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By *omfoolerykent OP   Man
over a year ago

dartford

You know how it goes, hello how are you, you chat everything looking good, add me as friend, ok, then silence.

Anybody would think they just added you as a friend to see your private pics and videos haha

No issues with adding new people as quite like people looking but after a little while remove them as friend.

Who only has genuine people they have met on their friends list?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Me

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By *gfbMan
over a year ago

thorne

Typical happens to me all the time

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I have guys I've met on my friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rare I'll add someone without meeting. Maybe if we have friends in common.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Only those we have met are on our friends list simple as that. Amazed how many profile stop chatting when we tell then we only accept friends invites after we have met.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Majority are those I've met before but some are also those I've chatted to for ages and have a connection with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grown adults commenting on social media friendship groups............don’t teenagers do such mundane stuff?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s about 5 people in my friends list

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By *rangesmartieWoman
over a year ago

Devon

I rarely add people.az friends unless we've met in person and I have intentions of seeing them again. I also regularly clear out my friends list if we haven't spoken in a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 on ours we have never met but have chatted to on here and other chat sites for a while and are still hoping to meet someday.

The rest we have met or played with

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We only add people after a meet and never before. X

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london


"Anybody would think they just added you as a friend to see your private pics and videos haha

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Unfortunately people do this. Usual fakers. If they have no types of verifications I don’t accept.

In terms of friends list, mixture of people I have met in real world, social or otherwise. A few randoms that soon go quiet after accepting. Guess they were expecting shagging vids….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only have people we've met before or we intend to meet.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our friends list is people we're interested in fucking, and want to keep in touch with. We don't want to have some awkward, unending conversation to keep things "warm" - we keep an eye out for meets/statuses, and put up our own when we're planning something (it's also nice to perv on each other in the mean time).

Works well for us. I guess it's frustrating for the impatient, but good things take time to come together

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Us we don't just add people for the sake of it and when you tell people you don't except them because we have not spoken or met them they get all cheeky with you but yes we think they just want to see your private pics and videos we do love it when we block them mrs m ##

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’ve had that before they just get removed though.

I only have people that I’ve met / or serious about wanting to meet now

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm time for a friend cull I think..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone on our friends list are people we've met and want to meet again or people we like from clubs no fake or online friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know how it goes, hello how are you, you chat everything looking good, add me as friend, ok, then silence.

Anybody would think they just added you as a friend to see your private pics and videos haha

No issues with adding new people as quite like people looking but after a little while remove them as friend.

Who only has genuine people they have met on their friends list?"

They have to earn to be added to my friend list,doesn't happen in one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to keep my friends list to people I have met or who I would like to meet.

It's a pet hate of mine when people send friend invites without even chatting. So obvious they just want to see my friend only photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I only have 8 friends. I've met them all and played with 5 off them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few I am very good friends with. A couple I haven't even played with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I only had people I met on my friends list, I wouldn't have any!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Everyone on my friends list is someone I have met either socially or in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just removed a few as had no contact for ages

But happy to meet & make new ones

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

If you remove a friend, does it leave a status that would indicate you have unfriended them?

Like if you view a profile you can see on the left hand side if they have mailed, winked you (or vica verca ).

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Oddly I had a bit of a cull this afternoon of people I'd not spoken to in months.

I only normally add people as friends if we've met. There are a couple of exceptions, but they're people I've spoken to in depth over a long period, not just people who hope my friends pics will be more explicit than my public ones (they aren't).

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Oddly I had a bit of a cull this afternoon of people I'd not spoken to in months.

I only normally add people as friends if we've met. There are a couple of exceptions, but they're people I've spoken to in depth over a long period, not just people who hope my friends pics will be more explicit than my public ones (they aren't)."

I made it through. Woohoo. X

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

After seeing a few people making culls I may need to check my friends list.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Oddly I had a bit of a cull this afternoon of people I'd not spoken to in months.

I only normally add people as friends if we've met. There are a couple of exceptions, but they're people I've spoken to in depth over a long period, not just people who hope my friends pics will be more explicit than my public ones (they aren't).

I made it through. Woohoo. X"

Like there was ever any doubt!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Oddly I had a bit of a cull this afternoon of people I'd not spoken to in months.

I only normally add people as friends if we've met. There are a couple of exceptions, but they're people I've spoken to in depth over a long period, not just people who hope my friends pics will be more explicit than my public ones (they aren't).

I made it through. Woohoo. X

Like there was ever any doubt! "

I know - I'm adorable.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Me for the very same reasons in the op

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Me, only have 4 on my list and 1 is my partner

I only add people I know v well or have met.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Most on my friends list I've met, others I probably won't but we chat often and some did exactly what you said, went awol and never chat.

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