FabSwingers.com forum: British beef!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is the first day I have been allowed to post in forums due to been a newbie just curious what everyones views are on the type of physique they go for? Men and women.

I'm a bodybuilder but that's not to everyones taste and I like my women with curves especially around le derrière

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow that must take some keeping up

As long as you can make me laugh you smell nice and we get on i dont really have a type.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Takes a lot of keeping up lol, so it's not about physical attraction for u?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i think overdeveloped muscle looks awful but recognise that i will be in the minority on that one

as a male though, you have to be careful of making a comment like that though as it can be misconstrued as envy / jealousy

that isn't the case. it is just unattractive to me

and the same goes for women with overdeveloped muscles

on the other hand tho, naturally toned is very sexy

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Takes a lot of keeping up lol, so it's not about physical attraction for u? "

To an extent i have to fancy them BUT i'm not into just one body type.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tbh it doesnt do anything for us, but im sure alot will love it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi ya!

I'm a sucker for nicely rounded deltoids big traps and big arms. But I like a sense of humour etc too, someone without a personality would quickly become unattractive to me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"personally i think overdeveloped muscle looks awful but recognise that i will be in the minority on that one

as a male though, you have to be careful of making a comment like that though as it can be misconstrued as envy / jealousy

that isn't the case. it is just unattractive to me

and the same goes for women with overdeveloped muscles

on the other hand tho, naturally toned is very sexy "

What is classed in ur eyes as "overdeveloped though"? Not something u can put a label on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi ya!

I'm a sucker for nicely rounded deltoids big traps and big arms. But I like a sense of humour etc too, someone without a personality would quickly become unattractive to me."

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi ya!

I'm a sucker for nicely rounded deltoids big traps and big arms. But I like a sense of humour etc too, someone without a personality would quickly become unattractive to me."

I can understand that as someone who comes across completely stupid immediately seems unmatractuve to me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"personally i think overdeveloped muscle looks awful but recognise that i will be in the minority on that one

as a male though, you have to be careful of making a comment like that though as it can be misconstrued as envy / jealousy

that isn't the case. it is just unattractive to me

and the same goes for women with overdeveloped muscles

on the other hand tho, naturally toned is very sexy

What is classed in ur eyes as "overdeveloped though"? Not something u can put a label on"

like the guys and girls you see in the bodybuilding competitions

it's just such an unnatural look

or the guys you see who are that big that's all you do see when they catch your eye

to me, 'nice' muscles are the ones you see on guys who maybe don't work out but work in manual jobs that involve lifting / cutting etc

they have a natural definition about them as opposed to one that you can see has been deliberately worked at

as another poster said too though, there does have to be more to a person than a physical attraction

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nteressanteMan
over a year ago

Manchester

mate, 99% of the ladies on here go for the musclebound, toned blokes whatever they may say on here, you're on to a winner.....have fun

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"personally i think overdeveloped muscle looks awful but recognise that i will be in the minority on that one

as a male though, you have to be careful of making a comment like that though as it can be misconstrued as envy / jealousy

that isn't the case. it is just unattractive

to me

and the same goes for women with overdeveloped muscles

on the other hand tho, naturally toned is very sexy

What is classed in ur eyes as "overdeveloped though"? Not something u can put a label on

like the guys and girls you see in the bodybuilding competitions

it's just such an unnatural look

or the guys you see who are that big

that's all you do see when they catch

your eye

to me, 'nice' muscles are the ones you see on guys who maybe don't work out but work in manual jobs that involve lifting / cutting etc

they have a natural definition about them as opposed to one that you can see has been deliberately worked at

as another poster said too though, there does have to be more to a person than a physical attraction

By what ur stating that means u would find people who are on the front of mens health as overdeveloped?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow what a ripped body you have there ..must have taken years to get like that.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wow what a ripped body you have there ..must have taken years to get like that.

Thankyou and yes a long time

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if they are natural built muscles or enhanced. And most men with big muscles have little willies due to the steroids they pump x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By what ur stating that means u would find people who are on the front of mens health as overdeveloped?"

depends what cover !

but on occasion, yes

my mate buys muscle / body builder mags and there is nothing attractive (to me) about the people in them

it's horses for courses tho, what one person finds attractive, another won't

if you are happy with how you look it will give you confidence and a foot in the door with many providing you can back it up with humour, intelligence and a personality

for some, the look will be enough, but do you want to be defined by who you are or how you look ? (or both, of course)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends if they are natural built muscles or enhanced. And most men with big muscles have little willies due to the steroids they pump x"

Hahahahaha your joking right? Thats actually rubbish I'm afraid lol how an earth can a penis shrink? Steroids do not give u a pump they increase protein synthesis

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends if they are natural built muscles or enhanced. And most men with big muscles have little willies due to the steroids they pump x

Hahahahaha your joking right? Thats actually rubbish I'm afraid lol how an earth can a penis shrink? Steroids do not give u a pump they increase protein synthesis"

Well in that case my eye sight must be going as have seen some shriveled up ones x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

By what ur stating that means u would find people who are on the front of mens health as overdeveloped?

depends what cover !

but on occasion, yes

my mate buys muscle / body builder mags and there is

nothing attractive (to me) about the people in them

it's horses for courses tho, what one person finds attractive, another won't

if you are happy with how you look it will give you confidence and a foot in the door with many providing you can back it up with humour, intelligence and a personality

for some, the look will be enough, but do you want to be defined by who you are or how you look ? (or both, of course)"

I just asked a question about attractiveness, I thought It was a given personality would always be chosen too so what's this about defining who I am?? Seriously mate take it down a notch

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends if they are natural built muscles or enhanced. And most men with big muscles have little willies due to the steroids they pump x

Hahahahaha your joking right? Thats actually rubbish I'm afraid lol how an earth can a penis shrink? Steroids do not give u a pump they increase protein synthesis

Well in that case my eye sight must be going as have seen some shriveled up ones x"

Maybe, just maybe they had a small penis before lol also u know the phrase shower and grower? U cnt judge till someone is erect

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uneandtomCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

[Removed by poster at 10/10/12 14:59:54]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uneandtomCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"personally i think overdeveloped muscle looks awful but recognise that i will be in the minority on that one

as a male though, you have to be careful of making a comment like that though as it can be misconstrued as envy / jealousy

that isn't the case. it is just unattractive to me

and the same goes for women with overdeveloped muscles

on the other hand tho, naturally toned is very sexy "

Your not in a minority. I like men in all shapes and sizes, as long as they have personality, but an overdeveloped body is just a turn off regardless of personality. But maybe its just me being wierd.

(it reminds me a bit of crap 70s porn fims)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone ive met who is a body builder is more in love with themselves than anyone else, so prob not going to be the best lover

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends if they are natural built muscles or enhanced. And most men with big muscles have little willies due to the steroids they pump x

Hahahahaha your joking right? Thats actually rubbish I'm afraid lol how an earth can a penis shrink? Steroids do not give u a pump they increase protein synthesis

Well in that case my eye sight must be going as have seen some shriveled up ones x"

Doesn't make your penis shrink at all! Very common misconception. It can slow sperm production though and makes spunk taste rank lol. No shrinkage though

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Someone who speaks sense lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"everyone ive met who is a body builder is more in love with themselves than anyone else, so prob not going to be the best lover"

I've never met a body builder in love with themselves... In fact most scrutinise themselves a lot... They just have to be focused which I suppose can come across as self-absorption

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Body wise prefer men to be athletic with some muscle. Have to say Mark Cavendish would have the ideal body (Miss).

In regards to British beef, well I prefer it wrapped in pâté and pastry and served as a beef Wellington

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anabolic Steroids and the Male Reproductive System

AS are derivatives of testosterone, which has strong genitotropic effects. For this reason, it will not be surprising that side effects include the reproductive system. Application of anabolic steroids leads to supra-physiological concentrations of testosterone or testosterone derivatives. Via the feed back loop, the production and release of luteinizing hormone (LH) and follicle stimulation hormone (FSH) is decreased.

Prolonged use of anabolic steroids in relatively high doses will lead to hypogonadotrophic hypogonadism, with decreased serum concentrations of LH, FSH, and testosterone.

There are strong indications that the duration, dosage, and chemical structure of the anabolic steroids are important for the serum concentrations of gonadotropins. A moderate decrease of gonadotropin secretion causes atrophy of the testes, as well as a decrease of sperm cell production. Oligo, azoospermia and an increased number of abnormal sperm cells have been reported in athletes using AS, resulting in a decreased fertility. After stopping AS use, the gonadal functions will restore within some months. There are indications, however, that it may take several months.

In bodybuilding, where usually high dosages are uses, after stopping steroid use, often choriogonadotropins are administered to stimulate testicular function. The effectiveness of this therapy is unknown.

The various studies suggest that using more than one type of anabolic steroid at the same time ("stacking") causes a stronger inhibition of the gonadal functions than using one single anabolic steroid. After abstention from anabolic steroids these changes in fertility usually reverse within some months. However, several cases of have been reported in which the situation of hypogonadism lasted for more than 12 weeks.

A well known side effect of AS in males is breast formation (gynecomastia). Gynecomastia is caused by increased levels of circulating estrogens, which are typical female sex hormones. The estrogens estradiol and estrone are formed in males by peripheral aromatization and conversion of AS. The increased levels of circulation estrogens in males stimulate breast growth. In general, gynecomastia is irreversible.

AS may affect sexual desire. Although few investigations on this issue have been published, it appears that during AS use sexual desire is increased, although the frequency of erectile dysfunction is increased. This may seem contradictory, but sexual appetite is androgen dependent, while erectile function is not. Since sexual desire and aggressiveness are increased during AS use, the risk of getting involved in sexual assault may be increased.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By what ur stating that means u would find people who are on the front of mens health as overdeveloped?

depends what cover !

but on occasion, yes

my mate buys muscle / body builder mags and there is

nothing attractive (to me) about the people in them

it's horses for courses tho, what one person finds attractive, another won't

if you are happy with how you look it will give you confidence and a foot in the door with many providing you can back it up with humour, intelligence and a personality

for some, the look will be enough, but do you want to be defined by who you are or how you look ? (or both, of course)

I just asked a question about attractiveness, I thought It was a given personality would always be chosen too so what's this about defining who I am?? Seriously mate take it down a notch "

There's no notch to be taken down tbh.

I responded to your questions as honestly as I could.

The title of the thread is 'British Beef' and I assumed (rightly or wrongly) that is how you may see yourself or wish to be seen.

You seem quite a nice bloke in your responses on here and to me (and others) that would be an equally (or more so) attractive trait than the way you look and a much better pointer of whether you would be worth meeting.

I used to have cock pics on a previous profile but took them down as they seemed to promote a similar type message along the lines of 'mmm nice cock' or 'nice cock mate'

It did annoy me because there is far more to me than having a willy, just as I'm sure there is far more to you than having muscles.

Having re-read the OP however, I can see that the actual question itself was more general, so if you feel that I have somehow made it personal towards you, then for that, I apologise.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends if they are natural built muscles or enhanced. And most men with big muscles have little willies due to the steroids they pump x

Hahahahaha your joking right? Thats actually rubbish I'm afraid lol how an earth can a penis shrink? Steroids do not give u a pump they increase protein synthesis

Well in that case my eye sight must be going as have seen some shriveled up ones x

Doesn't make your penis shrink at all! Very common misconception. It can slow sperm production though and makes spunk taste rank lol. No shrinkage though

Ahhh so we go from not little willies to rank tasting sperm...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why has this turned into a forum post where people are having digs at bodybuilders and as I'm the only one of them posting and stated that why is it acceptable to bring me down? I asked a question about looks which is relative to sex, so why talk about what u don't like when I asked what u do like??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 10/10/12 15:18:05]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would trade Dr.Google for personal experience any day.

I used to think steroids caused shrinkage and acne etc. used in the right circumstances you don't experience that.

And lordy, when hubs is on the gear I only have to bend over!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May i just turn this a little bit.

Big boi in a women what type would you go for?

Would you go for someone as well muscled as you? Or toned or just natural?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why has this turned into a forum post where people are having digs at bodybuilders and as I'm the only one of them posting and stated that why is it acceptable to bring me down? I asked a question about looks which is relative to sex, so why talk about what u don't like when I asked what u do like??"

Yeah I have just noted that error in a previous post and have apologised for it accordingly.

So to answer your question, I'm at the fat end of stocky.

What I like in men is average or stocky build, cheeky faces and masculinity.

What I like in women is curves (or as we say up here, summat to grab hold of), a good laugh, doesn't take herself too seriously and gives as good as she gets both in bed and in the banter stakes.

I prefer younger men but ladies my age or older.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums mate. It doesn't get any better either

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor thing waited a week..... now hes gone

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And another one bites the dust ......

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

[Removed by poster at 10/10/12 15:25:17]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"Poor thing waited a week..... now hes gone

"
Cracked.....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And another one bites the dust ......

Why is that funny?! Really sends the wrong message about the site altogether.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was not knocking him natural muscles great and keeping in shape and looking after ones physic great but not in to all the steroid crap.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand if someone comes on acting the big I am... But he was a nice articulate single man who asked a simple question and got attacked. Nice, real nice.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didnt do bad for his 1st post... 45!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was not knocking him natural muscles great and keeping in shape and looking after ones physic great but not in to all the steroid crap."

Who said he was on steroids?! A lot of body builders have to be drug tested before shows so are completely natural. Hubby reached 20 stone of muscle before needing a little help. Just because he's big doesn't mean he's using.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And another one bites the dust ......

Why is that funny?! Really sends the wrong message about the site altogether."

We've been attacked a few times on forums but it wouldn't make us leave. Suppose you are going to tell us it's a friendly 'community' next

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was not knocking him natural muscles great and keeping in shape and looking after ones physic great but not in to all the steroid crap.

Never said he was x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And another one bites the dust ......

Why is that funny?! Really sends the wrong message about the site altogether.

We've been attacked a few times on forums but it wouldn't make us leave. Suppose you are going to tell us it's a friendly 'community' next

I think in general it is friendly

I think some people can be less than friendly

I think it is no place for the easily offended

I think it is no place for delicate ego's

On this post, I provided MY opinion but made clear it was not a personal attack and was indeed a personal preference of mine.

Moreover, I apologised to the OP as I had not answered his original question as I did indeed misread it (as it appears others have done).

The OP chose to leave of his own volition, no one pressed the button or typed 'I UNDERSTAND' for him.

I do however wish he would have stayed round and seen if the thread straightened itself out / got back on track.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From personal experience steroids don't shrink your penis but make you go bald prematurely, also make you very horny all the time, quite embarrassing getting a raging boner in work for no reason.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From personal experience steroids don't shrink your penis but make you go bald prematurely, also make you very horny all the time, quite embarrassing getting a raging boner in work for no reason."

No need for Viagra then

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And another one bites the dust ......

Why is that funny?! Really sends the wrong message about the site altogether.

We've been attacked a few times on forums but it wouldn't make us leave. Suppose you are going to tell us it's a friendly 'community' next

I think in general it is friendly

I think some people can be less than friendly

I think it is no place for the easily offended

I think it is no place for delicate ego's

On this post, I provided MY opinion but made clear it was not a personal attack and was indeed a personal preference of mine.

Moreover, I apologised to the OP as I had not answered his original question as I did indeed misread it (as it appears others have done).

The OP chose to leave of his own volition, no one pressed the button or typed 'I UNDERSTAND' for him.

I do however wish he would have stayed round and seen if the thread straightened itself out / got back on track."

he can view the forums online(without being a member)...in fact was it a man??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a man, he still had his socks on in most of the photos

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"personally i think overdeveloped muscle looks awful but recognise that i will be in the minority on that one

as a male though, you have to be careful of making a comment like that though as it can be misconstrued as envy / jealousy

that isn't the case. it is just unattractive to me

and the same goes for women with overdeveloped muscles

on the other hand tho, naturally toned is very sexy "

who cares what a guy thinks about it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

There goes another person who might have made a positive contribution to this forum.

Wolf

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

is this the forum version of "roid rage"??

just wonderin....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

worry about what ur potential meets think about ur physique not what a bunch of random forumers do

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread