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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it better to be polite or blunt? ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beginning to lean towards being blunt polite is getting me nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's wrong with just being Honest....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes Im having the same problem being polite is getting me nowhere. but being blunt is rude i was always told to use manners

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

You can be blunt and get to the point while still being polite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can be blunt and get to the point while still being polite "

how?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"You can be blunt and get to the point while still being polite

how? "
be politely blunt?

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"You can be blunt and get to the point while still being polite

how? "

Jez did your mother never teach you manners????? Just tell it how it is but don't forget your please and thank you's. Simple!

And you're very welcome btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no my mum never did she died when i was 3 but my Nan did thanks

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I know it seems contradictory, but being blunt doesn't have to mean being nasty and condescending.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i will try it XxX thanks

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By *urhamDicMan
over a year ago

Here.

I am very polite its the rest of the World that doesn't return the compliment!

Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can not be polite better to say nothing I think.

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"If you can not be polite better to say nothing I think."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite all the way, if you were brought up with manners, stick with them, don't take any notice of what anyone else says and it will give the impression of a very nice decent man, not a pig. Nothing riles me more than pig ignorant ill manneredness

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By *wencatWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Polite all the way, if you were brought up with manners, stick with them, don't take any notice of what anyone else says and it will give the impression of a very nice decent man, not a pig. Nothing riles me more than pig ignorant ill manneredness "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Polite all the way, if you were brought up with manners, stick with them, don't take any notice of what anyone else says and it will give the impression of a very nice decent man, not a pig. Nothing riles me more than pig ignorant ill manneredness "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

be honest a polite way. Just treat other people the way you would want them to treat you and you won't go too far wrong and will be able to look yourself in the eye in the mirror.

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite all day long !!!!

Nothing worse than being rejected, but being rejected in blunt way is not nice.

A bit of humanity does no one any harm, and may help keep a persons dignity.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I believe I am polite and have been brought up well and I like to, more often than not, try to behave appropriate.... but I am candid and direct without offence, or at least I try to be.

I do not believe in all the fawning that goes on and I certainly am not part of the UK society that will say in a restaurant that I really enjoyed a meal ( after being asked ) and then go on trip adviser/or speak to others and bitch about the meal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it better to be polite or blunt? ? "

When doing what?

Context is all to be honest...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I believe I am polite and have been brought up well and I like to, more often than not, try to behave appropriate.... but I am candid and direct without offence, or at least I try to be.

I do not believe in all the fawning that goes on and I certainly am not part of the UK society that will say in a restaurant that I really enjoyed a meal ( after being asked ) and then go on trip adviser/or speak to others and bitch about the meal.

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Totally agree, it is possible to make a point nicely. Of course if you make a genuine and polite complaint about a meal and the restaurant manager is rude then you may ever so politely call him every name under the sun and punch his lights out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite and blunt at the same time, and it is possible.

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By *artLonCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm normally honest but get told i'm being blunt or rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are not very good in handling the truth.

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