FabSwingers.com forum: Dating advice please.......

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So Im thinking about proper internet dating. I'ld like to put something on my profile along the lines of seeking someone with a kinky/naughty/bi/swinger side.

Any advice on how to word it???

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am not sure I would add swinger to your profile, think that may drive people towards you with the wrong reason, rather than a true romantic intent

all the very best tho, hope it works out and you find who you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I really dont want to waste time dating people to straight laced thats why I want to say something....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

kinky/naughty/bi/swinger side

Anyone reading this would be chancing their arm every chance they got because to me that says EASY LAY ..if its a relationship your looking for then go along those lines if your lucky enough to find someone then you could bring up the subjects with them sometimes its holding back that little something for yourself that will give you some respect from suitable suitors Good luck xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mention it if i was you, there is an opinion of swingers out there by non swingers and you really dont want to be judged even before you find someone you would like to spend your life with.

Tell them after the first date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just put t bi if your bi and open minded, liberated , adventurous or make it obvious with will try anything once

Might be easier finding what you want on here, just put on your profile what your looking for but be very very specific about what you do and don't want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So Im thinking about proper internet dating. I'ld like to put something on my profile along the lines of seeking someone with a kinky/naughty/bi/swinger side.

Any advice on how to word it???"

I would say something along the lines of 'attractive, friendly, sassy woman is looking for someone open-minded, adventurous and willing to push some boundaries together'.

Depends which website you're going to use, a lot of them screen the profiles when they first go up so I don't think you'd get away with Kinky or anything like that.

Have fun though! I did it a few years back and had a lot of fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess what i'm asking is how to word so I don't sound like an easy lay....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So Im thinking about proper internet dating. I'ld like to put something on my profile along the lines of seeking someone with a kinky/naughty/bi/swinger side.

Any advice on how to word it???"

... without the words "kinky /naughty /bi /swinger" in it - they are likely to get your profile binned on most 'dating' sites unfortunately....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im having the same problem-i would LOVE a relationship with someone and then i would really like to introduce swinging into it!

All ive put on my profile is that im looking for someone open minded, imaginative and how important "intimacy" in a relationship is to me. It hasnt attracted too many of the wrong types so far.

The problem is, most people on a dating site dont understand swinging and as most people say will just take it as a sign that we're looking for fun, nothing else

I would try fab flirts but i dont think thats really suitable is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had on my single fab profile I was looking for a relationship . Tried dating sites but didn't want a vanilla partner. It worked and I met devil.

Did get some abuse as in this is a swing site not a dating site . My _iew is there are no rules use your profile in whatever way you want

Good luck

Angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had loves the out doors and being spontainious (cant spell it now)

Was in undated by blokes asking if i played

I hadn't even started then!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I really dont want to waste time dating people to straight laced thats why I want to say something...."

cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about saying something like "I dont believe in monogamous relationships", it doesn't say your easy it just says if you date me I will want to sleep with other people too, that's the bit they need to understand and I imagine it will put off the ones that know they couldn't handle that.

P.s. I will take you on a date if you'd like, especially if the pizza is still on you! Lol.... giggidy

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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Perhaps something like cheek of it says, or -

probably not looking for a monogamous relationship, but do expect emotional intimacy, trust and other commitment

may downsize the easy lay angle, as perceived by pin heads, a little.

Good luck!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Maybe don't allude directly to the term 'swinging' try a visual hint by using a hamburger shot as you profile pic.

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

You're an attractive woman who can write a decent profile. With a decent photo that is already guaranteed to get you far more attention than you want, some of it similar to the sub standard attention folk receive on here. Only you will probably get larger amounts on a dating site.

I agree with the others, blatant references will open the floodgates to the sort of rubbish you can imagine. Maybe you can think of a few personality characerstics that imply sufficiently without giving the easy lay impression. Fiesty, adventurous, those sort of things.

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