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By *cotty28uk OP   Man
over a year ago

ipswich

Hi all just wanted some advice from u guys after a pretty bad meet id just had.

It was my first time meeting a couple and things were going ok, they seemed friendly enough we got on ok etc.

Things moved in to the bedroom and after a little while i noticed a camcorder hidden under a towel.

I stopped them and confronted them about it the lady was silent and looked at her partner without making any eye contact. the fella denied it was on and left the room followed by his partner leaving me to get clothed again.

Two things really bug me about this when i went to speak to them they made me feel like i was the guilty one and after seeing the camera i coudnt perform

Anyone had anything like this before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is terrible!!! A gross invasion of your privacy!!!

There are enough people on here that would love to be filmed without having to resort to that!!!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hope you deleted whatever may have been on the camera....

Actually if it was me the camera would probably have had an "accident"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's disgusting!! I cannot believe someone would do that! Words fail me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on the one-sided information provided, I personally believe it is out of order to attempt filming the event without your consent.

I do not know what to advise except to avoid meeting at private houses until you get to know and trust the people well.

I hope the experience has not put you off meeting others, as there are plenty who are honest and trustworthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know a woman who fucks younger men and videos it without them knowing,she watches them later and wanks off and even shows them to other younger men before she fucks them. Just another kink but asking permission 1st is the best idea to save the above problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope you deleted whatever may have been on the camera....

Actually if it was me the camera would probably have had an "accident" "
+1

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Lets hope it wasn't Harry Hill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really shocking...not what the swinging scene is about at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TOTALLY out of order if they did not tell you in advance that they wanted to video the meet - and their reaction just says they were up to no good. How far had the meet gone? Just hope they hadn't got enough footage to post on xhamster...

And I hope you have reported them to Admin...?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i know a woman who fucks younger men and videos it without them knowing,she watches them later and wanks off and even shows them to other younger men before she fucks them. Just another kink but asking permission 1st is the best idea to save the above problem."

Does your friend know what a position she is putting herself in? It would only take ONE of these guys who knows what he is looking for camera-wise to spot it halfway through and turn nasty and SHE could end up in Casualty (and we ain't talking about a overly long-running BBC drama series!!)

VERY, VERY foolish in ones humble opinion....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like watching myself fuck so cameras can be fun but I would always want to know if I am being filmed.

If you filmed them without there knowledge I'm sure they would be just as upest.

Maybe report to admin or leave details of it in a verification?

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By *cotty28uk OP   Man
over a year ago

ipswich

You know what I didn't check the cam delete the film nothing I could speak to them about it and ask them to delete it.

Instead they told me they were not recording and I was doing myself out of a good time..

All I all I was a little shellshocked. When I got home I though lt id message them. They blocked me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

out of order, if it was me i would have called the cops 2 see if the footage had been deleted maybe embarrassing but alot less embarrassing that finding on the internet 1 day

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By *cotty28uk OP   Man
over a year ago

ipswich

More so as it appears I was a lil camera shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope you deleted whatever may have been on the camera....

Actually if it was me the camera would probably have had an "accident" +1 "

+2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey scotty babe seems we both have met some nutter on here recently hahahahahah chin up babe x

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"Hope you deleted whatever may have been on the camera....

Actually if it was me the camera would probably have had an "accident" "

Or 'I will keep the camera or shall we ring the police now?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more I read on here, the less I want to meet anyone!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Trouble is its a risk everyone takes when going into someones home.. Camera's now come in the movement detectors in corner of room ,smoke alarms ,its my OH work so i know that cams can be set up anywhere in the venetian blind or clock a video casing all it needs now is a pin hole. Obviously his work is to catch people stealing in companies ..so its pretty easy to get this equipment and film anyone without their knowledge. Meet in hotels not in peoples homes unless they are known .. LOL this is why I dont have people home ..he sets up remote cams for testing purposes giggles..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always film. But it's always made clear I am.

However people often don't see the cameras as I have a few. One is in a clock radio and is movement activated. Other is the size of a button.

I chose to use these as an actual camera can put people off. That's why mine are hidden.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more I read on here, the less I want to meet anyone! "

Ya know love after my recent experiance too i feel the same. seems the swinging world isnt such a nice place to be at times.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"The more I read on here, the less I want to meet anyone!

Ya know love after my recent experiance too i feel the same. seems the swinging world isnt such a nice place to be at times."
I have not had a bad experience as such and this one boils down to not having the person's consent. It is a gross invasion of privacy to take pictures of somebody in a compromising position... makes me sick to think this could happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they wanted to film the evening then they could at least have had the common decency to ask your permission first.

They were out of order, and I'm not surprised you had performance related issues after confronting them about it.

You don't say whether it was actually recording, but it seems mighty suspicious that it was hidden under a towel, and their reaction to you confronting them about it does them no favours either.

I'd avoid that couple in future.

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By *cotty28uk OP   Man
over a year ago

ipswich

The worst bit is I said if u had said u want to film id have said ok as long as u don't film my face.

They have had other verifications too so not sure if I'm the first

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