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By *ootprints1629 OP   Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Come on lads..your all grown men throwing a paddy when you don't get a meet. Especially when we never made you think we were going to meet.

Why...why are they so shit to people? They wouldn't go into a nightclub or bar chatting folk up then getting abusive because they ain't interested! So why do they think they can behave in that way on here...its disgusting! Oh then block you so you can't reply to their immature comments. Sorry just ranting..everyone has preferences which means looks to...I'm not fucking you just because you messaged being all nice in your first messages! Grown up people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I really don't agree with generalisation of they and them in this.

I'm sorry you've had a bad message or messages OP but not all single guys are like this so to group them I feel is wrong.

Yes every now and again a single male let's the side down but that's people, just got to take the rough with the smooth.

Got to say the majority of our messages are nothing but polite xxx

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By *ootprints1629 OP   Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Sorry but I really don't agree with generalisation of they and them in this.

I'm sorry you've had a bad message or messages OP but not all single guys are like this so to group them I feel is wrong.

Yes every now and again a single male let's the side down but that's people, just got to take the rough with the smooth.

Got to say the majority of our messages are nothing but polite xxx

"

Yes I know not all of them are the same and didn't mean for it to sound like I thought that. In fact the majority that we get are very pleasant to but there is always that few men who don't take rejection well and blame others. I just don't understand their mentality if I'm honest.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

There will always be the odd bad apples like this but most guys I’d say aren’t .

Why not block guys if it’s a problem for you that way you can then do your own search cutting out these types of emails .

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By *ootprints1629 OP   Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"There will always be the odd bad apples like this but most guys I’d say aren’t .

Why not block guys if it’s a problem for you that way you can then do your own search cutting out these types of emails . "

Believe me we have all the filters we want in but we still get folk we are not into msgsing us...someone said that the other day on the forums to.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Why would you waste your time replying to their immature comments, it sounds . . . . immature!

Just block them and forget them.

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By *ootprints1629 OP   Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

We had exchanged msgs for a short time but we were not looking to meet at the time of talking and made this clear. Fast forward a couple of weeks we had put a status up saying we were looking so he msged us back, we asked him for a face pic to which he sent and because we said he wasn't for us he threw a paddy and said that we had waisted his time which wasn't the case as we didn't make him think we would definatly meet him so no i wasn't meaning random immature msgs and reply to them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but I really don't agree with generalisation of they and them in this.

I'm sorry you've had a bad message or messages OP but not all single guys are like this so to group them I feel is wrong.

Yes every now and again a single male let's the side down but that's people, just got to take the rough with the smooth.

Got to say the majority of our messages are nothing but polite xxx

"

Thanks for coming to the defence of single fellas

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By *byeguysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Paisley

Like others have said, there’s always going to be bad apples in the mix.

Our way of dealing when we aren’t interested is to say that we’re happy to chat but not looking to meet. After all, we still enjoy being social. So if they once again try their luck, we can just remind them that we’re not looking to meet. Easy.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I just say no thanks and block (if I reply at all).

No time to get abuse and no point having profiles hanging around I’m not interested in.

I do find it’s more couples tahn single men giving out abuse though ha!

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"We had exchanged msgs for a short time but we were not looking to meet at the time of talking and made this clear. Fast forward a couple of weeks we had put a status up saying we were looking so he msged us back, we asked him for a face pic to which he sent and because we said he wasn't for us he threw a paddy and said that we had waisted his time which wasn't the case as we didn't make him think we would definatly meet him so no i wasn't meaning random immature msgs and reply to them! "

We always think the longer down the road the harder it is to reject them when you get to see their face pic. I would suggest asking for a face pic with their first message - it works for us and we've never, ever received an abusive message.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but I really don't agree with generalisation of they and them in this.

I'm sorry you've had a bad message or messages OP but not all single guys are like this so to group them I feel is wrong.

Yes every now and again a single male let's the side down but that's people, just got to take the rough with the smooth.

Got to say the majority of our messages are nothing but polite xxx

Thanks for coming to the defence of single fellas "

Np

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"Come on lads..your all grown men throwing a paddy when you don't get a meet. Especially when we never made you think we were going to meet.

Why...why are they so shit to people? They wouldn't go into a nightclub or bar chatting folk up then getting abusive because they ain't interested! So why do they think they can behave in that way on here...its disgusting! Oh then block you so you can't reply to their immature comments. Sorry just ranting..everyone has preferences which means looks to...I'm not fucking you just because you messaged being all nice in your first messages! Grown up people!"

It’s a sad consequence of the internet. Anonymity and a keyboard - a lethal combination!

However, I bet there’s just a tiny bit of you that thinks ‘ I may have just missed out on the shag of my life, shame he’s blocked me’. No?

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Isn’t it weird how the ‘few bad apples’ seem to be the ones conversing all the time?

I know we don’t hear good news only bad in that respect. So it will be a biased view.

However t seems there must be more than a ‘few’ bad apples.

But what is it that actually gets them the attention in the first place while all the good apples are overlocked?

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Block and move on. More important things in life to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block immediately and move on

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By *iseekingbiCouple
over a year ago

N ireland and West Midlands

Throwing a paddy?

Casual racism

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"Come on lads..your all grown men throwing a paddy when you don't get a meet. Especially when we never made you think we were going to meet.

Why...why are they so shit to people? They wouldn't go into a nightclub or bar chatting folk up then getting abusive because they ain't interested! So why do they think they can behave in that way on here...its disgusting! Oh then block you so you can't reply to their immature comments. Sorry just ranting..everyone has preferences which means looks to...I'm not fucking you just because you messaged being all nice in your first messages! Grown up people!"

Could it be that they are keyboard warriors and it is easy for them to hide behind it.

As for going into a bar a and chatting to people, would that actually happen. The internet is a great place for some people to hide and think they are an 'alpha' when nobody can actually see them.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

No excuse for rudeness. But if yiu have been rejected over and over again a hint of bitterness creeps in and a fed up person bites.

Take it as experience and consider you hD a lucky escape

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