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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I haven't had sex for 2 years now, how unusual am I ?

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Is say pretty unusual.......longest I've ever gone is around 3 months, and that was after child birth and some nasty stitches in delicate areas lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew someone who hadn't had sex for three years. She said that the urge was less and less as time went on and that at one point she felt like she wanted nothing more than a nice cup of tea! lol

I'm sure you could find what your looking for on this site but might be an idea to unhide your profile so people can see it? Only a suggestion though.

Hope you find what your looking for.

Ian

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Watch it doesn't heal over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watch it doesn't heal over"

Good job i have Derek to stop that happening to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't had sex for 2 years now, how unusual am I ? "

Friend of ours didn't have sex (or even go on a date) for 8 years. It was all due to just ONE relationship which virtually destroyed her confidence, robbed her of her identity and any self-respect and it was that long before she felt 'good enough' (!!!) to get back out there. So, no, 2 years is not unusual... Depends how much it is worrying you, I suppose.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went without for 6 years when with my ex. Its true, the longer you go without, the less you want it. Truly believed I would never have sex again. How wrong could I be. Met my lovely man, have a fantastic sex life and end up on Fab!! Life is good!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sex i had with my ex just wasn't worth having. So never really bothered.

When i met my husband we just seemed to fit and as we have the extra of playing on top it just gets better and better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After I had my youngest I gave up sex for three years making up for it now though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just gone 2 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a bit odd to be on here and not had sex for two years ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was with my ex i had to have it when he wanted it other wise it would have been a good 7yrs, even though he had two mistresses on the side.... Needless to say he was a bloody control freak... (Perky)

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I haven't had sex for 2 years now, how unusual am I ? "

Not unusual at all if your married...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems a bit odd to be on here and not had sex for two years ??????

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Guess that's what happens when you hide your profile , I'm guessing the OP has no verifications then or am I just synical ??

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Watch it doesn't heal over

Good job i have Derek to stop that happening to me "

Bet he's on his last legs

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By *wencatWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

went without sex or any hugs or kisses for years with hubby and I weren't that bothered even moved into another room then I met someone and we get on so well hell sex is good again better than for years so don't give up on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watch it doesn't heal over

Good job i have Derek to stop that happening to me

Bet he's on his last legs "

Yep he needs trading in for a new model

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont believe you .........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't had sex for 2 years now, how unusual am I ? "

im sure there are lots of people out there who have gone a lot longer than two years without sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine went without for about 7 years due to lack of confidence after a disasterous relationship. I managed to drag her along to a club with me one night, she had the time of her life and has never looked back

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

One of my best friends is a couple of months older than me and still a virgin.

It wasn't her intention, but she has very traditional views and has now reached a point where she thinks it will be unlikely to change and is OK with that.

But she enjoys hearing what I've been up to...

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I went two years without after my divorce. But I was caring for an elderly, terminal relative. Before then it was, at most, two months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I cdnt I lasted almost 6 weeks after having babies and by that. Time was like a dog in heat wen was "better" I practilly jumped my man wen came home that day haha and for about a week solid after I just luv sex makes u feel gd and happy he says I have an addiction hey ho maybe lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like some people use swinging to repair their self-esteem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was over 10 years after splitting with my kids father, missed sex terribly and masturbated quite a lotjust missed the touch of someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see mostly other women who have not had sex for so long after a break up or other stressful time. But as a guy I went...going through the same. About a year now... I guess fab is a place to rebuild confidence and try to rediscover what gets us turned on. Seems to be working for me! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I'm back in the game so to speak if anyone is remotely interested, an I do have verifications for the cynical ones, even though I play, I don't always so everything,

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"I haven't had sex for 2 years now, how unusual am I ? "

You're in good company.. . I once went 4 and 1/2 years... while I was back in Uni .. and in Halls of Residence! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm back in the game so to speak if anyone is remotely interested, an I do have verifications for the cynical ones, even though I play, I don't always so everything,"

So was your celebacy through choice? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I'm back in the game so to speak if anyone is remotely interested, an I do have verifications for the cynical ones, even though I play, I don't always so everything,

So was your celebacy through choice? X"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm back in the game so to speak if anyone is remotely interested, an I do have verifications for the cynical ones, even though I play, I don't always so everything,

So was your celebacy through choice? X

Yes "

Fair enough what was the reason for it? How hard was it? And what's it like to be back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would this be termed as a provocative post? Or am I being a cynic?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

6 years for me.

A year while I was still married, no intimacy at all then 5 years after we split up. Various reasons I guess, I was looking after 3 kids, stressed, depressed, family bereavement. Last 2 years I've more than made up for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 years for me.

A year while I was still married, no intimacy at all then 5 years after we split up. Various reasons I guess, I was looking after 3 kids, stressed, depressed, family bereavement. Last 2 years I've more than made up for it.

"

Can understand where you're coming from with that completely. Had similar experiences.

Glad you made up for it. I sure did too

Wolf

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By *weetdebWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I was exactly 2 yrs witout sex after a very controlling relationship ended and nearly destroyed me..i then joined Fab and 2 weeks later had my first meet,,,Phwoaarrrrrr,,to this day he still doesnt know that he was not only my first meet but the first sex for 2 years,,lol..and by the way,i still see him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend of mine went without for about 7 years due to lack of confidence after a disasterous relationship. I managed to drag her along to a club with me one night, she had the time of her life and has never looked back "

I went through a similar situation. It was only a couple of years ago that I got some of my confidence and self esteem back.

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By *ickiemintMan
over a year ago

Somewhere NW London


"I haven't had sex for 2 years now, how unusual am I ? "

A couple of weeks now, and its bloody miserable. Su is not back til the end of the month, and Audrey is not playing due to illness, so i'm temporarily (I hope...lol) having an enforced rest. Rich

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

not unusual at all.. the longest i went in my marriage was 10 years.

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By *weetdebWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"A friend of mine went without for about 7 years due to lack of confidence after a disasterous relationship. I managed to drag her along to a club with me one night, she had the time of her life and has never looked back

I went through a similar situation. It was only a couple of years ago that I got some of my confidence and self esteem back. "

Well i always considered myself to be confident but think he knocked it all out of me ..but hey,im back with a vengeance..cant keep a good girl down..lol,,,I never in a million years thought that i would join a swingers site but i absolutely love it here ,dont knock it til you tried it eh??..and as for the ex..hahahaha,,i almost want him to find me here ,,think he would spontaneously combust !!!!!

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"I haven't had sex for 2 years now, how unusual am I ? "

I'd say you are a bloody liar. Your verifications say different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't had sex for 2 years now, how unusual am I ?

I'd say you are a bloody liar. Your verifications say different."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a wee peek at your veris and they say different!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Are you using the Bill Clinton definition of sex OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you using the Bill Clinton definition of sex OP?"

She can't be, there was no cigar mentioned in her veris!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

FFS! A year then almost, if you want to be precise, 25th November, how do I delete this thread? Wish I'd never said it now, must of posted whilst under the influence and feeling a bit down

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

It will delete automatically as soon as you get shagged silly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It will delete automatically as soon as you get shagged silly "

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I haven't had sex for 2 years now, how unusual am I ?

I'd say you are a bloody liar. Your verifications say different."

Doesn't actually state anywhere on her veri's that she had sex!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't had sex for 2 years now, how unusual am I ?

I'd say you are a bloody liar. Your verifications say different.

Doesn't actually state anywhere on her veri's that she had sex!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went 4 years without. That was bloody hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went 4 years without. That was bloody hard work "

Ye, bet it was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unusual at all imo, all depends on the circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't had sex for 2 years now, how unusual am I ?

im sure there are lots of people out there who have gone a lot longer than two years without sex

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yes and some get off on going with out and saying about it . I new this woman she would say not had sex years and going to swing clubs thinking men would wish to shag her more as she was feeling like a born again virgin..

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

A vast generalisation but the less women have sex, the less they seem to want it. With men the less they have it, the more they want it. Though I am aware that there will be exceptions to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its fantastic i love sex !!!

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