FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone think it's wrong to get random friends request constantly

By *ifefuncpl OP Couple
over a year ago

cupar

Why is it when you post a new photo or video you get constant friends requests ? When you say in your profile your not looking for guys and they think their so special your going to change your mind and travel 100s of miles because they think their going to change your life by meeting them lol some don't even message just send random friends requests it gets so frustrating!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it when you post a new photo or video you get constant friends requests ? When you say in your profile your not looking for guys and they think their so special your going to change your mind and travel 100s of miles because they think their going to change your life by meeting them lol some don't even message just send random friends requests it gets so frustrating!!

I must say what a pair you have I can see why they always trying lol

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Instant delete to random friends requests and winks

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I don't look at winks or friend requests, if somebody I know in personal messages and wants to add me as a friend I will add them, apart from that I don't even look at the friend requests. I know they are just going to be random people and I don't really even see the point of them trying to friend me as I don't have any private pictures.

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By *BW TV JadaTV/TS
over a year ago

North West

I just delete them. Winks are acceptable but a friend request before a message or even a wink is just pointless.

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By *rivextrMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you don’t want it, ignore it, delete it…

Don’t get why it should be a bother. Have fun, enjoy the attention…

Ps a friend request from me just because

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

It's just how it is but I get it gay men try an add me all the time then get mad when I don't accept

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By *rivextrMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"It's just how it is but I get it gay men try an add me all the time then get mad when I don't accept

Story of my life…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our understanding of the friend request without a message is:

“Dear couple, having now seen all of your public pics I’d now like to wank over your friend only ones”

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I wouldn't mind getting a few now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people randomly send a friend request without messaging first I just block them. Its quite obvious that they are rude and/or picture collectors!

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By *ayscotMan
over a year ago

Central

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

But you have guys blocked on filters so how can they contact you?

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By *rivextrMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Surely you can still send friend requests?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's very annoying. I always delete them xx

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By *anPsurreycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Delete them from any one we haven't spoken with straight away.

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

We tend to wait until they are off line, accept the request and have a cheeky look before unfriending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t even look at them. Which mostly works, except when someone you want to be friends with sends a request

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By *ang Average guyMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

I don't mind at all as I always have the option to delete.

Same with winks, I can always delete.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We tend to wait until they are off line, accept the request and have a cheeky look before unfriending "

Ha ha

Our new strategy.

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

If they don’t have the manners to introduce themselves we ignore

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By *nchantedRoseWoman
over a year ago

cardiff

I think alot of people get random trying to add as friends... I just look at them and ignore them, means they can't send another request

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

The random ones without messaging are people just wanting to see your friends only stash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually just block them unless they got nice boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get some occasionally too and don’t even have any pics. Think some guys just use it like a wink to show interest but clearly it doesn’t work and just gets them sat on the naughty step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instant delete to random friends requests and winks "

Don’t delete them. If you delete them then they can send again. Just leave them there x

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By *ifefuncpl OP Couple
over a year ago

cupar

Correct and private for a reason lol

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It is annoying, I've had like 3 this morning. It's even more irritating when they have no friend pics of their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Agree - very weird, but not surprising.

If (on the rare occasion) it happens to me I assume its a man masquerading as a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely look at friend requests or winks. Definitely don't let it bother me!

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

For a couple who does not want random picture collectors to be asking to be friended you have some very enticing pictures and videos in public.

They shouldn't do it but it is normal in Fab so I guess you will have to put up with it.

PS Are you the only swingers i Cupar?

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By *ifefuncpl OP Couple
over a year ago

cupar

"For a couple who does not want random picture collectors to be asking to be friended you have some very enticing pictures and videos in public.

They shouldn't do it but it is normal in Fab so I guess you will have to put up with it.

PS Are you the only swingers i Cupar?

No we are not there seems to be a fair few in cupar and surrounding areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you upload a pic, a lot of the people who view I won't read your profile.

Just ignore the requests.

Is it rude? Perhaps, but really they are requesting on the off chance they will get to see more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who view it*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get few in a day think some wankers bit noise trying to watch my vidoes whats in their lol

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"When you upload a pic, a lot of the people who view I won't read your profile.

Just ignore the requests.

Is it rude? Perhaps, but really they are requesting on the off chance they will get to see more. "

Exactly this

They are people who want to view your photos only .

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By *ampire69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham West Midlands

simple answer press delete or ignore problem solved gone away

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

"We tend to wait until they are off line, accept the request and have a cheeky look before unfriending "

We do this as well. For the repeat offenders who just want access to our friends only album, we fab a few of their private pics before deleting..

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Random friends requests = instant delete

The clue is in the header tab "friends"

So I won't friend until then

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Random friends requests = instant delete

The clue is in the header tab "friends"

So I won't friend until then

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By *ewnameCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

YIP ignorant, show some respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually accept and have a look at friends only stuff when they're offline, occasionally they stay as friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just delete them

Mrs.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

it's coz they wanna see your friends only photos too I guess

I get loads of FRs from men but it clearly says I am looking for women

either they don't read the profile or they think they are something special enough to make us change our minds.

Either way, block and delete!!!

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By *cenario-xxxMan
over a year ago

Salford

What's a friend request?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Thankfully no longer receive

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Pretty normal on fab.

You can reduce it with the message filters but even then, still happens.

All you can do is ignore them or block the account if they keep spamming them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t look at friend requests. This is why my friends list is lying at precisely zero

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

I’m not sure I’d say it’s wrong, but I do find it a little odd! We constantly get friend requests from couples who clearly haven’t read our profile, and are not looking for the same thing as us! But heh, you never know, one day maybe there will be a match

Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the people that say they don't want guys or girls messaging them. Why don't you take it as a compliment.

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

"To the people that say they don't want guys or girls messaging them. Why don't you take it as a compliment. "

because they dont want it, your first sentance told you the answer

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

when i was on here as a couple, the amount of messages,winks, friend requests from people our profile was clear we dont want to meet, was unreal. now im a single male i remember that and have taken heed, if i send a message and it doesnt get a reply then fine i move on

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

I don’t see the problem just don’t add if you don’t want to

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Not a problem. we just dont accept

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I always used to just bulk delete friends requests & winks but since the new year and using the forums more I have started to look at friend request & winks once a day & im shocked that at least a third of my daily friend requests are from couples (again like you my profile says not interested in couples & mostly aren't even local) I just presume they are being nosey & still delete

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Most of the friends requests I used to get were from hotpic wannabes building their fabbase. Like every unsolicited request they're still sitting there untouched so they can't send another one.

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