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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Grabs popcorn*

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Not every woman demands

Don't go for the ones that are

Oh and no good whining about it won't get you far

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By *rTongueMan
over a year ago

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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over "

I understand where you are coming from. But it’s their decision in the end of the day. Both stops you from using the same demands on your profile.

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By *he one 23Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Totally agree to one sided

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By *ohnnyTwoNotesMan
over a year ago

golden fields


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over "

Don't worry about it. Move on to the next person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over "

Who is fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over

Who is fake? "

Those that don't give him what he wants, I assume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't send face pics, because Mrs is a minger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just move onto the next person.

Why get so wound up about something so trivial?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over "

Why would you engage with and send a photo to a profile you don’t know if you’d fancy? Surely just move on to one that does have photos?

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By *byeguysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Paisley


"We don't send face pics, because Mrs is a minger "

We don’t send face pics because mrs is a bloke.

Honestly, the amount of guys that are a couples profile and don’t realise we’re both male astounds me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's life on an Internet site

Get used to it or leave

That's the only options

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By *unnydownsouthCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"We don't send face pics, because Mrs is a minger "

Haa haa

Dog house for you

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile"

Nope.


"you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block"

You do realise just how many messages single women get? If they don't fancy you, they're quite within their rights to block you and move on. And a face pic in a first message is a very easy, quick filter.


"i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place"

Exactly what they are thinking when asking for a face pic. Someone has to be the first to send, and let's be honest, women's pics are more likely to be asked for by collectors than blokes pics.


"my pictures are hidden due to my job"

So stop sending them to unknown people on the internet. You can't have it both ways - either stay hidden and never get a meet, or send your pics and risk your job.


"rubbish your fake end of ha rant over"

Ah....the final words of someone who's not getting instant free sex.

(Bry)

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Want to buy a full stop ?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Totally agree to one sided "

you can do the same, hardly one sided.

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By *ick270Man
over a year ago

Here

Pulling up a chair for this one

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Aww do you need a hug op and a cup of Horlicks

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By *nchantedRoseWoman
over a year ago

cardiff

Men and couples are demanding too

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By *lackHardDickMan
over a year ago

London


"We don't send face pics, because Mrs is a minger "
This got me crying with laughter. Hahaha woooieee my belly hurts Lol

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over "

Aw it’s almost like having preferences in real life huh sorry I’d quite like to fancy the person I’m fucking. Certainly wouldn’t fuck someone who I never saw their face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need an angry wank OP

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Would you like some fries with that salt? :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they say no reply unless a face pic sent you have a choice to send or not. If you do send and get blocked or no reply then you do not need to worry about if you fancy them or not, clearly you do not suit them. At least you know where you stand.

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Try not to take fab so seriously …life is far too short.

M

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"*Grabs popcorn*"

This^^ should be interesting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is meant to be fun. It doesn't sound like you're enjoying it OP. Maybe just scroll on past demanding profiles and look for profiles that appeal to you.

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By *onorary-UnicornCouple
over a year ago

hackbridge

Even as a couples profile we get faceless people who also don't have public photos so we don't even ask we just delete. Especially if they are unverified. Byeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree! You should all delete your accounts and stop messaging instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear here we go again...

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

See if you actually met our demands and made a tiny bit of effort, you might have some success.... Just an idea...

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs


"Would you like some fries with that salt? :P"

This made me laugh .

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

This just reeks of *someone rejected me*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile

Nope.

you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block

You do realise just how many messages single women get? If they don't fancy you, they're quite within their rights to block you and move on. And a face pic in a first message is a very easy, quick filter.

i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place

Exactly what they are thinking when asking for a face pic. Someone has to be the first to send, and let's be honest, women's pics are more likely to be asked for by collectors than blokes pics.

my pictures are hidden due to my job

So stop sending them to unknown people on the internet. You can't have it both ways - either stay hidden and never get a meet, or send your pics and risk your job.

rubbish your fake end of ha rant over

Ah....the final words of someone who's not getting instant free sex.

(Bry)"

No need for any further comments on this thread... brilliant summarised response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over "

This post reminds me of why I don't allow men to message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over "
I agree with some of your comments, some women's expectations and demands on here are laughable, face pic issue, just avoid those profiles.. problem solved

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By *adInLiverpoolMan
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over "

Mate you’re not gonna get much sympathy here, even more so from the girls.

Girls select, men don’t on and off fab, welcome to the world.

Just decide what you are and what you aren’t willing to do and stick to that, other than that all I can say is don’t have any expectations.

It’s shitty but true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

great these post ...great for blocking and avoiding cossing paths at a later date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just supply and demand in action. 7 million men chasing every single beautiful, sexy, tantalisingly edible horny lady... I can see why they build walls with rules.

The one's that don't make up for it.

My maths is probably wrong but my point stands

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Pulls up chair, popcorn in hand

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

If all males refused to send face pics with a first message then women would stop demanding. Sadly this will never happen.

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over "

Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t like it! Pass those profiles by. I have strict criteria but still have 1100 unread messages, without the criteria my inbox would be worse.

And I have public face pics so yes I expect guys to send face pics.

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By *adInLiverpoolMan
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL


"Don’t like it! Pass those profiles by. I have strict criteria but still have 1100 unread messages, without the criteria my inbox would be worse.

And I have public face pics so yes I expect guys to send face pics. "

You’re cute as fuck, can’t message ya due to age and just wanted to say that...anywayyyy cya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over

Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t like it! Pass those profiles by. I have strict criteria but still have 1100 unread messages, without the criteria my inbox would be worse.

And I have public face pics so yes I expect guys to send face pics.

You’re cute as fuck, can’t message ya due to age and just wanted to say that...anywayyyy cya!"

Respect lol -- she is very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over

Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world"

This says more about some men than women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t like it! Pass those profiles by. I have strict criteria but still have 1100 unread messages, without the criteria my inbox would be worse.

And I have public face pics so yes I expect guys to send face pics.

You’re cute as fuck, can’t message ya due to age and just wanted to say that...anywayyyy cya!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over

Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world "

Great comment x

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I personally like profiles with lots of demands on them - it means I can ignore them, safe in the knowledge that they are not for me.

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By *adInLiverpoolMan
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL


"Don’t like it! Pass those profiles by. I have strict criteria but still have 1100 unread messages, without the criteria my inbox would be worse.

And I have public face pics so yes I expect guys to send face pics.

You’re cute as fuck, can’t message ya due to age and just wanted to say that...anywayyyy cya!

"

Awww look she’s all embarrassed, bet she’s even cuter when she is.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I can understand your frustration but as a woman who was followed home by a man I sent a face pic to, after he recognised me in the street, I'm very wary about sending mine first.

I've had a friend's son and a nieces ex message me, that could have been trouble for me if they knew who I was.

I just said no thanks and blocked them.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over

Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world

This says more about some men than women! "

This

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over

Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world

This says more about some men than women! "

What? It’s true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over

Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world

This says more about some men than women!

What? It’s true "

Because it shows that some men will fuck anything whether they find them attractive or not! So it says more about men than it does about women!

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over

Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world

This says more about some men than women!

What? It’s true

Because it shows that some men will fuck anything whether they find them attractive or not! So it says more about men than it does about women! "

Yes some will. But the women who let them are encouraging that behaviour. They should ask themselves is this someone who would talk to me if we were out in a bar. If the answer is no, then don’t let that man get his way.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

If you dont like a woman's profile OP then don't send a message and you won't be troubled by non replies etc . If on the other hand you wish to go to the effort of messaging ,despite the obstacles, then think about why she is putting them up and respond positively. They are there for a reason and your chances improve if you follow them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over

Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world

This says more about some men than women!

What? It’s true

Because it shows that some men will fuck anything whether they find them attractive or not! So it says more about men than it does about women!

Yes some will. But the women who let them are encouraging that behaviour. They should ask themselves is this someone who would talk to me if we were out in a bar. If the answer is no, then don’t let that man get his way."

So if you get approached by a woman you felt was more attractive than you you’d turn them down? Yeah right! plus it’s not a woman’s responsibility to question it every time especially as many men on here like diff things. For example there are many gym fit guys who like BBWs so are you saying every woman who isn’t perfect looking should only reply if she deems the guy to be the same level of attractiveness.

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By *adInLiverpoolMan
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

This is all pretty simple.

Women select, men are selected.

“Eggs are expensive, sperm is cheap” ever heard that?

Water is wet, life is unfair.

Don’t moan about women having an advantage, and don’t blame men for “fucking anything” when they are biologically programmed to do so(spread their seed), just like women are biologically programmed to select since they carry the child.

“But we’re not here to have children” you say?

Your body doesn’t know the difference....

No one is above their biological drives, instincts and needs, BUT you can have a little fun along the way with a little understanding.

Right argument over, now go try and talk to, have a laugh with or fuck someone, but at the very least HAVE SOME FUN WITH IT!!

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over

Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world

This says more about some men than women!

What? It’s true

Because it shows that some men will fuck anything whether they find them attractive or not! So it says more about men than it does about women!

Yes some will. But the women who let them are encouraging that behaviour. They should ask themselves is this someone who would talk to me if we were out in a bar. If the answer is no, then don’t let that man get his way.

So if you get approached by a woman you felt was more attractive than you you’d turn them down? Yeah right! plus it’s not a woman’s responsibility to question it every time especially as many men on here like diff things. For example there are many gym fit guys who like BBWs so are you saying every woman who isn’t perfect looking should only reply if she deems the guy to be the same level of attractiveness."

I don’t believe in giving false hope so yes.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

So you want to stand a chance OP when the odds are already stacked against you with the disparity of numbers between men and women on here already so if someone (I say someone as men and tv/ts also say this if they so choose) would like a face pic to see if there could be an attraction then send it.

It stops you from wasting each others time if after weeks of messaging you take one look at their pics and think no thanks.

People run their profiles and methods on here as they wish, don't like it then move on to the next person and try again.

Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over "

Have a snickers karen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over

Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world

Great comment x "

Unfortunately, some of us have met people from fab, in the real world and they were not as expected. You may see it as outrageous asks, I see it as keeping myself as safe as possible. I think the most unreasonable thing on fab is mens behaviour towards women. If you want a quick meet, there are sites for that. If you want to do well on fab, be a decent human being and respect the persons requests, if you want to engage. There are thousands of threads like this on fab. Search profile help. Learn how to communicate with people. Take responsibility and stop blaming women for your shortcomings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are quite a few fake female accounts- of course everyone has the right to have what they want on a profile but I definitely think there are some men just getting off pretending to be single woman and teasing people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there are quite a few fake female accounts- of course everyone has the right to have what they want on a profile but I definitely think there are some men just getting off pretending to be single woman and teasing people "

Absolute freaks these sort of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there are quite a few fake female accounts- of course everyone has the right to have what they want on a profile but I definitely think there are some men just getting off pretending to be single woman and teasing people

Absolute freaks these sort of people "

Absolutely!!! Just timewasters but we have started to be able to spot them now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there are quite a few fake female accounts- of course everyone has the right to have what they want on a profile but I definitely think there are some men just getting off pretending to be single woman and teasing people

Absolute freaks these sort of people

Absolutely!!! Just timewasters but we have started to be able to spot them now "

I'm new but what I've seen so far is there is loads on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are aware asking someone to send a message only if they attach a face photo is a request and not a demand because you don't have to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't send face pics, because Mrs is a minger

We don’t send face pics because mrs is a bloke.

Honestly, the amount of guys that are a couples profile and don’t realise we’re both male astounds me. "

Honestly I can totally imagine that because lots of people just don't bother looking they just see couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well why hide your profile OP? Oh you dont want to be messaged by fools either?

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Well op can you blame them for constantly getting messages from people that don’t read profiles it’s a brilliant filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there are quite a few fake female accounts- of course everyone has the right to have what they want on a profile but I definitely think there are some men just getting off pretending to be single woman and teasing people "

I agree but I have also found plenty of fake couples profiles where it's just the man who ever meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you like some cheese to accompany your whine?

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Some will be fake some will be picture hunters and the few will be real. And they will be ing through the fakes and picture hunters the other way.

You probably have a ratio of 100-1 being able to find someone that is actually looking and takes a fancy to you.

You will meet someone but don’t let the frustration get to you beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trouble single guys have is the amount on you on here,so your always going to get guys who will do anything to get a meet,

Maybe if you all stuck to your guns and didnt message the demanding female profiles things might change ,

Lets face it a lot are wanting attention which they dont get in real life , but fab allows them to get that attention ...

So really the ball is in your court guys

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Sigh. Self-own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every profile on here is about their own needs and wants,its as simple as that

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we wouldn't meet anyone without face pics,

and suspect that is true of many here too

if you won't send them then meets are going to be less likely in our humble opinions.

Understand what you are saying though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trouble single guys have is the amount on you on here,so your always going to get guys who will do anything to get a meet,

Maybe if you all stuck to your guns and didnt message the demanding female profiles things might change ,

Lets face it a lot are wanting attention which they dont get in real life , but fab allows them to get that attention ...

So really the ball is in your court guys "

If I change my profile to 'looking for men' I will get at least 50 messages in a day. Just with my shite profile.

Great ego boost.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its keith if your gna try taking the piss silly boy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Eeee you all make me laugh you got all the women here defending themselves likemthey do nothing wrong and then you got all the males agreeing with them as your frightend you dont get a fuck hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its keith if your gna try taking the piss silly boy "

Use reply +quote so we know who you are replying to…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you’re still whining.

The circle of fab continues to whirl around.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Eeee you all make me laugh you got all the women here defending themselves likemthey do nothing wrong and then you got all the males agreeing with them as your frightend you dont get a fuck hahaha"

You still moaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put yourself in their shoes

How many messages must they get a day

At first they may try soft through messages and be polite

But the more and more messages they get the harder it is for them to keep up..

If they are on here to play they need to out the people who are messaging them just to talk with no intention of meeting, statistically it's gunna be users with no pics

Then you have to tak into consideration people with pics.. are they physically what they're looking for? If not why would they wanna waste their time telling you that when they can put it on their profile?

Then you have people who do have pics, but still aren't looking to meet

On here there's probably 90% users who have no intention of meeting, about 50% of them will be upfront about it the other 50% won't

That's why they're blunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If profiles like that aren't your cup of tea then don't engage with them. Nobody is forcing you to message these women

There are plenty of profiles on FAB that aren't like that, and sometimes the tone can be off-putting... but tbh it sounds like your complaint is that woman you're attracted to have *the audacity* to have criteria that you probably won't meet and don't want to have sex with you lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm not fed up with anything on someone else's profile.

If it gives me a better idea of them as a person it's a good thing and helps me decide if they are worth meeting or not.

If you feel so strongly about it though why hide your profile or is that so others can't critique it?

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Cake anyone

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Cake anyone "

Me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cake anyone "

I wish folk would stop offering bloody cake, I’m trying to sculpt a new body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cake anyone "

Lemon drizzle for me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think op is on wrong site think he needs sex-on-a-plate dot com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cake anyone

I wish folk would stop offering bloody cake, I’m trying to sculpt a new body "

Out of cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cake anyone

I wish folk would stop offering bloody cake, I’m trying to sculpt a new body

Out of cake? "

I finished that one. It’s a life sized replica of the body I want if I could only stop eating cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it helps, there is a post on here giving advice to single guys.

I came across it when I first paid for membership, if I had read this post before I wouldn't have paid the membership fee.

the post basically states that this is a women site and they hold all the cards, single men are pond life and should feel themselves lucky to be courted by a female or couples.

that made me feel insecure really, to be thought of in such a way, or maybe single guys accept this and happly to engage.

it has put me off going to clubs but not a social I feel socials are different.

anyway I hope that helps

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Cake anyone

I wish folk would stop offering bloody cake, I’m trying to sculpt a new body

Out of cake? "

That’s Brexit for you

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"If it helps, there is a post on here giving advice to single guys.

I came across it when I first paid for membership, if I had read this post before I wouldn't have paid the membership fee.

the post basically states that this is a women site and they hold all the cards, single men are pond life and should feel themselves lucky to be courted by a female or couples.

that made me feel insecure really, to be thought of in such a way, or maybe single guys accept this and happly to engage.

it has put me off going to clubs but not a social I feel socials are different.

anyway I hope that helps "

The numbers on here speak for themselves so there is an element of supply and demand but nobody holds the cards.

If you see all women on here as a collective and speak to them as such of course you won't make any progress but if you speak to people as individuals and equals anything is possible.

The only person you compete against on here is yourself and if you constantly see yourself as a doormat that's how others will treat you.

It's more than possible to retain your self respect and have meaningful conversations on this site and at the same time ignore demands that you don't agree with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm demanding in real life and in the bedroom so a demanding profile gives a good insight in to what I am actually like

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

If you don't like what they put on their profile, don't talk to them. Problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it helps, there is a post on here giving advice to single guys.

I came across it when I first paid for membership, if I had read this post before I wouldn't have paid the membership fee.

the post basically states that this is a women site and they hold all the cards, single men are pond life and should feel themselves lucky to be courted by a female or couples.

that made me feel insecure really, to be thought of in such a way, or maybe single guys accept this and happly to engage.

it has put me off going to clubs but not a social I feel socials are different.

anyway I hope that helps "

there are alot of very successful men on the scene and on fab even a dew on the forums so if menm are thought of as pond life then how come they are getting things right ... clearly not all men are thought of in the same way ... you sound very bitter and with reply post like yours i feel thats why your not getting a look in...

alot of men get nowhere because they dont want to swing they just want sex on a plate with no effort but the main reason is simply there are far far to many men to women and thats getting bigger daily ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Most people sensibly use fab in the ways that they find works best for them. Of course they want to deter inappropriate people, who don't match them. Most people are not compatible with most other people, so clearing the wheat from the chaff is intelligent.

When you get a profile that makes it ultra simple that they are not right for you, move on..

Make whatever rules and demands you want, within site rules. It's very simple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over "

If you are feeling frustrated, maybe it’s time to have a short break from Fabs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread "

And any of the men who've commented on this thread have more of a chance of getting sex than you do. Some of that will be punctuation, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chose not to respond with a photo’ because they don’t fancy you. Simple as that.

The block comes so that they don’t have the almost inevitable abuse that would follow the rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway, I’m off. I’ve got meets to arrange.

Have a great Friday OP.

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By *onorary-UnicornCouple
over a year ago

hackbridge


"If it helps, there is a post on here giving advice to single guys.

I came across it when I first paid for membership, if I had read this post before I wouldn't have paid the membership fee.

the post basically states that this is a women site and they hold all the cards, single men are pond life and should feel themselves lucky to be courted by a female or couples.

that made me feel insecure really, to be thought of in such a way, or maybe single guys accept this and happly to engage.

it has put me off going to clubs but not a social I feel socials are different.

anyway I hope that helps "

I wouldn’t say call all single guys on here are pond life but if you saw our inbox, I’m sure you would agree that a huge percentage are.

As a couples profile, on a day where we post new a photo or status update, we can get several hundred messages from single guys. I’d imagine the single girls get even more. So yes, women and couples really do get their choice of the bunch. However the vast majority of the guys on her make that choice very easy with their rude, disgusting, offensive messages, often with blatant disregard that we have a couples profile or boring unimaginative “hey” messages, generic copy and paste messages or messages that show their either didn’t read our profile or did and chose to ignore it. Then if it’s not their messages putting us off, it’s their profile. Often with no photos or just cock photos and very little information about them, what they are looking for or what they can offer. Usually unverified and not even photo verified.

So honestly, it’s really not hard to stand out as a single guy, get replies and meets (we have met with mainly single guys since being on here). All you need to do is send a good opening message, have a good written profile with photos of you and not just your cock and if you don’t want face photos on your profile, be willing to send them. That’s it. Pretty simple. Follow that and I’m sure you will get your membership fee’s worth.

And don’t be put off clubs. It’s a totally different game than online. I’m sure none of these guys would approach us in real life and try to start a conversation the way they do in a message on here. So clubs are more relaxed, less walls have to be put up.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread "

I get you OP and I imagine it's incredibly frustrating, if you feel like you are being lied to, especially if it's dozens of people in a row, who you are sending your face pic to, expecting to get 1 returned.

But being realistic, they will only return their pics, to those that they want to continue to mutually evaluate, where there is a definite possibility of attraction.

Once any of us fail to sustain possible compatibility, we have to be prepared to not hear anything further. No repky, no thanks, nada. And definitely not a courtesy photo, because you had intelligently sent them some. No reply = no thanks

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By *om Bert2020Man
over a year ago

Jersey / Swansea

Those who want face photo's, who don't have their own face photo on their profile just pass them bye does not matter if they are male or female

end of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always approach women in person OP

See how far you get that way if this isn't working for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't write the post referring to single guys as pond life, another man did, I just read it and explained how it has made me felt and the actions I have taken to avoid feeling that way. the rest of your comments are your own, I wasn't asking for advice and I am certainly not bitter in any way

I have chosen how I will interact with others and at what type of event.

I will also say I put in to the fab search box single guys and saw that the op is not the only single guy to comment so there must be some sort of realisation by single guys,

I can get laid at anytime by a variety of means, im here for something different but stumbled in to something else a sort of hierarchy.

if you see my view as putting you down, I think its those critics who try and put me down instead of thinking is there something to this is there a solution and I know what that solution is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for face photos I only the other day posted on my status a comment regarding photos, from profiles who show no photo themselves, needless to say I don't want contact with them.

plus other profiles state that there photos are their own etc, so it seems photos are taken or stolen and used by others on other sites, this being known is it wise to send photos to others ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this other day asked for a pic then blocked lol not bothered but could have said not my cup of tea but nothing

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

How to lose your Fab meetability in one post lol.

Well done, OP, poor you for having to put up with demanding women! Shame on us we wouldn't fuck just anyone and need to see their face pic before deciding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like when they keep sending me unsolicited boobs pics and complain about dick pics. Everyday my inbox is full of boobs pictures. Come on ladies be more creative. Seen them once seen them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't write the post referring to single guys as pond life, another man did, I just read it and explained how it has made me felt and the actions I have taken to avoid feeling that way. the rest of your comments are your own, I wasn't asking for advice and I am certainly not bitter in any way

I have chosen how I will interact with others and at what type of event.

I will also say I put in to the fab search box single guys and saw that the op is not the only single guy to comment so there must be some sort of realisation by single guys,

I can get laid at anytime by a variety of means, im here for something different but stumbled in to something else a sort of hierarchy.

if you see my view as putting you down, I think its those critics who try and put me down instead of thinking is there something to this is there a solution and I know what that solution is.

"

I do think that view that all single guys are pond life - it comes from a very embittered experience of the site. All of us will view the site based on our own experiences. I find on the Lounge definitely any really bigoted views of single men or anyone else will be challenged.

Not sure what you mean when you refer to the hierarchy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How to lose your Fab meetability in one post lol.

Well done, OP, poor you for having to put up with demanding women! Shame on us we wouldn't fuck just anyone and need to see their face pic before deciding. "

op hasn't mentioned fucking women has he?

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By *onorary-UnicornCouple
over a year ago

hackbridge


"I had this other day asked for a pic then blocked lol not bothered but could have said not my cup of tea but nothing "

I would say a good 80% of the time, when we’d reply with a “sorry, not our type but thanks” message after receiving a face pic, it would result in a barrage of abuse. It became simply easier to just not reply at all.

I can’t speak for the other couples, single women or the people that didn’t reply to you but I would imagine it’s for a similar reason.

Blame the huge percentage of single men on here that act like that rather than blaming the couples and single women.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"How to lose your Fab meetability in one post lol.

Well done, OP, poor you for having to put up with demanding women! Shame on us we wouldn't fuck just anyone and need to see their face pic before deciding.

op hasn't mentioned fucking women has he?"

I think you missed the main point of my post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't write the post referring to single guys as pond life, another man did, I just read it and explained how it has made me felt and the actions I have taken to avoid feeling that way. the rest of your comments are your own, I wasn't asking for advice and I am certainly not bitter in any way

I have chosen how I will interact with others and at what type of event.

I will also say I put in to the fab search box single guys and saw that the op is not the only single guy to comment so there must be some sort of realisation by single guys,

I can get laid at anytime by a variety of means, im here for something different but stumbled in to something else a sort of hierarchy.

if you see my view as putting you down, I think its those critics who try and put me down instead of thinking is there something to this is there a solution and I know what that solution is.

I do think that view that all single guys are pond life - it comes from a very embittered experience of the site. All of us will view the site based on our own experiences. I find on the Lounge definitely any really bigoted views of single men or anyone else will be challenged.

Not sure what you mean when you refer to the hierarchy? "

thank you for being polite, many people ask for it but as seen on this thread the op is being slated for giving his experience.

the pond life thread I read almost 7 months ago now, is a kind of explanation of how single guys are seen on fab wish I could find it to direct others to it, it was written by a male half of a couple so no bitterness more condescending really, which put me right off.

I was chatting to a lovely couple once, and I was invited to meet up at a club, great I would have someone to sit with and get introductions meet new people have a new and openminded scene to become involved with.

I rang the club to seek attendance as a single guy, then was told the cost to me for entry as a single guy, well I aint rich or desperate to pay such amounts of cash so I had to decline, and was blocked by the couple.

higherarcy couples and females, tvs, another, then single men, as I say put single men into the forum search box and you can read away, the op or myself are not in the minority, but I know this is the way so have chosen how I will navagate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't write the post referring to single guys as pond life, another man did, I just read it and explained how it has made me felt and the actions I have taken to avoid feeling that way. the rest of your comments are your own, I wasn't asking for advice and I am certainly not bitter in any way

I have chosen how I will interact with others and at what type of event.

I will also say I put in to the fab search box single guys and saw that the op is not the only single guy to comment so there must be some sort of realisation by single guys,

I can get laid at anytime by a variety of means, im here for something different but stumbled in to something else a sort of hierarchy.

if you see my view as putting you down, I think its those critics who try and put me down instead of thinking is there something to this is there a solution and I know what that solution is.

I do think that view that all single guys are pond life - it comes from a very embittered experience of the site. All of us will view the site based on our own experiences. I find on the Lounge definitely any really bigoted views of single men or anyone else will be challenged.

Not sure what you mean when you refer to the hierarchy?

thank you for being polite, many people ask for it but as seen on this thread the op is being slated for giving his experience.

the pond life thread I read almost 7 months ago now, is a kind of explanation of how single guys are seen on fab wish I could find it to direct others to it, it was written by a male half of a couple so no bitterness more condescending really, which put me right off.

I was chatting to a lovely couple once, and I was invited to meet up at a club, great I would have someone to sit with and get introductions meet new people have a new and openminded scene to become involved with.

I rang the club to seek attendance as a single guy, then was told the cost to me for entry as a single guy, well I aint rich or desperate to pay such amounts of cash so I had to decline, and was blocked by the couple.

higherarcy couples and females, tvs, another, then single men, as I say put single men into the forum search box and you can read away, the op or myself are not in the minority, but I know this is the way so have chosen how I will navagate it.

"
I think the cost of clubs for single men is a whole other discussion. Socials are generally very low cost alternative if you've looked into them. We are all people and there are some lovely people with whom you could have good chats and possibly fun with. Thinking about it all as a hierarchy isn't really a positive approach nor accurate in my opinion.

Some people view some single men that way. Some people are racist. Some people are biphobic. Etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't write the post referring to single guys as pond life, another man did, I just read it and explained how it has made me felt and the actions I have taken to avoid feeling that way. the rest of your comments are your own, I wasn't asking for advice and I am certainly not bitter in any way

I have chosen how I will interact with others and at what type of event.

I will also say I put in to the fab search box single guys and saw that the op is not the only single guy to comment so there must be some sort of realisation by single guys,

I can get laid at anytime by a variety of means, im here for something different but stumbled in to something else a sort of hierarchy.

if you see my view as putting you down, I think its those critics who try and put me down instead of thinking is there something to this is there a solution and I know what that solution is.

I do think that view that all single guys are pond life - it comes from a very embittered experience of the site. All of us will view the site based on our own experiences. I find on the Lounge definitely any really bigoted views of single men or anyone else will be challenged.

Not sure what you mean when you refer to the hierarchy?

thank you for being polite, many people ask for it but as seen on this thread the op is being slated for giving his experience.

the pond life thread I read almost 7 months ago now, is a kind of explanation of how single guys are seen on fab wish I could find it to direct others to it, it was written by a male half of a couple so no bitterness more condescending really, which put me right off.

I was chatting to a lovely couple once, and I was invited to meet up at a club, great I would have someone to sit with and get introductions meet new people have a new and openminded scene to become involved with.

I rang the club to seek attendance as a single guy, then was told the cost to me for entry as a single guy, well I aint rich or desperate to pay such amounts of cash so I had to decline, and was blocked by the couple.

higherarcy couples and females, tvs, another, then single men, as I say put single men into the forum search box and you can read away, the op or myself are not in the minority, but I know this is the way so have chosen how I will navagate it.

"

The reason why the OP is getting pushback should be fairly obvious. He's written a rude, aggressive rant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahahaha well after the 123 replies to my thread only 2 people blocked me hahahaha musta touched a nerve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahahaha well after the 123 replies to my thread only 2 people blocked me hahahaha musta touched a nerve "

Three

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahahaha well after the 123 replies to my thread only 2 people blocked me hahahaha musta touched a nerve "

Only 2?

Must try harder.

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

No point in being bitter, if you’re not compatible with that person , try someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahahaha well after the 123 replies to my thread only 2 people blocked me hahahaha musta touched a nerve "

Four

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think you will find its 3 she was included in the 2 and your the third jesus if your going to try and be clever atleast get it right

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread "

Maybe spell check before calling others thick.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

How to never get a meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread

Maybe spell check before calling others thick.

"
im dyslexic thanx for that

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By *herry-blossomWoman
over a year ago

Stafford


"If you dont like a woman's profile OP then don't send a message and you won't be troubled by non replies etc . If on the other hand you wish to go to the effort of messaging ,despite the obstacles, then think about why she is putting them up and respond positively. They are there for a reason and your chances improve if you follow them.

"

You said this so well.

Some people are triggered

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Maybe if you played a different tune on your flute?

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread

Maybe spell check before calling others thick.

im dyslexic thanx for that "

But quite happy to refer to others as thick. Spell check was invented for people with learning difficulties. If your profile wasn’t hidden, you’d have earned another block.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread

Maybe spell check before calling others thick.

im dyslexic thanx for that

But quite happy to refer to others as thick. Spell check was invented for people with learning difficulties. If your profile wasn’t hidden, you’d have earned another block.

"

You can still block if hidden

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread

Maybe spell check before calling others thick.

im dyslexic thanx for that

But quite happy to refer to others as thick. Spell check was invented for people with learning difficulties. If your profile wasn’t hidden, you’d have earned another block.

You can still block if hidden"

Just checked again and found how to block so I’ve now done it. Thanks! New to the site so still navigating the settings and stuff!

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By *herry-blossomWoman
over a year ago

Stafford


"Maybe if you played a different tune on your flute?"

Fiddle?

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

As some have said. You don't have to pander to anyone's demands. I think it smacks of desperation anyway that some blokes will just write to a grey silhouette. As I'm sure you are aware this place is a numbers game where the ratios are unevenly stacked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t demand pics on first message.

I do however only ask for a jar of only blue m&ms, a peacock either side of the headboard fanning me with their tails (I get over heated), a bear skin blanket to lay on top of (the rarer the better). Gordon Ramsay to bring mid session snacks and a Barry white or al green tribute singer, to sing throughout.

I don’t think that’s too much to ask for at all .

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Maybe if you played a different tune on your flute?

Fiddle?"

He's more of a piper than a fiddler

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By *herry-blossomWoman
over a year ago

Stafford


"Maybe if you played a different tune on your flute?

Fiddle?

He's more of a piper than a fiddler"

I was not referring to him sweetheart.... hehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx "
honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with

Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with

Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors"

Being abusive to people is a low blow

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Walked in, had a look around, turns on heels and gets the fuck out of this thread

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We don't have public face pictures because we are both scaffolders called fred and frank....all we emand is a non cockfest profile as both fully aware of what a penis in all it's tages looks like but used to be a handy pointer to what tv service they had and would smell like and what pint they liked !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when someone has a rant on the forums

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"If you dont like a woman's profile OP then don't send a message and you won't be troubled by non replies etc . If on the other hand you wish to go to the effort of messaging ,despite the obstacles, then think about why she is putting them up and respond positively. They are there for a reason and your chances improve if you follow them.

"

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with

Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors"

But he can call people thick?

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By *r_lasciviousMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's basically supply and demand.... If there are 100,000 horny blokes and 1,000 horny women... They can be as demanding as they like!

If you don't like it, there's a high chance that at least a few of the other 99,999 will.

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral


"We don't send face pics, because Mrs is a minger "

She might be a minger, but has great bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with

Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors"

I mentioned punctuation. Difficult to read a rant without it. I am repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys? Thanks for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with

Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors

But he can call people thick?"
fair point but if folk didn't attack him like they did maybe he wouldn't have felt the need to get defensive, imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with

Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors

I mentioned punctuation. Difficult to read a rant without it. I am repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys? Thanks for that. "
I think it's against forum rules to try chat with someone that blocked you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with

Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors

I mentioned punctuation. Difficult to read a rant without it. I am repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys? Thanks for that. I think it's against forum rules to try chat with someone that blocked you "

But it's ok for you to make side swipes at me? I didn't know you'd blocked me until now. Whatever.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with

Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors

But he can call people thick? fair point but if folk didn't attack him like they did maybe he wouldn't have felt the need to get defensive, imo "

To use an old analogy I've used before on here, if any Op kicks in the saloon door and comes in shooting, he or she already knows that some will run for cover but others will start shooting back.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with

Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors

But he can call people thick? fair point but if folk didn't attack him like they did maybe he wouldn't have felt the need to get defensive, imo

To use an old analogy I've used before on here, if any Op kicks in the saloon door and comes in shooting, he or she already knows that some will run for cover but others will start shooting back.

"

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with

Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors

But he can call people thick? fair point but if folk didn't attack him like they did maybe he wouldn't have felt the need to get defensive, imo

To use an old analogy I've used before on here, if any Op kicks in the saloon door and comes in shooting, he or she already knows that some will run for cover but others will start shooting back.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with

Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors

But he can call people thick? fair point but if folk didn't attack him like they did maybe he wouldn't have felt the need to get defensive, imo

To use an old analogy I've used before on here, if any Op kicks in the saloon door and comes in shooting, he or she already knows that some will run for cover but others will start shooting back.

"
as you probably know yourself, guys can and do get a raw deal on here, some deserved, others not.. I'm not surprised guys want to vent at times, but regardless it's always the same ones trying to bring them down..why can't people have an opinion on an open forum without getting attacked is my point..some very personal attacks too

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By *elilah999Woman
over a year ago

Malton


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over "

It's not just womens. Let's be honest. I've come across more than I can remember that come across as the whole site has wronged them. You can tell fhe type of experiences they had on here by how a profile is constructed

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with

Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors

But he can call people thick? fair point but if folk didn't attack him like they did maybe he wouldn't have felt the need to get defensive, imo

To use an old analogy I've used before on here, if any Op kicks in the saloon door and comes in shooting, he or she already knows that some will run for cover but others will start shooting back.

as you probably know yourself, guys can and do get a raw deal on here, some deserved, others not.. I'm not surprised guys want to vent at times, but regardless it's always the same ones trying to bring them down..why can't people have an opinion on an open forum without getting attacked is my point..some very personal attacks too "

I agree that there are sometimes personal attacks but I've started dozens of threads and I've had a few rants about attitudes in general but I've never yet been attacked or had abusive messages because of anything I've said.

Some people just like to trigger others and some are more subtle than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's basically supply and demand.... If there are 100,000 horny blokes and 1,000 horny women... They can be as demanding as they like!

If you don't like it, there's a high chance that at least a few of the other 99,999 will. "

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

If you don't like the demands, move on. Simple as. Those demands are usually there to filter out the chancers and wannabes that flock to this site in the often forlorn hope that they will be swept away by a tsunami of local women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think you will find its 3 she was included in the 2 and your the third jesus if your going to try and be clever atleast get it right "

Listen hun, you lost your argument before it began with your opening post, that's not the cleverest move when starting a thread!

I'm sure with hindsight you wouldn't have bothered but it's too late now, you have opened the stable door and your horse has bolted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think you will find its 3 she was included in the 2 and your the third jesus if your going to try and be clever atleast get it right

Listen hun, you lost your argument before it began with your opening post, that's not the cleverest move when starting a thread!

I'm sure with hindsight you wouldn't have bothered but it's too late now, you have opened the stable door and your horse has bolted"
listen ive ownwd my thread and i can say how i feel if i want nobody has to read it or comment on it but if your going to try and be funny to make yourself look good atleast get it right i dont care who blocks me i wouldnt of messaged them in the first place but doing this thread as helped me out greatly i must thank you all for commenting good or bad its been very pleasurable

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"If it helps, there is a post on here giving advice to single guys.

I came across it when I first paid for membership, if I had read this post before I wouldn't have paid the membership fee.

the post basically states that this is a women site and they hold all the cards, single men are pond life and should feel themselves lucky to be courted by a female or couples.

that made me feel insecure really, to be thought of in such a way, or maybe single guys accept this and happly to engage.

it has put me off going to clubs but not a social I feel socials are different.

anyway I hope that helps "

Why not experience things for yourself rather than take someone’s words for it and a post on a forum. The clubs and socials are great and cut out all the BS, meeting others face to face. Fab is more of a social tool for me.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I just read a F profile that had 31 bullet point demands before you message ffs

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I just read a F profile that had 31 bullet point demands before you message ffs"

And she can if she wants ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just read a F profile that had 31 bullet point demands before you message ffs"

You have a cock avatar which many women prefer not to see ffs.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over "

I use this as a filter, says something similar on our profile. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think you will find its 3 she was included in the 2 and your the third jesus if your going to try and be clever atleast get it right

Listen hun, you lost your argument before it began with your opening post, that's not the cleverest move when starting a thread!

I'm sure with hindsight you wouldn't have bothered but it's too late now, you have opened the stable door and your horse has bolted listen ive ownwd my thread and i can say how i feel if i want nobody has to read it or comment on it but if your going to try and be funny to make yourself look good atleast get it right i dont care who blocks me i wouldnt of messaged them in the first place but doing this thread as helped me out greatly i must thank you all for commenting good or bad its been very pleasurable "

Good for you op, I guess alienating your target audience was all part of the plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just read a F profile that had 31 bullet point demands before you message ffs"

You counted them all? You must be really upset that you're not what she's looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No point in being bitter, if you’re not compatible with that person , try someone else"

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