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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont know if anyone else as noticed or its just us, but we use calls to verify the fems are real, but just lately all the calls have been done by the blokes, we know some fems hate to talk lol the mrs hates phone calls. but isnt the point of it to verify the fems, not the blokes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always insist..if its the guy on phone I say to ring back when fems there...if she's shy on the phone hopw the hell is she gonna cope with her heasd between my legs..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody typos lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody typos lol "

now we sound the sound of head between your legs lol xx i know we do ask for the fem, but we just get the fem to answer so dont see the need for blokes to chat till later x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting people letting me text them..but wont talk...I find it a bit too suspicious of late(namely with new people)..but hey can fuck right off if the think im traveling out without having some verbal communication...and I've no interest in phonesex/pestering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we think we should all talk to eachother id never answer unless 2 of us we there and same for whoever we r calling thats r policy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont know if anyone else as noticed or its just us, but we use calls to verify the fems are real, but just lately all the calls have been done by the blokes, we know some fems hate to talk lol the mrs hates phone calls. but isnt the point of it to verify the fems, not the blokes!!"
i like a girl on girl chat,im a bit shy and don't no what to say sometimes but it has to be done.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ur gonna give ya number why not call on phone lol just seems daft to me...ladies I know have a swingers phone so they don't give out their general day to day phone and can turn off when they like...works well for them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont know if anyone else as noticed or its just us, but we use calls to verify the fems are real, but just lately all the calls have been done by the blokes, we know some fems hate to talk lol the mrs hates phone calls. but isnt the point of it to verify the fems, not the blokes!! i like a girl on girl chat,im a bit shy and don't no what to say sometimes but it has to be done.xx "

At least u try...doesn't have to be a full on conversation...just a hi I'm real...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We only use a play phone for this and other scene,s . And yeah fem is shy on phone not in the flesh, but she does say a quick hi and im real lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only use a play phone for this and other scene,s . And yeah fem is shy on phone not in the flesh, but she does say a quick hi and im real lol. "

u just phoned me...thats the worst voice changer software Ive ever heard!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree - I won't meet or even let the messages get very far unless I've spoken to the fem half on the phone. It only has to be some very casual chat, and for maybe a minute, but I want to know that she's real and that she's genuinely into it for herself.

By the same token, I want her to know that I'm real and friendly about her... If she doesn't want that assurance for herself, then there's something very wrong! Just takes a few words and you can clear a lot of nervousness in 30 seconds!

If I don't get that, then I don't care how wonderful they sound - it isn't going to happen!

I'm not going to be interested in a couple where the woman writes "I always let him make the arrangements".... or any of the other phrases that get offered.. So why bother even thinking of going any further?

But they keep trying it on - and they keep ending up on my blocked list....

And the ones who do speak usually end up swapping nice verifications!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate verifying by chatting on the phone! I will NOT do it ever, its never stopped us meeting people! and im sorry my verification's speak for themselves!!

I do happily show myself on cam to prove I am me as in a female, but talking to a stranger is cringe-worthy, I prefer cutting that out completely and say hi on cam or meet in person somewhere neutral.

btw im not shy in person im fully Bi from as young as I can remember had girlfriends etc and know exactly what to do between someones legs , so not chatting on the phone has no impact on whether I can do something or not.

I do agree its "one" way to prove who you are but its exactly that just "one" way there are others!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

The first meet we had was arranged entirely through text (after messages here)..not saying that it's better than a call, but not everyone who would rather text than call is a fake.

To be honest, it didn't even occur to us to phone up, guess we were just lucky!

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By *ll of a QuiverCouple
over a year ago

Douglas


"If ur gonna give ya number why not call on phone lol just seems daft to me...ladies I know have a swingers phone so they don't give out their general day to day phone and can turn off when they like...works well for them..."

We have a swing phone, two in fact. D(fem) does all our phone communications including chatting to other ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit I'm not one for verifying by phone...I understand why some want to do it, but if someone does insist on it then it really will be a case of yes this is me can we text now. I just hate speaking on the phone and I'm not into phone sex...which I know is not the point of the verification, but I'm always worried that they'll try to push the conversation in that direction and assume I'm a lot shyer than I am in person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodness me if there is anyone, male or female reluctant to speak over the phone I wouldn't bother. Part of this scene is about striking up a rapport and if someone is too shy to speak over the phone then is it going to be lights out when it gets down to the good bits?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have just done a simple fem 2 fem chat to confirm where and when, sex etc never comes up , just confirmation of arrangement and by default confirmation of ladies at each end

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