FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies, are you really Bi?

By *aomilatte OP Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

There seems a lot of profiles say the Lady is bi-sexual or bi-curious. Are you really bi? Do you love the touch of a Woman as much if not more than a Man? Or do you just have a little fun but much prefer the touch of a Man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bi at all, however I do appreciate an attractive lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never really understood what bi curious, bi playful or bi accepting really is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not bi at all, however I do appreciate an attractive lady."

I don’t think that was the original question?

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Men were the biggest turn on for me until we joined fab, I had never thought about women in a sexual way, but going through my fab journey I like women just as much now, its the whole package, even though I still enjoy DP and DVP and everything about men its just not the same without a woman being involved. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mu first ever relationship from a 17 year old to my mid 20s was with another woman.

I have found love and sex in equal measures with either sex, so yes I am genuinely bisexual.

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

For me personally, men are top on d list ,while I admire certain women n have had encounters with some,a man will always be my first choice,R x

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I've fancied women as long as I have men, from an early teenage age I knew that I was not straight, I'm sure I was never bi-curious either. I have met a bi-curious female that was clearly pretending for her fellas enjoyment. Not a good experience

I won't meet bi-curious women now for this reason x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've met women alone and had a relationship with one xx

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By *wing AwayCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Being bi is about being predominantly interested in the opposite sex with some interest in same sex, as most bi couples are MF.

It seems women are more likely to be bi or are open about it. As men have lots of hang ups about same sex.

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Bisexuality is simply a romantic AND/OR sexual interest. What sexual activities you'd pursue or whether you'd have a relationship doesn't make you any more or less bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bisexuality is simply a romantic AND/OR sexual interest. What sexual activities you'd pursue or whether you'd have a relationship doesn't make you any more or less bi. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I live with a guy I do meet women on my own, and enjoy just as much.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I do consider myself as fully bi even though I still prefer men. Probably because it's much easier to find a man to play with than a woman. I very much enjoy how sensual sex between two women is.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Very bi, I'm actually more into women than men, Mrs x

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Yes joanne is deffo bi. She played with several women prior to me and her getting together. She knew she was bi from a young age also.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Very bi, I'm actually more into women than men, Mrs x"

Same for joanne. She is more in to fem to fem interaction than another guy. But will hsve sex with a cpls male half if we met cpls.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"I do consider myself as fully bi even though I still prefer men. Probably because it's much easier to find a man to play with than a woman. I very much enjoy how sensual sex between two women is. "

Exactly how jo explains it. Its far more sensual and gentle sex with another female.

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton

In the many years we have been on Fab a lot of so called Bi women might enjoy a lady touching them,however the thought of returning the same horrifies them.

And yes Mrs P really loves to play with the ladies as much as the men

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Being bi is about being predominantly interested in the opposite sex with some interest in same sex, as most bi couples are MF.

It seems women are more likely to be bi or are open about it. As men have lots of hang ups about same sex."

Men would get judged and treated harsher coming out as bi compared to women where it is more accepted by men and women. Far harder for man to come out as bi. Sad but true

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Yep Mrs4 is deffo Bi but prefers the term Pan sexual now and she has enjoyed playing with Females alot and on her bucket list is to have a F/F/F !

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By *wing AwayCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

It would be interesting to find out how many men and women are truly bi. It appears to be women are more so, or is it because of the social stigma attached to men being bi that they choose not to disclose it?

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By *oodvibrations68Couple
over a year ago

Lake Constance

... 3 on the kinsey scale ... never been in ff relationship though...

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

My first ever sexual experience was with a woman and I've been intrigued ever since, I love a woman's body, it's softer more gentle than a mans

That said my preference is men, purely because I love cocks (I think because I don't have one) I couldn't give cocks up

In an ideal world I'd love a female FWB so I have the best if both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy both women and men. Although I find women sexier than men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a rather strange question, it almost sounds like women need to 'rate' their bisexualness on a scale to prove they are 'really bi'

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"That's a rather strange question, it almost sounds like women need to 'rate' their bisexualness on a scale to prove they are 'really bi'

Yes, the gatekeeping of bisexuality is odd.

Let's be honest, there are undoubtedly women who say they're bisexual to please their man. That happens. On the same token, it's not a performative thing, you don't need to have a list of credentials to showcase how bi you are. On a site like this, of course there are women are bi(sexual) and hetero(romantic). There's nothing wrong with that - you don't have to be bi(romantic) to enjoy being with a woman sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Yep Mrs4 is deffo Bi but prefers the term Pan sexual now and she has enjoyed playing with Females alot and on her bucket list is to have a F/F/F !"

It's on my bucket list too! I've been in an orgy with two other women but there was far too much sausage flying about the place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's a rather strange question, it almost sounds like women need to 'rate' their bisexualness on a scale to prove they are 'really bi'

Yes, the gatekeeping of bisexuality is odd.

It is very odd and not something I'd actually come across until I joined fab.

Brilliant explanation

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

I'm bi curious as I do enjoy being another woman but still prefer men, don't think that makes a difference to being curious though

Mrs Gs

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

I (mrs) will play with another sexy lady and I enjoy it although I could never or want a relationship with them on a more personal level.

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

I'm totally bi and had a relationship with another lady before I met Dan and love the touch of a woman as much as I do men xxx

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

"There seems a lot of profiles say the Lady is bi-sexual or bi-curious. Are you really bi? Do you love the touch of a Woman as much if not more than a Man? Or do you just have a little fun but much prefer the touch of a Man?"

I prefer the touch of a women we know what turns us on and when you got an understanding boy friend it makes it better.

He come to mine and I Ave a lady with me he stays in spare room.how many men on here round do thst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am playfully bi in a sexual situation but do rather the men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started a thread in simlar lines the other day about that we like to play with ladies but i dont give oral.

I love the feel of a lady kissing and playing and touching with each other it feels so different to a guy, i LOVE boobs and the feel of another ladies bits but im affraid i dont go down on a lady and the ladies we have played with knew this before we played.

Hence i class myself a bi curious and never bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would say I'm fully Bi - I enjoy playing with both men & women. I do find women more attractive.

Mrs

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

I have listed bi-curious due to the fact, I wouldn’t be in a relationship with another F but I do enjoy playing, feel of another women!

So if asked, I say bi-play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs is not bi ,but don't mind but of touching and do not wish to pursue it further for sure , prefer a man than a woman .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have listed bi-curious due to the fact, I wouldn’t be in a relationship with another F but I do enjoy playing, feel of another women!

So if asked, I say bi-play

Labels. Cables and fables is that what recreational sex is all about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mrs is not bi ,but don't mind but of touching and do not wish to pursue it further for sure , prefer a man than a woman ."

Is that the chap speaking on behalf of the chapess?

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I would consider myself as a bisexual.

I am looking for a female play friend.

I wouldn't rule out a relationship with a female either.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I had always fantasised about other women from my teenage years when I developed a crush on Suzi Quatro but was in my early 30s before my first experience with a woman. As I have got older I have enjoyed it more to the stage now where I enjoy a woman as much as a man. I'm not sure but maybe my evolution has been down to it being more socially acceptable now whereas back then it was quite taboo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mrs is not bi ,but don't mind but of touching and do not wish to pursue it further for sure , prefer a man than a woman .

Is that the chap speaking on behalf of the chapess?"

No, the chap is conveying on behalf of the chapess, for other chaos to know who enjoy watching two chapess play

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Love playing with a female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Next question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself bi curious, I've always been attracted to women however haven't had the experience fully, yes in a mff and throughly enjoyed it, but in general I've never dated or met a woman alone.

Mrs

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

Yes iv been playing with women as long as iv been playing with men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love both sexes,equally..

im just too greedy I suppose.

But as I get older I notice I start craving more lady's touch.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"I (mrs) will play with another sexy lady and I enjoy it although I could never or want a relationship with them on a more personal level. "

That is jo also. She loves sex with women. But only a relationship with a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 % bisexual here. Have had relationships with women in the past as well.

Smoke

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By *torm8913Woman
over a year ago

Cape Coral

I’m actually a lesbian and I will tolerate being with a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, bisexual here....and had fun with ladies long before joining FAB.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"I enjoy both women and men. Although I find women sexier than men. "

This exactly xx

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

In a full relationship I prefer men (ie my man) but while swinging I enjoy men and women equally, often both at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer men, but I enjoy being with women, and have had 1 on 1 experiences.

I’m happy with describing myself as bi, but not sure it needs to be labelled so specifically. I like what I like

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Been in relationships with both sexes…. I think that counts

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

I guess if a lady likes sexy times with another lady then she is bi. I don’t think we need to get bogged down with working out a percentage of preference. Oh I like men 96% but only like women 4% have I crossed the preference threshold to be able to accurately class myself as bi.

Bi means you like both, I like burgers and I like steak. I’d rather have steak but either way I’m not a vegetarian

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By *iss_Cali_xxCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay

I'm bi, but that term is very broad to describe possibly the widest category in the LGBTQ+ spectrum. Someone can be considered or identify as bi even if 99% of the time they are attracted to the opposite sex, the 1% still counts. Likewise, you can still be considered bi if the opposite is true, and 99% of the time find yourself attracted to the same sex. I sometimes find myself swaying in my interests, so I'll go through periods of time where I'm mostly attracted to women, and then times were I'm mostly attracted to men. A person can be bi sexually, but not bi romantically, and vice versa. There is an insane amount of bi erasure that goes on in both gay and straight communities, and a lot of misunderstanding and assumptions, things I experienced when I was growing up and in young adulthood made me not come out until I was almost 30 (except to my husband), and still now, I'm not fully 'out' persay. Like, my in laws don't know, niether do most of my extended family members. I fell in love with a man and married young and so I pass through life without really ever having to explain (though I have had people say things like, 'so you used to be bi but your straight now' as if marrying someone stops you having any kind of sexual attraction toward any one else lol). I think there is a lack of conversation about definitions to cover everyone that comes under the umbrella of bisexual, possibly because the love and hate relationship to labels, which can make understanding it and communicating difficult. Say a woman loves having sex with women, is attracted physically to women and prefers lesbian porn but has never and would never have a romantic relationship with a woman - you could ask 100 people what they'd liable her as and the answers would vary wildly.

Anyway, tangent over lol. What I came to say was, yes I'm listed as bi and I'm actually bi.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

The defintion of bi is one that seems to be open to interpretation. We dont like labels but here we are using them.

The subject of "coming out" we find strange in its self. Unless you want to play with someone sexually why would you want to devulge your sexual preferences? Who cares or why would it matter unless you are interested??

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By *andSCouple
over a year ago

Old London Town

Never knew I had any bisexual tendencies until we got into swinging. I leave bi-curious as it certainly isn't a given and when we look for and chat with a lady there is no intention for me to play with her. Mostly it just happens in the moment.

Then again, I've had my fair share of moments

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By *issLipsandhipsWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

100% bi! I love ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely bi I love the touch and to play. Do find it annoying when someone is bi curious and u get in a room and you get a peck then they are straight on your husband tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% bi. Girls are sexier than men

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Lol the Mrs is VERY bi and absolutely adores kissing, touching and oral with girls. It's a joy to watch. We've met several so called 'bi' couples, most were either forced by their partners or gave Cherry just a token bit of pathetic affection, bi my arse....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Yes.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I'm not bi, I'm Pansexaul. I do like females, but I need a cock. - fem.

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