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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People don't take enough time for verifications, I've seen alot that just chat irrelevant crap however I'm not sure people know what to write in them. What makes a good verification? What do you look for when looking for a meet?

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By *he 1 2 watchWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I don't like filthy verifications. I like them to be respectful in what they say. None of this " I gave her a good fucking " that is just a turn off and I would not display it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't like filthy verifications. I like them to be respectful in what they say. None of this " I gave her a good fucking " that is just a turn off and I would not display it"

Agreed.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Respectful comments, some discretion, no need to be graphic about the meet but just suggestive maybe. More about the character than details of the whole session. I prefer to know the character of the person rather than a menu of sex acts they are happy to do.

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

They're called verifications, not reviews. I don't wanna know how good your night was, I just wanna know that the person / people are genuine, and turned up when they said they would.

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By *ndyn50000Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Don't you just say how you got on with the person you met, what they were like and then say whether you'd like to see them again (or is this to simple)?

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I think peopleay rush what they are writing then don't read it back.

I don't think anyone needs to go into any great detail but a bit of suggestiveness can remind all those involved of the pleasurable time they had.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Something personal. It's for the other person really. You don't need to review it, you can make it as ridiculous and silly as you want. I like ones that show a bit of personality and like they're done to please each other, not others reading it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't you just say how you got on with the person you met, what they were like and then say whether you'd like to see them again (or is this to simple)?"

You'd think so yes, reading some of the verifications some people leave are either vulgar or have no effort one or two lines, if this thread shows what people expect maybe they'd be written better

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I want to know that the person or people are who they claim to be and turned upon time. Anything else is irrelevant , I can make my own mind up about their personality or anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a social we just tell people how we found the person we have met , how comfortable we were with them and how relaxed we felt and that we hoped to see them again if it had gone well , which 99% have.

Same with play meet just say how much fun we had but never go into details of the naughty stuff that's between us and them

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport


"I don't like filthy verifications. I like them to be respectful in what they say. None of this " I gave her a good fucking " that is just a turn off and I would not display it"
bang on

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport


"I want to know that the person or people are who they claim to be and turned upon time. Anything else is irrelevant , I can make my own mind up about their personality or anything else"

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Let's be honest people no one writes a bad one if they did you have the choice to show it but I do like to read them and see if they are worth are time mrs m

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Don't you just say how you got on with the person you met, what they were like and then say whether you'd like to see them again (or is this to simple)?

You'd think so yes, reading some of the verifications some people leave are either vulgar or have no effort one or two lines, if this thread shows what people expect maybe they'd be written better

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Then again the way a verification is currently written tells you so much more about the person who wrote it and possibly the person who chose to display it than any schooled generic verification ever will.

People ask for advice on their profile and then change it to suit what they are told which means it is no longer a fair representation of who they really are. The same would be true for verifications.

If you don't like them that in itself is a good filter.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

We like to see respectful ones and hate seeing men who put she was a good little slot for me

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"People don't take enough time for verifications, I've seen alot that just chat irrelevant crap however I'm not sure people know what to write in them. What makes a good verification? What do you look for when looking for a meet? "

Don’t look for verifications, however, if people do…. The truth.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"They're called verifications, not reviews. I don't wanna know how good your night was, I just wanna know that the person / people are genuine, and turned up when they said they would. "

Exactly this! The box you click on reads “Verify genuine”, that’s all anyone needs to know, and please, don’t do repeats…….they’re unnecessary

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