FabSwingers.com forum: Swapping first pic

By *asps OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

Due to my job I need to be careful now a days with my work coming under scrutiny 're social media etc so I have chose not to put up a public photo if missed out on meets and had some great meets but recently when asked by females to swap pics if I say can you send pic it's after you do if I don't I'm deleted why is it more so now guys are expected to send first if we do and person don't like you you never see them if you say you first your deleted it's win win for the female

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

You can have public photos that don’t disclose who you are. Many people have jobs that would frown on this type of lifestyle.

As for sharing photos, its up to you if you want to or not, just be aware that not all the ladies you speak with are genuine.

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By *asps OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

I understand that there are both woman and men who are ungenuine but as I said it's something that's creeping in more and more a lot of lady's iv talk to recently have no pic up either but still demand I send first and noticed why guys on here also saying this

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By *ust JuicyWoman
over a year ago

east london

I’ve not got a photo so would never ask for someone to send one …. If planning to meet I ask to talk on cam first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always ask for a picture and if we like the look of a man we’ll send one back.

If not we won’t. If you don’t like the situation then don’t send one - simple.

To be honest if someone has no pictures at all on their profile we wouldn’t have engaged at all in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we made first contact then we'd send face pics first, if someone contacted us we'd expect them to send face pics first, if they don't want to then that would be the end of the conversation.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

There are plenty of pics you can put on your profile that won't mean you are recognised by anyone .That aside tho I never ask for face pics but I find after chatting for a while we tend to exchange them anyway.

Yes people can ask for a face pic but it doesn't mean I have to send it tho. If they won't chat anymore well that's fine too. But in my opinion if you ask for one you should send yours first.

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Maybe display your verifications? For us being able to see who you have met and what kind of verifications they left would tell us a lot about you.

So sending pics first wouldn’t be an issue.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd always expect to swap face pics early on in a conversation, if it's going well.

If someone won't send me one, I'd just move on and tbh the lack of any pics would mean I would probably delete your message.

Like others have said, you can put non identifiable pics on your profile which might get you more interest

You might just get stuck on stalemate if you refuse to send a pic.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

If you message first op then it’s expected you send a photo first

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

"why is it more so now guys are expected to send first"

Simple supply and demand. There are plenty of single guys out there who are willing to send first, so if you don't you'll be at a disadvantage.

Not saying that's how it should be!

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Due to my job I need to be careful now a days with my work coming under scrutiny 're social media etc so I have chose not to put up a public photo if missed out on meets and had some great meets but recently when asked by females to swap pics if I say can you send pic it's after you do if I don't I'm deleted why is it more so now guys are expected to send first if we do and person don't like you you never see them if you say you first your deleted it's win win for the female "

How would you be 'at risk' by having body pictures?

And as others have said, if you've messaged first, then you should be the first to share.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the conversation moves forward, I am more than happy to share my face pics - other than that, there are few in my profile

J xx

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