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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are going to a club for the first time in a few weeks. This is something we have wanted to do for ages. I am so excited but also very nervous. Done lots of reading and looking at reviews etc sounds like it's going tobe a good night but the nerves are ridiculous! Help me put them at ease.. has everyone had a good experience first time?

Mrs x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Your experience will be dictated to by your expectations, so its best not to go in with any and just enjoy yourself. Its a club where some people get naked and some have sex.

Make sure you follow any rules (dressing down, no touching etc.) and don’t be afraid to say no to people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely going in with no expectations. Thank you for the reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time we went, we went with the intention just to socialise and meet people so we didn't put any pressure on ourselves. It went great and we met some really welcoming people who put us at ease straight away.

It quite surprised me how welcoming of newbies the club scene is, thought it would be more 'clicky' but I couldn't have been more wrong.

Good luck, relax and enjoy yourselves and if you get the added bonus of meeting someone and playing them, even better xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your nerves OP! Wife and are are very keen to attend a club but have all kinds of nerves and questions…the one that keeps coming back up on her part is…

What does everyone wear on their feet once they’re dressed down?!?!

I know it sounds daft but if anyone can give me an answer I’d be very greatful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first time we were so terrified we took the car so we could have an fast escape if we didn’t like it.

Within 15 minutes of walking through the door we were chatting to people and having a laugh. We’ve been back loads since and recommend trying clubs to everyone now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your nerves OP! Wife and are are very keen to attend a club but have all kinds of nerves and questions…the one that keeps coming back up on her part is…

What does everyone wear on their feet once they’re dressed down?!?!

I know it sounds daft but if anyone can give me an answer I’d be very greatful! "

Men can be barefoot or in socks. Women can wear heels if they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh wow I hope you have an amazing night to remember

My first club visit was to La Chambre in 2017 - I had a great night it was busy and met loads of people, who told me about Fab. So I joined the next day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg I have thought this too, I wouldn't know what to put on my feet

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We were very nervous too on our first visit. We just played with each other in a room on our own which was still exciting. You've just got to do it and get through the door! You'll find a friendly member off staff will give you a tour and explain everything. You don't have to do anything, just enjoy the experience. You'll be better with a non dress down club, you can stay dressed like in a nightclub. It's very surreal, a great experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg I have thought this too, I wouldn't know what to put on my feet"

Socks and sandals are always a hot look xxx

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I guess it depends on where you are going. We picked Chameleons as our first as we felt the dress down rule would kill of

f any early nerves....and we were right!

Have no expectations and just treat it as a night out.

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Everyone feels the same. We've been to a few different clubs now. Its the best nights out we have.

If only for the social side. Of course the sex side is a bonus.

But we've never not got chatting within 5 mins of being in a club.

Go relax enjoy you'll be back sooner than you think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing to worry about. Just chill and sit back in the lounge. If your nerves are so bad then go to the club in midweek when its quiet. Take the club at your own pace and at the end of the night when your home and reflecting on where you have just been. You will say to yourself, why was I so bothered about it all.

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