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Clubs....your experience

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By *heekychap76 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Please if you can share your experiences as I've never been and considering giving it a whirl.

TIA

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

It’s just a nightclub, so If you enjoy socialising with strangers you’ll probably have fun and at least see a few breasts before you leave. I probably wouldn’t go on my own, because I’m too asocial and wouldn’t talk to anybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantastic nights Just don’t go expecting sex and you’ll have a good time regardless

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By *ima7893Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Have no expectations - go chat to people, have a drink, be respectful and the rest will follow - but not necessarily on your first visit.

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By *atesey68Man
over a year ago

audley

Agree with everything. Went on my own to Atlantis on a newbie night. Great social atmosphere very friendly owners and customers and some very sexy ladies to chat too.

Don’t think about it, do it, go with no expectations and anything else is a bonus.

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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago

West London

Like many mentioned - just go with open mind and approach the ladies or couple just like how you approach them in a normal pub and have a conversation and if it leads to anything then it’s a bonus. Also remember just because a women is in swinging club it doesn’t mean she will fuck anything that is moving. Just be you and charm the ladies like how you normally do ..

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Clubs are brilliant places, and all the people there are real lol

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Unfortunately there is a reason that people tell single guys not to go with any expectations…

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Unfortunately there is a reason that people tell single guys not to go with any expectations…"

Yup, it stops the expectation, desperation.

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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Brilliant to go and meet people you wouldn’t normally meet, to socialise with like minded people and we’ve had some awesome sexual experiences in clubs.

We are usually hoping for plenty of single guys to be there, a few little tips though on what we usually look for

Dont be frightened to say hi and chat.

Not everyone is there for the same experiences so ask people what they like, this usually gives you a good idea of if that’s you or not.

Don’t go into a play room or space expecting to be able to play with someone you haven’t said a word to all night (we have found this quite a lot when playing with a couple of single guys, some assume that means it’s a free for all)

We always go to have a good night out in a relaxed atmosphere with a few drinks and anything else that happens is a bonus x

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"Unfortunately there is a reason that people tell single guys not to go with any expectations…

Yup, it stops the expectation, desperation. "

Because you ain’t having sex tonight, boy.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Great fun.

Be normal.

Be chatty.

Be friendly.

Be fun.

DON’T be entitled.

DON’T be the wanking dead.

Always enjoyed my time as a single guy at clubs.

Enjoy it even more as a couple now.

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By *weetHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We have great fun. Prefer going to a club to meet and play rather than the photo swap / telephone / intro meet route that we used to do. Hotwife knows she's going to play with someone who's good looking, fit, well hung and can hold a conversation rather than wasting her time after finding the pictures don't actually match the person and struggle to converse.Always have a good night

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

As a single guy a huge leap out of my comfort zone and well worth it. Never looked back since my first successful visit. Plus I excel better in the real world than behind a keyboard. A warm smile works well in the real world.

As a couple the prime opportunity to meet people in the real world and not be messed about. Plus an escape from the kids and worrying about noise.

Over all a single or a couple clubs are great. Not just for sexy stuff, but also to relax, have a drink and make genuine freinds. Even make a spa day of it. And at the clubs we go to we can strip off and feel ourselves (we are both not fans of clothes). We love clubs both together as a couple or sometimes when we go alone.

Although not all clubs are the same (we've visited many) so it's important to find the one that suits you.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"It’s just a nightclub, so If you enjoy socialising with strangers you’ll probably have fun and at least see a few breasts before you leave. I probably wouldn’t go on my own, because I’m too asocial and wouldn’t talk to anybody."

A club? This depends on the club entirely. Very wide variety of types and you can’t sum them up with one sentence like that.

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