FabSwingers.com forum: Is 45 years old the age most men become useless swingers ?

By *arkbane OP Man
over a year ago

East lerds

Just noticed so many people put only looking for people between 18 - 45

Why 45 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have you only gone to 80?

What's wrong with 81 year olds? They need loving too.

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By *leecouple101Couple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

We do have an age range but it's not set in stone.

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By *BW TV JadaTV/TS
over a year ago

North West

Have you ever seen a man at midnight on the eve of his 45th birthday? Eek!

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Theres many a good tune played on an old fiddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now it all makes sense…… I’m 45! At least I know it’s not my fault it’s just age

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

For us it was difficult as we’re 36 and 37 but I have incredibly young parents and don’t want to mix with anyone that’s closer to their age. It’s just preference and it isn’t set in stone for us. We don’t have it set from 18 either as we felt that was too young for us personally.

C x

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By *uffolkClareClactonDaveCouple
over a year ago

Felixstowe/Clacton-on-Sea

Go to a club and the age factor largely goes out of the window. If someone is attracted to you their not going to ask your age.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

It's a few years now since I passed that milestone, and I've never had any complaints.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find profiles almost always have 50-55 and even if the age range is open you can usual tell preferences from veris

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Tick the search box that says "I'm the age they are looking for" and it ceases to be a problem.

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By *uy4swingingMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"We do have an age range but it's not set in stone.

Setting an age range stops anyone outside that range from contacting you., so it is a filter, rather than a preference

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By *rMister40Man
over a year ago

Kingston

Hahaha was just wondering that as my slippers escaped the good life.

Blasphemy

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"We do have an age range but it's not set in stone.

Setting an age range stops anyone outside that range from contacting you., so it is a filter, rather than a preference"

It's also a preference as I don't engage with anyone outside my age range

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Most of the guys that I know who do really well on fab are over 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres many a good tune played on an old fiddle

Play us a tune

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By *orsche40Couple
over a year ago

northwich

Hubby is nearly 68 and still going strong sometimes struggle to keep up with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in my 50s and still going strong . Think I can put a few of the younger men to shame if I'm honest

But seriously it's quite frustrating when you see a woman's profile you like who is around the same age as you and they have filters to block men over 49+

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My favourite fab friends are over 45.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Nope! My fwb is 48 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I was 43 last week, and must admit I thought I was going to need to have a manic 2 years before the carriage changed back into a pumpkin- maybe I can slow that down a wee bit without fear after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope! My fwb is 48 x"

Jesus he’s a lucky fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m closing in on 45, is best boost my activity levels

Sympathy sex welcome

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

No great sex begins after 50 and just gets better.

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Oooh god I'm 44 .. is this the end

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By *arkbane OP Man
over a year ago

East lerds

"Oooh god I'm 44 .. is this the end

Ohhhhh noooo you are reaching that magic number 45 !!!!!

Reading through everything it seems 45 is an arbitrary age

Selected from thin air as they say

Have fun anyway regardless

As they say “Age is only a number” your mind and body will always react as a 16 year old lol

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Our profile says I prefer men in their 40`s but, I have met men in their 70`s who have fun minds and lovely faces. I'm open minded but, when men send you a 10yr old face picture it's a no from me.

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By *atureGent58Man
over a year ago

funland

"My favourite fab friends are over 45."

But you have an age preference of 50 max, you might be loosing out on further favourites lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ye we have our prefrence but haven't blocked people over it for a reason,since we may find someone in that age reason we click with.

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By *atureGent58Man
over a year ago

funland

It would seem that once you reach 55 your fab life is over, perhaps sagaswingers.com should be invented to cater for all us oldies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

45? God no still in their prime, great sex still to be had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would seem that once you reach 55 your fab life is over, perhaps sagaswingers.com should be invented to cater for all us oldies "

After 55 you don't swing.. you roll. (Usually on the floor as you are trying to get up)

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Never understand posts like this..its peoples preferences, we all have them right?? Or maybe not..maybe any holes a goal lol

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you Google sexiest men you’ll see that a fair percentage are over 50. People have a perception of what people are like at certain ages . Some 55 year olds look better than some 45 year olds and are fitter.

It is what it is though so just have to live with it.

Off course when the OP says 45 do they mean passport 45 or Fab 45 ?

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By *eyDJMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

U just put 18 to 99

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I've spoken to a guy on here who I think is 66 (can't remember exactly) he still gets plenty of action, so no, age isn't that significant to all.

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

Remember 70 is the new 40

Rod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had an issue after 45

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn 3 years left playing hugh Hefner so

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I was 52 when I first joined here and age has never been an issue

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Just noticed so many people put only looking for people between 18 - 45

Why 45 ?

It’s mostly used as a messages filter

You still looking forward to Christmas?

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

"I was 52 when I first joined here and age has never been an issue"

Oofftt I can see why

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Hope not.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like men in their 50s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like men in their 50s

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Thats a big NOOO from Mrs she doesn't like them much younger!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just noticed so many people put only looking for people between 18 - 45

Why 45 ?

You could always try contacting people closer to your own age. I’m sure women and couples over 45 aren’t looking for people 18-45.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like men in their 50s

Always good to know

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I didn't need to wait until 45, I became a useless swinger years ago!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I prefer 50+ but then I am old! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my fwb is 55 and she’s always wanting fun

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm flexible with my upper limit, not so much younger as I don't want to fuck someone young enough to be my son.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Cheeky sod

in my 50’s and having a ball

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"Why have you only gone to 80?

What's wrong with 81 year olds? They need loving too."

Indeed we do

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"Have you ever seen a man at midnight on the eve of his 45th birthday? Eek!"

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Age is just a number

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"We do have an age range but it's not set in stone.

That's encouraging it's not wrote in stone

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

"Just noticed so many people put only looking for people between 18 - 45

Why 45 ?

And coupled with the fact all these blokes want to get all those women prego and the majority of them being 'old' so will look like theyll be taking their 'grandkids' to school.

Website incongruity!

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I'm 62 nearly 63.... all in working order.. lol... age is but a number... there is a birth age and a physical age...depending on fitness.. I prefer couples these days but often get younger ladies wanting some fun..

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

No. We have freinds and have met men who are much older than that and right devil's.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I hope not, we’ve already made sexy plans and I’d hate to miss out

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I tend to find that we really old gits fare better in the world outside of Fab than we do on here.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

Ours not set in stone

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By *nchighMan
over a year ago

south east

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By *nchighMan
over a year ago

south east

"Just noticed so many people put only looking for people between 18 - 45

Why 45 ?

I feel like a write-off

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I see many threads from people that focus on those that exclude for any number of reasons.

My suggestion op. Focus on those that include its a far more effective and productive use of your time and efforts

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I hope not otherwise I would only have 5 years left. I feel like an expiry date waiting to happen lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we are then I’m 9 years past my best before and use by date . Maybe I should wear a yellow sticker and sit in the fridge in the hope someone feels sorry for me .

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By *renchFantasyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Hope not

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Is 45 years old the age most men become useless swingers ?

The question should be "Is 45 years old the best age to start swinging?"

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