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"We get messed about by single Men so much. That we can't even be bothered to arrange meets with them anymore ( guess we might try again in the future ) think we've got a success rate of about 25% of them turning up. As for meeting a single guy who is cheating .Sounds like they're laying foundations for their excuses when they don't turn up before we've even met them. So why bother with them. To your question ,no we've not had any trouble from girlfriends and wifes or boyfriends and husbands . " Thank you. I doubt very much if anyone else has. | |||
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"We get messed about by single Men so much. That we can't even be bothered to arrange meets with them anymore ( guess we might try again in the future ) think we've got a success rate of about 25% of them turning up. As for meeting a single guy who is cheating .Sounds like they're laying foundations for their excuses when they don't turn up before we've even met them. So why bother with them. To your question ,no we've not had any trouble from girlfriends and wifes or boyfriends and husbands . Thank you. I doubt very much if anyone else has. " We know a couple on the club scene who were lied to by a married single man. The wife got into his phone and fab account where she got access to nude face pics of the couple and their home address. In her hurt and devastation her virtol was aimed mainly at the (innocent and also lied to) couple not her scum hubby. She stalked social media telling the poor couples family members that the couple fucked her husband behind her back, she put nude pictures of the couple on the cars in the street. In the end the police became involded to put a stop to the damage. It took the couple 2 years before they were able to tentatively attend a club again. We know a lot of swingers socially and this has happened to a few with various degrees of issues from just a nasty phone call from the hurt cheated on spouse to the damaging example above. All it takes is a less tech savvy guy cheating via fab and a wife who knows something is up managing to get into his phone and fab account for a shitstorm to explode. Putting the moral reasons to one side why the hell would any sensible couple take any risk meeting married men here to cheat when they are plenty of genuinely single guys and even guys playing with permission (which can be confirmed with the partner) to pick from? Why take the risk? KJ | |||
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"We get messed about by single Men so much. That we can't even be bothered to arrange meets with them anymore ( guess we might try again in the future ) think we've got a success rate of about 25% of them turning up. As for meeting a single guy who is cheating .Sounds like they're laying foundations for their excuses when they don't turn up before we've even met them. So why bother with them. To your question ,no we've not had any trouble from girlfriends and wifes or boyfriends and husbands . Thank you. I doubt very much if anyone else has. We know a couple on the club scene who were lied to by a married single man. The wife got into his phone and fab account where she got access to nude face pics of the couple and their home address. In her hurt and devastation her virtol was aimed mainly at the (innocent and also lied to) couple not her scum hubby. She stalked social media telling the poor couples family members that the couple fucked her husband behind her back, she put nude pictures of the couple on the cars in the street. In the end the police became involded to put a stop to the damage. It took the couple 2 years before they were able to tentatively attend a club again. We know a lot of swingers socially and this has happened to a few with various degrees of issues from just a nasty phone call from the hurt cheated on spouse to the damaging example above. All it takes is a less tech savvy guy cheating via fab and a wife who knows something is up managing to get into his phone and fab account for a shitstorm to explode. Putting the moral reasons to one side why the hell would any sensible couple take any risk meeting married men here to cheat when they are plenty of genuinely single guys and even guys playing with permission (which can be confirmed with the partner) to pick from? Why take the risk? KJ" Do you know this couple personally and heard it first hand? When was this, there should be media reports on it? Obviously the upset wife broke several Laws and should have been severely punished. | |||
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"We once had a meet with a guy we had been chatting to who had assured us he was single. A while after he arrived at ours there was a knock at the door and I through a dressing gown on to answer the door. It was this guys wife who had followed him as she was convinced he was having an affair. She kicked off big style on the doorstep which ended with me being assaulted and us having to call the police and most of this being witnessed by the neighbour and a few others passing on the street. We were dreading all this coming out in court but thankfully she plead guilty so there was no trial. " That is very bad. But indicate it has happened. Thanks. | |||
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"We once had a meet with a guy we had been chatting to who had assured us he was single. A while after he arrived at ours there was a knock at the door and I through a dressing gown on to answer the door. It was this guys wife who had followed him as she was convinced he was having an affair. She kicked off big style on the doorstep which ended with me being assaulted and us having to call the police and most of this being witnessed by the neighbour and a few others passing on the street. We were dreading all this coming out in court but thankfully she plead guilty so there was no trial. That is very bad. But indicate it has happened. Thanks. " Yes this kind off put us off meeting single guys | |||
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"Its always a good idea not to give out phone numbers or addressees. Use something like Kik or telegram, and then meet somewhere neutral like a hotel, club, car, outside etc. Xx" That is good advice. | |||
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"We get messed about by single Men so much. That we can't even be bothered to arrange meets with them anymore ( guess we might try again in the future ) think we've got a success rate of about 25% of them turning up. As for meeting a single guy who is cheating .Sounds like they're laying foundations for their excuses when they don't turn up before we've even met them. So why bother with them. To your question ,no we've not had any trouble from girlfriends and wifes or boyfriends and husbands . Thank you. I doubt very much if anyone else has. We know a couple on the club scene who were lied to by a married single man. The wife got into his phone and fab account where she got access to nude face pics of the couple and their home address. In her hurt and devastation her virtol was aimed mainly at the (innocent and also lied to) couple not her scum hubby. She stalked social media telling the poor couples family members that the couple fucked her husband behind her back, she put nude pictures of the couple on the cars in the street. In the end the police became involded to put a stop to the damage. It took the couple 2 years before they were able to tentatively attend a club again. We know a lot of swingers socially and this has happened to a few with various degrees of issues from just a nasty phone call from the hurt cheated on spouse to the damaging example above. All it takes is a less tech savvy guy cheating via fab and a wife who knows something is up managing to get into his phone and fab account for a shitstorm to explode. Putting the moral reasons to one side why the hell would any sensible couple take any risk meeting married men here to cheat when they are plenty of genuinely single guys and even guys playing with permission (which can be confirmed with the partner) to pick from? Why take the risk? KJ Do you know this couple personally and heard it first hand? When was this, there should be media reports on it? Obviously the upset wife broke several Laws and should have been severely punished." Yes we know them well personally and they are well known and respected on the club scene and organise numerous club events. They got a restraining order against the women issued. The police had words with her and the couple decided against pushing to press charges to avoid appearing in court. After the police intervention and restraining order they wife never contacted or bothered the couple again. Regarding your comments about been in the media obviously the don't report every random restraining order that happens and I think many couples whom are victims of the situation would be desperate to avoid their swinging life exposed in the court and the media. As the poor couple above rightly highlighted. KJ | |||
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"We get messed about by single Men so much. That we can't even be bothered to arrange meets with them anymore ( guess we might try again in the future ) think we've got a success rate of about 25% of them turning up. As for meeting a single guy who is cheating .Sounds like they're laying foundations for their excuses when they don't turn up before we've even met them. So why bother with them. To your question ,no we've not had any trouble from girlfriends and wifes or boyfriends and husbands . Thank you. I doubt very much if anyone else has. We know a couple on the club scene who were lied to by a married single man. The wife got into his phone and fab account where she got access to nude face pics of the couple and their home address. In her hurt and devastation her virtol was aimed mainly at the (innocent and also lied to) couple not her scum hubby. She stalked social media telling the poor couples family members that the couple fucked her husband behind her back, she put nude pictures of the couple on the cars in the street. In the end the police became involded to put a stop to the damage. It took the couple 2 years before they were able to tentatively attend a club again. We know a lot of swingers socially and this has happened to a few with various degrees of issues from just a nasty phone call from the hurt cheated on spouse to the damaging example above. All it takes is a less tech savvy guy cheating via fab and a wife who knows something is up managing to get into his phone and fab account for a shitstorm to explode. Putting the moral reasons to one side why the hell would any sensible couple take any risk meeting married men here to cheat when they are plenty of genuinely single guys and even guys playing with permission (which can be confirmed with the partner) to pick from? Why take the risk? KJ Do you know this couple personally and heard it first hand? When was this, there should be media reports on it? Obviously the upset wife broke several Laws and should have been severely punished. Yes we know them well personally and they are well known and respected on the club scene and organise numerous club events. They got a restraining order against the women issued. The police had words with her and the couple decided against pushing to press charges to avoid appearing in court. After the police intervention and restraining order they wife never contacted or bothered the couple again. Regarding your comments about been in the media obviously the don't report every random restraining order that happens and I think many couples whom are victims of the situation would be desperate to avoid their swinging life exposed in the court and the media. As the poor couple above rightly highlighted. KJ" Thank you for that. I do understand the media comment. Whilst we are all very happy with other swingers, even close vanilla friends would have problems with our lifestyle. | |||
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"We get messed about by single Men so much. That we can't even be bothered to arrange meets with them anymore ( guess we might try again in the future ) think we've got a success rate of about 25% of them turning up. As for meeting a single guy who is cheating .Sounds like they're laying foundations for their excuses when they don't turn up before we've even met them. So why bother with them. To your question ,no we've not had any trouble from girlfriends and wifes or boyfriends and husbands . Thank you. I doubt very much if anyone else has. We know a couple on the club scene who were lied to by a married single man. The wife got into his phone and fab account where she got access to nude face pics of the couple and their home address. In her hurt and devastation her virtol was aimed mainly at the (innocent and also lied to) couple not her scum hubby. She stalked social media telling the poor couples family members that the couple fucked her husband behind her back, she put nude pictures of the couple on the cars in the street. In the end the police became involded to put a stop to the damage. It took the couple 2 years before they were able to tentatively attend a club again. We know a lot of swingers socially and this has happened to a few with various degrees of issues from just a nasty phone call from the hurt cheated on spouse to the damaging example above. All it takes is a less tech savvy guy cheating via fab and a wife who knows something is up managing to get into his phone and fab account for a shitstorm to explode. Putting the moral reasons to one side why the hell would any sensible couple take any risk meeting married men here to cheat when they are plenty of genuinely single guys and even guys playing with permission (which can be confirmed with the partner) to pick from? Why take the risk? KJ Do you know this couple personally and heard it first hand? When was this, there should be media reports on it? Obviously the upset wife broke several Laws and should have been severely punished. Yes we know them well personally and they are well known and respected on the club scene and organise numerous club events. They got a restraining order against the women issued. The police had words with her and the couple decided against pushing to press charges to avoid appearing in court. After the police intervention and restraining order they wife never contacted or bothered the couple again. Regarding your comments about been in the media obviously the don't report every random restraining order that happens and I think many couples whom are victims of the situation would be desperate to avoid their swinging life exposed in the court and the media. As the poor couple above rightly highlighted. KJ Thank you for that. I do understand the media comment. Whilst we are all very happy with other swingers, even close vanilla friends would have problems with our lifestyle. " You say this Op yet you appear to disbelieve others and ask for media proof when they state they have had issues with cheating partners. The courts are full of divorce cases where adultery is cited, it is hardly a big step to imagine a cheating partner could have consequences on a Fab partnership. Are you researching a book or trying to offset your own experiences as a partner in an open marriage? | |||
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"Op how many things do you do in life because you do not want the alternative to happen? Wearing a seatbelt but never had an accident does not mean it is a bad idea. "Very true! We also don’t want someone to be hurting due to something we’ve done. | |||
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"Op how many things do you do in life because you do not want the alternative to happen? Wearing a seatbelt but never had an accident does not mean it is a bad idea.
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We also don’t want someone to be hurting due to something we’ve done. "totally agree with this my ex husband cheated I wouldn’t want another woman to feel the way I did by something I’d done. I was talking to a guy on kik that I met on here (told me he was single) we swapped a few photos but didn’t meet, week later I got a message on Facebook off his g/f luckily she wasn’t mad with me just him | |||
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"We get messed about by single Men so much. That we can't even be bothered to arrange meets with them anymore ( guess we might try again in the future ) think we've got a success rate of about 25% of them turning up. As for meeting a single guy who is cheating .Sounds like they're laying foundations for their excuses when they don't turn up before we've even met them. So why bother with them. To your question ,no we've not had any trouble from girlfriends and wifes or boyfriends and husbands . Thank you. I doubt very much if anyone else has. We know a couple on the club scene who were lied to by a married single man. The wife got into his phone and fab account where she got access to nude face pics of the couple and their home address. In her hurt and devastation her virtol was aimed mainly at the (innocent and also lied to) couple not her scum hubby. She stalked social media telling the poor couples family members that the couple fucked her husband behind her back, she put nude pictures of the couple on the cars in the street. In the end the police became involded to put a stop to the damage. It took the couple 2 years before they were able to tentatively attend a club again. We know a lot of swingers socially and this has happened to a few with various degrees of issues from just a nasty phone call from the hurt cheated on spouse to the damaging example above. All it takes is a less tech savvy guy cheating via fab and a wife who knows something is up managing to get into his phone and fab account for a shitstorm to explode. Putting the moral reasons to one side why the hell would any sensible couple take any risk meeting married men here to cheat when they are plenty of genuinely single guys and even guys playing with permission (which can be confirmed with the partner) to pick from? Why take the risk? KJ Do you know this couple personally and heard it first hand? When was this, there should be media reports on it? Obviously the upset wife broke several Laws and should have been severely punished. Yes we know them well personally and they are well known and respected on the club scene and organise numerous club events. They got a restraining order against the women issued. The police had words with her and the couple decided against pushing to press charges to avoid appearing in court. After the police intervention and restraining order they wife never contacted or bothered the couple again. Regarding your comments about been in the media obviously the don't report every random restraining order that happens and I think many couples whom are victims of the situation would be desperate to avoid their swinging life exposed in the court and the media. As the poor couple above rightly highlighted. KJ Thank you for that. I do understand the media comment. Whilst we are all very happy with other swingers, even close vanilla friends would have problems with our lifestyle. You say this Op yet you appear to disbelieve others and ask for media proof when they state they have had issues with cheating partners. The courts are full of divorce cases where adultery is cited, it is hardly a big step to imagine a cheating partner could have consequences on a Fab partnership. Are you researching a book or trying to offset your own experiences as a partner in an open marriage? " Some good questions for the OP as I've thought the same and will be interested in his response. OP now there's a wide range of posters confirming that this happens have you changed your stance from this doesn't happen when it clearly does and more often than people realize sadly. KJ | |||
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"We get messed about by single Men so much. That we can't even be bothered to arrange meets with them anymore ( guess we might try again in the future ) think we've got a success rate of about 25% of them turning up. As for meeting a single guy who is cheating .Sounds like they're laying foundations for their excuses when they don't turn up before we've even met them. So why bother with them. To your question ,no we've not had any trouble from girlfriends and wifes or boyfriends and husbands . Thank you. I doubt very much if anyone else has. We know a couple on the club scene who were lied to by a married single man. The wife got into his phone and fab account where she got access to nude face pics of the couple and their home address. In her hurt and devastation her virtol was aimed mainly at the (innocent and also lied to) couple not her scum hubby. She stalked social media telling the poor couples family members that the couple fucked her husband behind her back, she put nude pictures of the couple on the cars in the street. In the end the police became involded to put a stop to the damage. It took the couple 2 years before they were able to tentatively attend a club again. We know a lot of swingers socially and this has happened to a few with various degrees of issues from just a nasty phone call from the hurt cheated on spouse to the damaging example above. All it takes is a less tech savvy guy cheating via fab and a wife who knows something is up managing to get into his phone and fab account for a shitstorm to explode. Putting the moral reasons to one side why the hell would any sensible couple take any risk meeting married men here to cheat when they are plenty of genuinely single guys and even guys playing with permission (which can be confirmed with the partner) to pick from? Why take the risk? KJ Do you know this couple personally and heard it first hand? When was this, there should be media reports on it? Obviously the upset wife broke several Laws and should have been severely punished. Yes we know them well personally and they are well known and respected on the club scene and organise numerous club events. They got a restraining order against the women issued. The police had words with her and the couple decided against pushing to press charges to avoid appearing in court. After the police intervention and restraining order they wife never contacted or bothered the couple again. Regarding your comments about been in the media obviously the don't report every random restraining order that happens and I think many couples whom are victims of the situation would be desperate to avoid their swinging life exposed in the court and the media. As the poor couple above rightly highlighted. KJ Thank you for that. I do understand the media comment. Whilst we are all very happy with other swingers, even close vanilla friends would have problems with our lifestyle. You say this Op yet you appear to disbelieve others and ask for media proof when they state they have had issues with cheating partners. The courts are full of divorce cases where adultery is cited, it is hardly a big step to imagine a cheating partner could have consequences on a Fab partnership. Are you researching a book or trying to offset your own experiences as a partner in an open marriage? " The original question asked for "personal" experiences. As the responder spoke of someone down the club I was only seeking clarification. I am not researching for a book. | |||
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"Thank to all those who have posted their personal experiences. It would appear that there has been an increase in wronged husbands and wives seeking out the other party. " No, it's always been happening xx | |||
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"Thank to all those who have posted their personal experiences. It would appear that there has been an increase in wronged husbands and wives seeking out the other party. No, it's always been happening xx" Exactly. Mine all happened a few years ago now when I probably wasn't so savvy about the warning signs | |||
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"We get messed about by single Men so much. That we can't even be bothered to arrange meets with them anymore ( guess we might try again in the future ) think we've got a success rate of about 25% of them turning up. As for meeting a single guy who is cheating .Sounds like they're laying foundations for their excuses when they don't turn up before we've even met them. So why bother with them. To your question ,no we've not had any trouble from girlfriends and wifes or boyfriends and husbands . Thank you. I doubt very much if anyone else has. We know a couple on the club scene who were lied to by a married single man. The wife got into his phone and fab account where she got access to nude face pics of the couple and their home address. In her hurt and devastation her virtol was aimed mainly at the (innocent and also lied to) couple not her scum hubby. She stalked social media telling the poor couples family members that the couple fucked her husband behind her back, she put nude pictures of the couple on the cars in the street. In the end the police became involded to put a stop to the damage. It took the couple 2 years before they were able to tentatively attend a club again. We know a lot of swingers socially and this has happened to a few with various degrees of issues from just a nasty phone call from the hurt cheated on spouse to the damaging example above. All it takes is a less tech savvy guy cheating via fab and a wife who knows something is up managing to get into his phone and fab account for a shitstorm to explode. Putting the moral reasons to one side why the hell would any sensible couple take any risk meeting married men here to cheat when they are plenty of genuinely single guys and even guys playing with permission (which can be confirmed with the partner) to pick from? Why take the risk? KJ Do you know this couple personally and heard it first hand? When was this, there should be media reports on it? Obviously the upset wife broke several Laws and should have been severely punished. Yes we know them well personally and they are well known and respected on the club scene and organise numerous club events. They got a restraining order against the women issued. The police had words with her and the couple decided against pushing to press charges to avoid appearing in court. After the police intervention and restraining order they wife never contacted or bothered the couple again. Regarding your comments about been in the media obviously the don't report every random restraining order that happens and I think many couples whom are victims of the situation would be desperate to avoid their swinging life exposed in the court and the media. As the poor couple above rightly highlighted. KJ Thank you for that. I do understand the media comment. Whilst we are all very happy with other swingers, even close vanilla friends would have problems with our lifestyle. You say this Op yet you appear to disbelieve others and ask for media proof when they state they have had issues with cheating partners. The courts are full of divorce cases where adultery is cited, it is hardly a big step to imagine a cheating partner could have consequences on a Fab partnership. Are you researching a book or trying to offset your own experiences as a partner in an open marriage? " I was just thinking the same thing, especially after the original comment about starting a similar thread a few years ago He's probably a journalist himself hoping someone will give him an interesting article | |||
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"Thank to all those who have posted their personal experiences. It would appear that there has been an increase in wronged husbands and wives seeking out the other party. No, it's always been happening xx Exactly. Mine all happened a few years ago now when I probably wasn't so savvy about the warning signs" My husband experience was a good 5 or 6 years ago now, so yeah OP, not a new experience. | |||
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"We get messed about by single Men so much. That we can't even be bothered to arrange meets with them anymore ( guess we might try again in the future ) think we've got a success rate of about 25% of them turning up. As for meeting a single guy who is cheating .Sounds like they're laying foundations for their excuses when they don't turn up before we've even met them. So why bother with them. To your question ,no we've not had any trouble from girlfriends and wifes or boyfriends and husbands . Thank you. I doubt very much if anyone else has. We know a couple on the club scene who were lied to by a married single man. The wife got into his phone and fab account where she got access to nude face pics of the couple and their home address. In her hurt and devastation her virtol was aimed mainly at the (innocent and also lied to) couple not her scum hubby. She stalked social media telling the poor couples family members that the couple fucked her husband behind her back, she put nude pictures of the couple on the cars in the street. In the end the police became involded to put a stop to the damage. It took the couple 2 years before they were able to tentatively attend a club again. We know a lot of swingers socially and this has happened to a few with various degrees of issues from just a nasty phone call from the hurt cheated on spouse to the damaging example above. All it takes is a less tech savvy guy cheating via fab and a wife who knows something is up managing to get into his phone and fab account for a shitstorm to explode. Putting the moral reasons to one side why the hell would any sensible couple take any risk meeting married men here to cheat when they are plenty of genuinely single guys and even guys playing with permission (which can be confirmed with the partner) to pick from? Why take the risk? KJ Do you know this couple personally and heard it first hand? When was this, there should be media reports on it? Obviously the upset wife broke several Laws and should have been severely punished. Yes we know them well personally and they are well known and respected on the club scene and organise numerous club events. They got a restraining order against the women issued. The police had words with her and the couple decided against pushing to press charges to avoid appearing in court. After the police intervention and restraining order they wife never contacted or bothered the couple again. Regarding your comments about been in the media obviously the don't report every random restraining order that happens and I think many couples whom are victims of the situation would be desperate to avoid their swinging life exposed in the court and the media. As the poor couple above rightly highlighted. KJ Thank you for that. I do understand the media comment. Whilst we are all very happy with other swingers, even close vanilla friends would have problems with our lifestyle. You say this Op yet you appear to disbelieve others and ask for media proof when they state they have had issues with cheating partners. The courts are full of divorce cases where adultery is cited, it is hardly a big step to imagine a cheating partner could have consequences on a Fab partnership. Are you researching a book or trying to offset your own experiences as a partner in an open marriage? I was just thinking the same thing, especially after the original comment about starting a similar thread a few years ago He's probably a journalist himself hoping someone will give him an interesting article " I am not a journalist. This is nothing to do with my personal situation. Please do not start conspiracy theories. | |||
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"I think some folks pretend that they're their other half to extricate themselves from something they no longer want to be involved in "Oooh plot twist!! Maybe …  | |||
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"We get messed about by single Men so much. That we can't even be bothered to arrange meets with them anymore ( guess we might try again in the future ) think we've got a success rate of about 25% of them turning up. As for meeting a single guy who is cheating .Sounds like they're laying foundations for their excuses when they don't turn up before we've even met them. So why bother with them. To your question ,no we've not had any trouble from girlfriends and wifes or boyfriends and husbands . Thank you. I doubt very much if anyone else has. We know a couple on the club scene who were lied to by a married single man. The wife got into his phone and fab account where she got access to nude face pics of the couple and their home address. In her hurt and devastation her virtol was aimed mainly at the (innocent and also lied to) couple not her scum hubby. She stalked social media telling the poor couples family members that the couple fucked her husband behind her back, she put nude pictures of the couple on the cars in the street. In the end the police became involded to put a stop to the damage. It took the couple 2 years before they were able to tentatively attend a club again. We know a lot of swingers socially and this has happened to a few with various degrees of issues from just a nasty phone call from the hurt cheated on spouse to the damaging example above. All it takes is a less tech savvy guy cheating via fab and a wife who knows something is up managing to get into his phone and fab account for a shitstorm to explode. Putting the moral reasons to one side why the hell would any sensible couple take any risk meeting married men here to cheat when they are plenty of genuinely single guys and even guys playing with permission (which can be confirmed with the partner) to pick from? Why take the risk? KJ" A salutary tale if ever I heard one? | |||
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"Thank to all those who have posted their personal experiences. It would appear that there has been an increase in wronged husbands and wives seeking out the other party. " The wronguns are on the increase so it seems? | |||
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"Thank to all those who have posted their personal experiences. It would appear that there has been an increase in wronged husbands and wives seeking out the other party. The wronguns are on the increase so it seems?" No. That's the OP's take on it. | |||
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"Thank to all those who have posted their personal experiences. It would appear that there has been an increase in wronged husbands and wives seeking out the other party. The wronguns are on the increase so it seems? No. That's the OP's take on it. " Irony sometimes falls on stony grounds | |||
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"I think some folks pretend that they're their other half to extricate themselves from something they no longer want to be involved in "I am not sure what you mean?  | |||
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"I used to train dogs to do many different disciplines and my phone number was widely available in connection with this. One night during class my phone rang and there was a woman asking for me by name. She was utterly convinced I'd been boffing her boyfriend and she was not happy at all. Wouldn't have it that I'd no clue who she was talking about either " That sounds bad. But at least you could show her he was not going with you. | |||
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"I think some folks pretend that they're their other half to extricate themselves from something they no longer want to be involved in
I am not sure what you mean? "OMG! I just worked that out. I get it now. (Note to self - Must get out more)   | |||
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"Its always a good idea not to give out phone numbers or addressees. Use something like Kik or telegram, and then meet somewhere neutral like a hotel, club, car, outside etc. Xx" This. Then it avoids the risk of any drama landing at your doorstep. | |||
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"Fuck me was that last one written in English?  "No need to be like that bro. | |||
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"Op how many things do you do in life because you do not want the alternative to happen? Wearing a seatbelt but never had an accident does not mean it is a bad idea. "Amazing quote | |||
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"...Obviously the names and places in the above sorry tale have been changed to protect the innocent, mainly me and any reference to other Fab funsters is entirely coincidental. Some may say I have embellished the prose and you may have a point but I am sure seasoned fab funsters will get the gist! " Lesson learned. Hob Nobs?! When exes come knocking it's time to break out the emergency Jaffa Cakes. | |||
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"...Obviously the names and places in the above sorry tale have been changed to protect the innocent, mainly me and any reference to other Fab funsters is entirely coincidental. Some may say I have embellished the prose and you may have a point but I am sure seasoned fab funsters will get the gist! Lesson learned. Hob Nobs?! When exes come knocking it's time to break out the emergency Jaffa Cakes. "Jaffa cakes are for the more extreme situations I have to say. | |||
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"Yes I have been messaged by the wife from his phone, which was a bit disconcerting as he'd told me that he was single and lived alone etc. " The lesson learned? All fab men speak with a forked tongue or maybe it’s just all men? | |||
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"Yes I have been messaged by the wife from his phone, which was a bit disconcerting as he'd told me that he was single and lived alone etc. The lesson learned? All fab men speak with a forked tongue or maybe it’s just all men? " Does that include you? | |||
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"Yes I have been messaged by the wife from his phone, which was a bit disconcerting as he'd told me that he was single and lived alone etc. " Love the profile pic  | |||
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"Yes I have been messaged by the wife from his phone, which was a bit disconcerting as he'd told me that he was single and lived alone etc. Love the profile pic "Thank you! | |||
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"Yes I have been messaged by the wife from his phone, which was a bit disconcerting as he'd told me that he was single and lived alone etc. The lesson learned? All fab men speak with a forked tongue or maybe it’s just all men? Does that include you?" If the cap fits? | |||
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"It is not uncommon on Fab to see profiles that say they only want "Single" men because they do not want the drama of wives and girlfriends approaching them. A few years ago I asked the good folk of Fab to respond in the forum if they, personally, had ever been approached by a disgruntled wife or girlfriend. As I recall none had. Has the situation changed? Has anyone been personally aproached because they met an attached man? [Posters Note - 1. If you never meet cheaters then we take it you have never been approached. Well done you! 2. This is not about me so please don't be personal.] " Oh I have…. Actually I know of people who have…… I can tell you a horrific story of a “single” guy who sadly died coming home from a swinging party (fell asleep at the wheel… fortunately it was a one person incident) it was when I got frantic calls that I was looped in.. had he been drinking? (Nope … only coffee I saw!) did I notice any weird (nope, life and soul of the party!) It was only when the obituary came out that we found out he wasn’t single….. and then a few days after that his wife discovered the swinging website (she didn’t know) and the forums!! Needless to say it wasn’t pretty…. Anytime I tell the story it kills a thread because no one knows how to follow it…. Did it change me….. absolutely! So…. Does that count??? | |||
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"Let thee who hasn't sinned cast the 1st stone "A bit biblical? How about thou shall not covet thy neighbours wife, that should go down well on this site.........again the pun was entirely intentional! | |||
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"Let thee who hasn't sinned cast the 1st stone
A bit biblical?
How about thou shall not covet thy neighbours wife, that should go down well on this site.........again the pun was entirely intentional!" | |||
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"Am I right to understand from this thread that all those who refuse to meet married people have been on the receiving end of cheating" Not at all, married people looking for fun behind their partners back is not and never will be swinging. | |||
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They paid for her repairs and stuck to their word to never contact her again. | |||
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"I sometimes get a few slatered comments regarding some statuses I put up with regards to married people shaggin behind their partners backs n I get called all sorts for speaking the truth Wen I state in my profile i will not meet married men but they still msg me So I had a scenario a few yrs ago Guy msg me We were chatting said he wanted to meet someonee n settle down Meet a nice girl have a laff with good sex have kids n N who knows mayb a relationship So he came round the following evening He turned up half passed Stunk of was half round his nose So we had a nice chat A cuppa Then went for the kiss Was OK Then his hands started wandering So he wanted one of my speciality bj's Ok I started He couldn't get hard at all Then he went to take me from behind Took him 3 condoms to try n get it hard In the end I just cudnt b arsed So he went So he said he wud see me again later on in the week WEN HE WAS A BIT MORE SOBER he had also told me he was gonna meet another woman.an the nxt day But said he wud call her off tho So I never heard off him nxt day Them the day after I msg to see if he was gonna come round But he said he cudnt make it as he was goin out with his mates to a Concert n was gettin picked up in a minibus nxt thing I got a random watsappp off some woman In regards to me meeting her HUSBAND I HAVE ALWAYS SAID I WUDNT MEET MARRIED MEN so I msg n told her I hadn't met anyone But she then said she found MY MUMBER IN HER HUBBY FONE So I sent a right snotty msg back then blocked her I thrn left it a bit Unblocked her n told her wat happened. So I thrn put a status on saying if anybody gad a wife called her name to watch out The amount of fellas who thrn msg me saying their wife was called that wat had she dome Thrn that afternoon I got a txt msg no name Just saying it was his wife who msg me N to watch out cos she was on her way down to knock ne out n find put wat happened Bring it on She never turned up Shit bag A few days later again The wife watsappp me askin wat happened I told her everything turns out she found my number in his fone Asked him whose it was He just said it was someone who he met FOR A COFFEE Bit I told her everything wat happened Told her he wad a shit shagger I called him a limp dick A lying shit But thrn I told her he did meet someone else the next day I said think she needs to get him to confirm what he was playing at before acccus8n me of anythin Tbj god I never did fook him I said he was a luin dhit n wat was she doin with So.eone like him Thrn left it A few days later she msg me back Believed my story apologised to me Turned out he had gone rhe concert with her thevwife NOT HIS MATES "
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