FabSwingers.com forum: How do you know if a couple are real?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Help needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, they just want pictures of your cock and to see vids of you cumming / wanking.. any suggestion of a group chat gets explained away by the idea that you'd flirt behind the man's back or something dumb like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience, they just want pictures of your cock and to see vids of you cumming / wanking.. any suggestion of a group chat gets explained away by the idea that you'd flirt behind the man's back or something dumb like that."

Should clarify^ thats how you know theyre defo not real ahaha

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I'd go buy the choice of words used in messages. Women have a different way of writing them and they aren't too graphic, to start with.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Check verifications and check the people doing the verifications.

Look carefully at the pics and work out if they are the same people in them - we've found guys pretending to be couples and called them out on differences between pics of the female half.

Beware of them asking for details of exactly what you want to do with the female half. We avoid all "dirty" talk in chat.

And trust your gut....generally works.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd go buy the choice of words used in messages. Women have a different way of writing them and they aren't too graphic, to start with. "

Oh some girls are very graphic...

believe me...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Are they photo and meet verified?

Do you get a "couple vibe"?

If you doubt them there must be a reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I'd go buy the choice of words used in messages. Women have a different way of writing them and they aren't too graphic, to start with.

Oh some girls are very graphic...

believe me..."

Oh I know but straightaway!

There are some words that mostly guys use and then use words that they think have a feminine vibe to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are they photo and meet verified?

Do you get a "couple vibe"?

If you doubt them there must be a reason"

Exactly this go by the vibe if you don’t think they sound real - they probably aren’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask for the secret couples password that Fab give to all genuine couples.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Are they photo and meet verified?

Do you get a "couple vibe"?

If you doubt them there must be a reason

Exactly this go by the vibe if you don’t think they sound real - they probably aren’t

I think we all recognise "normal" or "right" without consciously knowing and when we have doubts that we can't quite name it's because it's not right and normal.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Ask them to send there photo verification photo to you via private message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are they photo and meet verified?

Do you get a "couple vibe"?

If you doubt them there must be a reason

Exactly this go by the vibe if you don’t think they sound real - they probably aren’t

I think we all recognise "normal" or "right" without consciously knowing and when we have doubts that we can't quite name it's because it's not right and normal."

Yes that’s very true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi.

Ask them to send you address, bank details and passport. And then ask them to film a video showing you their faces with a tin of Heinz baked beans and Heinz ketchup. If they don't do this they are fake.

I hope that helps. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi.

I hope that helps. X "

Don't forget their Mother's maiden name and national insurance number just to be on the safe side... financially.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You're standing in front of them in a club and they say "hello, we're (username)" .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look for the words they use for example

Both

Do they use both names when signing the message.

I like to send a message saying how are you both and if I get a message back saying that I am fine not we are fine then it sends alarm bells x

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

The veri trail. Research, research, research.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Look for the words they use for example

Both

Very much this. So often the "couple" refer to themselves as "I".

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Help needed"

I don’t entertain anyone without a verification or a social media to chat on. Sure, it s out a few normal people, but it’s the easiest way to determine a fake profile.

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By *ldaCouple
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

From a couples point of view, the word ‘missus’is a bit of a giveaway. Also asking if you want to chat on kick

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By *ifewantsmore777Couple
over a year ago

North West

"You're standing in front of them in a club and they say "hello, we're (username)" ."

This worked for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask for the secret couples password that Fab give to all genuine couples."

Ssshhhh

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By *arleyQuinnandTheJokerCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Ask for the secret couples password that Fab give to all genuine couples."

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

God knows!

We were described as fake last week and duly blocked by a guy because I'm (he) the only one active. Seriously lost sleep, no lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask for the secret couples password that Fab give to all genuine couples.

Ssshhhh "

That's the one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask for the secret couples password that Fab give to all genuine couples.

Not sure if this is real or a bluff. Either way, it’s definitely ingenious to put this rumor/fact out there.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Ask for the secret couples password that Fab give to all genuine couples.

Not sure if this is real or a bluff. Either way, it’s definitely ingenious to put this rumor/fact out there. "

It's b!off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask for the secret couples password that Fab give to all genuine couples.

Not sure if this is real or a bluff. Either way, it’s definitely ingenious to put this rumor/fact out there.

It's b!off

I’m not sure I’ve ever heard that term or word before. Mind explaining it?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"From a couples point of view, the word ‘missus’is a bit of a giveaway. Also asking if you want to chat on kick"

This is a bit of a tricky one. We ask to chat on kik, precisely so all 3 or 4 of us can chat at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a roll of a dice on here real or fake .

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Thumps hubby on arm. Yep he's real, so I must be real if he felt me thump his arm.

Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're standing in front of them in a club and they say "hello, we're (username)" ."

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By *panking masterMan
over a year ago

Washington

"Ask for the secret couples password that Fab give to all genuine couples."
,,, it aint going to be a secret for very long,,

if they say wife is keen but nervous so i will meet you first then both of us,,, its usually just a guy pretending to be a couple

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"Look for the words they use for example

Both

Very much this. So often the "couple" refer to themselves as "I".

(Bry)"

I refer to us as # I...... purely cus hubbs can't be doing with chatting on fabs. Doesn't mean we are fake xxxxx

Suzi

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You can follow all the "rules" of spotting couples that aren't really couples and still get stung.

I was part of a "couple" once. We had a profile, were photo and meet verified etc.

However if you'd met us, you'd have found out just like I did when lockdown kicked in that we weren't a "real" couple and may well have felt misled.....much the same as I did, coz once he could no longer sneak around all cheaty he had to face the truth and that was that he was still in a vanilla relationship with his wife and I was the side piece.

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

Number 1 rule for me, they have to be on a couple’s profile…. No exceptions.

Things that are very dubious

1) no picture verification

2) no meet veri’s or last veri is a long time ago (so may not be together anymore)

3) asking to move onto kik or WhatsApp convo (especially when you haven’t messaged each other much)

4) the type of language and tone used..

5) not providing pics via fabs…

A lot of good advice from the others here. Also gut instinct will help you spot the fakes.

Good luck chief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does that work? Giving the password to a single man means he knows the password.

Or you are joking he he!?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Ask for the secret couples password that Fab give to all genuine couples.

Not sure if this is real or a bluff. Either way, it’s definitely ingenious to put this rumor/fact out there.

It's b!off

I’m not sure I’ve ever heard that term or word before. Mind explaining it?"

Darn it. I didn't proof read. It's a bluff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask for the secret couples password that Fab give to all genuine couples.

Not sure if this is real or a bluff. Either way, it’s definitely ingenious to put this rumor/fact out there.

It's b!off

I’m not sure I’ve ever heard that term or word before. Mind explaining it?

Darn it. I didn't proof read. It's a bluff.

Ahh that makes more sense, thank ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does that work? Giving the password to a single man means he knows the password.

Or you are joking he he!?"

Even if I knew it, I’m probably the best single guy here with it. I’m too lazy for the effort of running a fake profile.

I don’t understand why someone would do all the work. Tryna get a few pics? Porn is free and takes less effort

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

I found the best way to check if a couple are real, is to stick a pin in them. If they yelp, they're real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does that work? Giving the password to a single man means he knows the password.

Or you are joking he he!?"

All the couples would have to get together and choose a new password every time it’s given out to a single person.

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By *rMrsRichCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouh

"Look for the words they use for example

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Do they use both names when signing the message.

I like to send a message saying how are you both and if I get a message back saying that I am fine not we are fine then it sends alarm bells x

I wouldn’t say this is full proof though. I find myself saying I a lot. Mostly because my fella and I both work away. So if we’re not in the same location together I tend not to say we’re ok because let’s face it he’s not because he’s at home pining without me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"How does that work? Giving the password to a single man means he knows the password.

Or you are joking he he!?"

A password is useless if only the couples know what it is. They could tell the guy any word they wanted he'd have no way of knowing if it was the right one.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The best way to tell us to invite them both for a quick coffee. They'll either turn up as a couple of they won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does that work? Giving the password to a single man means he knows the password.

Or you are joking he he!?

A password is useless if only the couples know what it is. They could tell the guy any word they wanted he'd have no way of knowing if it was the right one.

That’s definitely a floor in the plan, but the next time we ask a couple for the password we will know it’s genuine if they say the same word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best way to tell us to invite them both for a quick coffee. They'll either turn up as a couple of they won't"

What if one of them is busy or had to attend to an emergency?

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By *rMrsRichCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouh

"The best way to tell us to invite them both for a quick coffee. They'll either turn up as a couple of they won't

What if one of them is busy or had to attend to an emergency? "

Then they’d rearrange. I’d never suggest my partner go on a pre arranged couples meet without me. Plus if I have a emergency I’d expect him with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best way to tell us to invite them both for a quick coffee. They'll either turn up as a couple of they won't

What if one of them is busy or had to attend to an emergency?

Then they’d rearrange. I’d never suggest my partner go on a pre arranged couples meet without me. Plus if I have a emergency I’d expect him with me

It could be an emergency at work and really last minute so too late to rearrange as the person you’re meeting is already nearly there. And you’ve arranged to meet at a coffee shop where you’re really good friends with the owner so there’s someone there keeping an eye out for you.

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By *rMrsRichCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouh

"The best way to tell us to invite them both for a quick coffee. They'll either turn up as a couple of they won't

What if one of them is busy or had to attend to an emergency?

Then they’d rearrange. I’d never suggest my partner go on a pre arranged couples meet without me. Plus if I have a emergency I’d expect him with me

That just sounds like the most unlikely of scenarios. The ‘everything needing to go wrong at once’ I just don’t see it happening myself and I still would tell my other half we were cancelling. Mainly because I know it would look well shady if they turned up solo and knowing full well I would never believe the “oh the Mrs had an emergency so it’s just me” line

True or not Id assume it was a fake ass and would cancel myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does that work? Giving the password to a single man means he knows the password.

Or you are joking he he!?

All the couples would have to get together and choose a new password every time it’s given out to a single person. "

That's exactly what we do.

There is a 'new password orgy' on the second Thursday of every month.

But you do need to know the 'new password orgy' password to attend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does that work? Giving the password to a single man means he knows the password.

Or you are joking he he!?

All the couples would have to get together and choose a new password every time it’s given out to a single person.

That's exactly what we do.

There is a 'new password orgy' on the second Thursday of every month.

But you do need to know the 'new password orgy' password to attend."

What happens if a couple tells a single person the ‘new password orgy password’....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best way to tell us to invite them both for a quick coffee. They'll either turn up as a couple of they won't

What if one of them is busy or had to attend to an emergency?

Then they’d rearrange. I’d never suggest my partner go on a pre arranged couples meet without me. Plus if I have a emergency I’d expect him with me

True or not Id assume it was a fake ass and would cancel myself. "

Yeah, fair enough, it was a silly thing for me to say.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The best way to tell us to invite them both for a quick coffee. They'll either turn up as a couple of they won't

What if one of them is busy or had to attend to an emergency? "

Then they won't turn up as a couple, you simply rearrange a time and date when they will both be available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best way to tell us to invite them both for a quick coffee. They'll either turn up as a couple of they won't

What if one of them is busy or had to attend to an emergency?

Then they won't turn up as a couple, you simply rearrange a time and date when they will both be available. "

A couple dropping out of a meet at the last minute would be a bit of a red flag to me and make me question whether they’re real even more so...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The best way to tell us to invite them both for a quick coffee. They'll either turn up as a couple of they won't

What if one of them is busy or had to attend to an emergency?

Then they won't turn up as a couple, you simply rearrange a time and date when they will both be available.

A couple dropping out of a meet at the last minute would be a bit of a red flag to me and make me question whether they’re real even more so..."

That's your prerogative. Best not meet any body at all, you can never be let down then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best way to tell us to invite them both for a quick coffee. They'll either turn up as a couple of they won't

What if one of them is busy or had to attend to an emergency?

Then they won't turn up as a couple, you simply rearrange a time and date when they will both be available.

A couple dropping out of a meet at the last minute would be a bit of a red flag to me and make me question whether they’re real even more so...

That's your prerogative. Best not meet any body at all, you can never be let down then.

Funnily enough that’s actually my plan on here, and it’s going really well so far, I haven’t even come close to having to risk being let down...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The best way to tell us to invite them both for a quick coffee. They'll either turn up as a couple of they won't

What if one of them is busy or had to attend to an emergency?

Then they won't turn up as a couple, you simply rearrange a time and date when they will both be available.

A couple dropping out of a meet at the last minute would be a bit of a red flag to me and make me question whether they’re real even more so...

That's your prerogative. Best not meet any body at all, you can never be let down then.

Funnily enough that’s actually my plan on here, and it’s going really well so far, I haven’t even come close to having to risk being let down..."

that's a good plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should clarify^ thats how you know theyre defo not real ahaha"
lol you took the words right out of my mouth x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best way to tell us to invite them both for a quick coffee. They'll either turn up as a couple of they won't

What if one of them is busy or had to attend to an emergency?

Then they won't turn up as a couple, you simply rearrange a time and date when they will both be available.

A couple dropping out of a meet at the last minute would be a bit of a red flag to me and make me question whether they’re real even more so...

That's your prerogative. Best not meet any body at all, you can never be let down then.

Funnily enough that’s actually my plan on here, and it’s going really well so far, I haven’t even come close to having to risk being let down...

that's a good plan"

It takes all the stress out of it to be honest, I don’t have to create a thread asking for advice on my profile or complaining that I’m not getting any replies because those things only matter if you actually intend to meet someone and risk being let down. I just message people randomly and I don’t even bother looking to see if they reply because if I get caught up in a conversation things can easily snowball and before I know it I’ll be getting let down by a meet dropping out at the last minute.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"You can follow all the "rules" of spotting couples that aren't really couples and still get stung.

I was part of a "couple" once. We had a profile, were photo and meet verified etc.

Oh my god! I'm so sorry!

I read the 1st part of your reply and thought, "why would swingers ever feel the need to cheat?!"

Then I read the rest. Wow. I can't imagine.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"All the couples would have to get together and choose a new password every time it’s given out to a single person. "

We do. Beryl and Stan coordinate it.

All the meetings get a bit exhausting, tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From a couples point of view, the word ‘missus’is a bit of a giveaway. Also asking if you want to chat on kick

This is a bit of a tricky one. We ask to chat on kik, precisely so all 3 or 4 of us can chat at the same time."

You can have 2 Kik apps in one phone, so this is not perfect either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From a couples point of view, the word ‘missus’is a bit of a giveaway. Also asking if you want to chat on kick

This is a bit of a tricky one. We ask to chat on kik, precisely so all 3 or 4 of us can chat at the same time.

You can have 2 Kik apps in one phone, so this is not perfect either.

Couples password, new password orgies and now 2 Kik apps on one phone, all the couples’ secrets are being let out the bag tonight...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very easy to find out as some members have raised few points on how to spot fake ones.

1) different pics of women (lifted from the net)

2) photo verified

3) verification trails, you can easily spot the fake veris .

4) language used in messages . That's an easy give away.

5) total ignorance to their wife's where abouts.

6) chat seems interested only in your female .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From a couples point of view, the word ‘missus’is a bit of a giveaway. Also asking if you want to chat on kick

This is a bit of a tricky one. We ask to chat on kik, precisely so all 3 or 4 of us can chat at the same time.

You can have 2 Kik apps in one phone, so this is not perfect either.

Couples password, new password orgies and now 2 Kik apps on one phone, all the couples’ secrets are being let out the bag tonight..."

Hahaha

Android phones lol

Can have clone apps including WhatsApp too on one phone .

Go to settings and find out

We don't trust Kik groups in fourway chatting .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From a couples point of view, the word ‘missus’is a bit of a giveaway. Also asking if you want to chat on kick

This is a bit of a tricky one. We ask to chat on kik, precisely so all 3 or 4 of us can chat at the same time.

You can have 2 Kik apps in one phone, so this is not perfect either.

Couples password, new password orgies and now 2 Kik apps on one phone, all the couples’ secrets are being let out the bag tonight...

Hahaha

Android phones lol

Can have clone apps including WhatsApp too on one phone .

Go to settings and find out

We don't trust Kik groups in fourway chatting .

I don’t have android which probably explains why I don’t know anything about it. Luckily I have absolutely no need to clone apps so it doesn’t matter to me.

It seems as though pretty much everyone on Kik is fake now, it’s got so much worse recently, I get suspicion of anyone who suggests chatting there to be honest. Especially the ones who suggest it after 2 or 3 messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes have to use own intuitions. We have seen nee profiles asking for face pic in just second message . Alarm bells for us.

When we ask them to facetime on WhatsApp and Skype, they just chicken out .lol

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"You can have 2 Kik apps in one phone, so this is not perfect either.

I'm not sure anything is perfect. We tend to go by:

1) Gut feeling

2) Recent verifications ?

3) Photo verified

4) Gut feeling

5) Kik group chat

6) Terminology used in chat

7) Gut feeling

8) Actually meeting in person

Number 8 is the only way to really know. I suppose webcams would be an added option, but lots of people don't like talking on them.

To be honest, if I met someone and they'd been running two kik accounts convincingly, I'd either buy them a drink and congratulate their hard work, or lamp them and report them on fab. I suspect that takes a certain level of sociopathy!

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Ask for the secret couples password that Fab give to all genuine couples."

Iv not heard of this? And we are 100% a real couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask for the secret couples password that Fab give to all genuine couples.

Iv not heard of this? And we are 100% a real couple. "

If you were a real couple then you’d know about the password, you’ve inadvertently exposed yourself as a single person now....

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Sometimes have to use own intuitions. We have seen nee profiles asking for face pic in just second message . Alarm bells for us.

When we ask them to facetime on WhatsApp and Skype, they just chicken out .lol

We would not give out our number before a meet (well, Alice wouldn't), so whatsapp is out. And, we have never facetimed either, as one of us is not really comfortable with it.

I guess we could send a photo of us with today's newspaper. But I find using the couple's password much easier!

Seriously though, we go by intuition too, which gets sharpened after a while here. And we never meet anyone without verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can have 2 Kik apps in one phone, so this is not perfect either.

I'm not sure anything is perfect. We tend to go by:

1) Gut feeling

2) Recent verifications ?

3) Photo verified

4) Gut feeling

5) Kik group chat

6) Terminology used in chat

7) Gut feeling

8) Actually meeting in person

Number 8 is the only way to really know. I suppose webcams would be an added option, but lots of people don't like talking on them.

Trust me it's easy and allowed legally on Android settings .

When I found out through another couple ,I was shocked too.

So tried opening a new account on my phone and it worked .

It comes as parallel Kik or parallel WhatsApp .

But as you said, you can't fool with language. A lady chats differently than a guy . Easy to make out

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over a year ago

"Sometimes have to use own intuitions. We have seen nee profiles asking for face pic in just second message . Alarm bells for us.

When we ask them to facetime on WhatsApp and Skype, they just chicken out .lol

I hope you don’t mind me asking you this, and I’m in now way making any sort of accusations....how come you only have pictures of the female on your profile, apart from a couple of dick pics of the male? I’m only asking because I’m genuinely interested in the reason as I see a lot of couples profiles with only pictures of the female and never understand why there’s non of the male. If I was going to meet a couple I’d want to know what the male looks like as well as the female.

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over a year ago

"Sometimes have to use own intuitions. We have seen nee profiles asking for face pic in just second message . Alarm bells for us.

When we ask them to facetime on WhatsApp and Skype, they just chicken out .lol

Lol.because I don't have a glamourous body

and I do have my body pics too ,sometimes I open them , depends on how I feel.

Also I have some tattoos so you can understand.

Another and most important reason is I like to show my Mrs and love the appreciation like many husbands here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way, I opened two of my pics lol Hope that answers your question

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

"Sometimes have to use own intuitions. We have seen nee profiles asking for face pic in just second message . Alarm bells for us.

When we ask them to facetime on WhatsApp and Skype, they just chicken out .lol

Lol.because I don't have a glamourous body

and I do have my body pics too ,sometimes I open them , depends on how I feel.

Also I have some tattoos so you can understand.

Another and most important reason is I like to show my Mrs and love the appreciation like many husbands here.

Then, to be fair, there’s not much wonder why people only refer to the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without hot women ,this site would be a recycle bin for used sausages lol.

Also , without single guys, it won't be interesting either as they are the ones who appreciate hotwives more than the cpls.

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over a year ago

"Sometimes have to use own intuitions. We have seen nee profiles asking for face pic in just second message . Alarm bells for us.

When we ask them to facetime on WhatsApp and Skype, they just chicken out .lol

Lol.because I don't have a glamourous body

and I do have my body pics too ,sometimes I open them , depends on how I feel.

Also I have some tattoos so you can understand.

Another and most important reason is I like to show my Mrs and love the appreciation like many husbands here.

Ok, cool, thanks for answering. You don’t have to use naked pictures though, you could be fully dressed and therefore hiding your body and tattoos (your profile says you don’t have tattoos by the way). You could still have plenty of pictures showing off your partner alongside a few pictures of you and it wouldn’t stop people appreciating her. It’s your choice though obviously, I’m just giving my opinion from a single male’s point of view.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Trust me it's easy and allowed legally on Android settings .

When I found out through another couple ,I was shocked too.

So tried opening a new account on my phone and it worked .

It comes as parallel Kik or parallel WhatsApp .

But as you said, you can't fool with language. A lady chats differently than a guy . Easy to make out "

That's horrific. Like, are they literally designing apps to facilitate cheating?!

I presume they'd say it's to allow a personal and work account on one phone, but the whole idea of it feels so off.

Completely agree on the chat. Alice prides herself on not being a lady, but she still doesn't jump straight in with some of the language and suggestions that guys who are pretending do.

Another big giveaway is a bi couple who are only interested in the female. Of course, it may be that the female - as in our case - is the attractive one, but in our experience other couples just know to speak to us as a couple.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Ask for the secret couples password that Fab give to all genuine couples.

Iv not heard of this? And we are 100% a real couple.

If you were a real couple then you’d know about the password, you’ve inadvertently exposed yourself as a single person now...."

I'm just going to nip that assumption of yours right in the bud. We definatly are the real deal. You cannot look at our profile for one second and think anything diffrent. They are all conistant, verified by meets, and photo verified.

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

If they're talking to me, odds are they're fake

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Sometimes have to use own intuitions. We have seen nee profiles asking for face pic in just second message . Alarm bells for us.

When we ask them to facetime on WhatsApp and Skype, they just chicken out .lol

Lol.because I don't have a glamourous body

and I do have my body pics too ,sometimes I open them , depends on how I feel.

Also I have some tattoos so you can understand.

Another and most important reason is I like to show my Mrs and love the appreciation like many husbands here.

Then, to be fair, there’s not much wonder why people only refer to the woman. "

You have just exposed yourself as one of those guys who do not read profiles.

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over a year ago

Yes, once you change the settings in your phone ( allow parallel apps) then you can install any apps more than once on your phone .

The second part , Yes, the interest is always pointed towards the female. That's all the main intention of contacting .

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over a year ago

"Ask for the secret couples password that Fab give to all genuine couples.

Iv not heard of this? And we are 100% a real couple.

If you were a real couple then you’d know about the password, you’ve inadvertently exposed yourself as a single person now....

I was completely joking, the whole password thing is a joke that started earlier in the thread and I was just carrying it on. I assumed everyone would realise I was only joking and wasn’t seriously accusing you of being a fake couple. I’m sorry for the confusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To Swap meet

Good points but who wants to see our pics in clothes lol

As said, I love to show more of her than me .

I must have not clicked tattoo tab

And for all these , I am ok if someone calls our profile as not real. Doesn't bother us tbh.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Ask for the secret couples password that Fab give to all genuine couples.

Iv not heard of this? And we are 100% a real couple.

If you were a real couple then you’d know about the password, you’ve inadvertently exposed yourself as a single person now....

Yeah once I had read the rest of the forum, I quickly realised it was a joke. No hard feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By the way, I opened two of my pics lol Hope that answers your question

Nice one, managed to avoid showing your tattoos as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By the way, I opened two of my pics lol Hope that answers your question

Nice one, managed to avoid showing your tattoos as well. "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

"Sometimes have to use own intuitions. We have seen nee profiles asking for face pic in just second message . Alarm bells for us.

When we ask them to facetime on WhatsApp and Skype, they just chicken out .lol

Lol.because I don't have a glamourous body

and I do have my body pics too ,sometimes I open them , depends on how I feel.

Also I have some tattoos so you can understand.

Another and most important reason is I like to show my Mrs and love the appreciation like many husbands here.

Then, to be fair, there’s not much wonder why people only refer to the woman.

You have just exposed yourself as one of those guys who do not read profiles."

I’m a woman.

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Tricky one that iv had lots of guys pretend to be one just after pictures it's annoying so sorry to all the ladies that men do it to all the time

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Sometimes have to use own intuitions. We have seen nee profiles asking for face pic in just second message . Alarm bells for us.

When we ask them to facetime on WhatsApp and Skype, they just chicken out .lol

Lol.because I don't have a glamourous body

and I do have my body pics too ,sometimes I open them , depends on how I feel.

Also I have some tattoos so you can understand.

Another and most important reason is I like to show my Mrs and love the appreciation like many husbands here.

Then, to be fair, there’s not much wonder why people only refer to the woman.

You have just exposed yourself as one of those guys who do not read profiles.

I’m a woman.

Ah shit..you got me going there..really thougt you were a guy! Silly me...hahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See i have a couple profile because although we are still married (but having problems) we are still a couple. Although I meet alone he still has input in who I meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So does anyone reckon OP is going to be able to determine whether a couple’s real or not after reading through this thread? I’m not convinced we’ve provided him with the help he was looking for. The bits of genuine advice in amongst all the password orgies and app cloning chat was basically saying to trust his instincts, but if he had good instincts he would’ve have asked for help in the first place.....

At least he’s unearthed a few couples profiles that he’ll most likely be messaging when he’s back online....

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over a year ago

"See i have a couple profile because although we are still married (but having problems) we are still a couple. Although I meet alone he still has input in who I meet"

I’m sorry to hear that you’re having problems. Do you mean you only meet alone now or do you still meet as a couple as well?

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