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"How did they waste your time? Standing you up? That's unforgivable to me. " Yeah I’ve had that happen twice, and the others just string you along. Ahh well, can’t stay dry in the rain I suppose. | |||
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"Yes scum the lot of them "Haha thanks the spirit! | |||
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"You’re the scum of the earth. just had to put that out there
Feel free to vent below. "What?? Even with your special toy? | |||
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"You’re the scum of the earth. just had to put that out there
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What??
Even with your special toy?" hah! Nahhh that’s for when we can’t meet, well...I guess you could bring it along | |||
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"well i would never notturn up its unforgetable sorry its happend" Thanks mate! | |||
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"Yes scum the lot of them
Haha thanks the spirit! "Only been left sat in a pub once, but some of the excuses we have had lol | |||
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"Totally agree! Spend hours talking to them, building up a good rapport and then they ghost you… Haven’t even got the balls to just say they can’t make it. What’s wrong with common courtesy? "It's a bit like common sence it's not that common lol | |||
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"Yes scum the lot of them
Haha thanks the spirit!
Only been left sat in a pub once, but some of the excuses we have had lol "You’re lucky you got an excuse! Haha | |||
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"I really don’t see y people do this it don’t make sense I really don’t! Hope u did didn’t spend money on a hotel ext! Hope they get messed about in the future! " One was a hotel, but I just doubled down and got myself a lovely girl for the night, she had more manners than some people on here haha | |||
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"Totally agree! Spend hours talking to them, building up a good rapport and then they ghost you… Haven’t even got the balls to just say they can’t make it. What’s wrong with common courtesy? "It gets in the way of selfish people’s lives sadly. | |||
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"Iv had it done to me a few times even travelled 30 to get there then been called a loser it happens and will happen again thats the chance you have to take thats all i would allway let them know if not turning up as manners cost nothing" They called you a loser? That’s horrible! | |||
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"You’re the scum of the earth. just had to put that out there
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"How did they waste your time? Standing you up? That's unforgivable to me. Yeah I’ve had that happen twice, and the others just string you along. Ahh well, can’t stay dry in the rain I suppose. " It can take a long time for people to get to know for sure just who is compatible. Most people are not compatible with most other people, so the majority of chats started get nowhere. If you expected otherwise, you were perhaps unrealistic or leasing them on. Most people are also not online expecting quick meets, because they realise these things. | |||
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"Yes scum the lot of them
Haha thanks the spirit!
Only been left sat in a pub once, but some of the excuses we have had lol "I've done that - ages spent wondering if I'd arrived too late or if I was on the wrong night. Got home and found out that they'd blocked me. After asking around, it turns out that they did this a lot. | |||
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"Yes scum the lot of them
Haha thanks the spirit!
Only been left sat in a pub once, but some of the excuses we have had lol "I can't believe you guys have been let down, thought it was only us guys tbh ! | |||
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"Yes scum the lot of them
Haha thanks the spirit!
Only been left sat in a pub once, but some of the excuses we have had lol
I've done that - ages spent wondering if I'd arrived too late or if I was on the wrong night. Got home and found out that they'd blocked me.
After asking around, it turns out that they did this a lot."Had it when I turn up at the venue and message I was there and find they have blocked you ! | |||
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"How did they waste your time? Standing you up? That's unforgivable to me. Yeah I’ve had that happen twice, and the others just string you along. Ahh well, can’t stay dry in the rain I suppose. It can take a long time for people to get to know for sure just who is compatible. Most people are not compatible with most other people, so the majority of chats started get nowhere. If you expected otherwise, you were perhaps unrealistic or leasing them on. Most people are also not online expecting quick meets, because they realise these things. " The Voice of reason as usual. | |||
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"Totally agree! Spend hours talking to them, building up a good rapport and then they ghost you… Haven’t even got the balls to just say they can’t make it. What’s wrong with common courtesy? "Have you looked around society recently? Might answer you question: sadly, it's in short supply. | |||
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"I agree that we are all on here for the same thing. I have chatted to people, and then nothing There should be somewhere on the site where we can name and shame time wasters" . Just because someone chats to you on here does not mean they have to meet you. This is the attitude that has stopped me chatting on here to people because as soon as you do a lot seem to have the expectation that you have to meet them.Even though I say on my profile chatting does not mean I will meet. Everyone is not here for the same thing at all everyone is here for their own reasons whether that is to find a fwb to.continue their journey with,for casual sex with people,for parties ,or just to chat and numerous other reasons. Everyone has their own reasons why they are on here if it is not the same as yours the move on it does not mean they are timewasters they are just looking for something different. Everyone has their own idea what time wasters are on here. To me it's someone who doesn't show up when you have arranged to meet. Luckily so far it has never happened to me. | |||
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"Standing people up without cancelling is unforgivable, agreed. But I’ve changed my mind many, many times after prolonged messaging. This doesn’t make someone a time waster, does it?" I don’t know, but you’re cute as fuck! Have a lovely day. | |||
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"Standing people up without cancelling is unforgivable, agreed. But I’ve changed my mind many, many times after prolonged messaging. This doesn’t make someone a time waster, does it?" Also, just realised you must be a Smiths fan..where did they make you? Need a girl like you in my life haha. | |||
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"I agree that we are all on here for the same thing. I have chatted to people, and then nothing There should be somewhere on the site where we can name and shame time wasters" Chatting then not meeting doesn't make them a time waster. It's not a free escort site.  | |||
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"I agree that we are all on here for the same thing. I have chatted to people, and then nothing There should be somewhere on the site where we can name and shame time wasters Chatting then not meeting doesn't make them a time waster. It's not a free escort site. "And the award for the dumbest comment goes to... | |||
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"I agree that we are all on here for the same thing. I have chatted to people, and then nothing There should be somewhere on the site where we can name and shame time wasters Chatting then not meeting doesn't make them a time waster. It's not a free escort site.
And the award for the dumbest comment goes to..."Not really. I think most women feel like they’ve been treated like a free sex worker on here at times. | |||
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"I agree that we are all on here for the same thing. I have chatted to people, and then nothing There should be somewhere on the site where we can name and shame time wasters Chatting then not meeting doesn't make them a time waster. It's not a free escort site.
And the award for the dumbest comment goes to...
Not really. I think most women feel like they’ve been treated like a free sex worker on here at times. "Yep | |||
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"I agree that we are all on here for the same thing. I have chatted to people, and then nothing There should be somewhere on the site where we can name and shame time wasters Chatting then not meeting doesn't make them a time waster. It's not a free escort site.
And the award for the dumbest comment goes to...
Not really. I think most women feel like they’ve been treated like a free sex worker on here at times. "Let’s be honest, if a guy on here started taking things to serious with you, you’d have a problem with that also. It’d be a block for being too needy. If you can’t be pleased, don’t expect lads to try. Best things guys can do is go for what they want, take it and if she likes you she’ll stick around, and if she sticks around THEN you can treat her like more than a “free sex worker” as you put it. Also, do any of you girls agreeing with that statement see how you’re almost saying you’d be fine with it if you got paid? | |||
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"I agree that we are all on here for the same thing. I have chatted to people, and then nothing There should be somewhere on the site where we can name and shame time wasters Chatting then not meeting doesn't make them a time waster. It's not a free escort site.
And the award for the dumbest comment goes to...
Not really. I think most women feel like they’ve been treated like a free sex worker on here at times.
Let’s be honest, if a guy on here started taking things to serious with you, you’d have a problem with that also. It’d be a block for being too needy.
If you can’t be pleased, don’t expect lads to try.
Best things guys can do is go for what they want, take it and if she likes you she’ll stick around, and if she sticks around THEN you can treat her like more than a “free sex worker” as you put it.
Also, do any of you girls agreeing with that statement see how you’re almost saying you’d be fine with it if you got paid? "Bless. | |||
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"I agree that we are all on here for the same thing. I have chatted to people, and then nothing There should be somewhere on the site where we can name and shame time wasters Chatting then not meeting doesn't make them a time waster. It's not a free escort site.
And the award for the dumbest comment goes to...
Not really. I think most women feel like they’ve been treated like a free sex worker on here at times.
Let’s be honest, if a guy on here started taking things to serious with you, you’d have a problem with that also. It’d be a block for being too needy.
If you can’t be pleased, don’t expect lads to try.
Best things guys can do is go for what they want, take it and if she likes you she’ll stick around, and if she sticks around THEN you can treat her like more than a “free sex worker” as you put it.
Also, do any of you girls agreeing with that statement see how you’re almost saying you’d be fine with it if you got paid?
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