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By *aptain19725 OP   Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

It seems me and a lot of single guys can’t get meets because the market is flooded with single males.

Single females constantly saying to many messages can’t respond to all of them.

Couples mostly only want other couples.

And then you have the fake profiles and time wasters.

Question is with the above said who is actually getting laid.

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By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

If you can’t get success purely on here, then look in the forums for group non play socials.

Attend some of those and you will make some connections, whom you then keep in touch with on here.

Clubs are also a good way to meet genuine people, but take more initial bravery than socials.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Patience and effort.

At my age they will need both.

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By *aptain19725 OP   Man
over a year ago

Peterborough


"If you can’t get success purely on here, then look in the forums for group non play socials.

Attend some of those and you will make some connections, whom you then keep in touch with on here.

Clubs are also a good way to meet genuine people, but take more initial bravery than socials. "

I meant More as a sarcastic statement than anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The honest truth is that some men just don’t put any effort in and expect way too much.

That’s making the best profile you can, writing a captivating bio and adding decent pictures. Attending socials/events and visiting clubs. If you do send a message don’t copy and paste, respect who you are sending the message to regarding what you write in it…

Approaching it with the right attitude and respect for others. Having patience and understanding for what swinging is to you, and finding those on the same page is key to getting a meet on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting the effort in is key ..don't copy and paste something you send to everyone else ..make a connection

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

We find a lot of the single guys posting in the forums have couples listed as whom they wish to meet, but completely ignore most couples comments in the forums, preferring to comment on just the (I say this loosely)Single ladies. For us those males don't bode well for meets with us.

Clubs are 100% way to have lots of kinky, hot fun with couples and singles of both sexes xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The internet is flooded with males and everyone using APPs on their mobiles .

Ask any female here and they are flooded with messages .

Try any App and you will find out . Tinder ect .

My advise is go to a club and show your face be nice and you might get an invite back to play .

Or try the Gangbang scene .

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By *hischarmingdevilMan
over a year ago

Ringwood

I suppose you've got to do something to stand out. I'm on Tinder, but i'm genuinely looking for a proper relationship too.

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

OP you have a few good verifications so looks like you are managing to meet. Yes the site is flooded with single males and it might seem that couples are only interested in other couples, but this is not always the case. Everyone has their preferences. We, for instance, do not seek couples or single females from here. So that leaves single males for us. But whilst we enjoy meeting and playing with a good variety of new gents, we are still quite sceptical when we get one word or one line messages clearly indicating our profile was not read.

So for us, a well written, polite and respectful message, to both of us will always get a reply with a view to meeting. Provided of course we don’t get asked stupid questions where the answer is clearly stated in our profile.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"We find a lot of the single guys posting in the forums have couples listed as whom they wish to meet, but completely ignore most couples comments in the forums, preferring to comment on just the (I say this loosely)Single ladies. For us those males don't bode well for meets with us.

Clubs are 100% way to have lots of kinky, hot fun with couples and singles of both sexes xxxxx Suzi"

I tend not to respond directly to anyone on here unless they comment directly to me and 99% of messages I receive from couples are sent by the female half.

I always respond to them both but if the conversation continues for a period of time with no interaction from the male half at all I stop replying.

At the same time the only abusive messages I've ever received have been when the male of a couple has eventually decided to get involved in the conversation and is immediately aggressive and demanding.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"It seems me and a lot of single guys can’t get meets because the market is flooded with single males.

Single females constantly saying to many messages can’t respond to all of them.

Couples mostly only want other couples.

And then you have the fake profiles and time wasters.

Question is with the above said who is actually getting laid.

"

Conventionally attractive people who attend clubs.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Plenty of people meet from here everyday the message ' your profile just has to stand out sbd be what the person you've messaged is actually looking for

Too many people send messages just because they like someone's pictures, say something like, 'I loved your profile' yet it's blatantly obvious they haven't even read the person bio because they might have said no body hair & the sender has a beard & chest hair, they dislike tattoos & the messengers covered etc

As with most good things it requires a lot of effort & a lot of patience

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"It seems me and a lot of single guys can’t get meets because the market is flooded with single males.

Single females constantly saying to many messages can’t respond to all of them.

Couples mostly only want other couples.

And then you have the fake profiles and time wasters.

Question is with the above said who is actually getting laid.

"

Many people. Clubs are the way forward

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple meets off here 1 was amazing best evening of my life as was so spontaneous.

the other was a catfish.

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By *anter007Man
over a year ago

peterborough

Change your game plan, the chase is fun

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It seems me and a lot of single guys can’t get meets because the market is flooded with single males.

Single females constantly saying to many messages can’t respond to all of them.

Couples mostly only want other couples.

And then you have the fake profiles and time wasters.

Question is with the above said who is actually getting laid.

Many people. Clubs are the way forward"

Not always. It can depend on location.

Until last weekend there were only 2 clubs on the island of Ireland and one of those closed on Saturday night leaving just the one.

Those clubs are only open one or two nights a month for events and are by invitation only so no walk-ins allowed.

Therefore anyone looking to attend has to go through the whole process of messaging and meeting and getting verified before they will even get an invitation and single male tickets are always sold out before any event is advertised on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really sure... im pretty rusty when it comes to these things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Question is with the above said who is actually getting laid.

"

Me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Question is with the above said who is actually getting laid.

Me. "

Me

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

We’re open to meeting couples and or single ladies, and normally will meet either at a club, private party or arrange a mutually convenient bar to ensure anyone who wants to back out doesn’t feel boxed in xx

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Go to a club. Talk to a couple or a lady, be polite and not a dick. And then you may get your wet

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Over 9 inches bbc You'll do alright

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By *ndyn50000Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Not really sure... im pretty rusty when it comes to these things "

I've got some WD40 if that would help?

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By *ongueTwistererMan
over a year ago

telford/ shrewsbury/ bridgnorth/ wolverhampton

I've found being myself works. Being patient, sending a well writen first message is a good impression and not being crude or to full on. And of course not to expect anything, if you get a message back its a bonus not a sure thing but it's better than not recieving a reply.

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By *uffolkClareClactonDaveCouple
over a year ago

Felixstowe/Clacton-on-Sea


"It seems me and a lot of single guys can’t get meets because the market is flooded with single males.

Single females constantly saying to many messages can’t respond to all of them.

Couples mostly only want other couples.

And then you have the fake profiles and time wasters.

Question is with the above said who is actually getting laid.

"

Clubs mate. I started as a single guy and had far more luck at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really sure... im pretty rusty when it comes to these things

I've got some WD40 if that would help?"

sure,might do the trick

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By *ndyn50000Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Not really sure... im pretty rusty when it comes to these things

I've got some WD40 if that would help?

sure,might do the trick "

I just get my spray nozzle ready then and be right up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really sure... im pretty rusty when it comes to these things

I've got some WD40 if that would help?

sure,might do the trick

I just get my spray nozzle ready then and be right up "

Nearly spilled my tea

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

The number of males has nothing to do with it.but more if you're able to grab their attention and if your someone they are attracted to....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On your spray nozzle

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Secretly

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