FabSwingers.com forum: Messaging profiles with no veris

By *p4anything 2000 OP Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

Is it safe to message a profile with no verifications at all.? Especially when it comes to sending photos. Something I don't do but sometimes think missing an opportunity.

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

What's the risk? As long as you verify that they are genuine before meeting them, there's not much that can go wrong, except wasting a little time and effort if they turn out to be fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has to start somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all started out with no verifications. I do get dubious if they have been on here for quite a while and don't have any verifications, as I tend to think they aren't really serious about the swinging lifestyle.

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By *p4anything 2000 OP Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

Yes that would be my main concern the length of time they've been on the site.And if they are fake profiles what do they gain.? Thanks for feedback.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"Is it safe to message a profile with no verifications at all.? Especially when it comes to sending photos. Something I don't do but sometimes think missing an opportunity. "

We tend to give a swerve to people on for over 6 months without real meet verifications.

This will only apply once Covid out the way.

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By *appy nakedMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

I’m not verified yet but trying my best to meet up, hopefully only a matter of time, in the meantime I hope it doesn’t put anyone off messaging me.

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I'm not verified as I joined just before lockdown and haven't met anyone yet. I'm happy to chat on the phone to prove I'm real. Also thinking of heading to a club to meet some people that way

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Yes that would be my main concern the length of time they've been on the site.And if they are fake profiles what do they gain.? Thanks for feedback."

They must get a kick out of deceiving others into thinking they're a Couple or a Female. There's loads of fakes on here but they're not going to admit their reasoning. Experience will teach you how to spot them. Well verified are definitely less likely to be fake.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't send messages so it's not a concern but I recently blocked unverified from mailing me due to a bad experience.

It's up to each individual how they vet those they chat to and what their level of risk is.

Verifications may well prove someone is real but it doesn't mean they aren't fake.

Fake profiles are one thing and they can be blocked and reported, fake people are an entirely different risk.

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Some people don't want to be verified. I've been asked not to verify a person. It's their choice. Yes some are just talkers though. What is there to lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it safe to message a profile with no verifications at all.? Especially when it comes to sending photos. Something I don't do but sometimes think missing an opportunity. "

What safety do you think verifications prove?

Your wife's mates might be on here and verified.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yes but be careful that some profiles are not all they seem.

Miss

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By *idesWillTurnMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Everyone has to start somewhere "

The hard thing is so many people don't think like this

So a lot of genuine people get missed

Its a fine line I guess

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

We’re still new to all of this so we don’t have verifications but we are photo verified with the website. I think if you’re concerned then don’t send face photos or disclose any personal information until you’ve verified them for yourself. I wouldn’t expect anyone to send us photos or talk to us if they were worried about us being who we say we are.

Cookie (wife)

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