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To say hi or not.....that is the question??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So a friend I know is actually on fab and I've been in a quandary as to message the woman in question but not sure how she would take it that I know she's on fab.

What's people's thoughts on the matter? All opinions welcome

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By *xford_geekCouple
over a year ago

Cotswolds

Online I wouldnt mind. I can either reply or just delete it and block you.

In person or public is hugely out of order

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

No I would hate that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know of at least three locals in here.

I've got an old school friend in here.

We steer clear personally as we keep our swinging life and normal life totally separate.

Depends on yous and Thier situations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Online I wouldnt mind. I can either reply or just delete it and block you.

In person or public is hugely out of order"

I definitely wouldn't do it in person I have to much respect for her plus I wouldn't want to potentially embarrass her either but I'm tempted to send her a quick message on here then she can do what she wants with that information.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I would hate that"

Fair comment

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Leave her be.

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By *xford_geekCouple
over a year ago

Cotswolds


"Online I wouldnt mind. I can either reply or just delete it and block you.

In person or public is hugely out of order

I definitely wouldn't do it in person I have to much respect for her plus I wouldn't want to potentially embarrass her either but I'm tempted to send her a quick message on here then she can do what she wants with that information. "

I'd want the person to identify themselves in any message. It is a two way street

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We know of at least three locals in here.

I've got an old school friend in here.

We steer clear personally as we keep our swinging life and normal life totally separate.

I've known her quite a while now, always fancied her but never told her but now my situation has changed. Always been a bit flirty with each other in the past but nothing more.

Depends on yous and Thier situations"

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

If her preferences are set to exclude you then Don't approach her via a different social media that's for sure... Literally had this happen to me this weekend, a "friend" who single guyed me with a polite version of wanna fuck coz I've seen you on fab...

Nope. Nope. Nope.

Worst thing is I actually thought we were mates but clearly not for him to be so disrespectful. Friendship is probably broken now. Just my personal experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If her preferences are set to exclude you then Don't approach her via a different social media that's for sure... Literally had this happen to me this weekend, a "friend" who single guyed me with a polite version of wanna fuck coz I've seen you on fab...

Nope. Nope. Nope.

Worst thing is I actually thought we were mates but clearly not for him to be so disrespectful. Friendship is probably broken now. Just my personal experience. "

No I fall within her boundaries on fab so no issues there as such but I get what your saying about the friendship going for a burton.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be okay with it as long as it stayed between us xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be okay with it as long as it stayed between us xx"

That's how I'd want it to stay. I'm not the type that would go broadcasting it from the rooftops. My life on fab is different from life in the real world.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you decide to message say who you are in the first sentence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore it, if she wanted you to know she would have told you already. Don't make it awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not . ..

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