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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats the big thing about gushing? I get asked a fair bit if I do this and when I say I don't the guys always seem disappointed I can orgasm no problem so I don't get the deal really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose men want a women to come over them..just like women like men coming over them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I suppose men want a women to come over them..just like women like men coming over them."

I don't like guys coming over me though lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Whats the big thing about gushing? I get asked a fair bit if I do this and when I say I don't the guys always seem disappointed I can orgasm no problem so I don't get the deal really "

I have been known to gush but it's no big deal for me. Deep vaginal orgasms are far more pleasurable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its because people see it in porn they think that just because a women has not soaked the bed then she has not cum,despite the fact she is out of breath and screaming expletives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can take it or leave it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a real inconveience unless outdoors. I hate it especially when men force it with their fingers thinking they are turning you on when infact it's the opposite. Sometimes it's mechanical and only on rare ocassions is it a real pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a real inconveience unless outdoors. I hate it especially when men force it with their fingers thinking they are turning you on when infact it's the opposite. Sometimes it's mechanical and only on rare ocassions is it a real pleasure."

We actually had a meet with a couple a few months back and the guy was actually hurting me with his fingers and I told him to stop, his reason was that he liked bringing his wife to a hard gushing orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd much rather cum than gush & in fact still get quite embarrassed when it happens, I don't seem to have any control over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I find it quite a turn on when I make a woman gush...however it is not the be all and end all! I would much rather make a woman have an orgasm...as it makes less mess on the quilt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the opposite way around, I have never had an orgasm and don't tell anyone either as I wouldn't want them trying to make me but I can gush 3-4 times in one session. I keep that quiet too in case it doesn't happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am the opposite way around, I have never had an orgasm and don't tell anyone either as I wouldn't want them trying to make me but I can gush 3-4 times in one session. I keep that quiet too in case it doesn't happen "

Until declaring it in a public forum!!! I wont tell any one, your secret is safe with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am the opposite way around, I have never had an orgasm and don't tell anyone either as I wouldn't want them trying to make me but I can gush 3-4 times in one session. I keep that quiet too in case it doesn't happen

Until declaring it in a public forum!!! I wont tell any one, your secret is safe with me! "

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By *ojoandpeachCouple
over a year ago

Near thamesmead


"It's a real inconveience unless outdoors. I hate it especially when men force it with their fingers thinking they are turning you on when infact it's the opposite. Sometimes it's mechanical and only on rare ocassions is it a real pleasure.

We actually had a meet with a couple a few months back and the guy was

actually hurting me with his fingers and

I told him to stop, his reason was that

he liked bringing his wife to a hard

gushing orgasm "

Ouch.!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the big thing about gushing? I get asked a fair bit if I do this and when I say I don't the guys always seem disappointed I can orgasm no problem so I don't get the deal really "

its all about visual for some guys

I can gush but gushing isnt an orgasum, when i cum i dont gush and when i gush i dont cum, i get no sensation from gushing it really is just a case of loosing fluid, yet guys would sill sooner see me gush than make me cum, i think it just makes them feel good when they can see the fruits of their effort, where as i would sooner then sone fixating on making me gush and spend more time on giving me a real orgasum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the big thing about gushing? I get asked a fair bit if I do this and when I say I don't the guys always seem disappointed I can orgasm no problem so I don't get the deal really

its all about visual for some guys

I can gush but gushing isnt an orgasum,

when i cum i dont gush and when i gush i dont cum, i get no sensation from gushing it really is just a case of loosing fluid, yet guys would sill sooner see me gush than make me cum, i think it just makes them feel good when they can see the fruits of their effort, where as i would sooner then sone fixating on making me gush and spend more time on giving me a real orgasum "

Ditto - men seem to love the gushing (and some women too) but it's not an orgasm and it doesn't leave me feeling anything other than wet lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the big thing about gushing? I get asked a fair bit if I do this and when I say I don't the guys always seem disappointed I can orgasm no problem so I don't get the deal really

its all about visual for some guys

I can gush but gushing isnt an orgasum,

when i cum i dont gush and when i gush i dont cum, i get no sensation from gushing it really is just a case of loosing fluid, yet guys would sill sooner see me gush than make me cum, i think it just makes them feel good when they can see the fruits of their effort, where as i would sooner then sone fixating on making me gush and spend more time on giving me a real orgasum

Ditto - men seem to love the gushing (and some women too) but it's not an orgasm and it doesn't leave me feeling anything other than wet lol xx"

its deffo not an orgasum, im not saying some women dont cum and gush at the same time but the act of gushing isnt a orgasum

yet some guys think they have done this great thing because they have left a big wet patch on the bed

anyone can make me gush, very few guys have made me cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs HC has always wanted to be with a women who gushes.....................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

Suddenly someone found the spot after years of not doing it.

Have been made sore god knows how many times by over zelouis fingers and nothing

Then bang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose men want a women to come over them..just like women like men coming over them."

Yup, that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ditto - men seem to love the gushing (and some women too) but it's not an orgasm and it doesn't leave me feeling anything other than wet lol xx"

It is an orgasm for me. It only happens when I orgasm.

Cali

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By *ighly ProfessionalMan
over a year ago

peterborough

I love it as already said a great turn on a women squirting over a guy. I can honestly say made several ladies gush who never have before they loved it nearly as much as i did. anyone wanna try?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose men want a women to come over them..just like women like men coming over them.

Yup, that. "

lay down then.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

lay down then..... "

Promises, promises...

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham

Cumming and gushing are def two different things for me...

I'm not playing at the moment but when I was I would often gush/squirt like mad and I loved the reaction it got from some guys who just loved it. It is a pleasant feeling for me but no more than that!

Cumming is much rarer for me and takes a lot of time and is much less interesting as a spectator sport... more of a solitary pursuit for me, tbh!!

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

I love it......only discovered it 2 years ago since I've been with my man.

For me personally its as good as a clitoral orgasm, and often more intense......BUT it can happen several times during a session and often get better as you go along, where as for me the first clitoral orgasm is the best, then if I cum again that way the feelings not as good.

The best though is the rare occasion when u cum and squirt/gush at the same time mmmmmmmmmmm

Guess we r all different though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ditto - men seem to love the gushing (and some women too) but it's not an orgasm and it doesn't leave me feeling anything other than wet lol xx

It is an orgasm for me. It only happens when I orgasm.

Same here

Cali"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like a big build up .... then a huge release......

It's like when you need a wee and your hanging on for what seems forever....then you can go.

NO ITS NOT WEE.

I can do it one after another too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is a visual thing and I do think its come from porn films. Men seem to think they are talented if they make a woman gush and all they are doing is being rough with her.

I don't gush, I don't want to gush, I would be ashamed if I did, I don't like rough fingering and I'm not going to be trated like some performing seal either. If men try to make me gush I stop them. If they were to continue I would end the play session.

I'm quite happy with my natural toe curling warm all consuming orgasms that I've been experiencing for years thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sara can hit a barn door at 10 paces , it dosnt need heavy handed fingers to achieve this , actually leaves her drained at times ( if you pardon the pun ) , Sara does experience an orgasm with spurting as well as deep vaginal and clitorial , no downside apart from an endless supply of towels in the wash !! Sara & cris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can if with right man gush cum same time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I gush it's all over thing. I feel a heat through my body and if a guy keeps me at that point I can totally loose where I am and not care as its an amazing feeling.

I don't do it easily but once I am at that point it's so hard for me not too . Although I can not gush but it feels held back

Before when I couldn't. I'd get the same feelings but have to admit it's better with the gushing.

It also doesn't need rough fingers to happen in fact some of my most intense times have been from slow play with a tongue on my Clit.

I think it is a visual thing but women have always been able to do this. So you can't really blame porn. It's just made it more of a talking point. With more people discussing it.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had one guy make me gush and wow it was amazing. I had always wondered what the fuss was about and now I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is a visual thing and I do think its come from porn films. Men seem to think they are talented if they make a woman gush and all they are doing is being rough with her.

I don't gush, I don't want to gush, I would be ashamed if I did, I don't like rough fingering and I'm not going to be trated like some performing seal either. If men try to make me gush I stop them. If they were to continue I would end the play session.

I'm quite happy with my natural toe curling warm all consuming orgasms that I've been experiencing for years thanks "

i think the performing seal about sums it up

when a guy makes you gush its a big ego boost for them and they just want to do it over and over, not for your pleasure but to big up their boost a bit more, more so if its in a situation where others are watching

Then they seem to forget about doing anything else, ive met loads of guys who have not gone down on me because they are to fixated on making me gush, and i leave the session feeling very unfulfilled

its not even a that big a thing making someone gush its very easy to do, i have on many occasions told men i cant gush just to get them to stop trying and do something else

as a lady above said it can be nice tro see the reaction on their face if its new to them but once they have dont it once move on ffs and do something else

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

I think its a very personal thing and whilst some ladies don't think much of it, there are others of us out there that absolutely love it..........and certainly do it for our selves and own satisfaction, not to please our men.

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By *lbecCouple
over a year ago

Whitstable

Only found I could gush 6 months sgo when Alan said just relax, fantastic as I cum at the same time and its much more powerful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love a woman who can Squirt as i like the idea that i can see a physical orgasm just like when a man cums. you women know when we have come.....but as i write this io also know women can cunum and gush an squirt without even having an orgasm...... now i have just managed to confuse my self with my own train of thought lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gushing and having an orgasm at the same time is just about the best sensation in the world for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like everyone says each to their own every one has preferences

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

It's not our thing @ all....in fact hate finding a soaked bed @ a party which gushing fems used,that means carpet than 4 us .......I'm very Bi and found that the taste of a pussy changes(+ not for the better!) after fem gushed loads......prefer juicy cum to watery gush anytime......well everybody has got their own preferences just don't force it on to me

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa


"Gushing and having an orgasm at the same time is just about the best sensation in the world for me!

"
me too hunni if it happens while I'm standing up I've gotta hold on to my man for dear life or I'd collapse in a heap on the floor lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose not to gush to be honest.. Simply because I enjoy the orgasms too much... I got fisted by a woman once and only felt a heaviness nothing else.. Not even the urge to pee, so that wasn't for me... Mind you when experiencing an orgasm, my body feels as if it is on fire, then it goes ice cold... Beautiful

To the OP, just do what you love doing that is all that matters... No need to follow the fashion.... Ebony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do love a woman who can Squirt as i like the idea that i can see a physical orgasm just like when a man cums. you women know when we have come.....but as i write this io also know women can cunum and gush an squirt without even having an orgasm...... now i have just managed to confuse my self with my own train of thought lol "

when i cum the whole town knows about it, i dont have to loose fluid to let someone know ive cum

i think the head lock and my shaking screaming body gives it away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think a person feels they had achieved something if they make you gush .... its something i can't stop and have no control over ... its not part of my agenda and can be a tad embarrassing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think a person feels they had achieved something if they make you gush .... its something i can't stop and have no control over ... its not part of my agenda and can be a tad embarrassing"

Probably best you dropped out of meeting us at the last minute then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think a person feels they had achieved something if they make you gush .... its something i can't stop and have no control over ... its not part of my agenda and can be a tad embarrassing

Probably best you dropped out of meeting us at the last minute then "

Ide warn you beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I choose not to gush to be honest.. Simply because I enjoy the orgasms too much... I got fisted by a woman once and only felt a heaviness nothing else.. Not even the urge to pee, so that wasn't for me... Mind you when experiencing an orgasm, my body feels as if it is on fire, then it goes ice cold... Beautiful

To the OP, just do what you love doing that is all that matters... No need to follow the fashion.... Ebony "

Wow you can choose not to?

Is there any way that you can tell us please.

Didnt know you could turn it on and off

Did ask in another thread as others have said sometimes it can be a tad embarresing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I choose not to gush to be honest.. Simply because I enjoy the orgasms too much... I got fisted by a woman once and only felt a heaviness nothing else.. Not even the urge to pee, so that wasn't for me... Mind you when experiencing an orgasm, my body feels as if it is on fire, then it goes ice cold... Beautiful

To the OP, just do what you love doing that is all that matters... No need to follow the fashion.... Ebony

Wow you can choose not to?

Is there any way that you can tell us please.

Didnt know you could turn it on and off

Did ask in another thread as others have said sometimes it can be a tad embarresing "

Do share as I've never been able to stop myself....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the big thing about gushing? I get asked a fair bit if I do this and when I say I don't the guys always seem disappointed I can orgasm no problem so I don't get the deal really "

Its an ego thing for some, a cover up other issues for others and plain messy for others. If you like it then good for you, of you don't that's your choice too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the big thing about gushing? I get asked a fair bit if I do this and when I say I don't the guys always seem disappointed I can orgasm no problem so I don't get the deal really

Its an ego thing for some, a cover up other issues for others and plain messy for others. If you like it then good for you, of you don't that's your choice too."

Can you elaborate on the cover up other issues??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Wow you can choose not to?

Is there any way that you can tell us please.

Didnt know you could turn it on and off

Did ask in another thread as others have said sometimes it can be a tad embarresing "

I just don't let myself. Same as I can control when or not I orgasm. I can orgasm without the gush but not gush without the orgasm. So I just take control. To be honest it's more about knowing my body and stopping whatever is being done. I use that moment to swap position.

But it can an as simply as knowing I'm in a club and having consideration for everyone else. I just control that feeling. There was a time I couldn't let go enough so now I just hold the moment.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Wow you can choose not to?

Is there any way that you can tell us please.

Didnt know you could turn it on and off

Did ask in another thread as others have said sometimes it can be a tad embarresing

I just don't let myself. Same as I can control when or not I orgasm. I can orgasm without the gush but not gush without the orgasm. So I just take control. To be honest it's more about knowing my body and stopping whatever is being done. I use that moment to swap position.

But it can an as simply as knowing I'm in a club and having consideration for everyone else. I just control that feeling. There was a time I couldn't let go enough so now I just hold the moment.

Cali"

Christ Cali you going to be worth a fortune as a sex instructor.....

Stands in cue for leasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To Tease and Allsports I choose not to gush as I prefer the sensations of orgasm.... Hate rough fingering and I would say my mind is turned off by it so I don't "feel" it.. Each to their own... Mind you, I do have this fetish of squatting to pee outdoors.. Many a time after a night out with a friend, I loved the sound of peeing on the concrete floor. For me it's a personal choice not to gush... Happy gushing!... Ebony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all this gushing here and there i like 2 no what do this gushing taste like i like 2 no.and is it pussy cum or is it piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I just don't let myself. Same as I can control when or not I orgasm. I can orgasm without the gush but not gush without the orgasm. So I just take control. To be honest it's more about knowing my body and stopping whatever is being done. I use that moment to swap position.

But it can an as simply as knowing I'm in a club and having consideration for everyone else. I just control that feeling. There was a time I couldn't let go enough so now I just hold the moment.

Cali"

True Cali, agree it's about knowing what the body wants to do yet also being mindful of those at a club or party who prefer not to experience watersports.... Ebony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all this gushing here and there i like 2 no what do this gushing taste like i like 2 no.and is it pussy cum or is it piss. "

Your going to get more than one answer on here.

I myself can only empty my bladder once within so many minutes.

Before i play i always go to the loo before.

yet i can gush god knows how much and can keep doing it. Then go and have a wee after .so it's no wee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me gushing only happens when im in missionary position with my legs raised and a big cock! My OH is QWE so i have 2 mattress protectors on our bed! if we're playing elsewhere i just dont lift my legs up .

Its not always the great thing its portrayed as, as others have said it can make sex too wet and uncomfortable and the mess annoying.

Im intrigued to know from others is it something that has happened to you as you've got older cos it only started happening to me after 30ish ? xx

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham

A guy my ex and I met made it happen to me for the first time in my 40's. I had never been stimulated in that way before and so was not aware of the sensation, or really even what it was, tbh. I don't doubt I could have done it before if I had been touched that way!

And no, it's not pee. Doesn't look or smell like pee nor come from the same place and requires different muscles, for me anyway.

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By *im and whoreCouple
over a year ago

near bangor

can be fun whan it happens, can also be inconvenient

does nt happen often but its popularity has lead to zillions of guys wanting to push, prod and poke with no skill and only one thing in mind. i for one give the "do you gush" guys a wide berth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defiantly not wee ... i don't have to orgasm to gush or squirt its just happens during penetration, whether it be fingers, cock or toys.... usually when its deep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think a person feels they had achieved something if they make you gush .... its something i can't stop and have no control over ... its not part of my agenda and can be a tad embarrassing

Probably best you dropped out of meeting us at the last minute then

Ide warn you beforehand "

Did you? Must have missed that message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think a person feels they had achieved something if they make you gush .... its something i can't stop and have no control over ... its not part of my agenda and can be a tad embarrassing

Probably best you dropped out of meeting us at the last minute then

Ide warn you beforehand

Did you? Must have missed that message..."

Think I've missed something here .... I've never arranged to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is a visual thing and I do think its come from porn films. Men seem to think they are talented if they make a woman gush and all they are doing is being rough with her.

I don't gush, I don't want to gush, I would be ashamed if I did, I don't like rough fingering and I'm not going to be trated like some performing seal either. If men try to make me gush I stop them. If they were to continue I would end the play session.

I'm quite happy with my natural toe curling warm all consuming orgasms that I've been experiencing for years thanks "

totally agree-just waiting for the new porn fad to come along so all those guys who " guarantee" they can make me gush or squirt(they can't) can move along

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Probably best you dropped out of meeting us at the last minute then

Ide warn you beforehand

Did you? Must have missed that message...

Think I've missed something here .... I've never arranged to meet you "

You and your little chum chris, but you got pissy cos he went out without you or some old shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to experience this! No luck so far though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Probably best you dropped out of meeting us at the last minute then

Ide warn you beforehand

Did you? Must have missed that message...

Think I've missed something here .... I've never arranged to meet you

You and your little chum chris, but you got pissy cos he went out without you or some old shit"

Firstly Im single and have never meet as a couple!! You clearly are mistaken as i haven't made any arrangements to meet anybody in months also i haven't backed out of any!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Probably best you dropped out of meeting us at the last minute then

Ide warn you beforehand

Did you? Must have missed that message...

Think I've missed something here .... I've never arranged to meet you

You and your little chum chris, but you got pissy cos he went out without you or some old shit"

And for the record you ain't my type so certainly wouldn't arrange a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me gushing only happens when im in missionary position with my legs raised and a big cock! My OH is QWE so i have 2 mattress protectors on our bed! if we're playing elsewhere i just dont lift my legs up .

Its not always the great thing its portrayed as, as others have said it can make sex too wet and uncomfortable and the mess annoying.

Im intrigued to know from others is it something that has happened to you as you've got older cos it only started happening to me after 30ish ? xx"

1st time for me was back in august.

,Just wondering if there's a pattern of older ladies suddenly doing it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there... Just thought I'd ask you.. I've never gushed before,, tried it several times with my partner but I don't quite get that far... It feels like in gonna wee lol... Can you describe how it actually feels??? Get the concept but very curious as to let it happen??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me gushing only happens when im in missionary position with my legs raised and a big cock! My OH is QWE so i have 2 mattress protectors on our bed! if we're playing elsewhere i just dont lift my legs up .

Its not always the great thing its portrayed as, as others have said it can make sex too wet and uncomfortable and the mess annoying.

Im intrigued to know from others is it something that has happened to you as you've got older cos it only started happening to me after 30ish ? xx

1st time for me was back in august.

,Just wondering if there's a pattern of older ladies suddenly doing it?

"

I never did with my ex hubby but started it with my ex partner i was in my early thirties then so maybe there is

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over a year ago


"Whats the big thing about gushing? I get asked a fair bit if I do this and when I say I don't the guys always seem disappointed I can orgasm no problem so I don't get the deal really

its all about visual for some guys

I can gush but gushing isnt an orgasum, when i cum i dont gush and when i gush i dont cum, i get no sensation from gushing it really is just a case of loosing fluid, yet guys would sill sooner see me gush than make me cum, i think it just makes them feel good when they can see the fruits of their effort, where as i would sooner then sone fixating on making me gush and spend more time on giving me a real orgasum "

i have to agree with you here much rather cum than gush very ocassionally it will happen at the same time but usually only if i masterbate or hubby does it not usually happens with meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just greedy i like both

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"for me gushing only happens when im in missionary position with my legs raised and a big cock! My OH is QWE so i have 2 mattress protectors on our bed! if we're playing elsewhere i just dont lift my legs up .

Its not always the great thing its portrayed as, as others have said it can make sex too wet and uncomfortable and the mess annoying.

Im intrigued to know from others is it something that has happened to you as you've got older cos it only started happening to me after 30ish ? xx

1st time for me was back in august.

,Just wondering if there's a pattern of older ladies suddenly doing it?

I never did with my ex hubby but started it with my ex partner i was in my early thirties then so maybe there is"

Here lays the annoying bit.... my husband cant find the way to make me gush.

Yet he can get other women too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me gushing only happens when im in missionary position with my legs raised and a big cock! My OH is QWE so i have 2 mattress protectors on our bed! if we're playing elsewhere i just dont lift my legs up .

Its not always the great thing its portrayed as, as others have said it can make sex too wet and uncomfortable and the mess annoying.

Im intrigued to know from others is it something that has happened to you as you've got older cos it only started happening to me after 30ish ? xx

1st time for me was back in august.

,Just wondering if there's a pattern of older ladies suddenly doing it?

I never did with my ex hubby but started it with my ex partner i was in my early thirties then so maybe there is

Here lays the annoying bit.... my husband cant find the way to make me gush.

Yet he can get other women too "

And there's me thinking it was down to the guy .... clearly not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess it just appears the woman has been pleasures more thus making the

Man feel like a sex god!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess it just appears the woman has been pleasures more thus making the

Man feel like a sex god! "

So what what would you say if a women can make another women gush?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess it just appears the woman has been pleasures more thus making the

Man feel like a sex god!

So what what would you say if a women can make another women gush? "

Good girl springs to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess it just appears the woman has been pleasures more thus making the

Man feel like a sex god!

So what what would you say if a women can make another women gush?

Good girl springs to mind "

xxx

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Guess it just appears the woman has been pleasures more thus making the

Man feel like a sex god! "

I'll take a good ol traditional 'Fanny Fart' as a High Five any day of the week. Thats enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess it just appears the woman has been pleasures more thus making the

Man feel like a sex god!

I'll take a good ol traditional 'Fanny Fart' as a High Five any day of the week. Thats enough for me."

Havnt done one of those in awhile

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Guess it just appears the woman has been pleasures more thus making the

Man feel like a sex god!

I'll take a good ol traditional 'Fanny Fart' as a High Five any day of the week. Thats enough for me.

Havnt done one of those in awhile "

Well Autumn is upon us and the temp has dropped slightly. Now could be the time to let one/two/half a dozen out. Help keep the bed warm and fight off those winter bugs.

I'll be gobsmacked if this appears in next months 'Hello' on the 'Hints and Tips' pages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess it just appears the woman has been pleasures more thus making the

Man feel like a sex god!

I'll take a good ol traditional 'Fanny Fart' as a High Five any day of the week. Thats enough for me.

Havnt done one of those in awhile

Well Autumn is upon us and the temp has dropped slightly. Now could be the time to let one/two/half a dozen out. Help keep the bed warm and fight off those winter bugs.

I'll be gobsmacked if this appears in next months 'Hello' on the 'Hints and Tips' pages."

As far as i know it's not something we can just do it's not just like breaking wind.....

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Guess it just appears the woman has been pleasures more thus making the

Man feel like a sex god!

I'll take a good ol traditional 'Fanny Fart' as a High Five any day of the week. Thats enough for me.

Havnt done one of those in awhile

Well Autumn is upon us and the temp has dropped slightly. Now could be the time to let one/two/half a dozen out. Help keep the bed warm and fight off those winter bugs.

I'll be gobsmacked if this appears in next months 'Hello' on the 'Hints and Tips' pages.

As far as i know it's not something we can just do it's not just like breaking wind..... "

So what your saying is its not 'on demand' like Sky Sports Boxing or the latest movie release then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess it just appears the woman has been pleasures more thus making the

Man feel like a sex god!

I'll take a good ol traditional 'Fanny Fart' as a High Five any day of the week. Thats enough for me.

Havnt done one of those in awhile

Well Autumn is upon us and the temp has dropped slightly. Now could be the time to let one/two/half a dozen out. Help keep the bed warm and fight off those winter bugs.

I'll be gobsmacked if this appears in next months 'Hello' on the 'Hints and Tips' pages.

As far as i know it's not something we can just do it's not just like breaking wind.....

So what your saying is its not 'on demand' like Sky Sports Boxing or the latest movie release then? "

pms

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa


"Hi there... Just thought I'd ask you.. I've never gushed before,, tried it several times with my partner but I don't quite get that far... It feels like in gonna wee lol... Can you describe how it actually feels??? Get the concept but very curious as to let it happen?? "
hey hunni......I only experience it for the first time 2 yrs ago when I met my partner.....before that I was very sceptical about it and like a lot of people on here thought it was a porn thing.

My man said to me I bet I can make u squirt, and I remember saying, probably not!!!!!

For me its all done with magic fingers, the more turned on I am the easier it happens, when he hits the right spot with two fingers, and by the way this does not have to be rough as some have said, it should not be uncomfortable........the feeling is amazing.......u get a big build up in the region, the whole area becomes sensitized in a good way, and after a bit u release the fluid, quite often I feel rhymic contractions.....its intense, I find it very hard to be quiet at that point lol !!!

Look up squirting tutorial on the net......I think tenaflix have a good one where an American guy demonstrates how to do it with his girlfriend.....v informative xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there... Just thought I'd ask you.. I've never gushed before,, tried it several times with my partner but I don't quite get that far... It feels like in gonna wee lol... Can you describe how it actually feels??? Get the concept but very curious as to let it happen?? hey hunni......I only experience it for the first time 2 yrs ago when I met my partner.....before that I was very sceptical about it and like a lot of people on here thought it was a porn thing.

My man said to me I bet I can make u squirt, and I remember saying, probably not!!!!!

For me its all done with magic fingers, the more turned on I am the easier it happens, when he hits the right spot with two fingers, and by the way this does not have to be rough as some have said, it should not be uncomfortable........the feeling is amazing.......u get a big build up in the region, the whole area becomes sensitized in a good way, and after a bit u release the fluid, quite often I feel rhymic contractions.....its intense, I find it very hard to be quiet at that point lol !!!

Look up squirting tutorial on the net......I think tenaflix have a good one where an American guy demonstrates how to do it with his girlfriend.....v informative xx"

May just do that when kids have gone to bed

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By *xy_guy300Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Theres an art to it and its not just about a guy ramming his fingers in as hard as he can.

Visually its cool but if having sex and a woman is getting very wet i do find it a huge turn on because it feels like your hitting the right notes lol

I have to say whether a woman gushes or not for me though is irrelevant.

I'd much rather have her toes curling and for her to scream in pleasure once you find that rhythm. Its about making each orgasm breath taking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the big thing about gushing? I get asked a fair bit if I do this and when I say I don't the guys always seem disappointed I can orgasm no problem so I don't get the deal really "

its not that you cant its that you have to be touched a certain way to make it happen... i promise you can and it is very horny for a guy knowing he gets that reaction from a lady. i havent met a girl yet that i havent made gush (not showing off) it is just a technique

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Whats the big thing about gushing? I get asked a fair bit if I do this and when I say I don't the guys always seem disappointed I can orgasm no problem so I don't get the deal really

its not that you cant its that you have to be touched a certain way to make it happen... i promise you can and it is very horny for a guy knowing he gets that reaction from a lady. i havent met a girl yet that i havent made gush (not showing off) it is just a technique"

But for many women it is not that pleasurable. An orgasm proper is much much better.

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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent.

Im in my 30s and found that I can now gush whereas 10 years ago nothing.and I orgasm when im gushing.had one guy lap it all up,now that was nice,knowing he was enjoying my juice,and not just us women swallow.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love nothin more than havin a woman gush on me its just so sexy esp if shes queening me at the time mmm... Its not the fact ive made her do it or the entertainment, its more like a fetish i guess. Lol im just a cumslut i also do it myself, i do like doin it but a heavy session makes me really thirsty!

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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent.


"I love nothin more than havin a woman gush on me its just so sexy esp if shes queening me at the time mmm... Its not the fact ive made her do it or the entertainment, its more like a fetish i guess. Lol im just a cumslut i also do it myself, i do like doin it but a heavy session makes me really thirsty!"

whats queening??

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Queening is when you sit on someone's face. Sometimes force is involved if it is a sub/dom act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me gushing only happens when im in missionary position with my legs raised and a big cock! My OH is QWE so i have 2 mattress protectors on our bed! if we're playing elsewhere i just dont lift my legs up .

Its not always the great thing its portrayed as, as others have said it can make sex too wet and uncomfortable and the mess annoying.

Im intrigued to know from others is it something that has happened to you as you've got older cos it only started happening to me after 30ish ? xx

1st time for me was back in august.

,Just wondering if there's a pattern of older ladies suddenly doing it?

"

Possibly as I didn't gush until my first year swinging which would make me 49

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over a year ago


"Whats the big thing about gushing? I get asked a fair bit if I do this and when I say I don't the guys always seem disappointed I can orgasm no problem so I don't get the deal really "

Just be lucky you can orgasm unfortunately I cant gush squirt nd only sometimes orgasm through clit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the big thing about gushing? I get asked a fair bit if I do this and when I say I don't the guys always seem disappointed I can orgasm no problem so I don't get the deal really

Just be lucky you can orgasm unfortunately I cant gush squirt nd only sometimes orgasm through clit "

That's all i was doing... then someone found a switch and i'm cuming left right and centre. With gushing thrown in

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