FabSwingers.com forum: Advice needed..!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I really REALLY want to go to a club. But terrified of going on my own as a single female.

Can you tell me what they are like?

What to expect?

Tell me everything!! x

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By *inkyDom96Man
over a year ago

Yarmouth

Really good fun went to one a few years ago and it was great very relaxed atmosphere it’s a shame they had to close

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By *inkyDom96Man
over a year ago

Yarmouth

"I really REALLY want to go to a club. But terrified of going on my own as a single female.

Can you tell me what they are like?

What to expect?

Tell me everything!! x

Would pm you but i can’t

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By *ilthyfuntimezMan
over a year ago

Denham NW london

I’ve been to a few over the years vanilla alternative is the classy one. Hell fire was good aswell.

I’d recommend meeting a guy or couple first then going with them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go on my own, it's fine. Look at the club reviews on here. X

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Would it be less intimidating to go to a theme night?

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By *est_Mids_Nice_GuyMan
over a year ago

willenhall

I was petrified the first time I went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever been to just one myself, the people I messaged to meet before hand were late and left me to my own devices for a few hours, luckily the other people there were very cordial and it's just like meeting people in a bar.

I was worried that I'd be moping in the corner like the new kid but people at clubs are very friendly from my only experience.

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By *inkyDuo XXXCouple
over a year ago

somewhere near you

I've been to two clubs by myself and it can be abit daunting but generally people are nice. I would say see who is going on the meets and get chatting. Then when you meet in person there is a foundation to talk. I wanted a female club buddy so we could go together (relaxing in the hottub!) if my playmate wasn't free but haven't found one yet.

People also assume as a single female you will get bombarded with offers at clubs. I tend to find that couples float towards other couples. Defo chat first on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ll be getting lots of offers from guys to “escort” you.

You don’t need it.

The club will always be delighted to see a single female and will make you feel very welcome and be happy to show you around.

You won’t be alone for long but beware of the wanking zombies! Lol.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Me too imagine what it’s like for a man. Lol

Billy I mates standing in the corner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a club you like the sound of email them telling you it is your first time. They will be very accommodating on your arrival and put you at ease with a guided tour. They usually have a few regulars that they introduce you to and break the ice.

Also when you know when your going look on the the forums for people going. Message them let them know your going and they will look out for you.

Finally you will still be nervous but once inside you will soon relax because you will be greeted by a very friendly atmosphere enjoy.

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By *urious and openmindedCouple
over a year ago

under the sea

"I really REALLY want to go to a club. But terrified of going on my own as a single female.

Can you tell me what they are like?

What to expect?

Tell me everything!! x

Try the annex

Fairly close and regular different nights to explore

No pressure to play

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