FabSwingers.com forum: Do your workmates know you swing

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was them that suggested I join FAB!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some have an idea.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

When we worked they didn't. None of their darn business

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Not as far as I am aware.

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Every week, somebody in the team had to do a presentation on a non work subject. When it was my turn, I stood n front of the white board and announced ‘sex parties.’ It was astonishing how the Italian colleague changed from looking bored to instantly fixing me with a white-hot, grinning laser vision.

In fact, at that stage I didn’t have enough experience to make a great presentation, or answer all the questions.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

They might do if they looked over my shoulder!

Actually a couple of them do know as I only choose to share my lifestyle choices with those I trust and who can handle the information

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I bloomin hope not. I work in adult education.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. It would be completely inappropriate to share in my workplace.

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By *leecouple101Couple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

Got asked about it many a time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. It would be completely inappropriate to share in my workplace. "

I agree, swinging is a separate life from everyday

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

For me swinging is the escape from everyday life, so keep it away from work which seems to donimayr life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only those I've had sex with

But generally no xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No hopefully they don't like even most of my close friends don't. A small handful do. It's our lite secret

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to have weekly spreadsheets and PowerPoint presentation on who had shagged what and the miles per fuck given

Oh wait wrong sort of deliveries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None from our work places know but few of our friends have found out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes mine do but everyone knows I do

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

If they do they've not let on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes mine do but everyone knows I do

Remind me to give you a new job

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By *urhiddendesireCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

None have mentioned it

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

No they don't

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

I told a couple of colleagues that I trust. Then one day one of them asked me if I'd been to a swingers club at the weekend, he didn't realise he was in earshot of the works biggest gossip, now everyone knows.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Nobody knows, what goes on in the bedroom stays in the bedroom.

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By *eWillMakeYouSquirtCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Yes some stuff it

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Nope! But it is quite funny being on Monday morning catch up calls and getting asked what I got up to at the weekend after visiting a club or going to a party haha

Usually have to make something up all whilst thinking to myself “if only they knew what I was really up to” lol

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Whats a workplace????

Finished with all that here.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Back when I had a 'proper job' and some of the guys in the office used to jokingly suggest that I was "old and past it" and "probably couldn't get it up any more", it was sometimes very tempting to let slip what I got up to with other men's wives...

....on one occasion, while alone in the office while they were all on their mid-shift breaks, I actually logged in to one of my profiles and was all set to show them pics to shut them up - it was only the prospect of word getting back to my wife that stopped me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance, where I work the majority are extremely close minded and bigoted about a wide range of subjects… literally could have dragged some of them out of the 1950’s

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes, however they have totally the wrong idea about what we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work alone.... so yeah I guess they do haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a work mate that introduced me to the site

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By *ewfie02Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm self employed. I know I do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was a work mate that introduced me to the site"

Out of interest, how did the topic come up?

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Nope.

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By *ldaCouple
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

No. This isn’t a ‘lifestyle’ for us it’s something we do for fun, and it’s our sex life so it’s private. I’d find it a bit odd if someone announced at work that they swing

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Do. They. Fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of my workmates know. She happens to be my partner and the person who put me onto this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some will suspect it after a conversation on the local swinging club and the stereotypical attitudes of what it was. I let them know that I'd been a few times and corrected them on what they thought.

My old boss is the one who is most intrigued and says he needs to sitbdown and found out more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do. They. Fuck."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do. They. Fuck.

This

I work in a family business, so no. Could you imagine the topic at Sunday lunch!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

No way do they. They never will.

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By *gfbMan
over a year ago

thorne

No they don't

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By * feat LCouple
over a year ago

milton keynes

I found my boss with his wife here but they don't know about that lucky we didn't meet at same swingers club because they visiting same one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I found my boss with his wife here but they don't know about that lucky we didn't meet at same swingers club because they visiting same one

Why would that be bad?

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By * feat LCouple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Nothing bad but they don't have to know what we doing when lights are off

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some do, yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doubt it

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Nope and that's how it should be

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Not a chance! We keep this as far away from our personal life as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, our private life is private. Apart from all of you on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think 90% of the people on here keep it discreet and 10% would be open about it

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By *andaloriansCouple
over a year ago

Malvern

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By *andaloriansCouple
over a year ago

Malvern

One of my collegues does as i recomended FAB to her. We make a point to avoid each others profiles though, outa decency

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By *arlly83Couple
over a year ago

wilmslow

My wife workmates know about mine and her fabbing lifestyle and I'm always trying to get her to sleep with someone from work and show me videos and pics

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope, this is totally secret and I like to keep it that way. I work with some proper gossips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two do and fully support!

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Yes most are intrigued

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I have mentioned it. I am open about who and what I am. My mum knows and finds it amusing and is happy as long as I am happy.

I get why others don't tell colleagues but I talk in generalised terms and am always discreet. If I were a lady, things may be slightly different due to the male propensity to judge/name call etc.

Few are shocked, most ask questions and I have pointed a few this way.

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Only the one, who I've worked with a long time Dan, and a couple of Ts do x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Amazing body your very lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure if I even know myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but wouldn’t mind meeting a few on here

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

No and I wouldn't ever tell them. I very much doubt it would ever come up in conversation

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

I Sean told a married female colleague, we where on a night out and staying at a hotel. Separate rooms of course. We ended up spending the night in my room and have had another night away since. Janine knows I am fucking my friend but her husband does not know anything about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few definitely do

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By *ent1000Man
over a year ago

swanley

Professional and personal are two very different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one person does. It wouldn't overly bother me if anyone else knew (apart from being judged which I imagine would happen by some).

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do, most don't.

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By *anny197097Man
over a year ago

knob Creek

Nope

It’s not that I’m ashamed..

It’s just not something that would be accepted in the professional world..

Hopefully one day the world becomes more open minded ..

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

The parcel delivery man knows but he isnt a friend

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

It would be worse for me the caged cuck husband. Don't think it would be as bad for my Mistress who just gets to enjoy sexy guys with big hard cocks lol

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I’m quite an “open” swinger , most of my friends and family knows but it’s not something I discuss with colleagues apart from my boss.

I work with mostly late teens early 20’s youngsters in a very public environment fuelled by alcohol and I just don’t need the gossips between staff and/or customers whilst doing my job.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

One guy does but only because he saw us in our local club

Ideally I wouldn’t want anyone to know.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere Only We Know

Absolutely not! It could make life very awkward and we love having our naughty little secret.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is a reason to why so many men join after guys bigging up whats going on by telling all there mates about this site and then they sit back and moan theres no action for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no no , don't mix work and pleasure

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Leeds

My best mate doesn’t even know. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I'm aware of, but did have someone message me saying I think I know you and we worked at same company and no I didn't have face pictures on my public profile.

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

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We find who we talk to is selective maybe an inference but not beaten and leave to their imagination

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By * feat LCouple
over a year ago

milton keynes

I know my boss with mrs is here and lucky we didn't meet in same swingers club as we do visiting the same one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is my social life and there is my work.

I have a very clear divide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fab is my private adventure and it will remain so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a lot of them are on here themselves. We are fine about it, no big deal

Mrs

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

God no.......

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Yeah, we are all just like mates anyway, they asked what 'dating' site I was on and I just laughed and said fabswingers.

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By *hill1965Man
over a year ago

Camberley

I’m sure that there is someone in my office building, bu it’s their privacy.

Personally my work and swinging life are separate.

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

2 of my clients do.

Had a 3sum with both of them/ wives

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Simply they don't need to. It's not a great secret. A fair few family and friends know I do and the My Girl does too. But it's hardly something I just drop into the general conversation at work. However I suspect it would be no surprise with anyone because my veiws are generally very liberal and sex positive. Plus I think it's generally out of the bag I'm a bit kinky anyway.

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

Good heavens no!

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By *topthepressMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Couple of my work mates know not many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years ago one of them inadvertently invited me to a three some. It was a little awkward to start with but human nature took over.

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

Wales/Sussex

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

There is a couple of ladies at MrKs work place that do as they're swingers to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but one or two of our friends know.

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

around

Not that I'm aware of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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It’s not some dirty secret for either of us, but a couple of friends know who are on the scene as well

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the ones I've fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try and keep this life separate from private life so no one knows what we do, I feel like it would give people the impression they've got a free pass to try it on

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

nope,,

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

Nope

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline/Leeds

God no. I manage five staff. That could be awkward to keep quiet

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My swing mates don't even know that I work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some might suspect, but as we have an xhamster account I'm sure we've been recognised.????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, wouldn’t even divulge something like that

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