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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it unrealistic to have a fwb type situation in swinging, or is it more once or twice type thing then move on? Before anyone says it i know haven't been on long, it's just the general vibe i get from here so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say it’s perfectly possible. Harder to find maybe, but not impossible.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

We’ve met a few people in clubs who’ve met a fwb from fab, it seems to have worked for them so it doesn’t appear impossible! Good luck Miss pc

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely happens more than once or twice x

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It can happen but possibly you need to cross your fingers

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By *un_ajMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Just need to find the right people that respect the boundaries, but it certainly can happen.

Never say never, and I’m only open to longer term FWB’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you're part of a couple it would pose challenging to maintain such a relationship

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By *irtyold manMan
over a year ago

barnsley

Its possible but verry rare

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the replies, good to see i am just being cynical at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something that happens over night. Even with those I meet regularly with I still have struggles... don't expect the earth too soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took me just over 3 years to find one on here. It's very, very difficult but don't lose hope

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope it's definitely not impossible to find

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

It's not unrealistic at all in fact it's the perfect situation but at the same time you need a healthy mix of regular fwb and a few one offs every now and then

After all we are swingers right ?

With your fwb, be it a couple or single you can build trust and delve deeper into your fantasies and personally I thing the sex is better ...with your one offs it's about the quick thrill of the moment a bit of disposable fun.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I've had one for almost two years and it's still going strong so yes totally possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is impossible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not unrealistic at all in fact it's the perfect situation but at the same time you need a healthy mix of regular fwb and a few one offs every now and then

After all we are swingers right ?

With your fwb, be it a couple or single you can build trust and delve deeper into your fantasies and personally I thing the sex is better ...with your one offs it's about the quick thrill of the moment a bit of disposable fun."

yei know one offs will happen but i think fwb would suit us most to start with and in future probably.

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

I'd really love find a couple for fb status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possible. I met a lady and we became fwb for a year.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Finding one is hard but not the real issue. For me, it is maintaining that balance and dynamic for a sustainable period of time.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs


"It's not unrealistic at all in fact it's the perfect situation but at the same time you need a healthy mix of regular fwb and a few one offs every now and then

After all we are swingers right ?

With your fwb, be it a couple or single you can build trust and delve deeper into your fantasies and personally I thing the sex is better ...with your one offs it's about the quick thrill of the moment a bit of disposable fun.

yei know one offs will happen but i think fwb would suit us most to start with and in future probably. "

Look for a few regulars you like ones who you can go clubbing with then meet some on offs through fab .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not unrealistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is possible if all parties involved know what they want to get out of it and are willing to put effort into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh we've been lucky enough to have more than one. Still remain really good freinds with them even though they arnt on the swinging scene anymore.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we enjoyed it for a while

but we grew apart when it became clear the expectations were starting to get incompatible

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By *oyo58Man
over a year ago

wales

Very realistic indeed when you meet the right genuine people on here. I've been lucky to have met a great couple whom I've shared many occasions with together as a threesome but also as a FWB couple with my sexy hotwife on nights out for drinks, meals, hotel nights away and shopping trips. Makes it so much easier for the three of us as we all know what we want to happen and what makes us all tick.

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

Still looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certainly happens. It can take time (took me a few years), but it happens.

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By *ondonexplorerMan
over a year ago

Ascot

Had a few ranging from a few weeks to a about 3 years. They either evolve into a more serious relationship or one party starts a new relationship.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

It’s not impossible

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"is it unrealistic to have a fwb type situation in swinging, or is it more once or twice type thing then move on? Before anyone says it i know haven't been on long, it's just the general vibe i get from here so far. "

I always think that it's much easier to have a FWB relationship develop from a friendship than to manufacture the situation on here.

Cal

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