FabSwingers.com forum: What to expect (first time going to a club)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've never been to a swinger club or social place like these places before I'm guessing its a bit like a stripclub sort of vibe barring no tits and pussy out and cocks everywhere. I'm guessing its like a big social gathering but what should I expect?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with no expectations other than to chat to like minded people and if something happens it's a bonus. Be respectful to others and remember no means no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Go with no expectations other than to chat to like minded people and if something happens it's a bonus. Be respectful to others and remember no means no.

No means no like I'm some kind of rapist LOOL I have respect for women. i ain't mason greenwood

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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

"Go with no expectations other than to chat to like minded people and if something happens it's a bonus. Be respectful to others and remember no means no.

No means no like I'm some kind of rapist LOOL I have respect for women. i ain't mason greenwood"

Why what’s he done or more importantly what’s he been accused of doing??

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Go with no expectations other than to chat to like minded people and if something happens it's a bonus. Be respectful to others and remember no means no.

No means no like I'm some kind of rapist LOOL I have respect for women. i ain't mason greenwood"

That's a bit of a stupid comment, he was just offering you some advice. Believe it or not some Men think it's OK to touch without permission.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Go with no expectations other than to chat to like minded people and if something happens it's a bonus. Be respectful to others and remember no means no.

No means no like I'm some kind of rapist LOOL I have respect for women. i ain't mason greenwood

That's a bit of a stupid comment, he was just offering you some advice. Believe it or not some Men think it's OK to touch without permission. "

Well not me because I ain't a fucking cretin or weirdo. I'm super respectful when it comes to boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go with no expectations other than to chat to like minded people and if something happens it's a bonus. Be respectful to others and remember no means no.

No means no like I'm some kind of rapist LOOL I have respect for women. i ain't mason greenwood

That's a bit of a stupid comment, he was just offering you some advice. Believe it or not some Men think it's OK to touch without permission. "

Thank you! I was just offering advice, I’ve seen it happen in clubs unfortunately people not understanding boundaries.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I've never been to a swinger club or social place like these places before I'm guessing its a bit like a stripclub sort of vibe barring no tits and pussy out and cocks everywhere. I'm guessing its like a big social gathering but what should I expect?????"

Read the rules, make sure you know any dress code/dress down policy.

Ask the staff cor a tour and let them know you are new to their venue. See if they will give tou a veri.

You may see some fucking, you may not.

Don’t touch anyone or anyones toys without asking.

Don’t get d*unk and be a dick.

Be polite, and just try to talk to people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Go with no expectations other than to chat to like minded people and if something happens it's a bonus. Be respectful to others and remember no means no.

No means no like I'm some kind of rapist LOOL I have respect for women. i ain't mason greenwood

That's a bit of a stupid comment, he was just offering you some advice. Believe it or not some Men think it's OK to touch without permission.

Thank you! I was just offering advice, I’ve seen it happen in clubs unfortunately people not understanding boundaries."

I know you've given good advice in previous threads but not knowing my boundaries is definitely not something like me I know when I can touch and when I shouldn't and same goes for talking to someone I can read vibes and know when to make my moves

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Read the rules, make sure you know any dress code/dress down policy.

Ask the staff cor a tour and let them know you are new to their venue. See if they will give tou a veri.

You may see some fucking, you may not.

Don’t touch anyone or anyones toys without asking.

Don’t get d*unk and be a dick.

Be polite, and just try to talk to people."

hang on people might be fucking lol??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go with no expectations other than to chat to like minded people and if something happens it's a bonus. Be respectful to others and remember no means no.

No means no like I'm some kind of rapist LOOL I have respect for women. i ain't mason greenwood

That's a bit of a stupid comment, he was just offering you some advice. Believe it or not some Men think it's OK to touch without permission.

Thank you! I was just offering advice, I’ve seen it happen in clubs unfortunately people not understanding boundaries.

You’d be amazed how many men don’t understand that though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go with no expectations other than to chat to like minded people and if something happens it's a bonus. Be respectful to others and remember no means no.

No means no like I'm some kind of rapist LOOL I have respect for women. i ain't mason greenwood

That's a bit of a stupid comment, he was just offering you some advice. Believe it or not some Men think it's OK to touch without permission.

Thank you! I was just offering advice, I’ve seen it happen in clubs unfortunately people not understanding boundaries.

Well that’s brilliant then

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It's a great experience, you get to see scantily clad people, naked people and people having sex. Every night is different and you never know how it's going to go. As said, don't go with any expectations. Like with anything, people get more experienced in clubs and learn etiquette and increase their chances of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first club night was at Chams. It took me a long time to pluck the courage up. I was going to go for ages and ages. Then one day I just felt like I could do it, and off I went before I could change my mind.

It was a Tuesday and when I got there it was explained to me that it was naked night.

‘Fuck’ I thought.

But I wasn’t backing out now, I went in, stripped off in the changing room and about I went, naked as the day I was born, towel over my shoulder.

It was liberating and the atmosphere was amazing.

I chilled in the hot tub, made some new friends and had some fun.

It was a great experience and one you can’t explain. I’ve never been able to put into words the way going to a club makes me feel. It’s like nothing else.

Just do it.

Main thing is though, be respectful, don’t be creepy and don’t expect anything. Go for the experience and a chat and to meet new people.

If you play it’s a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My first club night was at Chams. It took me a long time to pluck the courage up. I was going to go for ages and ages. Then one day I just felt like I could do it, and off I went before I could change my mind.

It was a Tuesday and when I got there it was explained to me that it was naked night.

‘Fuck’ I thought.

But I wasn’t backing out now, I went in, stripped off in the changing room and about I went, naked as the day I was born, towel over my shoulder.

It was liberating and the atmosphere was amazing.

I chilled in the hot tub, made some new friends and had some fun.

It was a great experience and one you can’t explain. I’ve never been able to put into words the way going to a club makes me feel. It’s like nothing else.

Just do it.

Main thing is though, be respectful, don’t be creepy and don’t expect anything. Go for the experience and a chat and to meet new people.

If you play it’s a bonus."

See I don't care if I get sex there or not I'm legit just going for the experience to say I've done it in my life.. I'm quite a confident guy so I'll be fine to go and check it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a Tuesday and when I got there it was explained to me that it was naked night.

‘Fuck’ I thought.

But I wasn’t backing out now, I went in, stripped off in the changing room and about I went, naked as the day I was born, towel over my shoulder.

It was liberating and the atmosphere was amazing.

I chilled in the hot tub, made some new friends and had some fun.

It was a great experience and one you can’t explain. I’ve never been able to put into words the way going to a club makes me feel. It’s like nothing else.

Just do it.

Main thing is though, be respectful, don’t be creepy and don’t expect anything. Go for the experience and a chat and to meet new people.

If you play it’s a bonus.

See I don't care if I get sex there or not I'm legit just going for the experience to say I've done it in my life.. I'm quite a confident guy so I'll be fine to go and check it out "

Then you should be fine and have a great time.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I’ve seen it happen in clubs unfortunately people not understanding boundaries."

It's only happened twice to us, in a club abroad and a swingers hotel in England. We've never had any problem with single guys in clubs over here. We've had funny moments like when they've walked past and licked their lips (oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve seen it happen in clubs unfortunately people not understanding boundaries.

Haha he must of thought you were tasty!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve seen it happen in clubs unfortunately people not understanding boundaries.

you do have a nice ass

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Read the rules, make sure you know any dress code/dress down policy.

Ask the staff cor a tour and let them know you are new to their venue. See if they will give tou a veri.

You may see some fucking, you may not.

Don’t touch anyone or anyones toys without asking.

Don’t get d*unk and be a dick.

Be polite, and just try to talk to people.

hang on people might be fucking lol??"

With your winning charm and personality, they might be but its unlikely you will be

You ask for advice, and frankly are just being a dick in your responses. Have fun on your way out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The questions is ... in dress down clubs is everyone bare foot? I've been over thinking this. Or socks, stocking and footsie galore?

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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

"The questions is ... in dress down clubs is everyone bare foot? I've been over thinking this. Or socks, stocking and footsie galore? "

We’ve been wondering the same. C.

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By *leecouple101Couple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

"The questions is ... in dress down clubs is everyone bare foot? I've been over thinking this. Or socks, stocking and footsie galore?

We’ve been wondering the same. C. "

Usually a mix of everything, a lot go barefoot especially in play areas and some have those tiny trainer socks for generally walking about. Always nice to see stocking clad ladies though. Just be careful of wet areas such as jacuzzi or hot tub being slippery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The questions is ... in dress down clubs is everyone bare foot? I've been over thinking this. Or socks, stocking and footsie galore? "

I normally rock a pair of flip flops hahah

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By *voKid21Man
over a year ago

Tiptree

I’d be worried that I’d be constantly walking around with a boner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would live to go to a club but im worried what people would think about my body put on lots of weight in lockdown xxx

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