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"Let's say a fwb (or someone you had met a few times) invites you to theirs and says they are home alone for the weekend. BDSM style play is on the menu... Would you be surprised to later learn that home alone meant their young child would also be at home, albeit asleep? Asking for a friend "I'd be absolutely fucking furious that the child would potentially see and hear what's going on and it tells me the person cares little about the most important thing in their life and puts their enjoyment before anything else. Disgusting behaviour. | |||
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"Let's say a fwb (or someone you had met a few times) invites you to theirs and says they are home alone for the weekend. BDSM style play is on the menu... Would you be surprised to later learn that home alone meant their young child would also be at home, albeit asleep? Asking for a friend
I'd be absolutely fucking furious that the child would potentially see and hear what's going on and it tells me the person cares little about the most important thing in their life and puts their enjoyment before anything else.
Disgusting behaviour.
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"Let's say a fwb (or someone you had met a few times) invites you to theirs and says they are home alone for the weekend. BDSM style play is on the menu... Would you be surprised to later learn that home alone meant their young child would also be at home, albeit asleep? Asking for a friend
I'd be absolutely fucking furious that the child would potentially see and hear what's going on and it tells me the person cares little about the most important thing in their life and puts their enjoyment before anything else.
Disgusting behaviour.
This in my opinion "I'd be straight out the door, thanks but no thanks | |||
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"Thats bang out of order. Id walk out after ripping into them." Thank you everyone! I wanted to know what the consensus was... Home alone definitely doesn't have any room for interpretation in my mind!! | |||
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"Thats bang out of order. Id walk out after ripping into them. Thank you everyone! I wanted to know what the consensus was... Home alone definitely doesn't have any room for interpretation in my mind!!" Why would it be anything else? You'll see a few on the forums defend that practice but normal, decent humans find it abhorrent. Have you cut ties with that person? | |||
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"Let's say a fwb (or someone you had met a few times) invites you to theirs and says they are home alone for the weekend. BDSM style play is on the menu... Would you be surprised to later learn that home alone meant their young child would also be at home, albeit asleep? Asking for a friend "Bit dodgy… i would class that as that person being on parenting duty. I wonder how many times they’ve done that before.  | |||
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"Thats bang out of order. Id walk out after ripping into them. Thank you everyone! I wanted to know what the consensus was... Home alone definitely doesn't have any room for interpretation in my mind!! Why would it be anything else? You'll see a few on the forums defend that practice but normal, decent humans find it abhorrent. Have you cut ties with that person?" I'm hoping it was just a lapse of judgement on his part and not malicious... He's explained that he meant as in the child would be asleep so it wouldn't even matter, but then I was made to feel like I was over-reacting when I cancelled the meet  | |||
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"Thats bang out of order. Id walk out after ripping into them. Thank you everyone! I wanted to know what the consensus was... Home alone definitely doesn't have any room for interpretation in my mind!! Why would it be anything else? You'll see a few on the forums defend that practice but normal, decent humans find it abhorrent. Have you cut ties with that person? I'm hoping it was just a lapse of judgement on his part and not malicious... He's explained that he meant as in the child would be asleep so it wouldn't even matter, but then I was made to feel like I was over-reacting when I cancelled the meet "Massive red flag, why on earth would you trust him again? | |||
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"Thats bang out of order. Id walk out after ripping into them. Thank you everyone! I wanted to know what the consensus was... Home alone definitely doesn't have any room for interpretation in my mind!! Why would it be anything else? You'll see a few on the forums defend that practice but normal, decent humans find it abhorrent. Have you cut ties with that person? I'm hoping it was just a lapse of judgement on his part and not malicious... He's explained that he meant as in the child would be asleep so it wouldn't even matter, but then I was made to feel like I was over-reacting when I cancelled the meet "Children wake up... | |||
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"Thats bang out of order. Id walk out after ripping into them. Thank you everyone! I wanted to know what the consensus was... Home alone definitely doesn't have any room for interpretation in my mind!! Why would it be anything else? You'll see a few on the forums defend that practice but normal, decent humans find it abhorrent. Have you cut ties with that person? I'm hoping it was just a lapse of judgement on his part and not malicious... He's explained that he meant as in the child would be asleep so it wouldn't even matter, but then I was made to feel like I was over-reacting when I cancelled the meet
Children wake up... "He countered that his wouldn't  | |||
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" Children wake up... He countered that his wouldn't "Wow... Although I'm not surprised. I lost count of the amount of guys (not all men) who would ask to come over when my child was in bed... Until I explained he was a teenager! | |||
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"Let's say a fwb (or someone you had met a few times) invites you to theirs and says they are home alone for the weekend. BDSM style play is on the menu... Would you be surprised to later learn that home alone meant their young child would also be at home, albeit asleep? Asking for a friend "If they had kids and you knew - yes. Doesn’t mean I’d go round and play though. That might fuck up the kid should he/she wake up and wander through | |||
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"Depends a bit on the age. If there in a cot and can’t get out, no chance of being interrupted" I'm thinking this as they are 2ish and he's said that it wouldn't make a difference. I feel everyone would say their child was home so the guest can make up their mind for themself! Maybe I take "alone" too literally  | |||
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"Depends a bit on the age. If there in a cot and can’t get out, no chance of being interrupted I'm thinking this as they are 2ish and he's said that it wouldn't make a difference. I feel everyone would say their child was home so the guest can make up their mind for themself! Maybe I take "alone" too literally "As for the 'being interrupted' comment, I save myself from a ban. He knew he should not have done it, otherwise he would have told you beforehand. Why are you trying to justify all this? | |||
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"Depends a bit on the age. If there in a cot and can’t get out, no chance of being interrupted I'm thinking this as they are 2ish and he's said that it wouldn't make a difference. I feel everyone would say their child was home so the guest can make up their mind for themself! Maybe I take "alone" too literally
As for the 'being interrupted' comment, I save myself from a ban.
He knew he should not have done it, otherwise he would have told you beforehand.
Why are you trying to justify all this?"I'm working out what I actually think about this. I've known him for a while and I would like to think that it's just an error of judgement on his part, or that I see this as much more serious than he does. Looks like a lot of Fabbers would have reacted in exactly the same way as I initially did, which makes me feel confident that I'm not being over dramatic x | |||
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"Depends a bit on the age. If there in a cot and can’t get out, no chance of being interrupted" So you think babies never cry and need attention ? Or would you just ignore them and carry on fucking ? | |||
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"Depends a bit on the age. If there in a cot and can’t get out, no chance of being interrupted So you think babies never cry and need attention ? Or would you just ignore them and carry on fucking ? " Yeah I mean, fancy having to actually look after children even when they are asleep. Madness!! How awful it must be for adults to be interrupted by their children but not to worry if the child hears or sees anything, at least the adults are doing their thing | |||
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"Depends a bit on the age. If there in a cot and can’t get out, no chance of being interrupted I'm thinking this as they are 2ish and he's said that it wouldn't make a difference. I feel everyone would say their child was home so the guest can make up their mind for themself! Maybe I take "alone" too literally
As for the 'being interrupted' comment, I save myself from a ban.
He knew he should not have done it, otherwise he would have told you beforehand.
Why are you trying to justify all this?
I'm working out what I actually think about this. I've known him for a while and I would like to think that it's just an error of judgement on his part, or that I see this as much more serious than he does.
Looks like a lot of Fabbers would have reacted in exactly the same way as I initially did, which makes me feel confident that I'm not being over dramatic x"I don't understand what's to work out. He lied because he knew you'd probably say no, he doesn't care about the welfare of his child, he prioritises his enjoyment over everything else and when you said no, he gaslight you. Obviously I don't know either of you or your relationship, I can only comment against my own standards but that bloke would be a distant memory to me by now. | |||
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"Depends a bit on the age. If there in a cot and can’t get out, no chance of being interrupted So you think babies never cry and need attention ? Or would you just ignore them and carry on fucking ? " There was an element of sarcasm in my comment | |||
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"Let's say a fwb (or someone you had met a few times) invites you to theirs and says they are home alone for the weekend. BDSM style play is on the menu... Would you be surprised to later learn that home alone meant their young child would also be at home, albeit asleep? Asking for a friend
I'd be absolutely fucking furious that the child would potentially see and hear what's going on and it tells me the person cares little about the most important thing in their life and puts their enjoyment before anything else.
Disgusting behaviour.
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"Let's say a fwb (or someone you had met a few times) invites you to theirs and says they are home alone for the weekend. BDSM style play is on the menu... Would you be surprised to later learn that home alone meant their young child would also be at home, albeit asleep? Asking for a friend
I'd be absolutely fucking furious that the child would potentially see and hear what's going on and it tells me the person cares little about the most important thing in their life and puts their enjoyment before anything else.
Disgusting behaviour.
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"Those are terrifying stories!!! Yes I was pretty horrified when I found out that he didn't actually mean alone, but like I've said above I've known him for a while so I can't say for sure that he's an evil person who maliciously planned to not tell me. That doesn't fit with the friendship and what he is usually like, but I guess sexual desire can get the better of people?" Maybe show him this thread to give him a wake up call! | |||
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