FabSwingers.com forum: Am I strange?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me?

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

No not strange perhaps you have never had a guy do it right though;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I know a few ladies that don't like oral on them, more givers than receivers. I personally love it, the world would be a dull place if we all liked the same

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

No it's all down to what you like every body is different

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I know a few ladies that don't like oral on them, more givers than receivers. I personally love it, the world would be a dull place if we all liked the same

Yep I’m certainly more a giver! I love performing oral just not receiving

and yes we certainly don’t all need to enjoy the same thing, the beauty in the world is due to our differences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

No I don't like it either. Would prefer if they didn't bother.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me?

No I don't like it either. Would prefer if they didn't bother. "

Phew I’m not the only one

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No, you are not.

Why are they even doing it if you don't like it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me?

No I don't like it either. Would prefer if they didn't bother.

Phew I’m not the only one

Your body, your choice x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, you are not.

Why are they even doing it if you don't like it?

It’s my own fault, I usually fake enjoying it

must stop that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope has a few partners not like it and prefer to be touched elsewhere

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

Have you always not liked it?

What exactly don't you like about it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me?

Have you always not liked it?

What exactly don't you like about it?"

I don’t hate it, I just don’t love it lol twice a year is enough for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me?

Have you always not liked it?

What exactly don't you like about it?"

Yeah I think I’ve always not really liked it! Seriously just stick a cock in my mouth instead of going down on me and I’m a happy girl

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It’s my own fault, I usually fake enjoying it

must stop that! "

Definitely

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By *hirdTimesACharmCouple
over a year ago

northamptonshire

Urm, I think it depends if they are good or not, personally I LOVE it! More the better

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"No not strange perhaps you have never had a guy do it right though;)"

I don't like being smacked in the face. Whether it's done "right" or not.

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Urm, I think it depends if they are good or not, personally I LOVE it! More the better

Exactly what I said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Urm, I think it depends if they are good or not, personally I LOVE it! More the better

Exactly what I said

Lol one guy made me cum and squirt, still not keen to repeat it though

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Urm, I think it depends if they are good or not, personally I LOVE it! More the better

Exactly what I said

Lol one guy made me cum and squirt, still not keen to repeat it though

Lol you are a giver though;)

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Nope I think it's quite common, I don't like it either

Happy to give, but no way is someone going down on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

Absolutely not. It’s a turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, you are not.

Why are they even doing it if you don't like it?

Because men know what women want and the woman should like it.

I hate when men say I will like it because they are good at it. It's incredibly disrespectful.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

You aren't the only one. I don't dislike it as such...just not a fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, you are not.

Why are they even doing it if you don't like it?

Because men know what women want and the woman should like it.

I hate when men say I will like it because they are good at it. It's incredibly disrespectful. "

Agreed. Doesn’t matter how you do it, I just don’t bloody like it. Nothing to do with supposed skill

I find it incredibly patronising.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"No, you are not.

Why are they even doing it if you don't like it?

Because men know what women want and the woman should like it.

I hate when men say I will like it because they are good at it. It's incredibly disrespectful. "

Because a strangers gonna know our body & what we like better than we do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am so glad I’m not the only one. I’ll be sure to make it clear I don’t like it from now on! They just seem to naturally head straight there for some reason

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

Not really a fair few I’ve met are the exact same honestly

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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

My problem M knows exactly what and how I like it, so whenever anyone else does it, it just doesn’t feel ‘right’ lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a giver than receiver as well.

Oral on me doesn’t really do anything for me

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Its one of my favourite things to do,

I prefer it to having a BJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

I used to hate it

it's gotta be done right I guess and some guys just don't have the nack

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I am so glad I’m not the only one. I’ll be sure to make it clear I don’t like it from now on! They just seem to naturally head straight there for some reason

we put it on our profile not that it stops men offering

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Not at all strange OP. I'd much rather give oral and have the enjoyment of hearing the other person's pleasure than receive something that doesn't do much for me. I've only ever enjoyed it with three people and even then it's something I don't want most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am so glad I’m not the only one. I’ll be sure to make it clear I don’t like it from now on! They just seem to naturally head straight there for some reason

we put it on our profile not that it stops men offering

I’ve added it to mine although they’ll ignore it just like they ignore everything but the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not strange at all. Well at least I hope not x

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By *ooianCouple
over a year ago

Padstow

Maybe the guys you’ve been with aren’t very good at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, if I'm really honest I'm not overly keen on it either. I must admit when a woman does its definitely alot more appealing to me.. however I can give or take it.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not strange at all, the better half only likes to recive and not give everyone is different.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

Not a tall, I could easily give it up for ever, would honestly rather do the ironing.

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By *ndyn50000Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me?

Not a tall, I could easily give it up for ever, would honestly rather do the ironing."

Never one to disappoint a lady, I have some shirts that need doing....

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"No, you are not.

Why are they even doing it if you don't like it?

Totally this

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me?

Not a tall, I could easily give it up for ever, would honestly rather do the ironing.

Never one to disappoint a lady, I have some shirts that need doing....

so kind of you

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By *everbin100Man
over a year ago

clay cross

ahhhh my worst nightmare but a good job were not all the same be a boring life

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By *ndyn50000Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me?

Not a tall, I could easily give it up for ever, would honestly rather do the ironing.

Never one to disappoint a lady, I have some shirts that need doing....

so kind of you "

I'm just generous like that

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

I don’t hate it and if they really want to do it because they really like doing it then I don’t mind but I always say to them that it doesn’t really do anything for me and I much prefer to give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. My wife didn't like it. Only after we were married, of course.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You aren't the only one. I don't dislike it as such...just not a fan"

Yeah, this is me. Can't get excited about it but if a man likes to give it to me I won't refuse that pleasure for him

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By *edonist79Man
over a year ago

Trowbridge

No. I've met a few people who just aren't into it. One gf just flat out didn't get anything from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know about you OP but I wonder if the reason I don't get much from it is because I don't open up about what I like alongside it. Being tied up etc. I find that difficult to say with someone I don't know well.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

I'm not a great fan. I like it well enough when C does it though I just prefer to be fucked. I'm not very patient

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

I used to be the same. I think it depends on the guy and how they do it xx

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By *inkyguymkMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

Not strange at all, someone going down on me does nothing either, I get nothing from it. I imagine any man reading this is probably saying "is this guy for real" but In all honesty, (to coin an old adage) I'm more of a giver than a receiver.

So I'm guessing you and me will never get together

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me?

I used to be the same. I think it depends on the guy and how they do it xx"

I’ve cum and squirted from it, still not a fan though! I don’t think technique makes any difference to me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me?

So I'm guessing you and me will never get together

Haha a guy who doesn’t like oral would not be for me just like me disliking receiving oral will be a deal breaker for many!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t hate receiving oral, it’s just never really done anything for me. I do get enjoyment to an extent in terms of the intimacy and my partner enjoying it, but it’s not my favourite thing. I have sensed my partner’s disappointment and frustration because of this in the past...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Although it seems to be one of those things that people are just expected to like. I've never liked it so now it's just a flat out limit, doesn't stop people asking or trying or thinking I've just not met the right person to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t hate receiving oral, it’s just never really done anything for me. I do get enjoyment to an extent in terms of the intimacy and my partner enjoying it, but it’s not my favourite thing. I have sensed my partner’s disappointment and frustration because of this in the past..."

My ex was so upset that I didn't get into it. I wanted to. For him but he was saying things like "sit on my face" and I was never going to do it! It's upsetting not to be able to give them what they enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interestingly, I enjoy the face sitting much more! Maybe because I’m more in control of the situation. When I’m laying down receiving oral my mind just starts to wander, especially if it goes on for a while...

Communication is key!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is key!

No I just can't think of anything worse than having my stomach in a guys view like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. Although it seems to be one of those things that people are just expected to like. I've never liked it so now it's just a flat out limit, doesn't stop people asking or trying or thinking I've just not met the right person to do it

I really relate to this. It’s that expectation that we all love it and they’ll somehow have the magic tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I don’t!

Also hate the comment “you’ve probably not had someone do it right”

I mean I have... still not a fan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

Not strange. I'm not really a fan either. It's not because people are bad at it, it feels great but I don't think.. Ooh I'd love someone to fiddle about down there with their tongue.

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By *inkyguymkMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Yes I don’t!

Also hate the comment “you’ve probably not had someone do it right”

I mean I have... still not a fan. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not strange at all. I'm sort of the same but in reverse. I'm not a massive fan of receiving blowjobs. I mean they're alright, but I can take it or leave them no problem. Definitely love going down on woman, but can fully understand someone not particularly liking to receive. We're all told how great it is to receive oral, but then question if we're strange for not liking this supposedly amazing thing that everyone else seems to love. Ultimately we like what we like or in this instance what we don't like because we're all a little different to the next person.

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By *antasyrealmCouple
over a year ago

Congleton

Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. And yes...x

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By *antasyrealmCouple
over a year ago

Congleton

Is this a new woke shit thing? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a new woke shit thing? X"

Fab is full of woke that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a new woke shit thing? X"

What do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a new woke shit thing? X

What do you mean?"

Yeah I was confused by this comment too.

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By *antasyrealmCouple
over a year ago

Congleton

"Is this a new woke shit thing? X

What do you mean?

Yeah I was confused by this comment too.

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its called being dim. Others got it.

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By *ason962004Man
over a year ago

SHEFFIELD

Def not strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a new woke shit thing? X

What do you mean?

Yeah I was confused by this comment too.

its called being dim. Others got it."

What's actually woke about this thread then? Admittedly I've not read every single comment on it, but feel free to point it out if it's there. Or are you just going to shout 'woke' and 'dim' at people without articulating what you actually mean? Or am I missing something?

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By *antasyrealmCouple
over a year ago

Congleton

Oooh. Calm down mr protective. You just prove the point. Trying to cancel are we.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a new woke shit thing? X

What do you mean?

Yeah I was confused by this comment too.

its called being dim. Others got it."

Don't put yourself down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooh. Calm down mr protective. You just prove the point. Trying to cancel are we....."

Honestly no idea what you're talking about dude. Cancel what? Protective about what?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I really relate to this. It’s that expectation that we all love it and they’ll somehow have the magic tongue

Some women are just the same with blow jobs , insisting I enjoy it just because they do. I think in either case if you like the person enough it’s not an issue , it’s up to you whether you tolerate it occasionally to please them or just say no

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By *antasyrealmCouple
over a year ago

Congleton

Dude?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dude?????"

Yeah 'dude'

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

No not at all...I was like this until I met my OH...he was exactly the same with blow jobs..didn't like them much because he hadn't had good experiences.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "
nope. I am not overly keen on it for fab meets at all

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire

Nope not strange - I went through a period of about 10 years when I didn’t like to be given oral… I’ve since changed my mind after joining fab, so you never know things might change

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Urm, I think it depends if they are good or not, personally I LOVE it! More the better

Exactly what I said

Lol one guy made me cum and squirt, still not keen to repeat it though

So just to be clear OP he made you cum and that still wasn’t enjoyable????

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I don't dislike it but have found, despite their claims otherwise, very few men to actually be any good at it and most dont like to be given directions. I actively avoid male profiles that proclaim to be excellent at it and to be able to go down on me for hours.

By far my most enjoyable experiences of receiving oral have been from women

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is this a new woke shit thing? X

What do you mean?

Yeah I was confused by this comment too.

its called being dim. Others got it.

He clearly doesn’t even know what woke means as nothing about this thread is ‘woke’

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm happy to receive oral twice to make up for it.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"Is this a new woke shit thing? X

What do you mean?

Yeah I was confused by this comment too.

its called being dim. Others got it.

He clearly doesn’t even know what woke means as nothing about this thread is ‘woke’ "

Clearly I'm missing something as well. I initially thought he must have mistakenly posted on the wrong thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a new woke shit thing? X

What do you mean?

Yeah I was confused by this comment too.

its called being dim. Others got it.

He clearly doesn’t even know what woke means as nothing about this thread is ‘woke’ "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooh. Calm down mr protective. You just prove the point. Trying to cancel are we....."

You do realise how rude you're being?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how much of it is in the head vs the physical sensation? The physical side of it is..well it's ok, not unpleasant or anything. But I prefer to be giving. It's not comfortable to be the focus for an amount of time. So a 69 is better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder how much of it is in the head vs the physical sensation? The physical side of it is..well it's ok, not unpleasant or anything. But I prefer to be giving. It's not comfortable to be the focus for an amount of time. So a 69 is better. "

69 is always better

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

No,not at all OP; you'd be my ideal partner as I've never found going down on a female all that appealing.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

69 is always better

69 is even worse in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

69 is always better

69 is even worse in my opinion"

Sorry I should have said it's better for ME as we are all individuals. Why is it worse for you?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

69 is always better

69 is even worse in my opinion

Sorry I should have said it's better for ME as we are all individuals. Why is it worse for you?"

I'm a giver, I live to focus on that not be distracted

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me?

No not strange perhaps you have never had a guy do it right though;)"

Haha, this guy...

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

69 is always better

69 is even worse in my opinion

Sorry I should have said it's better for ME as we are all individuals. Why is it worse for you?

I'm a giver, I live to focus on that not be distracted "

*like

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

69 is always better

69 is even worse in my opinion

Sorry I should have said it's better for ME as we are all individuals. Why is it worse for you?

I'm a giver, I live to focus on that not be distracted "

That is the fun of 69 for me. See who can put who off the most. If she is panting and squirming enough not to be able to do her best...I win.

Or lose depending on how much you want to receive. Not an issue for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like 69 but face sitting is fun. I enjoy the dominance even though the licking does nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. And yes...x"

So people that don't like it are strange??? So in your opinion, everyone has to like the same things?

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

You like it if it done properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You like it if it done properly"

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I can easily take it or leave it.. Much rather them use hands or toys x I'm deffo a giver rather than receiver x you're not alone op x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You like it if it done properly"

Do you genuinely believe that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't make you strange OP, I hate having my toes sucked but some people love it...does that make me strange?

Those that enjoy toe sucking! Now thats strange..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't make you strange OP, I hate having my toes sucked but some people love it...does that make me strange?

Those that enjoy toe sucking! Now thats strange..lol"

Nah, somebody just hasn't sucked them properly

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Doesn't make you strange OP, I hate having my toes sucked but some people love it...does that make me strange?

Those that enjoy toe sucking! Now thats strange..lol

Nah, somebody just hasn't sucked them properly

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"You like it if it done properly"

As a man you make us look like idots.

People need a accept people when they say things not try to change them..

I prefer handjob to blowjob 46years old now I am not going to change my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't make you strange OP, I hate having my toes sucked but some people love it...does that make me strange?

Those that enjoy toe sucking! Now thats strange..lol

Nah, somebody just hasn't sucked them properly

Properly? There is a proper correct way to suck toes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't make you strange OP, I hate having my toes sucked but some people love it...does that make me strange?

Those that enjoy toe sucking! Now thats strange..lol

Nah, somebody just hasn't sucked them properly

Properly? There is a proper correct way to suck toes?

I don't know as no-one is ever sucking mine! I was taking the mick out of the men who've said women don't know what they like...

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"No, you are not.

Why are they even doing it if you don't like it?

Because they think they're that special one who'll make you change your mind...

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By *otcplmidsCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

And me too, I thought I was weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't make you strange OP, I hate having my toes sucked but some people love it...does that make me strange?

Those that enjoy toe sucking! Now thats strange..lol

Nah, somebody just hasn't sucked them properly

Properly? There is a proper correct way to suck toes?

I don't know as no-one is ever sucking mine! I was taking the mick out of the men who've said women don't know what they like..."

I know you messing...lol

A lot of oral experts on here...

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Not strange at all OP, different things make people tick or not …I personally love it .

I love my clit being played with but I don’t like being fingered, it’s just the way “the cookie crumbled” and I no longer apologise for it.

My body … my choice .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Urm, I think it depends if they are good or not, personally I LOVE it! More the better

Exactly what I said

Lol one guy made me cum and squirt, still not keen to repeat it though

So just to be clear OP he made you cum and that still wasn’t enjoyable????

orgasm aren’t unheard of during sexual assault or r ape also. doesn’t make the experience anymore enjoyable.

Orgasms during r*pe. Bloody hell, that's a new one for me. Not doubting it by the way, just surprised by it. Although I'm far an expert on this subject haha.

I’ve seen studies showing between 10-40% who have experienced it. Also read a little of the science behind it. How the heightened stimulus from the fight or flight response can lead to it. It isn’t a pleasurable orgasm that you’d associate with consenting sex, but a natural bodily response to stimulation.

It’s not something most would probably talk about, given the shame and obvious confusion surrounding it. "

Yeah like I said, I wasn't doubting it, just hadn't heard of it. You learn something new every day. And yeah that makes sense regarding the lack of discussion around it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't make you strange OP, I hate having my toes sucked but some people love it...does that make me strange?

Those that enjoy toe sucking! Now thats strange..lol

Nah, somebody just hasn't sucked them properly

That reply though. Very good

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I let the woman tell me how she likes it doing. OP have you had a woman do it? If so did you enjoy it

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Urm, I think it depends if they are good or not, personally I LOVE it! More the better

Exactly what I said

Lol one guy made me cum and squirt, still not keen to repeat it though

So just to be clear OP he made you cum and that still wasn’t enjoyable????

orgasm aren’t unheard of during sexual assault or r ape also. doesn’t make the experience anymore enjoyable. "

Well you learn something every day. I was interested in getting the OPs response to my question tbh

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

As long as I’m not strange for not being keen on going down on ladies too then you’re fine

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

Not strange at all. Everyone likes and dislikes different things. I've certainly had partners who feel the same as you do, as well as others who felt the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women don’t like the idea of a man going down on them and then coming back up and kissing them, they basically don’t want to taste themselves I’m guessing.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Maybe the guys you’ve been with aren’t very good at it."

Why do people keep saying this? It's so demeaning! Are you guys saying that a grown up woman isn't capable of figuring out what she likes and doesn't like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe the guys you’ve been with aren’t very good at it.

Why do people keep saying this? It's so demeaning! Are you guys saying that a grown up woman isn't capable of figuring out what she likes and doesn't like? "

It's a really weird thing for men to say. It's certainly arrogant and possibly misogynistic.

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

"Some women don’t like the idea of a man going down on them and then coming back up and kissing them, they basically don’t want to taste themselves I’m guessing."

My ex loved the oral, the kissing after. Not so much.

Doesn't take much to ask her. And if it a no, respect it.

We're all different. If we wasn't I'm sure this site wouldn't be as busy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You like it if it done properly"

Sigh, read the room!

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me?

No not strange perhaps you have never had a guy do it right though;)"

And perhaps she's had enough to make her mind up and know what she likes and doesn't like.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Figuring out what we like on a first meet takes a bit of time, so to get straight to the quality stuff and avoiding all the unnecessaries it’s all about communication. I had a meet a few years ago and she was completely up front “glad you can make it tonight so listen up.. I don’t want you to go down on me, no foreplay and chit chat, I’ll be ready and wet, I don’t want sensuous, I want hard cock and I want to be pounded… hard. I want my hair pulled and my bum slapped and I want to feel your balls slapping against my arse. Squeeze my tits, growl in my ear and grab my waist hard… and don’t stop.”

“Err… okay… see you at eight”

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Maybe the guys you’ve been with aren’t very good at it.

Why do people keep saying this? It's so demeaning! Are you guys saying that a grown up woman isn't capable of figuring out what she likes and doesn't like?

It's a really weird thing for men to say. It's certainly arrogant and possibly misogynistic. "

Women say it too.

Mind boggling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe the guys you’ve been with aren’t very good at it.

Why do people keep saying this? It's so demeaning! Are you guys saying that a grown up woman isn't capable of figuring out what she likes and doesn't like?

It's a really weird thing for men to say. It's certainly arrogant and possibly misogynistic.

Women say it too.

Mind boggling "

Fair point. But yeah, it's odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP - it is your body and only you know what you like

Us men and women can tell you all sorts of things to encourage you to let us between your legs, but it has to come from your desire first and foremost

Happy Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Figuring out what we like on a first meet takes a bit of time, so to get straight to the quality stuff and avoiding all the unnecessaries it’s all about communication. I had a meet a few years ago and she was completely up front “glad you can make it tonight so listen up.. I don’t want you to go down on me, no foreplay and chit chat, I’ll be ready and wet, I don’t want sensuous, I want hard cock and I want to be pounded… hard. I want my hair pulled and my bum slapped and I want to feel your balls slapping against my arse. Squeeze my tits, growl in my ear and grab my waist hard… and don’t stop.”

“Err… okay… see you at eight”

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I hate when men say I will like it because they are good at it. It's incredibly disrespectful. "

And arrogant too

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Geeeez! Men, guess what?

Not every woman LIKES ORAL. Shock horror and all that

Thinking someone will, just because it's you doing it, clearly shows your ignorance and arrogance.

We're not 18, we have had sex before and we KNOW 100% what we do not like

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Geeeez! Men, guess what?

Not every woman LIKES ORAL. Shock horror and all that

Thinking someone will, just because it's you doing it, clearly shows your ignorance and arrogance.

We're not 18, we have had sex before and we KNOW 100% what we do not like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Geeeez! Men, guess what?

Not every woman LIKES ORAL. Shock horror and all that

Thinking someone will, just because it's you doing it, clearly shows your ignorance and arrogance.

We're not 18, we have had sex before and we KNOW 100% what we do not like

love this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "
It depends how its done really.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Am I strange for not really liking it when guys go down on me? "

Well, no but now we like you more.

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

Personally i love it

But we are all different, and if we were all the same it would make a very boring life lol

Maybe its a control thing as well , or being open and vulnerable to a stranger , food for thought lol

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