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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

So is this something you have locked away in a box? Does your partner know about it? Does he or she know specific details from your past?

I just wonder because my ex was a lap dancer and adult model for many years. She did private shows at guys homes for money. And more. Lots more.

I know now that she is retired and a happily married mum but I reckon her hubby will not know a fraction of it all.

Nor will he hear from me. She is a lovely person and I wish her only the best.

I just wonder if people in her position tend to lock their past away in a box and hide it under the bed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not something I have locked away. I would love if my partner had a past like that. I'd love hearing all the crazy fun stories.

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Its not something I have locked away. I would love if my partner had a past like that. I'd love hearing all the crazy fun stories. "

We are all different. I think she was ready to leave the lifestyle and embrace a quiet life of domesticity with her new husband and family.

And who can blame her. She started off stripping in bars aged only 17 and was about 30 when she walked away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on a "lads night out" a little while back, when one of the lads suggested a strippers.

The shear panic on my face must have been a picture when I heard a womans voice call my name from across the bar.

An ex of mine from many moons ago. Yup, she's a stripper now. Had a great laugh catching up.

Was great to have another look at her, even if it did cost me this time haha

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I think my ex is actually ashamed and embarrassed by her past. I know that when started stripping it was an old school type of arrangement. The publican cleared a pub table for her to stand , put some change in the jukebox and she simply got on with it.

Then went round the tables naked afterwards with an empty beer glass taking donations. Lol

I also know that when she later graduated to lapdancer the guy who she worked for held private parties for friends and business contacts. Girls who were most "adventurous" at the parties got the pick of the shifts at his flagship club. Which took their earning from hundreds a week to thousands.

She was young and not exactly manipulated but I know she keeps it quiet that she was expected to fuck whoever at these parties. She accidentally admitted to me that only the guys were allowed to insist on condoms for instance. Not the girls.

So I'm pretty sure she hasn't told her husband a fraction of this stuff.

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By *wing66Couple
over a year ago

Burton-upon-trent

If she told you, why wouldn't she tell her husband?
"I think my ex is actually ashamed and embarrassed by her past. I know that when started stripping it was an old school type of arrangement. The publican cleared a pub table for her to stand , put some change in the jukebox and she simply got on with it.

Then went round the tables naked afterwards with an empty beer glass taking donations. Lol

I also know that when she later graduated to lapdancer the guy who she worked for held private parties for friends and business contacts. Girls who were most "adventurous" at the parties got the pick of the shifts at his flagship club. Which took their earning from hundreds a week to thousands.

She was young and not exactly manipulated but I know she keeps it quiet that she was expected to fuck whoever at these parties. She accidentally admitted to me that only the guys were allowed to insist on condoms for instance. Not the girls.

So I'm pretty sure she hasn't told her husband a fraction of this stuff."

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I was part of her old life. She wanted something different for her future.

We are still friend's after many years but she has layers of secrets. I am sure I still only know a fraction.

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Anyone else got some thoughts to add on a past sex work life?

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By *lder funCouple
over a year ago

tottenham

Been there,done that,no regrets really

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'll tell certain people, some of what I've got to to. Depends if I feel they'd judge me for it or not

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By *ndy and joyMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Been there,done that,no regrets really"

Very interesting and colourful life you've led x

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By *icklowbiguyMan
over a year ago

Wicklow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He knows I did some amateur porn in the past. I also tried escorting briefly a little while ago which he doesn't know about, but it wasn't really for me xx

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"He knows I did some amateur porn in the past. I also tried escorting briefly a little while ago which he doesn't know about, but it wasn't really for me xx"

I would find it so erotic if my wife had a background like that

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"He knows I did some amateur porn in the past. I also tried escorting briefly a little while ago which he doesn't know about, but it wasn't really for me xx"

Could he read this post and find out?

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By *ougar1966Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Is it not a betrayal of trust that you are on an open public forum discussing her and her past???....

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Everyone has a history. Don't sweat anything.

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By *lumber53Man
over a year ago

brean

My wife was a street hooker that's how we met

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"My wife was a street hooker that's how we met"

Really?

Bet she has some stories to tell?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife was a street hooker that's how we met"

Weirdly that actually sounds quite endearing, that that could happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The girl I'm seeing does know. We were friends before we dated and I told her I've stripped. She asks for a private show surprisingly often

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"The girl I'm seeing does know. We were friends before we dated and I told her I've stripped. She asks for a private show surprisingly often "

Any interesting stories from your experiences as a performer? I hear the girls can sometimes get a big hyped?

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By *ee f 1233Man
over a year ago

Crewe

Tbh if she's your ex does it really have any thing to do with you? Seems abit wierd posting about a ex , get the fealing your just trying to find out who on here as done porn so you can try look them up , you asked if any one has done any thing like this any one who says yeah your asking for more details about it surly you must no what it's like if you're ex wife used to do it

Bit strange tbh

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon


"The girl I'm seeing does know. We were friends before we dated and I told her I've stripped. She asks for a private show surprisingly often "

I'd sit back and enjoy that show

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By *iveshowcouple2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"The girl I'm seeing does know. We were friends before we dated and I told her I've stripped. She asks for a private show surprisingly often

I'd sit back and enjoy that show "

We were talking the other day about booking a male stripper to come to the house to do a performance for my wife.

Not sure if this kind of thing is available. Nor what his reaction might be to see her waiting eagerly wearing a micro mini and heels

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Tbh if she's your ex does it really have any thing to do with you? Seems abit wierd posting about a ex , get the fealing your just trying to find out who on here as done porn so you can try look them up , you asked if any one has done any thing like this any one who says yeah your asking for more details about it surly you must no what it's like if you're ex wife used to do it

Bit strange tbh "

He only answers the posts which help fill his wank bank…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The girl I'm seeing does know. We were friends before we dated and I told her I've stripped. She asks for a private show surprisingly often

I'd sit back and enjoy that show "

Pm me to discuss. I'm not shy

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

L is still a lap dancer, no shame here I’m very proud of her and the work she does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine's wife is an ex stripper and he has no idea. I only found out because she d*unkenly told me one night, because she wanted to go to her old club and catch up with friends.

Also have an ex who now does fetish modelling and sex work, and is very much open about it.

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