FabSwingers.com forum: Is Bi becoming the new straight?

By *ettuceslug OP Couple
over a year ago

Driffield

We were chatting on a thread in the forum and we thought that there is a significant increase in bi guys and in fact is bi becoming the new straight?...agree / disagree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if there is please direct them this way because we can't find any

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By *ettuceslug OP Couple
over a year ago

Driffield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi guys in couples seem to be pretty rare still...at least down my way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's more that people are being more open and honest with their sexuality now days

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

"I think it's more that people are being more open and honest with their sexuality now days

I agree wholly with that statement, although beware those that have 2 profiles, one of each to cover all bases so to speak!!!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I do hope not......

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

I am afraid it happens hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree but i seem to find it difficult up here in Scotland to find couples who want to play with a bi guy most see bi on profile and avoid maybe i should move down south lol

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

well as a tv I am in the same boat as you hun, but all I can say is that with patience and effort you will meet loads of people who are into bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well again dont seem to be many here in Glasgow as i said maybe should spread my swinging wings and head south of border

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

has anybody ever had the courtesy to tell you why they don't want to play with a bi or bi curious guy???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No to be honest they havnt all i get is sorry your bi not interested

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By *issy NickersWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I always get asked if I am bi and I think not but I am just very sexual and like to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with allsports...as I keep on saying over and over....we should all be moving towards saying we are 'sexual'; not hetero/homo/bi. We are sexual beings who all have different preferences. The labels carry too much baggage these days.

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

"I agree with allsports...as I keep on saying over and over....we should all be moving towards saying we are 'sexual'; not hetero/homo/bi. We are sexual beings who all have different preferences. The labels carry too much baggage these days. "

blimey I wish more people thought like you, hugzzies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why dont we just use the term tri sexual ie try anything sexual i am confident about my sexuallity and love being bi

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By *damandeve4funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I think it's more that people are being more open and honest with their sexuality now days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will get easier generation by generation to be open about your sexuality.

It was still 'not the done thing' in my formative years but you look at teens these days and for the masses, it is not an issue at all.

That said, ignorance is not age specific.

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By *uyuksno1Man
over a year ago

poole

we r tired of the guys that say they are bi only to find out they are not xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we r tired of the guys that say they are bi only to find out they are not xx"

that works both ways too

i have met 'bi' guys off here that physically bawk at the idea of sex with a woman !

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By *uyuksno1Man
over a year ago

poole

yes that is true only met one like that actually i wasnt offended but surley he was gay not bi

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By *edgynfliverCouple
over a year ago

Nr York

We are and love it! Although we have had our share of guys that say they are just to fuk Sue ????

The good honest ones are fantastic tho, don't give up lol xx

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By *amBiUKMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Well if there is please direct them this way because we can't find any

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hi I'm one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"has anybody ever had the courtesy to tell you why they don't want to play with a bi or bi curious guy???"

We are a very active easy to get on with couple, we have to say we are both totally straight, and the thought of playing with Bi people either male or female does not arouse us at all. Its just personal choice like any thing else, we have no problem chatting with Bi people at swing clubs we just choose not to play with any

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By *amBiUKMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Bi guys in couples seem to be pretty rare still...at least down my way."
very true it's hard to find bi couples in Plymouth

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By *amBiUKMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"we r tired of the guys that say they are bi only to find out they are not xx"
well I'm genuinely bi and not too far and I get to Dorset area a lot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are and love it! Although we have had our share of guys that say they are just to fuk Sue ????

The good honest ones are fantastic tho, don't give up lol xx"

A few of the couples I meet are the opposite. They worry I'm just going to play with the male half, or at least concentrate on him. Needless to say, I put their minds at rest on that score soon enough! Xx love being bi!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people get way too hung up on labels and should just get on with having fun.

We do not judge people for what they do or not enjoy sexually or what they have done sexually prior to say meeting us.

It is their business, not ours.

We don't care whatever label you may choose, we are more interested in whether there is a genuine connection between us and therefore would like to play.

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By *amBiUKMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"We are and love it! Although we have had our share of guys that say they are just to fuk Sue ????

The good honest ones are fantastic tho, don't give up lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No to be honest they havnt all i get is sorry your bi not interested"

I was told by a straight guy the other day he wasn't comfortable playing with me (as a 1 on 1) cos I'd had meets with bi guys.

Wish he'd mentioned it before I got dolled up and bought him a drink in a city centre pub!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No to be honest they havnt all i get is sorry your bi not interested

I was told by a straight guy the other day he wasn't comfortable playing with me (as a 1 on 1) cos I'd had meets with bi guys.

Wish he'd mentioned it before I got dolled up and bought him a drink in a city centre pub! "

well quite right too

we all know bi men are dirty buggers who will stick their cock in anyone and anything, mainly without protection and that the people who do bed them are by default, just as rotten

jeez, some people eh ?

and aren't you nice, gettin the drinks in

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

*Quietly sings: there are many colours in the homo-rainbow....*

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

A former partner of mine told me she once played with another girl. She didn't like it and never did it again.

So, is she bi?

Some here will say no, others yes. *shrugs*

All pointless labels to me.

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By *amBiUKMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"No to be honest they havnt all i get is sorry your bi not interested

I was told by a straight guy the other day he wasn't comfortable playing with me (as a 1 on 1) cos I'd had meets with bi guys.

Wish he'd mentioned it before I got dolled up and bought him a drink in a city centre pub! "
. I'm bi meet ya in the two trees xx

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

No Bi is not the new straight it is the new big black cock.

The new straight is the old TV and the new TV is in HD.

It's all bollocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A former partner of mine told me she once played with another girl. She didn't like it and never did it again.

So, is she bi?

Some here will say no, others yes. *shrugs*

All pointless labels to me. "

If she did it once then never again nope.

There's a few ladies that will try but don't like it.

t least they know their own minds where hey can say so.

It's nice to try things once.

Would love to play with a bi couple but it just hasn't worked that way.

MY husband is't bi BUT he's a never say never man.

I would never set something up.... but maybe if we were all relaxed enough you never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A former partner of mine told me she once played with another girl. She didn't like it and never did it again.

So, is she bi?

Some here will say no, others yes. *shrugs*

All pointless labels to me.

If she did it once then never again nope.

There's a few ladies that will try but don't like it.

t least they know their own minds where hey can say so.

It's nice to try things once.

Would love to play with a bi couple but it just hasn't worked that way.

MY husband is't bi BUT he's a never say never man.

I would never set something up.... but maybe if we were all relaxed enough you never know."

That's isn't bi..... finger slipped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish that Bi was much more common, but unfortunately it just isn't so...

Lots of women on here claim to be "Bi", but when it comes down to it they are nowhere near.

They might like a bit of a cuddle, or enjoy letting another woman please them, but are a long way short of getting totally involved.

Yes, some are great, and the real thing, but the "Bi" tag seems to have been greatly over-used, unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend who is early 20's.

he was quite surprised by this thread, in his recent experience at Uni he said most people were bi and less concerned with labels than older people seem to be.

His motto, if it feels good, enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were chatting on a thread in the forum and we thought that there is a significant increase in bi guys and in fact is bi becoming the new straight?...agree / disagree?"

Not sure about that, but I've heard that gangbangs are becoming the new Tupperware parties.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I would say a fair amount of peoples sexuality is influenced by their culture and current social norms. So maybe a more relaxed attitude to both gays and bi's in recent years has meant more folk are happy to experiment more and refer to themselves as bi.

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