FabSwingers.com forum: clubs or small parties?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

which do you prefer ? We have only been to clubs and yet to experience a small party so cant really comment but would be interested in your feedback,

I know that there is No guarantee of any fun at either a club or party , but i would imagine that at a party it is more likely is this the case, going on the bais that if there are only 3/4 couples all personally invited by the host the chances of having fun are much better ...what do you think ?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never been to a 'small' party, i have been to many house parties but always been more tha 3/4 couples there, personally i like house parties better than clubs, they just seem easier to talk to people than at clubs where you just gets guys roaming around, i think maybe because its someone house people tend to treat it and its guests with more respect than they do clubs where they just see the people as another customer and actually chat to you rather than following you about all night

By *ndreaJohnCouple
over a year ago

Farnborough

I think both have their strengths and it does depend on the club and the type of night you go to. Some clubs can seem a little cliquey and the clientel can be a bit "we are better than you types". Others canbe really down to earth and friendly but again results can be variable. House parties can be daunting as the rooms are all open and first timers can be a little apprehensive. Clubs you can wander around and usually there are more facilities on the other hand you can spend a whole night at a club as we have and not played or done a thing because it is quiet. House parties are more friendly in that you can tend to chat and get to know people easier as the guests are usually invited personally so most people are compatibleor know each other or at least 1 or 2 will know each other so you feel more comfortable. I like both Clubs for the facilities and house parties for the arguably more friendly atmosphere