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By *eryBigGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Is it just me or do people still get first meet nerves!! I've been around a while but in still hate the build up to a first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we get nervous too if we are meeting someone for the first time, they soon pass when we get chatting/playing though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God yes

Been doing this 11 years now and every time i meet someone new i feel sick

I think when that feeling goes its time to stop, the nerves adds to the excitment for me

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"God yes

Been doing this 11 years now and every time i meet someone new i feel sick

I think when that feeling goes its time to stop, the nerves adds to the excitment for me "

I agree with you Naughty, when the butterflies and the flip flop feeling you get as you walk into the pub/bar where your meeting goes, maybe it's time to take a break and re-evaluate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes all ways

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By *eryBigGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"God yes

Been doing this 11 years now and every time i meet someone new i feel sick

I think when that feeling goes its time to stop, the nerves adds to the excitment for me "

Yeah I guess that is the time to stop - just glad it's not me that feels sick for a new meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do people still get first meet nerves!! I've been around a while but in still hate the build up to a first meet "

I love the build up but I get very nervous still..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God yes

Been doing this 11 years now and every time i meet someone new i feel sick

I think when that feeling goes its time to stop, the nerves adds to the excitment for me "

Nothing wrong with feeling sick before you meet someone new!

Just not a good sign if it's during or right after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here...as I often meet at people's houses, you can't beat that fast beating heart..and also 'hope this is the right house'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the nerves associated with meeting someone for the first time, either deliberate or 'by accident' when a social situation escalates.

In fact, the nerves and the excitement are a turn on in themselves.

I have been known to be wet with pre-cum before I've even set eyes on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the nerves...get them before every meet...not just first ones....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God yes

Been doing this 11 years now and every time i meet someone new i feel sick

I think when that feeling goes its time to stop, the nerves adds to the excitment for me

I agree with you Naughty, when the butterflies and the flip flop feeling you get as you walk into the pub/bar where your meeting goes, maybe it's time to take a break and re-evaluate. "

This is one of the reasons we have taken an indefinite break, we just don't get revved up about it any more.

So we'd agree, in that situation it's probably best to take time out than just go through the motions.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah we get nervous too if we are meeting someone for the first time, they soon pass when we get chatting/playing though"

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By *eryBigGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Shame the nerves just turn into nothing when the asshole deletes his profile an hour before meeting!! Another waste of a free night - oh well I'm nice and pampered and smooth at least

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By *ewshyTV/TS
over a year ago

falkirk

very very nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We still shit ourselves and get very very nervous. Our hearts race and we get a little giddy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God yes

Been doing this 11 years now and every time i meet someone new i feel sick

I think when that feeling goes its time to stop, the nerves adds to the excitment for me

Yeah I guess that is the time to stop - just glad it's not me that feels sick for a new meet "

ive dobe it a few times where ive arranged to meet guys at a pub and when ive got there ive stood outside for 5 mins taking deep breaths working myself up to walking in thinking...what the hell am i doing here lol

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By *ondering_yorkshiremanMan
over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border


" oh well I'm nice and pampered and smooth at least "

Mmm best way

Sorry you been let down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The buzz i get from the nerves is one of the main reasons I do this.

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

We both still get very nervous before meeting...even couples who we have met several times before...when we have talked about it it seems to be a wierd mixture of nervousness and excitement which is difficult to describe but a feeling that you dont usually have in any other situation.Think the nervousness is something to do with the thought that there may not be that initial attraction and "spark" but still get the same feeling with couples who we have swung with many times.The excitement bit is the thought of all of us giving and receiving pleasure and being naughty!

Like TraceandRic if we didnt feel like we do it would kind of feel flat and going through the motions...no fun for anyone if thats how you feel...least of all the others that you are with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The buzz i get from the nerves is one of the main reasons I do this."
and i love the feel too .. add to it all xx

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