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One offs or regular meets

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By *oobyHotwife OP   Woman
over a year ago

Thurrock

What are you looking for from this site?

One offs or a regular FWB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are you looking for from this site?

One offs or a regular FWB"

looking for a regular FWB, how about you?

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By *reengoddessCouple
over a year ago

Sidmouth

Regular meets. We want to build up a connection with people as then we can explore further and push each others boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular meets with people we connect with

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Regular one offs just don’t do it for me

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Regular meets with a group of couples, on off with singles as the mood strikes.

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By *appypaul69Man
over a year ago

vale

Regular meets and friendship is far better

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By *oobyHotwife OP   Woman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"What are you looking for from this site?

One offs or a regular FWB looking for a regular FWB, how about you?"

In an ideal world a bit of both a couple of guys that I meet once a month each, with the odd one off thrown into the mix

Sadly I find despite telling people from the start, I'm only really into one offs they seem to message non stop which has always prevented anything becoming regular, although saying that I've met two nice guys recently that definitely have FWB potential

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By *lla4everTV/TS
over a year ago

Overseas

would love to have some regular meets

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

A mixture....I (Bry) like the variety of seeing Char with new guys. But Char also likes seeing some of the guys more regularly, either with or without me.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer one offs really. But a FWB or two can be nice xx

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Would prefer regular meets, that way trust can be built and limits can be pushed

MJ x

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

I think different meets for different reasons, not one size fits all

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Ideally regular. I do have a couple of guys that I meet with on a semi regular basis. But I do enjoy the excitement of meeting someone new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the one offs.

Getting to know someone too well is taking away from the sex and making it more of a "Come dine with me" but sex instead of food.

And we have seen the bad meals on there.

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By *inkymixedguyMan
over a year ago

southampton

Regular because a connection between us makes things all that more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind one offs, but would very much like 2 or 3 fb playmates...

A big ask really.. though not impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll start with one......please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would much prefer one regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry had to delete as too many spelling mistakes - damn you predictive text!

We have had one off meets, but we are now looking for regular meets so we can build trust and push boundaries xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs.. wouldn't mind a regular but I stilllllll haven't found what I'm looking forrrrrrrr.

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By *elilah999Woman
over a year ago

Malton

Regular 100%

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

Prefer regular. I have been meeting a couple for just under 8 years and a lady for nearly 5.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a regular FWB I do see now and then couple of men friends but ones I like to far away and as ladys definitely got our needs weekly be perfect lol

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

One offs and if the meets are positive then a few more, maybe even another down the line but nothing to get too familiar tbh. We enjoy the nervous energy that goes with those we don't know which wains for us when familiarity kicks in.

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By *piritualSFCMan
over a year ago

london

Regular but doesn't have to be exclusive. Just trusting and transparent Fwb.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Regular would be great, but it's very hard to find!

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By *piritualSFCMan
over a year ago

london


"Regular would be great, but it's very hard to find!"

Looks like a lot looking for the same in this chat. You never know you may just find one.

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"One offs.. wouldn't mind a regular but I stilllllll haven't found what I'm looking forrrrrrrr."

Have you climbed, the highest mountain?

I'm more about FWB. Seems like a lot of us about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Ideally regular as I prefer to have an FWB for the social side too as I find the benefits become much better when you get to know each other more intimately.

I have both my dressing side and male side which can make things more varied which can be great if they're into that.

I do also like one offs too but these usually happen in clubs and I wouldn't say no to purely socials either if they came my way

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

A bit of both which ever comes first

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

Regular

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

While like many of us I swing because I enjoy the variety but I do like to get to know people too with repeat meets so one can really know what turns them on & vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular

NBVN x

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Regular please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are you looking for from this site?

One offs or a regular FWB"

Definitely regular fun as you can build up to better and better sex and more social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a mix for us.

A really enjoys some of the one off meets, but K prefers to know people a bit so she can relax around them.

Some of the repeat meets with the right people just keep getting better.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Regular meets with cpls. We do have one guy lined up we fanced having a play with though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy regular but one offs can be great fun too.

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

I would only want to meet with ladies I have nice chemistry with. Why go through all that effort for a one off. Regular all the way…

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By *ts_RezMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Regular meets

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

While we have had one off meets(very few) we ideally look for couples/ ladies we can meet regularly with. Build a friendship over time, as we find the sex gets better.

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By *averick86xxxMan
over a year ago

lincoln

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By *averick86xxxMan
over a year ago

lincoln

Meeting from time to time

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Regular meets with playmates we connect with which allows everyone to explore further. It’s usually a lot more relaxing when playing as you’re already acquainted whereas nerves can kick in at first.

We can host in our home in Derbyshire!

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Regular 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular meets. We want to build up a connection with people as then we can explore further and push each others boundaries "

We agree with this xx

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By *anuel ducatiMan
over a year ago

leyburn


"What are you looking for from this site?

One offs or a regular FWB looking for a regular FWB, how about you?

In an ideal world a bit of both a couple of guys that I meet once a month each, with the odd one off thrown into the mix

Sadly I find despite telling people from the start, I'm only really into one offs they seem to message non stop which has always prevented anything becoming regular, although saying that I've met two nice guys recently that definitely have FWB potential "

OMG, why can't I find a fwb like you

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Regular. Without doubt.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Regular meets, but finding some one that will tolerate me is difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular meets, more fb then fwb to start. The problem I’m having with this though (as someone else has mentioned) they constantly blow my phone up with messages and it’s off putting. Especially when you’re upfront and set boundaries from the start.

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By *ub_n_wifeCouple
over a year ago

Spilsby

Finding a regular couple would be good.

Finding a couple that are mindful and actually ‘switch off’ and distinguish between overstepping friendship and play would be a dream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both have their benefits..

Regular meets give the ability to build a connection and understand each other and push boundaries

One offs allow you to indulge, just enjoy the moment and have fun

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

Regular meets with someone you can build trust and good times with. You can't be completely satisfied on a hot and run, it's just not cricket. As long as the first meet goes well of course.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

One offs mainly but we’ve returned to people we’ve liked before. For people to become regulars with us they’d really have to connect with us on several levels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually looking for a partner,just loyal and high adventurous sex drive but it's very hard to find

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Really enjoy one offs where its not really practical to become fwbs due to distance but would really like to find some local fwbs we could have fun with when we don't fancy traveling to a club aor when we just fancy a filthy session

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By *torm8913Woman
over a year ago

Cape Coral

FWB. I won’t do one off’s.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

regular meets the sex gets better

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Both really but would prefer regular

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Definitely regular for us. Couples and singles, build up a good connection between us all makes all the naughty stuff so much better. Hard to find thou local unfortunately x

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By *unnyman84Man
over a year ago

maidstone


"Definitely regular for us. Couples and singles, build up a good connection between us all makes all the naughty stuff so much better. Hard to find thou local unfortunately x"

Maybe I can help??

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By *icecock9999Man
over a year ago

Oxford

Prefer to meet someone to push boundaries with with trust as the most important thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both.

Regulars to build up the trust, break down boundaries.

One offs for that first time thrill

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By *erkshire BenMan
over a year ago

Reading

It all starts with that first meet! Once you have had that your know if it can be a regular or a one off. If the instant attraction is there to meet. It can lead to more fun.

Totally agree the more it goes on the better the sex. But some times. You can blow each other’s minds on a one off also.

Drop me a message who knows where it goes.

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

ANY meet would do me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regulars thou trying to find the right ones is hard lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer regular meets but when sometimes we like to be spontaneous

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done both do prefer regular meets as you can explore someone’s mind as well as there body more fully but you can’t beat the spontaneous one off meet

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Personally I'd rather have a regular fwb

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