FabSwingers.com forum: male pics in MF profiles ........

By * n z OP Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Is it just me , or do any other ladies out there get annoyed at the lack of male pics in MF profiles.........

There's always loads of the lady half, but some people don't bother putting the man's pic on.

Do people not think us ladies like to c what the man looks like too ????

I sometimes feel its almost like our opinion doesn't count, but surely both halfs of the couple have to be attracted to what they see......

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over a year ago

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I looked at your profile and think you have it just right, pics of you as a couple and some sexy female only ones

good luck and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HI I agree,its always pics of the lady in a couple profile ,tits bum and pussy ,if there is any of the man its just his cock ,I like to see faces,surely we arent asking for much xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes mrsP ALLWAYS has to see male pics in a couple profile otherwise they are instantly dismissed

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By *weetcorruptionCouple
over a year ago

At home

We have to agree too.

why would we want to meet without seeing pics of both the female and male in a couple? its as tho some couples use the female as a selling point and think its not important what the male looks like.

As tho its the males decision to meet and not the females.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"Is it just me , or do any other ladies out there get annoyed at the lack of male pics in MF profiles.........

There's always loads of the lady half, but some people don't bother putting the man's pic on.

Do people not think us ladies like to c what the man looks like too ????

I sometimes feel its almost like our opinion doesn't count, but surely both halfs of the couple have to be attracted to what they see......

we only have pics of mrs however although we meet as a couple mr only plays with mrs and we only meet single guys so we send pics of mr to anyone we are going to meet just so they know his face. but they arent playing with him he plays with me at the same time so it doesnt matter.

We dont meet couples.

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By * n z OP Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

@ Funcpl2012

I'm sure in yr case its different as like u say u are only looking for men to play with yr wife .......

But the majority of MF profiles are couples looking to meet couples and fems......if the man wants to play, his pic should be on display

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont have any face pics of either of us on our profile but are very happy to cam with anyone that wants to see us both. Pics can be easily doctored etc anyway or be 10 yrs old at least cam to cam you see what you are getting now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cue all the replies from male halves saying they're too ugly for pics, that they're wives can't use a camera or they have a job so sensitive that colleagues would instantly recognise their naked torso even without their heads in the pic etc, etc!

Oh and not forgetting the "We have no pics of the guy but are doing O.K thank you very much!" replies.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree. I have very particular tastes in men and it is sometimes very hard to establish if the male half of the couple matchs these from looking at a couple's profile. As I'm the fussy one (in regards to preferences) in our relationship I'm the one you have to win over lol. Ellie x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on ours, know I'm not an oil painting but hey when in rome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have an assortment of pictures of Mr Iconic in our private gallery, pics of his face, body, us two together as a couple, a cock pic even.

Our public pictures are all about me, because I want them to be. I don't want to meet people who demand public male pics.

We only send pics of the male half to those we intend to meet and not for nosy buggers who just want to see what we look like.

I'm an exhibitionist so I like creating pics.

Its our profile, our choice, no one elses, if you don't agree with it.....(You don't really need me to fill in the rest do you)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have one or two of V and face pics in ourfriends only pics. I'd always be happy to send more on request and so would he.

It amazes me the amount of couples who message us asking if we want to meet them and all they have is a picture of tits. I can't make a decision based on that and when we've said as much they've got the hump and deleted our message. I'm sure there are people who will have fun regardless but for me, I can't unless I'm attracted to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were chatting to a couple not so long ago, and everything was going great until i asked to see a cock photo of him as they were all her. After that it all went quiet and never did meet

(Perky)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I so agree with you.

There's no way I would play with the couple if I didn't fancy him too so yes I want face pics of him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We too have had contact with couples who we seem to get on ok with via messaging!! when asked to see a pic of the man or for me (gill) to have a chat with the fem or even to go on cam we either get no further contact, the fem half is at work and cant call or cam then we are blocked or just plain ignored. We have a couple of pics of tony on our profile as i do think that possible playmates need to see him. If he isnt their thing then not a problem thats why his pic is there.

I do understand though why couples who just want to meet single guys dont have a male pic on profile.

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By *andG4moreCouple
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

"Is it just me , or do any other ladies out there get annoyed at the lack of male pics in MF profiles.........

There's always loads of the lady half, but some people don't bother putting the man's pic on.

Do people not think us ladies like to c what the man looks like too ????

I sometimes feel its almost like our opinion doesn't count, but surely both halfs of the couple have to be attracted to what they see......

We dont meet couples."

same for us. its only the fem that plays so no need for pics of him lol he stays downstairs doing the ironing as I am getting pleasured.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even the single male profiles have pics of females on them!!

It's all a bit mental really. I know why people wouldn't want certain pics for all to see. But unless they meet with a bag on their head you have to see them at some point.

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By * n z OP Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

"Even the single male profiles have pics of females on them!!

It's all a bit mental really. I know why people wouldn't want certain pics for all to see. But unless they meet with a bag on their head you have to see them at some point.

hehehe about the bag !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't really mind what pics people put on their profiles - each to their own & all that... However when we are looking to find new friends Mrs GT wants some say on it so if no pics of him we just jog on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I apologise that my previous post was a little blunt, reading back today it was quite rude of me.

I can understand that women want to have a little perv at photos and want to be titillated too, have a look at pics to get an idea before the initial message.

However my OH has made the decision not to have any public pics. It is not because he's ugly or has a small cock or is ashamed of his body, he's one of the most confident men I've ever met and is certainly not ugly. I think its very naïve of people to really think this is the reason on profiles that don't have male pics.

However when actually agreeing to meet people then I feel clear photos are required and we provide these.

I always do respect others' decisions on why their profile is a certain way and I don't question what others have in public as it is their reasons. Private messages I will ask what I need to know and need to see and I expect them to do likewise

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

"Cue all the replies from male halves saying they're too ugly for pics, that they're wives can't use a camera or they have a job so sensitive that colleagues would instantly recognise their naked torso even without their heads in the pic etc, etc!

Oh and not forgetting the "We have no pics of the guy but are doing O.K thank you very much!" replies.

XXXX"

Beat me to it,thats usually the reply to these threads

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

not guilty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pictures of both of us in our public gallery, but mainly me, as photography is M's hobby, he enjoys taking pictures so it kills 2 birds with one stone.

It is not that easy, even with a remote to take pictures together.

He is certainly not camera shy or ugly.

The majority of our private gallery contains pictures of us together, just normal everyday pictures, we don't want our faces on show for all and sundry to see, simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing that does puzzle us is when we look at a couples profile and there are pics of both of them.

The puzzling thing is that although they're a "long term couple", the pics are all mirror shots of themselves taken on a camera phone.

There's seldom, if ever one of them both together.

Whats that all about?

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree more - swinging is an activity that involves both the male and the female - as the female of Bedford 555 - I am str8 -if I look at a profile I want to see a picture of the male - they don't have to be face pix - it's the body I'm looking at!! - pictures of women do nothing for me!! - there are pics of my gorgeous hubby on our profile - look for yourselves ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recently come across lots of MF couple profiles, where the pictures are men only.

Makes me wonder if these are genuine accounts, or, the men pretending to be couples to try get more meets profiles.

Either way, prefer to see a mixture of male and female pictures, otherwise I dont message them.

Sarah x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Is it just me , or do any other ladies out there get annoyed at the lack of male pics in MF profiles.........

There's always loads of the lady half, but some people don't bother putting the man's pic on.

Do people not think us ladies like to c what the man looks like too ????

I sometimes feel its almost like our opinion doesn't count, but surely both halfs of the couple have to be attracted to what they see......

No can't say it annoys me as it's not really that difficult to email and ask to see some privately.

Same as people contact us and ask to face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me , or do any other ladies out there get annoyed at the lack of male pics in MF profiles.........

There's always loads of the lady half, but some people don't bother putting the man's pic on.

Do people not think us ladies like to c what the man looks like too ????

I sometimes feel its almost like our opinion doesn't count, but surely both halfs of the couple have to be attracted to what they see......

No can't say it annoys me as it's not really that difficult to email and ask to see some privately.

Same as people contact us and ask to face pics.

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By * n z OP Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Can cut out a lot of wasted messages though if the pics were there in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can cut out a lot of wasted messages though if the pics were there in the first place

Not at all, not everyone wants their face pictures on display, it is as simple as that.

Also you can get a good idea of what a couple are like by looking at their pictures (faceless) and reading their profile, looking at their interests etc.

If then you like that, it is not a waste of time then messaging to say hello and ask for a face picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can cut out a lot of wasted messages though if the pics were there in the first place

Not at all, not everyone wants their face pictures on display, it is as simple as that.

Also you can get a good idea of what a couple are like by looking at their pictures (faceless) and reading their profile, looking at their interests etc.

If then you like that, it is not a waste of time then messaging to say hello and ask for a face picture.

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..we have face piks in private not in public that's our choice.xx

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By * n z OP Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

I wasn't specifically talking about face pics.......just that alot don't have any pics of the man ......rather double standards I'd say .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wasn't specifically talking about face pics.......just that alot don't have any pics of the man ......rather double standards I'd say ."

Well I still stand by if you think a profile looks interesting and you would like to meet said couple, it is not any effort to ask for pictures, of any description.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've recently come across lots of MF couple profiles, where the pictures are men only.

Makes me wonder if these are genuine accounts, or, the men pretending to be couples to try get more meets profiles.

Either way, prefer to see a mixture of male and female pictures, otherwise I dont message them.

Sarah x"

I've seen some of those too. Or some with pics of the bloke taken in a mirror then pics of a female that look like something off a porn site, in totally different rooms/ bedding etc. Yes I do realise that there's more than one bed in the world...! But it's still always just a little bit odd.

(Pics nicked off t'internet and the profile is just some sad single bloke *cough*)

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By *inky tag teamCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I think in a lot of cases the woman is used to attract others then everything else follows...........i (fem) think its essential to have the fellas pic on saves any messing about x

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"@ Funcpl2012

I'm sure in yr case its different as like u say u are only looking for men to play with yr wife .......

But the majority of MF profiles are couples looking to meet couples and fems......if the man wants to play, his pic should be on display

yep. if mr was playing with another female then would expect to put pics of him up to obviously.

Anyone playing should have some pic of them. a couple with just male pics would automatically make us think fake profile tho. if you want to play you should have pics up. oh mrs fun typing not male half as someone said male halves were typing. happy swinging.

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By *oco_slimCouple
over a year ago

lewisham

I somewhat agree. If a couple contacts us & only have pictures in their pictures of the female, then it's quite difficult for me as the female to make a decision as to whether I want to take the interest any further.

We all have particular likes & dislikes and no pics makes the decision process a little more tricky. Some might say that my attitude is a little shallow, but for me I need some visual representation of the gent as well as the lady.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"I somewhat agree. If a couple contacts us & only have pictures in their pictures of the female, then it's quite difficult for me as the female to make a decision as to whether I want to take the interest any further.

exactly too many people .. well men but some women too seemed to think its blind date lol

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