FabSwingers.com forum: How many people have you slept with?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Paul has 150 plus, Katie has 9...whats your magic number?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dread to think.... Regretting that I didn't keep a record of every one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sleep - what's the point in that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dread to think.... Regretting that I didn't keep a record of every one! "

oh I dunno, there's probs quite a few worth forgetting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One...me!

Never sleep when theres anything better to do...or someone better to do

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Who counts? Really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be over 100!!

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Not enough! Volunteers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost count after two!!! Lol

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"Paul has 150 plus, Katie has 9...whats your magic number?!"

Actually slept beside .. 3 .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than one and less than it'll be by the end of the week!

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

Her is 6 men and 2 women. Him is 1 woman and 3 men. Not amazing stats obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many, I prefer to sleep alone

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

Before swinging, 27. Since then? Stopped counting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not enough! Volunteers?"

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

Only one here and thats the wife.

We have shagged a few though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Individually or in groups?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I snore so nobody wants to sleep with me

(mrs)

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By *ovelybumCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Still virgins here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I snore so nobody wants to sleep with me

(mrs)"

So do I, we could keep each other awake all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont keep count would shudder if i knew the actual number lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no idea to be honest...100s

i dont even know how many id shagged this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can tell you this year. But no idea in total. Although I could count from my journal.

This year it's more than 400 but less

Than 650 lol

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the wife and all my mates partners x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh but actually spent the night or slept with. It's 7 lol

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I snore so nobody wants to sleep with me

(mrs)

So do I, we could keep each other awake all night

Sounds good

We will have them banging on the walls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually slept with? Five, including my husband.

Had sex with? I have a little spreadsheet, so I could tell you. But I won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea and not interested in keeping a tally either, that's almost like getting the longest list of friends like Facebook members do

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Slept with - probably around 15. Fucked - close to 200 I think. Not sure though - I haven't counted them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paul has 150 plus, Katie has 9...whats your magic number?!"
7 how sad i am

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Paul has 150 plus, Katie has 9...whats your magic number?! 7 how sad i am"

Not at all. It's not a competition. I'm just a happy slut who has always enjoyed loads of different partners whenever single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sleep - what's the point in that?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prior to swinging, mid sixties or so. Including swinging though I wouldn't have a clue, over a hundred but less than one-fifty is all I could say.

But if you're talking about actually slept next to then I'd guess about 30 odd. That last figure sounds high compared to some but I do adore a good cuddle before sleep...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 outside of swinging, no idea within swinging (40 ish?)

I've also slept with 5 women without having sex (ie kissing and caressing then curling up asleep without fucking). Has anyone else done the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh alright, I'll confess.

I've slept with exactly 27 swingers. I don't keep a written tally - I've just been down to the cellar to count the survivors.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

quite a few, too many to count but a guestimate is around 1-200.. id think??

round 2!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not seemed important enough to keep count, I was just too busy having fun

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont sleep with anyone far too selfish to

Share my bed

Had sex with couldnt tell ya lol

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

prefer to sleep alone. It's the only way i can get any rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same as others, slept with 7 shagged who knows 100's maybe

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

"no idea to be honest...100s

i dont even know how many id shagged this year"

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Whether the question actually means sleep, or fuck, we honestly don't know. G stopped counting the latter at 50 and that was long before we started swinging, and R says she never kept count. Add over 10 years of swinging and the total for sex is well into 3 figures for both.

We don't have sex for notches on the bedpost, just because we love doing it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well below 20 for me (jules) think I need to try harder, or just meed to put myself out there more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slept with 5 and shagged roughly 20 over half of them since i have been with phil lol

(sheltered life me

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

If I thought hard then I could count up,its not a massive number at all but I only really remember those that have had some sort of positive impact on me,others are instantly forgettable

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By *parrow77Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Ok now I feel like a newby an a virgin lol

I've only had 8 women and only 1 of them off here

Anyone wana help increase this come MSG me lol I'm gettin less now am single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't even like to hazard a guess but I am thinking in the hundreds.

Some I remember, others I don't.

Some experiences were plain awful, others were simply awesome.

I have had periods where I have been virtually celibate, I have had long periods when I have had one partner only and I have had periods where I've had sexual contact with 8,9,10 people in one night and then multiple partners in the weeks and months in between.

It's nothing something I am proud of but it's not something I am ashamed of either. It just is !

These days, I am somewhere in between in that I am sexually active with more than 1 person but it tends to be with the same 4 or 5 people that I see on a semi-regular basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between 20-25

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my ex wife, all the others kept me up all night shagging

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

So just me and Cali on the other side of the hundreds then?

Ffs I thought you lot were swingers!

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

I am hoping to catch you both up.

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By *obinhood-maidmarionCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Not enough! Volunteers?"

we volunteer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also not enough here!

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

"Also not enough here!

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SAME HERE, LOL. xxxxxxxxxx

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I only recall the ones that were worthwhile - and those were not in huge numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely no idea..i hate it when people ask me..i mean what is the point?? I dont want to know.It is completely insignificant to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slept with 3 , My fist boyfriend , my hubby and my gorgeous sexy man

but i have had sex with loads

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not enough!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

About 25 ish.

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over a year ago

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

Not enough. Always wanted to experiment, but never confident/able enough to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fook knows, I ran out of fingers n toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont kiss and tell...

But have said that too many times to remember lol

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

None

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By *wencatWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I snore so nobody wants to sleep with me

(mrs)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gentleman never tells.

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By *oonytoonMan
over a year ago

derby

I actually have no idea, I've never thought to keep count I'd guess 50+, as I've not really explored swinging for long the majority of those are outside of swinging and I've had a couple of long term vanilla relationships over the years and I don't cheat so I do appear to be quite inexperienced to most lol anyone feeling like a night of corrupting me feel free to contact my secretary miss inbox.

Another shameless look at me request brought to you by perhaps the most disliked species of this wonderful swingers island that is fabtopia...The single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn you guys have some high numbers I would say around 50 never met anyone through swinging I tend to conversate better in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damn you guys have some high numbers I would say around 50 never met anyone through swinging I tend to conversate better in person"

But don't for one minute think that swinging is a numbers game.

If the numbers are high, for the majority, the numbers will be the bi product of a lifestyle as opposed to the reason behind a lifestyle.

You're also only young, so to say you have slept with 50+ people is some going.

By contrast, I would say that at your age, I had only had 4-5 sexual partners.

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