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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi. I have always had a special sort of kink that has been with me for many years. This is from my profile:

Kinky fantasy: I have a very special interest. I want to find a female regular who will just use me to pleasure them whenever they want. Maybe it will be after a hard day at work, or maybe they just need to come. I can come round early in the morning and late at night and stay for as long as I am wanted and need no reciprocation. Must fit around work, obviously. The key to it though is the pleasure they need: to want to be orally pleasured. If you know the art of Namio Harukawa you will know what I mean!

I just wondered how many men have similar and what any women think about that sort of fetish? Also how would I find someone who would want something like this, on this website?

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Lots of women who love receiving oral so not sure it would be that difficult. Just finding someone you click with I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots of women who love receiving oral so not sure it would be that difficult. Just finding someone you click with I guess. "

I agree with you totally. The problem is my experience is different. I have met a few people especially on my previous profile as I’ve been on fab for around five years now, and I’m surprised how few people can get off on oral alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots of women who love receiving oral so not sure it would be that difficult. Just finding someone you click with I guess. "

Ps I tried to send you a message. Not to try and meet you because I did read your profile but to chat. Unfortunately I am too old for you!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

You're aiming for 0.000001 of women on here. As they have to be local, essentially soft swingers, fit in around your work, have to really like oral (if only), want something regular and accom as you say you go go around ... you're really going to need some luck I'd think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're aiming for 0.000001 of women on here. As they have to be local, essentially soft swingers, fit in around your work, have to really like oral (if only), want something regular and accom as you say you go go around ... you're really going to need some luck I'd think "

I can travel. That’s on my profile and also I think most people have to put their job first. I’ve yet to meet anyone who is able to just take a day off for a meeting when someone requests it.

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Sounds a fabulous idea...if good with fingers too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds a fabulous idea...if good with fingers too lol"

Surely in this situation, the combo is the way forward

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally mouth and fingers. I might adjust my profile accordingly. With fingers I think it’s important to find out what she likes. With all it is exactly the same, of course, but I have learnt from female partners that someone who loves to give oral generally gives all better than someone who is just doing it because it’s their turn!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"You're aiming for 0.000001 of women on here. As they have to be local, essentially soft swingers, fit in around your work, have to really like oral (if only), want something regular and accom as you say you go go around ... you're really going to need some luck I'd think

I can travel. That’s on my profile and also I think most people have to put their job first. I’ve yet to meet anyone who is able to just take a day off for a meeting when someone requests it. "

I am not saying people aren't in the same situation only pointing out that you are appealing to a very limited audience. On top of the above, they have to click with you as opposed to a one off - it may be reason why you last profile of 5 years got so few meets.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I'd imagine quite a lot of women would want a regular guy on-tap, like a kinky emergency service to call on as required.

I'm also a believer that if you don't ask, you don't get, so put it out there OP and let it be known and and your woman may appear.

Personally speaking, the offer of just oral wouldn't do it for me, having a guy for my pleasure would involve using his cock too.

Best of luck in your quest.

C

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're aiming for 0.000001 of women on here. As they have to be local, essentially soft swingers, fit in around your work, have to really like oral (if only), want something regular and accom as you say you go go around ... you're really going to need some luck I'd think

I can travel. That’s on my profile and also I think most people have to put their job first. I’ve yet to meet anyone who is able to just take a day off for a meeting when someone requests it.

I am not saying people aren't in the same situation only pointing out that you are appealing to a very limited audience. On top of the above, they have to click with you as opposed to a one off - it may be reason why you last profile of 5 years got so few meets. "

Yes thank you. I did still get some mate but never the meets the ended up meeting my requirements so you’re totally right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd imagine quite a lot of women would want a regular guy on-tap, like a kinky emergency service to call on as required.

I'm also a believer that if you don't ask, you don't get, so put it out there OP and let it be known and and your woman may appear.

Personally speaking, the offer of just oral wouldn't do it for me, having a guy for my pleasure would involve using his cock too.

Best of luck in your quest.

C"

Thank you and yes I have. I’ve put it on my profile very direct and clear. Alas your comment is pretty much what most people tell me. There is no harm having fun on the way to meeting that special person though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd imagine quite a lot of women would want a regular guy on-tap, like a kinky emergency service to call on as required.

I'm also a believer that if you don't ask, you don't get, so put it out there OP and let it be known and and your woman may appear.

Personally speaking, the offer of just oral wouldn't do it for me, having a guy for my pleasure would involve using his cock too.

Best of luck in your quest.

C

Thank you and yes I have. I’ve put it on my profile very direct and clear. Alas your comment is pretty much what most people tell me. There is no harm having fun on the way to meeting that special person though. "

I don’t think it’s that clear what you’re offering as what you describe sounds very much like you’re a sub looking for a dom but you go on to say you’re not submissive. I find it a bit confusing so maybe others do too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats a big claim op say that those who only like to give oral do it better ?? a claim that i can say is utter crap i get that your trying to get yourself out there but dont do it at the expense of others you dont know..

agree with what someone aready said your appealing to a very small market for which 1000s of guys are wanting but not so many women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"thats a big claim op say that those who only like to give oral do it better ?? a claim that i can say is utter crap i get that your trying to get yourself out there but dont do it at the expense of others you dont know..

agree with what someone aready said your appealing to a very small market for which 1000s of guys are wanting but not so many women"

I’m not sure I understand your aggressive tone. I merely said that women I have been with have told me that they prefer oral from people who like to do it. I’m not sure how I’m attacking any other people. All I suppose that people who enjoy giving oral give the women I have spoken to more pleasure than the people who don’t really enjoy giving oral. There is some logic to that as well. Not sure who I am attacking……

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