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By *andg2206 OP   Couple
over a year ago

poole

Not in that way. I get so frustrated that as the lucky fella with a significantly younger wife 16 years we often get blocked or rejected as a result of my age Grrr. And all I want is watch her having fun or keeping her safe on meets and parties. It’s almost as if fab has an unofficial cut off at 50 irrespective of looks fitness or engagement. Hey ho. Any one else experience this or just lie about age. So many do

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By *andg2206 OP   Couple
over a year ago

poole

Absolutely. It is the age block for winks and messages as that goes on my age not hers! Grrr

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

There's loads of couples over 40. Surely you're not to old for them?

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Imagine what it's like for couples who are both in there 50s who am I kidding we are having the time of our lives xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps a couple of pictures of yourself OP?

People make assumptions about age.

Show them that you’re in reasonable shape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's why I'm back on my own. Husband gave up on it.

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By *athyperkinsCouple
over a year ago

lifton

OP S and I are around yr age (56 & 57). If our profile appeals, drop us a line. T x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If people don't want to meet you (or us for that matter) because of your age it's their choice and preference. That should be respected surely just as we respect and accept that your upper age limit excludes us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know exactly how you feel. We have a 15yr age gap, and although it states we only come as a couple, we often receive messages that are quite clearly directed at Mrs C, and trying to get her alone. We have also been approached by a couple in a club and been asked if we'd like to go to a private room. When we agreed, I was asked if they could just take Mrs C alone.... the polite fuck off, didn't go down to well.

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By *andg2206 OP   Couple
over a year ago

poole

Fair point. Cannot argue. I had not realised we had an upper age limit. Thanks for pointing out. Feeling a tad silly now lol

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By *andg2206 OP   Couple
over a year ago

poole


"We know exactly how you feel. We have a 15yr age gap, and although it states we only come as a couple, we often receive messages that are quite clearly directed at Mrs C, and trying to get her alone. We have also been approached by a couple in a club and been asked if we'd like to go to a private room. When we agreed, I was asked if they could just take Mrs C alone.... the polite fuck off, didn't go down to well."

Haha so true

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By *andg2206 OP   Couple
over a year ago

poole

Good idea. Thank you Makes sense

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

It’s not just an age thing though. I am now in my 60s (gulp) and my husband is five years younger. We still find on meets or in clubs that he can get pushed out of the action. He is very polite and non pushy so can be sidelined and I try to get him re engaged. If that doesn’t work I stop play !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not just an age thing though. I am now in my 60s (gulp) and my husband is five years younger. We still find on meets or in clubs that he can get pushed out of the action. He is very polite and non pushy so can be sidelined and I try to get him re engaged. If that doesn’t work I stop play !!"

Awww bless him, that's really mean, hes very handsome as well, tell him I said so

Mrs C

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