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By *-and-K OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

So couple contacts us, pass a few messages. then happy enough invite as friends, they wanna meet us sometime. They actually advertise to meet people in a club next week. We contact them with a view to joining them, they reply they can't make it, something came up, no problem except they have changed the wording of the ad, but are still looking to meet next week. So sent em a snotty message in reply. Question.. do we leave it at that or do as I want, remove them from the friends list as another waster?

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"do as I want, remove them from the friends list as another waster?"

If they're not your friends, why have them listed as?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"So couple contacts us, pass a few messages. then happy enough invite as friends, they wanna meet us sometime. They actually advertise to meet people in a club next week. We contact them with a view to joining them, they reply they can't make it, something came up, no problem except they have changed the wording of the ad, but are still looking to meet next week. So sent em a snotty message in reply. Question.. do we leave it at that or do as I want, remove them from the friends list as another waster?"

May be next week they are looking for something in particular.... and they think you'd be more suited to when they are in the mood for something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its plain rude

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"its plain rude "

Why is it? If I start talking to someone/a couple and think I'd like to meet them sometime it doesn't mean if I put a 'Meet Today' request up that I HAVE to meet them... or does it?

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By *acuzziFlooziesCouple
over a year ago

Kent to Surrey


"its plain rude

Why is it? If I start talking to someone/a couple and think I'd like to meet them sometime it doesn't mean if I put a 'Meet Today' request up that I HAVE to meet them... or does it?"

And who is whoiswho?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I agree with Polo,just because you're on a friends list does'nt mean you are the next in line when someones free

We have different friends for different kinks

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"its plain rude

Why is it? If I start talking to someone/a couple and think I'd like to meet them sometime it doesn't mean if I put a 'Meet Today' request up that I HAVE to meet them... or does it?

And who is whoiswho?

"

Who cares they don't seem to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its plain rude

Why is it? If I start talking to someone/a couple and think I'd like to meet them sometime it doesn't mean if I put a 'Meet Today' request up that I HAVE to meet them... or does it?"

No your right i'm sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its plain rude

Why is it? If I start talking to someone/a couple and think I'd like to meet them sometime it doesn't mean if I put a 'Meet Today' request up that I HAVE to meet them... or does it?

And who is whoiswho?

"

i'm trying to find out its why i'm here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its plain rude

Why is it? If I start talking to someone/a couple and think I'd like to meet them sometime it doesn't mean if I put a 'Meet Today' request up that I HAVE to meet them... or does it?

And who is whoiswho?

Who cares they don't seem to "

I care lots so does lots of carers

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"its plain rude

Why is it? If I start talking to someone/a couple and think I'd like to meet them sometime it doesn't mean if I put a 'Meet Today' request up that I HAVE to meet them... or does it?

And who is whoiswho?

Who cares they don't seem to "

heeheeeeee, true true, and all hidden away so cant even perve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its plain rude

Why is it? If I start talking to someone/a couple and think I'd like to meet them sometime it doesn't mean if I put a 'Meet Today' request up that I HAVE to meet them... or does it?"

totally agree, i used to get grief off loads of guys if i put the meet today up. they all thought i should meet them when im looking for a meet !! why should i , i wanted something different hence why i didnt mail them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its plain rude

Why is it? If I start talking to someone/a couple and think I'd like to meet them sometime it doesn't mean if I put a 'Meet Today' request up that I HAVE to meet them... or does it?

And who is whoiswho?

"

You know these silhouettes............they could be any bugger!

They're a mystery to us all.

XXXX

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By *acuzziFlooziesCouple
over a year ago

Kent to Surrey


"its plain rude

Why is it? If I start talking to someone/a couple and think I'd like to meet them sometime it doesn't mean if I put a 'Meet Today' request up that I HAVE to meet them... or does it?

And who is whoiswho?

You know these silhouettes............they could be any bugger!

They're a mystery to us all.

XXXX"

LOL

Our pic requires Mod intervention!

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"its plain rude

Why is it? If I start talking to someone/a couple and think I'd like to meet them sometime it doesn't mean if I put a 'Meet Today' request up that I HAVE to meet them... or does it?

And who is whoiswho?

You know these silhouettes............they could be any bugger!

They're a mystery to us all.

XXXX

LOL

Our pic requires Mod intervention!

PMSL"

I dunno

The things that come under the umbrella of being a mod

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By *acuzziFlooziesCouple
over a year ago

Kent to Surrey


"its plain rude

Why is it? If I start talking to someone/a couple and think I'd like to meet them sometime it doesn't mean if I put a 'Meet Today' request up that I HAVE to meet them... or does it?

And who is whoiswho?

You know these silhouettes............they could be any bugger!

They're a mystery to us all.

XXXX

LOL

Our pic requires Mod intervention!

PMSL

I dunno

The things that come under the umbrella of being a mod "

We all like a helping hand sometimes.

XXXXXXXXXX

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By *-and-K OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Some interesting views there! But the question remains, why contact someone and say you want to meet. Then when the opportunity arises, decide not to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dump them......... prob just looking at pics xxxx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Some interesting views there! But the question remains, why contact someone and say you want to meet. Then when the opportunity arises, decide not to?

"

Sorry I thought I had given an answer to that question. If you'd like some alternative versions...

They don't think you are that special, but just haven't ruled you out yet.

They are edging their bets to see if someone more suited comes along before committing to a meet and want you as a back-up plan.

Your interests don't match what they are looking for next week, but do match something they look for from time to time... this not being the time right now.

When you started implying they should not look for someone else and should be meeting you...they were too polite to tell you to feck off for being way tooooooooo pushy!

They think you are a bit of a stalker by checking up on them and want to leave it for a bit to check you are not nutters.

I could give you a few more versions if you like?

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

HI bandk2000

we had the same, last minute pull outs, can't meet etc and they have a meet up on the meet today listings.

We have not deleted them but would think twice about arranging a meet, main reason is been if we get sitters in etc and then they pull out again we arranged everything for nothing.

yes you can go to a club ( at least minute thing) but that again can just lead to nothing.

So we finding it least likely we will arrange a meet unless its at a club at least we can have planned which club we want to go to and use what on offer there, ie hot tub etc.

Sue

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