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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you a fan of the wink system? I am it’s a good way to show interest in someone if they wink back their is an attraction then leads to a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I don't look at them, I just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. I don't look at them, I just delete"

Same. Wish I could disable them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you a fan of the wink system? I am it’s a good way to show interest in someone if they wink back their is an attraction then leads to a message "

No I find them lazy. I'd rather someone just send a message. Winks have never lead to anything, messages have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I ve had good outcomes from sending and receiving winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, we think they are lazy. We like to communicate before a social etc..

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Are you a fan of the wink system? I am it’s a good way to show interest in someone if they wink back their is an attraction then leads to a message "

Honestly, I find it a complete waste of time.

The amount of winks I've had that I've replied to (in a reasonable and respectful manner, with a face pic, nice chatty message to get things going etc...) only to get no response ..nadda (not even a hey I kind of got that wrong) is unbelievable haha

Had one today.

New year resolution ... don't message those that wink.

A further school of thought might be, why wink, - I'm a man on fab, we don't get loads of messages. If you're interested, hey, make my day and send one.

M .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you a fan of the wink system? I am it’s a good way to show interest in someone if they wink back their is an attraction then leads to a message

Honestly, I find it a complete waste of time.

The amount of winks I've had that I've replied to (in a reasonable and respectful manner, with a face pic, nice chatty message to get things going etc...) only to get no response ..nadda (not even a hey I kind of got that wrong) is unbelievable haha

Had one today.

New year resolution ... don't message those that wink.

A further school of thought might be, why wink, - I'm a man on fab, we don't get loads of messages. If you're interested, hey, make my day and send one.

M . "

Girls help this guy out

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"Nope. I don't look at them, I just delete"

Same, I've never looked at them

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Nope. I don't look at them, I just delete

Same, I've never looked at them"

Going this year’s erection manifesto.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"Are you a fan of the wink system? I am it’s a good way to show interest in someone if they wink back their is an attraction then leads to a message

Honestly, I find it a complete waste of time.

The amount of winks I've had that I've replied to (in a reasonable and respectful manner, with a face pic, nice chatty message to get things going etc...) only to get no response ..nadda (not even a hey I kind of got that wrong) is unbelievable haha

Had one today.

New year resolution ... don't message those that wink.

A further school of thought might be, why wink, - I'm a man on fab, we don't get loads of messages. If you're interested, hey, make my day and send one.

M .

Girls help this guy out "

With what?

you've been here 9 week & had two meets you're doing way better than most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mass deleted every day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you a fan of the wink system? I am it’s a good way to show interest in someone if they wink back their is an attraction then leads to a message

Honestly, I find it a complete waste of time.

The amount of winks I've had that I've replied to (in a reasonable and respectful manner, with a face pic, nice chatty message to get things going etc...) only to get no response ..nadda (not even a hey I kind of got that wrong) is unbelievable haha

Had one today.

New year resolution ... don't message those that wink.

A further school of thought might be, why wink, - I'm a man on fab, we don't get loads of messages. If you're interested, hey, make my day and send one.

M .

Girls help this guy out

With what?

you've been here 9 week & had two meets you're doing way better than most "

Not me help the last titan send him a nice message

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Are you a fan of the wink system? I am it’s a good way to show interest in someone if they wink back their is an attraction then leads to a message

Honestly, I find it a complete waste of time.

The amount of winks I've had that I've replied to (in a reasonable and respectful manner, with a face pic, nice chatty message to get things going etc...) only to get no response ..nadda (not even a hey I kind of got that wrong) is unbelievable haha

Had one today.

New year resolution ... don't message those that wink.

A further school of thought might be, why wink, - I'm a man on fab, we don't get loads of messages. If you're interested, hey, make my day and send one.

M .

Girls help this guy out

With what?

you've been here 9 week & had two meets you're doing way better than most

Not me help the last titan send him a nice message "

Tumble blows across the road...

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By *4G-GBBukCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Wow, at least 2 hours since I saw one of these ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I winked at someone, and he was my first ever meet, we still see each other over two years on…

Having said that, I rarely look at them now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to use a wink to show our initial interest and if we get one back then we'll message xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother with them. Rarely check them if I'm being honest.

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By *sforfabfunCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

We view them as we would an appreciative ‘like’ on Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that some people feel shy and awkward about messaging first so maybe a wink is their ideal first communication to show interest...

however...

so many times we've had winks sent to us so we follow them up with a well written message and we just get ignored

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By *andboyMan
over a year ago

Calne


"We like to use a wink to show our initial interest and if we get one back then we'll message xx"

This

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"I get that some people feel shy and awkward about messaging first so maybe a wink is their ideal first communication to show interest...

however...

so many times we've had winks sent to us so we follow them up with a well written message and we just get ignored "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a wink I'll happily accept them as a registering of interest

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By *gfbMan
over a year ago

thorne

Wnk away

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By *leecouple101Couple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

If we get a wink we would usually send one back if an attraction is there, whether that be pics or bio, and with a short thank you message hoping it opens up a bit of dialogue and go from there.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"mass deleted every day"

If you leave them on and ignore them I don't think they can wink again

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By *r_lasciviousMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think the wink system is abused which is why it is ignored by most.

If it was real life in a bar you might wink and if they wink back you'd know there's at least a hope of some conversationb if you speak.

On here as a single guy, you can read a profile, word a decent message and it just never gets read as it's falls below all the "wanna fuck" messages.

I'd rather get a wink and then a decent message than a "wanna fuck in my car now".

Usual case on here, ruined by the masses of disrespectful keyboard warriors who never intend to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we get a wink we would usually send one back if an attraction is there, whether that be pics or bio, and with a short thank you message hoping it opens up a bit of dialogue and go from there.

"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see them as an icebreaker and an expression of interest.

Over the years it’s led to some good friendships on here and a meet or two.

Always happy to receive them.

V

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By *BW TV JadaTV/TS
over a year ago

North West


"We like to use a wink to show our initial interest and if we get one back then we'll message xx"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We see them as an icebreaker and an expression of interest.

Over the years it’s led to some good friendships on here and a meet or two.

Always happy to receive them.

V"

Us too x

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We like it. It’s like that initial eye contact in real

Life. It either peaks interest or it doesn’t.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We like to use a wink to show our initial interest and if we get one back then we'll message xx"

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Don’t mind a wink off couples we take a look and if there it mutual interest we wink back and usually leads to messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the perfect way for someone that doesn’t remotely fit your preferences and lives 200 miles away to get themselves noticed by you apparently.

But honestly, we don’t mind. It’s a bit like first eye contact at a club.

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Dont bother with them

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By *bsolutley FabMan
over a year ago

Fareham

Never have I had a response from a wink I have sent. I just send a message now.

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By *urhiddendesireCouple
over a year ago

Darlington


"I like them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to use a wink to show our initial interest and if we get one back then we'll message xx"

That’s how I like to use them too!

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We always check winks.

If we’re compatible we’ll wink back.

Some of our greatest meets and good friends have started with a wink.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think they're a great idea. A low-intensity way of establishing potential mutual interest.

Unfortunately, most women and couples get so many they never even look at them, so they're not actually useful in practice. Oh well!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We always check winks.

If we’re compatible we’ll wink back.

Some of our greatest meets and good friends have started with a wink. "

Me too that’s why I’m a fan of winks

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've had meets that have started with a wink. But also we've returned many winks and they don't follow up with a message

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Not really, Will tends to just delete them

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Let's be honest it's a simple wink,its not a marriage proposal,its a simple way of saying"wow you look A MAY ZING "....

we ALWAYS ALWAYS wink back naughty people Xxx

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

bristol

I've had some that have led to some great meets . It's the same with people who message you first and when you respond with a well thought out message they don't respond back. I find them use as it gives me a chance to view their profile and see if I would like to meet them or not.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

It's a personal choice thread.

Some will like winks. Some will not..

Next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We see them as an icebreaker and an expression of interest.

Over the years it’s led to some good friendships on here and a meet or two.

Always happy to receive them.

V

Us too x

"

x

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We have always used the wink option on here with mixed results. Made friends with some great couples over the years by winking or returning a wink.

Never had much luck, well ti be exact no results when we have winked a single female. But after reading the replies on here we now know why. Note to self, no wink ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have always used the wink option on here with mixed results. Made friends with some great couples over the years by winking or returning a wink.

Never had much luck, well ti be exact no results when we have winked a single female. But after reading the replies on here we now know why. Note to self, no wink ladies. "

Lol learn something everyday

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