disgusting or it's some long bollocks 'erotic' story about what they'd to me I make the point of replying to tell them that I didn't bother reading any of their message. | |||
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"“winey man baby” . Well that’s a new one You seem attracted to these threads. Don't feel bad. They're probably not about you personally. " You love them though don’t you? | |||
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