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Who you can and cant sleep with

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By *at me drink me OP   Woman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

Would you let someone dictate who you can and cant meet up with

If you were put in that position would you

1. Agree to it

2. Have a sneak peak at the profile fab a few photos but take it no further

3. Mail them straight away and see how the chat is

4. Mail them and arrange a meet straight away but keep it quiet no veri no drama or

5. Fuck it and just go for it drama and all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Dora doesn’t want me meeting any other women so I wouldn’t.

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

I wouldnt say dictates but if hubby asked me specifically not to meet someone then I wouldnt.

I would however love it if he arranged for me to meet someone without me knowing and I'd have to go along with it without knowing anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're in a committed relationship then both partners should agree who meets who. It's respect, not dictation.

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By *at me drink me OP   Woman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

The questions more for singles .in a couple i 100% agree with only meeting people you both agree on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The questions more for singles .in a couple i 100% agree with only meeting people you both agree on"

What do you mean more for singles, can you elaborate with the idea please? I'm not sure what you mean... are you talking about being close with a fuck buddy or friends with benefits thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I decide if and who I meet, noone else gets a say, my body, my choice! Xx

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

My wife and I don’t control who the other sees that it their choice. We do have some basic guidelines we follow, no family or close friends and no work colleagues, other than that go for it.

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By *at me drink me OP   Woman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

I mean if you go to a 1st meet and that person says if you meet this person we will never meet again and il block you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean if you go to a 1st meet and that person says if you meet this person we will never meet again and il block you "

No why would I, she’d have to be filthy and I agree I’m hers now but …. What’s the chances

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

If it was some sort of Ds relationship, or the person was looking for an exclusive arrangement then maybe, but otherwise no. No one should dictate, what you can and cant do, especially if youve never even met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone tried to dictate that to me on our first meeting I'd ditch them and probably go fuck the other one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean if you go to a 1st meet and that person says if you meet this person we will never meet again and il block you "

I would be pleased they showed what a cock they are before I had the misfortune to meet them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or 6 just ignore!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

The only person who dictates what I do is me in all aspects of my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I was in a relationship with them then off corse I would respect they wishes on that hopefully they do the same back

If it’s just a random one night fb or fbw sorry but no I would be meeting who I like when I like if they don’t like it they can find someone else I am single they don’t get to dictate who I meet

Same with I don’t get to say who they can

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington


"I would be pleased they showed what a cock they are before I had the misfortune to meet them again. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only person who dictates what I do is me in all aspects of my life."

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By *at me drink me OP   Woman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

Id be the same i meet who i want when i want. Its my fab journey .ps its actually a woman mentioning me at her meets(shes that far down my block list i no longer see her.its been going on around 5 year)but i get mail fae guys telling me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I decide if and who I meet, noone else gets a say, my body, my choice! Xx"

Well said

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope, even my partner wouldn't do that.

If there's someone he didn't want me to meet for any reason, I wouldn't. Nobody will tell me what to do though.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"The questions more for singles .in a couple i 100% agree with only meeting people you both agree on"

Do you mean singles on here with FB, FWB type relationships with others in here , where one person says you can’t sleep with that person? . That would never happen would it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean if you go to a 1st meet and that person says if you meet this person we will never meet again and il block you "

If someone has said this to you, I would be telling them to sod off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I decide if and who I meet, noone else gets a say, my body, my choice! Xx

Well said"

Thanks xx

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

This is both a yes and bo answer.

We've been happily swinging together (married) for 25 years and together longer than that. We both do meet separately but me more so than my wife. I don't like to put labels on it but she's both bi and enjoys being a bit of a cuckqean on occasions and she's not averse to encouraging me to go meet other ladies or couples. Lucky me But we do play as a couple about 80% of the time but we both encourage each other to do seperate meets.

We've always had a rule where the other can veto a meet if they're not happy about it and thats pretty much it. Neither of us has ever played that card as we've never had to. Meets or clubs it's always been good with no issues or drama between us about anything. We have total trust in each other. Swinging adds to our lives and fun and putting drama into it isn't what we want.

So whilst we could dictate meets to the other if we wanted to, neither of us have in 25 years....

So mostly no on this one but we are a married couple rather than 2 singles.

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