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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We had a very strange thing happen this week . A guy we had been friendly to and just talked to at a club sent us a message asking if we would like to meet . We turned him down very nicely saying we didn't meet single guys . He sent a message back saying not a problem but he thought we liked him .We sent a message back saying it was nothing to do with like it was just we didn't need another male as Mrs nutty was happy with the one she had . More messages followed and after him telling us how great he was and we were lucky he had contacted us we decided to block him . How strange some people are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of Nutty folk about but it seems not enough to go around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people just don't get it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have had messages like that as well.

they cant believe your not interested in them or they think you will change your mind.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I used to get stuff like that all the time, but from couples... Now I just have them filtered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..but remember folks, that's just one guy and is in no way representative of all single guys in any way shape or form.

Because anyone has the power to be silly, pushy, arrogant, rude or just down right idiotic - its never been gender specific!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well it goes without saying. women and couples are like that too sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must say I am most disappointed by the theme of this thread.

From the title 'The Single Guy' I thought for one minute, they had all ( bar 1 )got fed up with negative labels, decided enough was enough and, like lemmings, jumped off the big Fab Cliff, cocks in each other hands (only as mates of course, don't want people to think they're bi or anything), leaving the coast clear and 50 % of forum users with nothing to whinge about.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I must say I am most disappointed by the theme of this thread.

From the title 'The Single Guy' I thought for one minute, they had all ( bar 1 )got fed up with negative labels, decided enough was enough and, like lemmings, jumped off the big Fab Cliff, cocks in each other hands (only as mates of course, don't want people to think they're bi or anything), leaving the coast clear and 50 % of forum users with nothing to whinge about. "

Bussys hotpot lol ! Is this the slow transformation from a caterpillar to a butterfly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must say I am most disappointed by the theme of this thread.

From the title 'The Single Guy' I thought for one minute, they had all ( bar 1 )got fed up with negative labels, decided enough was enough and, like lemmings, jumped off the big Fab Cliff, cocks in each other hands (only as mates of course, don't want people to think they're bi or anything), leaving the coast clear and 50 % of forum users with nothing to whinge about.

Bussys hotpot lol ! Is this the slow transformation from a caterpillar to a butterfly "

Could be !

I just need to find 'the outfit' again

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral


"We had a very strange thing happen this week . A guy we had been friendly to and just talked to at a club sent us a message asking if we would like to meet . We turned him down very nicely saying we didn't meet single guys . He sent a message back saying not a problem but he thought we liked him .We sent a message back saying it was nothing to do with like it was just we didn't need another male as Mrs nutty was happy with the one she had . More messages followed and after him telling us how great he was and we were lucky he had contacted us we decided to block him . How strange some people are ."

So just to clarify Mr & Mrs Nutty, you love meeting single guys.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really get the point of this post. From the title I guessed it was a single guy bashing session but its not that. It's a bit like drinking low alcohol beer...pointless.

Anyway them single guys what a bunch of .......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe we should get more harder and do the F word . Single guys are fine and if a couple want one even two well good for them . What some get wrong is that if they get an invite to play good for them but not all ladies want 2 cocks and couples like other couples mostly . Also lots of ladies are bi and like playing with other ladies and another cock will not put that fire out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe we should get more harder and do the F word . Single guys are fine and if a couple want one even two well good for them . What some get wrong is that if they get an invite to play good for them but not all ladies want 2 cocks and couples like other couples mostly . Also lots of ladies are bi and like playing with other ladies and another cock will not put that fire out"

Well that clears that up then lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a very strange thing happen this week . A guy we had been friendly to and just talked to at a club sent us a message asking if we would like to meet . We turned him down very nicely saying we didn't meet single guys . He sent a message back saying not a problem but he thought we liked him .We sent a message back saying it was nothing to do with like it was just we didn't need another male as Mrs nutty was happy with the one she had . More messages followed and after him telling us how great he was and we were lucky he had contacted us we decided to block him . How strange some people are ."

Welcome to Fabswingers.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

This single male bashing thing is getting OTT.

For me the man was trying his luck and trying to convince you he was a good catch....people get advised to try and sell themselves and now thats not good either?

There is an option though if you don't like someones mails....use the block button earlier.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Maybe we should get more harder and do the F word . Single guys are fine and if a couple want one even two well good for them . What some get wrong is that if they get an invite to play good for them but not all ladies want 2 cocks and couples like other couples mostly . Also lots of ladies are bi and like playing with other ladies and another cock will not put that fire out"

If you never meet single guys, wouldn't it make sense to just use message filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe we should get more harder and do the F word . Single guys are fine and if a couple want one even two well good for them . What some get wrong is that if they get an invite to play good for them but not all ladies want 2 cocks and couples like other couples mostly . Also lots of ladies are bi and like playing with other ladies and another cock will not put that fire out

If you never meet single guys, wouldn't it make sense to just use message filters"

Ahh but then the inbox wouldn't be overflowing with invites and gushing compliments leaving the old ego a little deflated. It's a conundrum it really is.

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By *ayseanMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes must agree with a few earlier posts,just use the filters thats what they are there for,as unfortunately you will always find some people can't take no for an answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guess what ,we do use filters . Oh ego thing Mmm how lucky are we . Some people think junk mail going through there mail box is good for there ego . Get real but yes maybe we should block earlier that's a fair point . We just like being nice and friendly believe it or not and yes we do chat to some nice friendly guys . As for the world of swinging well yes we do get it but do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess what ,we do use filters . Oh ego thing Mmm how lucky are we . Some people think junk mail going through there mail box is good for there ego . Get real but yes maybe we should block earlier that's a fair point . We just like being nice and friendly believe it or not and yes we do chat to some nice friendly guys . As for the world of swinging well yes we do get it but do you"

Since the purpose of the site is swinging it seems reasonable fir single guys to try their luck ?

I know you say they are not for you if they are not bi - fair enough , but to say you have chatted with plenty of nice single guys one has to question why ? Isn't that what Facebook is for ?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"We had a very strange thing happen this week . A guy we had been friendly to and just talked to at a club sent us a message asking if we would like to meet . We turned him down very nicely saying we didn't meet single guys . He sent a message back saying not a problem but he thought we liked him .We sent a message back saying it was nothing to do with like it was just we didn't need another male as Mrs nutty was happy with the one she had . More messages followed and after him telling us how great he was and we were lucky he had contacted us we decided to block him . How strange some people are ."

I love looking at the language within OP and rants/semi-rants like this, because in a way it is rather revealing...

the one that stood out for me was this...

"We sent a message back saying it was nothing to do with like it was just we didn't need another male as Mrs nutty was happy with the one she had"....

and yet one of the other things you are after is a single fem..... (obviously just for mrs nutty then... as you are more than happy with the one you have..... right???)

what do you think that says to said single fems them????

also interesting to see how you view single men in the scene.... hmmmmm

you are right... people are generally strange folk, the option is given for you to block.... however for every action there is a reaction, so if this one backfires....... you know where to look....

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"..but remember folks, that's just one guy and is in no way representative of all single guys in any way shape or form.

Because anyone has the power to be silly, pushy, arrogant, rude or just down right idiotic - its never been gender specific

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+1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I see your point if we are happy to play with single females then why not males .Well Mrs Nutty is bi and it would be difficult to turn Mr Nutty into a girl though we do try .As for chatting to guys well unless you come from another planet, when you go to clubs and parties there are single people there .We do like to social with people and are more then happy chatting to both sexes .Does that mean we have to go to bed with everyone we talk to .Again each to there own and what ever couples want to do great its there life .I was just pointing out what happened to us this week thats all .It wasn't a downer on men but we have now got a post bag full of private messages saying simler things .Shame they don't all post them on here though if they did then single guys would have something to worry about .

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Please GOD!!! I hope people don't post them all on here

If everyone that got messages from people they don't want to play with and questioned it on here the forums would be full to the brim of nothing else

I would be starting about 20 threads a day and im sure most other people including single guys would too

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

This might be a good time to mention mail filters

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Just need to add that I love single guys

Well some of em anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno..I think Ive said enuff about single man ranting this week therefore I ask to be checked out by my green arrow

thanks

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

[Removed by poster at 12/10/12 12:16:10]

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I dunno..I think Ive said enuff about single man ranting this week therefore I ask to be checked out by my green arrow

thanks"

Hahaha lazy arse!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Yes I see your point if we are happy to play with single females then why not males .Well Mrs Nutty is bi and it would be difficult to turn Mr Nutty into a girl though we do try .. .

?"

I think what Fabio meant was....you tell people you don't want to play with single men as the man you have is enough for you....but then you ask for single females to play with....in turn by what you have said that must mean the female isn't enough for the male half of your couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I give up and going off to play but for what ever reason not with a single man .Have fun and happy swinging in what ever way you want to .Rant is over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can sympathise a little as I'm constantly being mailed by single females. Such a pain. They just don't get it.

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