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By *S2004 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

Just wondering peoples views. I am posting as a single male but am also on as a couple. We have reasons why I am more available singly than we are together and we have numerous verifications on both profiles

BUT I often read on the forums about people not believing that single males have permission to meet etc, just wondering what peoples views are about single male profiles when they are also part of a couple?

Would you meet the male alone?

would you insist any messages were via the couples profile?

Would you ask for verification from the female half first?

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Well for us Mrs4 would insist on talking to the fem half and when we had our social events a attached male came along as we both knew and had met plus spoke to his other half !

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By *rTongueMan
over a year ago

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Double edged sword I think. A singles profile for a man says he is in a relationship and allowed to play, and people assume he is lying. But then a couples profile where the male half plays alone leads people to assume that it is really just a single male anyway.

Guess truth is, it’s all down to how much people trust you.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

For me, I would prefer to meet both for a social and then all can discuss things.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

No we wouldn't meet. The messages from the couples profile could also be from the Male. Many would meet though, each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would want to meet first, and have a social with all involved. We don't have single profiles but we do meet separately now and then.

Mrs x

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

We have separate profiles because she does very well on her own here. Though I'm sure I would do better as part of a couple profile

We only meet separately and never together but there are lots of reasons to have separate profiles.

I just put in my bio that if you need verification msg my partner but most people seem to be happy to interact. I've not had any socials yet but I would absolutely go down this route before meeting anyone on an intimate basis. Safety for all involved.

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By *S2004 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove


"No we wouldn't meet. The messages from the couples profile could also be from the Male. Many would meet though, each to their own."

This was my concern/thought to be honest. We have in excess of 50 verifications (many social from clubs I may add) on our joint profile. But still often I will be the one messaging on the joint profile. With my partners full knowledge and sometime input.

Don’t get me wrong we fully respect anyones opinions on meets and it’s entirely up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we wouldn't meet. The messages from the couples profile could also be from the Male. Many would meet though, each to their own.

This was my concern/thought to be honest. We have in excess of 50 verifications (many social from clubs I may add) on our joint profile. But still often I will be the one messaging on the joint profile. With my partners full knowledge and sometime input.

Don’t get me wrong we fully respect anyones opinions on meets and it’s entirely up to them."

Why not add the couples profile name to your profile so people can have a look?

Any man could claim to be part of a heavily verified couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet halves of swinger couples. I find it odd, I don't want to be discussed afterwards.

Cheating people are fine because they won't be telling their other half.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

The only time I will meet a male half of a couple is if it is a couple I know well and have discussed it fully with the woman first.

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By *S2004 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove


"No we wouldn't meet. The messages from the couples profile could also be from the Male. Many would meet though, each to their own.

This was my concern/thought to be honest. We have in excess of 50 verifications (many social from clubs I may add) on our joint profile. But still often I will be the one messaging on the joint profile. With my partners full knowledge and sometime input.

Don’t get me wrong we fully respect anyones opinions on meets and it’s entirely up to them.

Why not add the couples profile name to your profile so people can have a look?

Any man could claim to be part of a heavily verified couple. "

Genius idea. We name this profile on our couples profile but not the other way round. So simple but so useful!!!

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By *otcplmidsCouple
over a year ago

Warwick


"Just wondering peoples views. I am posting as a single male but am also on as a couple. We have reasons why I am more available singly than we are together and we have numerous verifications on both profiles

BUT I often read on the forums about people not believing that single males have permission to meet etc, just wondering what peoples views are about single male profiles when they are also part of a couple?

Would you meet the male alone?

would you insist any messages were via the couples profile?

Would you ask for verification from the female half first?"

I can verify for you as legit as I have chatted about a single meet with you on your joint account, and so as you know I would meet you

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"No we wouldn't meet. The messages from the couples profile could also be from the Male. Many would meet though, each to their own.

This was my concern/thought to be honest. We have in excess of 50 verifications (many social from clubs I may add) on our joint profile. But still often I will be the one messaging on the joint profile. With my partners full knowledge and sometime input.

Don’t get me wrong we fully respect anyones opinions on meets and it’s entirely up to them.

Why not add the couples profile name to your profile so people can have a look?

Any man could claim to be part of a heavily verified couple. "

I'm on here as a single female as well as having a well verified couple's profile with my partner. As stated above, the couple's profile is clearly mentioned in my single female account, as is the fact that I'm in a relationship.

You don't have to hide anything if you're being 100% honest!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

To some the issue may not be so much a fear your cheating or not genuine. There's a fair few out there who just not into guys who are in a relationship. Because it just doesn't feel right or because they just don't like the idea of borrowing someone else's toy. It's strange but my experience on here over the years is (mainly with single ladies) despite being no strings and open they at least like the facade of exclusivity in that space and time your with them. Which I get and makes it understandable that they don't like the feel/sense you belong to someone else. Or they just fear the risk of extra complications when there is another woman in the background despite there being permission. I think people forget a lot of single women go to clubs to find single men not couples for the same reason.

On the flip side to some women this is a plus point. Especially to other women in relationships who meet with their partners permission. To some it means you understand the dynamic, value pure no strings simplicity and understand the protocols.

Mr

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By *S2004 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove


"To some the issue may not be so much a fear your cheating or not genuine. There's a fair few out there who just not into guys who are in a relationship. Because it just doesn't feel right or because they just don't like the idea of borrowing someone else's toy. It's strange but my experience on here over the years is (mainly with single ladies) despite being no strings and open they at least like the facade of exclusivity in that space and time your with them. Which I get and makes it understandable that they don't like the feel/sense you belong to someone else. Or they just fear the risk of extra complications when there is another woman in the background despite there being permission. I think people forget a lot of single women go to clubs to find single men not couples for the same reason.

On the flip side to some women this is a plus point. Especially to other women in relationships who meet with their partners permission. To some it means you understand the dynamic, value pure no strings simplicity and understand the protocols.

Mr"

I think this makes a great deal of sense.

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By *S2004 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove


"Just wondering peoples views. I am posting as a single male but am also on as a couple. We have reasons why I am more available singly than we are together and we have numerous verifications on both profiles

BUT I often read on the forums about people not believing that single males have permission to meet etc, just wondering what peoples views are about single male profiles when they are also part of a couple?

Would you meet the male alone?

would you insist any messages were via the couples profile?

Would you ask for verification from the female half first?

I can verify for you as legit as I have chatted about a single meet with you on your joint account, and so as you know I would meet you"

And as you know the feeling is mutual!!!!

Actually I have found the forums a much better place to engage with women and couples. I am clearly a convert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, I would prefer to meet both for a social and then all can discuss things.

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Same here...

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