FabSwingers.com forum: Help to set up party

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys best way for me to do a party couples single women plus four extra males

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

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"Hi guys best way for me to do a party couples single women plus four extra males"
in what way? The logistics or finding guests?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys best way for me to do a party couples single women plus four extra males"

I would suggest inviting some couples, some single women and 4 males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about inviting say 4 males, a few single women and possibly some couples ? Just a thought !!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere to host it would be good too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Venue

Guests

Food & drink

Music

Some ice breakers in case they are needed.

And you are set. Think you may need to be a bit more specific in your question if you want sensible answers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well the venue my penthouse food drink bring ya own although drink will be available best way to invite people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you may be over-reaching a bit, you need to know your guests. Bit like throwing a dinner party they need to be selected to get on with each other.

Noticed you have only been on the site a few weeks. So unless you have contacts from elsewhere. Start by going to clubs / socials etc. and build contacts. You can add unknowns to the mix but must have a nucleus to mAke it work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well the venue my penthouse food drink bring ya own although drink will be available best way to invite people"

well my advice would be if any of your verifications are in person put them on show as you have only been on the site 5 weeks a lot of people will want to see that you have met in order to take you serious

Then put a thread up on the meets forum

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Personally i wouldnt invite anyone i didnt know or hadnt previously met.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's hard to get veri thought? This would help me get to know people would love to go club but not alone so if any one would like to meet for a drink first or if a group of friends who like to party who would like to attend would be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say if you invite 100 you may get 10 that will actually come a long why not make friends get established go to a few parties then re asses x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Venue

Guests

Food & drink

Music

Some ice breakers in case they are needed.

And you are set. Think you may need to be a bit more specific in your question if you want sensible answers"

Ice breakers are important they say its gonna be the worst winter on record

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think you may be over-reaching a bit, you need to know your guests. Bit like throwing a dinner party they need to be selected to get on with each other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would u like to help me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys best way for me to do a party couples single women plus four extra males"

Like others have already said, you are going to struggle - REALLY struggle - to get this organised unless you have a little black book of contacts we don't know about.

You'd do better going to clubs first and get known - people have got to able to trust you can deliver the goods (party organising-wise) before they're likely to commit. Also - if you're hosting, then we would expect you to provide 'nibbles' at least... we do... and a certain amount of drink too: YOU're the host - remember.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So wer would you suggest is a good place to go and get to meet people I've seen add but would like some real feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So wer would you suggest is a good place to go and get to meet people I've seen add but would like some real feedback"

Did you not read the other replies? You need to get known via socials and clubs.

As others have said, as a single male, with one veri and having only been on here for 5 weeks you will struggle. The idea of inviting loads randoms is flawed, you need to invite friends and friends of friends within the scene. When you've got those friends you stand a chance before then it's pretty much a fantasy

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By *unwmidscplCouple
over a year ago

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we invited people we had chatted to on here and elsewhere . sort of a no pressure environment, they were told they could play if they wanted but didnt have to. but was a good way of meeting new friends and them meeeting others under no pressure most times we had about 20 cpls here and a few singles it went rather well and did make some good friends too. we did byo and did put on a bit of a buffet too, and no we don't charge people to attend either

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