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By *irldn OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

We come across so many profiles where the female half of a couple has their own profile as a single girl.

Totally get that when it states something like:

This profile is for me to have fun on my own with hubby/bf.

Or

This profile is for me to explore my bi-side with ladies only. I only meet couples with my partner see our couple profile.

Etc

But so many “single female” profiles basically seem to just be bait as (from the profile wording) they only meet/play with anyone with their partner - so why not stick to a couple profile! Grrrrr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safety is paramount for me so due to bad experiences in the past with the male half of couples I prefer to have my husband present.

This isn't the case if I meet other girls though.

Would you meet couples alone?

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"Safety is paramount for me so due to bad experiences in the past with the male half of couples I prefer to have my husband present.

This isn't the case if I meet other girls though.

Would you meet couples alone? "

You know girls can be psychopaths too right?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Because it gets them a wider audience and can be a way around filters and they (possibly mistakenly) think it will increase their chances of getting a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Safety is paramount for me so due to bad experiences in the past with the male half of couples I prefer to have my husband present.

This isn't the case if I meet other girls though.

Would you meet couples alone?

You know girls can be psychopaths too right?"

Who said anything about psychopaths?

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

We take people as they are, and when it comes to first time meets if it’s not a club we will agree to meeting in a pub or similar to make it easy for the others to back out if they need to or for us to back out if not right and without making a scene.

You often find the illusion unicorn (single woman) will agree to meet and then back out at last minute or just no show (quite possibly couples, male or genuine).

Occasionally it turns out to be a really good meet and the fun begins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We come across so many profiles where the female half of a couple has their own profile as a single girl.

Totally get that when it states something like:

This profile is for me to have fun on my own with hubby/bf.

Or

This profile is for me to explore my bi-side with ladies only. I only meet couples with my partner see our couple profile.

Etc

But so many “single female” profiles basically seem to just be bait as (from the profile wording) they only meet/play with anyone with their partner - so why not stick to a couple profile! Grrrrr."

Your right ...there just bait profiles

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

WOW, surprise, people being actually untruthful on FAB !

You want to try meeting the odd guy off here whose profile pictures were obviously taken when they were 30 years younger, a while ago we was meeting a guy who looked like young Tony Hadley, when he turned up for a drink he looked more like Jimmy Somerville and full of bullshit excuses.

Seriously though there are a lot of idiots on here at times, even girls offering themselves for paid sex, I think you can suss out the ‘falsies’ on here but some are harder than others - no puns intended !

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Safety is paramount for me so due to bad experiences in the past with the male half of couples I prefer to have my husband present.

This isn't the case if I meet other girls though.

Would you meet couples alone? "

If it’s clearly stated on the single woman’s bio, I don’t see an issue.

A male partner springing up out of nowhere late in the proceedings as a condition of meeting is an annoyance though.

If the OP ( or whoever ) wanted to meet a couple, they’d be looking at couples profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report the profile if it says they don't meet alone. Fab will change it to a Couple profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Safety is paramount for me so due to bad experiences in the past with the male half of couples I prefer to have my husband present.

This isn't the case if I meet other girls though.

Would you meet couples alone?

If it’s clearly stated on the single woman’s bio, I don’t see an issue.

A male partner springing up out of nowhere late in the proceedings as a condition of meeting is an annoyance though.

If the OP ( or whoever ) wanted to meet a couple, they’d be looking at couples profiles.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"We come across so many profiles where the female half of a couple has their own profile as a single girl.

Totally get that when it states something like:

This profile is for me to have fun on my own with hubby/bf.

Or

This profile is for me to explore my bi-side with ladies only. I only meet couples with my partner see our couple profile.

Etc

But so many “single female” profiles basically seem to just be bait as (from the profile wording) they only meet/play with anyone with their partner - so why not stick to a couple profile! Grrrrr."

Many of them aren't even running the profile, it's run by the Male partner!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because they can. It may be frustrating to you, but in the grand scheme of things you haven't lost out on anything bar the time taken to read a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're profile says you only meet with your partner, it should be a couple's profile. If it's reported, admin can and will change it.

I had mine changed because I mentioned my partner in a message when rejected someone and the guy didn't like it. We don't meet as a couple hence single profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to a meet with a single female, her partner was there instead and wanted 250 if wanted to "use" her, I declined and reported the profile which was rather popular and had plenty veris, guess some guys aren't too fussy.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Went to a meet with a single female, her partner was there instead and wanted 250 if wanted to "use" her, I declined and reported the profile which was rather popular and had plenty veris, guess some guys aren't too fussy."

Or are desperate/stupid enough to pay up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to a meet with a single female, her partner was there instead and wanted 250 if wanted to "use" her, I declined and reported the profile which was rather popular and had plenty veris, guess some guys aren't too fussy."

I'd have stole his dust caps.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

As a single woman, have come across this a lot too. They want to bring their partner to ‘just watch’ would report as it should be a couples account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single woman, have come across this a lot too. They want to bring their partner to ‘just watch’ would report as it should be a couples account."

I have found this too! I tell them that I only want to meet them but unless the unseen/unmentioned bf is involved they aren't interested. Very frustrating

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I see where you are coming from, both me and my partner do have our own profiles and we share a couple's one too.

Seing as we live 30 odd miles apart, I only see her at weekends, so she does use her own profile and that's fine with me. I am never there in the week, so there is no chance of me being there.

We do mention each other on our profiles, we are clear like that.

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