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By *urpeesandwine OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

We really struggle to get same day meets or even any response to a same day meet request

We normally arrange things well in advance and that seems to work well - especially with people we have met before

So - is that the same experience for others when looking for a meet later the same day? Or is it only us??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put up a looking to meet on here and mailbox will burst!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We really struggle to get same day meets or even any response to a same day meet request

We normally arrange things well in advance and that seems to work well - especially with people we have met before

So - is that the same experience for others when looking for a meet later the same day? Or is it only us?? "

No, not just you. Like yourselves we would usually arrange a meet in advance but occasionally like an impromptu meet but always seem to struggle particularly from guys on our friends list who are constantly asking to meet lol (we know that people have lives off fab.. including us and it's not always easy just to drop everything)

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It’s hit and miss for a same day meet.

We were in Bedford for the weekend after going to Vanilla Alternative one night and the next day we put up a meet.

We got a load of guys who didn’t fit our criteria but we did get one guy, who actually ticked off a fantasy on our list, so it worked a treat.

Other ones we’ve put up haven’t garnered any interest.

It really is just luck of the draw.

K

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I never do last minute meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had the best meet ever arranged on same day, Amazing women which ticked off a few fantasies

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

In my experience last minute meets are usually the most reliable and I tend to do those more often. It helps if you already know who you are meeting as it is then usually just a case of them being free and you.

I find that meets that get planned ages in advance have a tendency to get cancelled/don’t happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm struggling to find suitability no matter what...

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By *oungcoup69Couple
over a year ago

hidden garden

We don't do last minute meets personally. We much prefer having a drink and getting to know someone with a social and see where it goes. If we are going to travel a distance then it might be a case of playing on the first meet but we will always get to know someone first. Better sex is built on chemistry x

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By *urpeesandwine OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove


"We don't do last minute meets personally. We much prefer having a drink and getting to know someone with a social and see where it goes. If we are going to travel a distance then it might be a case of playing on the first meet but we will always get to know someone first. Better sex is built on chemistry x"

Completely agree. We always have a social meet first - nice glass of wine or two and flirty chat to see how we get on. However even a social seems hard to arrange on the same day (today is point in case!!`)

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I wouldn't consider a same day meet with someone I didn't know.

Once I've met someone it's very different - someone I've met numerous times messaged me on Wednesday and a couple of hours later he was in my bed.

I get a lot of same day messages from people staying in city centre hotels (I show as being 2 miles from Liverpool city centre). In my experience when I've said yes the other person's expectation is that I'm a hooker they don't have to pay, so I always say no now.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"We really struggle to get same day meets or even any response to a same day meet request

We normally arrange things well in advance and that seems to work well - especially with people we have met before

So - is that the same experience for others when looking for a meet later the same day? Or is it only us?? "

I’ve had my fingers burnt (or time wasted) by responding to last minute meets in the past, so will only do them with people I’ve met before, and can therefore rely on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we've done same day meets often over the years and can be very easy to do as long as someone is online that attrachs ... put the meet sign up and within an hour you'll get 50 to 100 men messaging if not more .... there is an excitement to have from these types of meets but its not for all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last time I went to meet someone on here is what put me off trying anymore, chatting agree to meet all normal, pics exchanged nice etc she gave me her address, I get there text I'm outside

Then I get the... "OK I'm in door number X come inside it will be pitch black and there will be a glory hole for you to stick your cock through"

So then I think ok a man obviously posed as a girl, then had to leave as that just wasn't the plan at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was over a year ago on this username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same issue with me, or they dont turn up and waste ur time.

I don't like wasting time chatting etc. Prefer face to to face conversation

Online swingers, people who just get horny by exploring and stocking others. There sre tooo many of them here.

Was a part of a couple profile before so it was little be different but since mooved to single couple and lost access to other account not much Laky here. Dont have time to spend chatting and wasting time due to work etc.

For single male, who is interested in swinging and exploring. You better go for escorts to get some pleasure but but swimging andrenaljne is much better

I am down, feel free to message me

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Sods law dictates that whenever I have some unexpected free time nobody is free!

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We tried to arrange a same day meet on our last weekend away to Chester.

Thought it would be easy enough, big city, lots of couples and females nearby.

Spent a fair bit of Friday messaging back and forth with a couple that were verified, exchanged face pics etc. When it came time to meeting them, they just blanked our messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done spontaneous meets before

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

I love a last minute meet. Less chance of anyone crying off too

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