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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How best to get started? People won't meet if I'm not verified, I need to meet people to GET verified. Catch 22. Any tips?

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How best to get started? People won't meet if I'm not verified, I need to meet people to GET verified. Catch 22. Any tips?

x"

Go to Socials, go to clubs, post in the forum, go in the chat rooms xx before long you'll have loads of verifications. If you are a nice guy that is lol

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

find someone you like the look of and message them.

No pont going for profiles that dont either meet regularly or profiles thate are erotic photogenic pictures as they will be spammed up - save them till later

dont come across likt a twat, dont come across too pushy, dont do one liners and and dont invite yourself round on the first message.

Just be open and honest about what you like id say

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By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Get rid of your current status update - it just makes you sound aggressive, and will put people off your profile.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get rid of your current status update - it just makes you sound aggressive, and will put people off your profile."

If people replied once in a while, even it's to tell me to do one, I wouldn't feel the need to post such a status. That said, it's now changed.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

There is a social lunch in Dundee on the 20th, pop your name down and go through....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is a social lunch in Dundee on the 20th, pop your name down and go through...."

Cheers fella might just do that

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"There is a social lunch in Dundee on the 20th, pop your name down and go through....

Cheers fella might just do that "

it is posted in the Scottish Forum

all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women that can hold a conversation but you're not holding out much hope...?

Nice way to alienate your target audience...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women that can hold a conversation but you're not holding out much hope...?

Nice way to alienate your target audience... "

I'm open to be proven wrong but from experience I'm so far being proven right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to meet a lot of newbies down at my local clubs... I can spot the newbies a mile off...

I like to take them by the hand lol

However you have already had a lot of good advice..

Us women on here can be really picky... So patience is a real virtue.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to meet a lot of newbies down at my local clubs... I can spot the newbies a mile off...

I like to take them by the hand lol

However you have already had a lot of good advice..

Us women on here can be really picky... So patience is a real virtue.

Cali"

"Picky"?? that's an understatement lol

Ta for the message though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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"Picky"?? that's an understatement lol

Ta for the message though "

Ladies choice lol.. and your welcome.. I have met lots of newbies though as I know how hard it is for them to get that first verification..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women that can hold a conversation but you're not holding out much hope...?

Nice way to alienate your target audience...

I'm open to be proven wrong but from experience I'm so far being proven right!"

With that attitude and lack of respect you are not likely to get veri's but hey good luck!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"How best to get started? People won't meet if I'm not verified, I need to meet people to GET verified. Catch 22. Any tips?

x"

Give it chance - you've only been here a week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women that can hold a conversation but you're not holding out much hope...?

Nice way to alienate your target audience...

I'm open to be proven wrong but from experience I'm so far being proven right!

With that attitude and lack of respect you are not likely to get veri's but hey good luck! "

Got to agree an attitude adjustment is needed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With that attitude and lack of respect you are not likely to get veri's but hey good luck! "

Nothing to do with lack of respect. More to do with visiting my sent messages folder and finding my messages have been deleted without a reply forthcoming. If a conversation doesn't take place in the first instance, a meet is highly unlikely to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With that attitude and lack of respect you are not likely to get veri's but hey good luck!

Nothing to do with lack of respect. More to do with visiting my sent messages folder and finding my messages have been deleted without a reply forthcoming. If a conversation doesn't take place in the first instance, a meet is highly unlikely to happen"

To be honest you should try having a single girls profile.. messages that clearly havent read your profile.. and sometimes so many the only way you will ever get a clear inbox is to hit delete all.

Its not as bad on a couples profile but even still.. twice last week I hit delete all..

I do try to reply even if its a polite no thanks.. but its not always possible.

plus a lot of men spoil it by being pushy when you say no. Hence now a lot of people just delete.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest you should try having a single girls profile.. messages that clearly havent read your profile.. and sometimes so many the only way you will ever get a clear inbox is to hit delete all.

Its not as bad on a couples profile but even still.. twice last week I hit delete all..

I do try to reply even if its a polite no thanks.. but its not always possible.

plus a lot of men spoil it by being pushy when you say no. Hence now a lot of people just delete.

Cali"

I always ALWAYS read the profile. I'm not gonna waste MY time and theirs. I'm certainly not pushy. If I'm told no, that's fine. I'm not gonna be everyone's cuppa tea x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

popcorn anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely some work needed on the profile, it's very negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"popcorn anyone "

Ill have some popcorn and Ive put the kettle on

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